Started by #272197 at 17,Sep,12 01:14
 | So i'm straight male, I love women, but for a while now, i've liked dick, i'm not at all attracted to men. Bever will I be lol. But i've always wanted to suck a dick or jerk one off, I have a very goos feeling it'd be awsome! Anyone feel this way? |
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meaning, I think: I'm the most heterosexual guy you can ever think of.
yet, "I've always wanted to suck a dick or jerk one off"
what does "straight" mean if it also means "I'm on my knees to suck cock"!
you are bisexual, be "straight" about that!
I am not a big "fan of etiquette" here... to say if you like this u are this or if you like this you are called that... but I wanted to reply something here - and i am doing it in a very respectful way bro. I am not sure what you mean by " for a while now I've liked dick..." You say also "I've always wanted to suck a dick" I assume u did not jerk off a dude yet and you did not suck one yet. Only way you are going to find out if it's indeed awesome is to try it ! Nothing wrong with that ! Hope you will have a nice experience when it happens. The point I am trying to make is mainly in the second part of my reply: I am sure you will enjoy it - If you feel the need to suck cock again - from time to time - I am sorry but you could not say that you are straight. You might not be gay but you will not be straight I assure you. You will have to be honest with yourself and say "yes... I am BI...I am attracted more to women...but I also like men" (you probably prefer that I say I like cock here). You don't have to be attracted to men to like and suck dick. If you do, nothing wrong with that
Your question is a very good one. There is not "magical answer" to it. You need to explore by yourself. But be honest with yourself and be attentive to your feelings. Again I am not a big fan of putting etiquette on people - he is gay - or bi or straight - who you are as a person is much more than that !! but your sexuality is part of all that - you have to deal with it sooner or later.
I think that many "straight" men have the feeling you describe. I think you should explore it (sooner than later). Never say "never". You will not "turn gay" by jerking a cock - LOL - but if you don't "act" on it you will never know... and the more you wait the more you wonder... the more you don't feel good about it and it prevents you from going forward and live a healthy life.
Was just a friendly and humble reply to you.
p.s. you have a nice uncut cock bro.
Good luck - all the best to you!
Lots of people would say you're only kidding yourself and just denying that you really do dig guys. But I think that's an oversimplification.
Trust me, it'll be easy once you know what the options are.
IN PERSON:
mixed gay/straight bar: probably best for your comfort level. Unfortunately there are very few of these, even in big cities.
gay bar: guys will *definitely* hit on you.
gay sauna or bathhouse (euphemisms for sex clubs): Only found in big cities. Maybe too intense for you right now, but you get to see lots of naked men and don't have to go to someone's house.
Other lesser options... porn theaters, even if they're showing straight porn. Porn stores with booths where guys play (warning, some stores have booths but do not allow playing)
Gyms where there's action in the sauna (very rare).
ON LINE:
Use other websites that are more focused on hookups; very easy to find guys. Avoid all people without clear photos. Probably not allowed to mention other sites here in the forum.
If you don't want to go directly to his house or have him over, meet for a beer or coffee. Make some small talk and then either take him home, or not.
Remember you can leave at ANY time if it's not a good match. I'ts ALWAYS okay to say "Hey, you're cool and thanks for meeting up, but I don't think I'm really into this." If you're on the level, people will be cool with it.
Worst case scenario, you don't even sit down for the beer, you take one look and see he's not for you. But that should ONLY be if he doesn't look like his pics. Don't flake out just because you get cold feet - if you're not ready then you shouldn't meet in the first place.
Here's my belief: All males and females are born bi-sexual. In our America's culture we are raised to believe that same sex interactions are wrong, abnormal, or even "sick," etc.
Some easing of our social mores have allowed it to become more acceptable for women to cross that 'line' than men. Think for a minute about the Jerry Springer Show. When a girl discloses on camera that she "likes females" in any descriptive phrase, she is ALWAYS cheered approvingly. If a guy does the same thing, he is booed and jeered.
Over the past 60 years or so, it has slowly become less offensive for men to investigate their curiosity, although mostly in private. Today, men fear offending their target when they find themselves in a comfortable social setting, (such as a double date, etc) than about what others might think if word got out.
Guys don't normally hang out in pairs, so a few guys sitting around having a few beers and watching some hot videos is a likely way to get something sexual started. It would help if there was some bi-action in the porn. It opens the door for the guys to at least discuss the topic, and is very, very likely to get some action going.
The younger set (college age) don't need an excuse to get a beer ball and turn the lights down low. Older guys may want to invite a few buddies to watch an NFL game, maybe some pizza and a few brews, then pop in the porn tape and dim the lights afterwards. Anyone who stays, is probably also curious and willing to at least check it out. Once the tape is started, somebody is almost guaranteed to get it out and start wanking.
My theory is that if you just find touching the sensual body parts of a member of the same sex, you are only BI-SEXUAL. (Remember, I think we are all bi-sexual inside, but only the braver of us will ever act on the desire and get to enjoy the half of sexual pleasure that those who remain straight will sadly never experience.)
NOW, IF you find yourself enjoying the company of a same sex partner, trusting them more than others, feeling that they are more into helping you with any probems you may have than anyone else you know, maybe find yourself looking admiringly at their body, face, hair, etc., when you are around each other, or even maybe feel left out when they talk to someone else when you're around them, then you need to do some soul-searching about your sexuality, if that's important to you.
Simplified, if it's about your physical desires to enjoy sex, orgasms, etc., you're probably just BI.
If it fulfills your emotional needs and desires, then it is more likely about a loving relationship, and that's what true gayness is REALLY all about.
Just as with "straight" couples, the actual sex acts are simply icing on the cake !
Not to offend you - "Uncut_cnd_dude" - but I do slightly disagree with your saying "If you feel the need to suck cock again - from time to time - I am sorry but you could not say that you are straight." Otherwise you made a number of valid statements!
I was completely straight until age 31 then had a couple of brief bi-curious experiences while partying with my wife and some friends. Then no more until after I had married for the second time to a dancer who had lived in the gay life for a few years. At her request, I agreed to experiment again for her to watch if the chance ever presented itself.
I've been bi ever since, (40 yrs), & have tried just about everything, although there are still a few unfinished fantasies, I do have to admit! Loved every second of it all!
Have lots and lots of great memories, pix and videos. I do enjoy swapping experiences, chats, and even occasional action, cyber or getting together. For the past couple of years, I've been playing around with CBT (cock & ball torture), needle-play, sounding, electroshock and photographing same. Haven't found anyone local who would like to experiment with that, but still looking in Pa.
Feel free to get in touch! Hope to hear from all of you.
Most of us maybee / probably started with homosexual experiences when we we 15, 16 years old. I remember playing with my friend at school. We kissed and masturbated each other and or even had oral sex. Most of the schools in the sixties where not mixed.
Later I discovered girls. And attraction to males disappeared for tenth of years.
When I was 45 a particular encounter with a man brought the attraction back and I had a few gay experiences. But came back to girls again.
Nowadays I'm on this site cause I like to look at cocks and let my imagination play the game. Even use Skype.It excites me but I don't think I'll have a physical contact again. Never say never.
My sexual life in a few words
Maybee we will meet on skype one day
Bye and just enjoy your feelings