One of the reasons I joined this site is to burst that whole tension bubble regarding the women I have been with and what they say to other people about my cock. This woman I am presently seeing just texted me these exact words last night:

"I miss your BIG personality, DICK."

Now my name is Richard, but when she came over she admitted the double entendre there. Don't get me wrong I usually like the female attention I get for my cock size. But apparently she was sharing her texts with her gay friend. So I guess what bothers me is that I know people will talk about this issue behind my back, and I don't always know who has heard the rumors. I guess it does not really matter in the long run. I mean it is what it is. But whenever I a run across a situation like this I am reminded of one my gfs in college. When I was younger I was never much of a player, I still am not a player. I was always more of a loyal friend and/or lover who has had long term relationships and many female friends. My college gf and I got in an argument about men talking about the women they have been with with other men. She claimed that women do not do that. Then one time at a party I caught her describing my genitals to a group of my female friends who I had never slept with. These women were closder friends to me than to her, so I did not quite understand her motivations for doing this. Plus then I would often find myself being slightly embarrassed when in their company after her report of the intimate details.

Am I over reacting to this?

Should I just forget about it?