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Started by cutroundhead at 26,Dec,18 13:34  other posts of cutroundhead
Why is is that the majority of younger guys are terrified of their goods being seen in a locker room or shower situation? They wrap up, do the towel dance and are generally very furtive. In my day it was just accepted that a man should be totally unshy about being seen nude by other guys in such a situation. What has caused this change?

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By everett at 04,Jul,20 21:33 other posts of everett 
i quit football cause of it not want no one see me naked

By liketoedge at 28,Oct,19 12:37 other posts of liketoedge 
I never was, I always got a thrill being naked in front of friends growing up.

By nekekal at 27,Oct,19 01:35 other posts of nekekal 
Good question. I don't know.

When I was little, like 7 or 8 I was terrified of anyone seeing me naked. I don't know why. My mother pointed out one day that she had seen me naked for a long time, but I was shy about it.

Then about the fifth grade, say 10 years old, my cock got a lot bigger than my classmates. Anything different with kids gets ridiculed. And they laughed and pointed at my cock. It is safe to say that almost no one knew what a cock was really for or why they got big, but I was humiliated for it.

All through high school, my cock was bigger than theirs. But we all had to shower together. And I got over the shyness. By collage, i liked to parade around naked, cock half hard swinging out in front if me.

I started looking for opportunities to get naked. As I went to the gym I would find a locker as far from the shower as I could and then walk to the communal showers and enjoy soaping and cleaning my cock. Nothing like hot water and soap to give a guy a hard on. Then slowly walk back to my locker. Towel over my shoulder.

It was an interesting journey from shy to flagrant.
By tb1 at 27,Oct,19 02:09 other posts of tb1 
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By nekekal at 27,Oct,19 14:52 other posts of nekekal 

By Petro635 at 27,Oct,19 08:17 other posts of Petro635 
Being seen naked is not normal at first and taking showers at home was always a private. We are suppose the close the door so nobody can see us washing our bodies at home. Then they tell us to strip naked and shower with strangers. You should now wash your dick and balls and ass in front of everyone and it supposed to be normal.
By nekekal at 27,Oct,19 14:52 other posts of nekekal 
Except at home the parents could walk in at anytime. And did. There were 3 boys so we were naked around each other all the time. Generally they told us that no one wanted to see us naked, so try not to show them our cocks.

I was drafted into the army. There we not only had communal showers but same with toilets, urinals, and sleeping. You got to see enough cock to last a lifetime. Modesty no longer existed.
By Petro635 at 27,Oct,19 15:41 other posts of Petro635 
My parents never walked in on me or my brother and we never got to hang out naked. Don't you think being told by parents nobody wanted to see you naked. Made you self conscious out being naked or worried about your cock being seen. Because parents make it seem wrong or say it wrong. When really they should not care about it, because it just your body and it not something you have to hide in your home or locker room
By tb1 at 28,Oct,19 02:22 other posts of tb1 
Parents make lots of mistakes, today too not just years ago.
By Petro635 at 28,Oct,19 06:49 other posts of Petro635 
Yes I agree with you, parents should make the home a comfortable place. People should be comfortable with their own bodies at home. My parents didn't do that I bet most did not. I look back and think, why did nobody say or prepare me for being naking in locker room or taking showers in locker room

By #522791 at 27,Oct,19 23:02
I don't know what changed...but i was never terrified or embarrassed

By Petro635 at 17,Oct,19 23:56 other posts of Petro635 
I thinks it the way guys are raised and told it wrong or shameful to look or even be seen naked. People judge each other to much. I remember when n high School locker room everyone had briefs. Today you have have cool underwear on now. Plus father's don't take their sons to locker rooms I guess. I remember having to change for gym class and then showers in 7 grade. I thought it was crazy because I never let family see me naked and now I was supposed to be naked with class mates
By lawrenceo at 25,Oct,19 05:50 other posts of lawrenceo 
At my school we had a female gym teacher and she always stood at the entrance to the showers and got a good look at all of us.

I suspect that would not be allowed now; even if boys had a female gym teacher.

Any one care to bring me up to date with the current situation?
By Petro635 at 25,Oct,19 07:57 other posts of Petro635 
I would think that must have been embarrassing at first. I like being naked now

By Dickventures at 17,Oct,19 09:59 other posts of Dickventures 
Iím not too bad about it, kinda like the exhibition of it, but I do it out of consideration. Most folk donít like seeing dicks.
Just sucks when I go into locker rooms; canít shower with my glasses on to admire all the dicks irl.
By cutroundhead at 17,Oct,19 10:12 other posts of cutroundhead 
Men are meant to be naked in the locker room and showers...nothing to do with being en exhibitionist, just behaving the way you would at home, but with other guys around...
By Dickventures at 17,Oct,19 11:02 other posts of Dickventures 
Most people are grossed out by other peopleís dicks. Itís polite to not wave your dick around.
By spermkiss at 23,Oct,19 15:02 other posts of spermkiss 
While I agree with your statement that it's polite not to wave your dick around, I very much disagree with your statement about people being grossed out by the sight of a dick.

Au contraire, the penis is the universally loved and admired sex organ. All men, I repeat ALL men, not just gay and bisexual men, like to look at other men's dicks. The popularity of this site proves that. Enjoying looking at dicks is a guy thing, not a gay thing.
By Dickventures at 24,Oct,19 02:57 other posts of Dickventures 
Maybe looking at their own is fine, but I feel like most straight guys are just here to show off and maybe get some ladies interested.

They may not be grossed out, but they just donít wanna see dicks. I dunno, maybe I was just some weird straight guy growing up.

By lawrenceo at 25,Oct,19 05:47 other posts of lawrenceo 
But even so there are some men who make a production of it. Others who try to make their penis as large as possible without it actual being seen as a semi.

By Petro635 at 19,Oct,19 16:29 other posts of Petro635 
Younger guys never get to experience the freedom of just being naked and how to relax when naked. If your never naked at home or with friends. You never will be in locker room. I wish someone told me when I was younger you can be naked and relaxed and it not always about sex or judging body parts

By centexwill at 19,Oct,19 16:12 other posts of centexwill 
Fear of being judged by size and development.

By new2day at 19,Oct,19 16:09 other posts of new2day 
I grew up using the gang style showers, hang your towel outside and walk into a room with 8 or more shower heads. There was no time to be shy back then. These days gyms have cubicles and people wrap towels around themselves to change.

With the prevalance of porn, I think many young people are insecure about their bodies since they don't measure up.

By liketoedge at 17,Oct,19 11:14 other posts of liketoedge 
Starting in the 6th grade showers after PE class were mandatory and we all got over our shyness very quickly. Today most school dont require boys to shower after class

By bil47 at 17,Oct,19 10:23 other posts of bil47 
If there was a group-shower room for school athletics, like back in my day, boys would get over their shyness in an instant (unless their penis was unusually small or large, or they always popped an erection in the showers).

By #579310 at 09,Feb,19 13:12
I am from that side who hides and doesnt show my dick in a public showers.I think I did that, because I tought everyone would think I am a fag if I show my dick for everyone there.Also I enjoy watching at other men naked in there.

By spermkiss at 31,Dec,18 15:43 other posts of spermkiss 
That's one of the mysteries of life and it seems like a paradox.

These days with pornography so mainstream it seems like a rite of passage for young men to post nude photos of themselves someplace on the internet. Many kick it up a notch and post a full motion jack off video. It's as if they are saying: "Here I am, I'm a man now, see how potent I am."

For young gay men the rite of passage bar is even higher in that they do a full on hard core man-on-man sex scene. It's as if they are saying: "I'm a real gay man now. I'll suck and be sucked, rim and be rimmed, fuck and be fucked for the world to see."

With these things in mind one has to wonder why so many are shy in a lockerroom.

By #573687 at 31,Dec,18 10:38
There was a womans-liberation but no male-liberation. Males are shy because they are shown stupid like a 3 years old boy in advertising on TV. No man wants to get laughed about him. We do not have a male culture anymore. Many guys grow up without father in a female dominated surrounding and that cause a bad feeling of being male. In lockerrooms of gyms there is nothing but competition. Crazy world...

By Ramil1 at 27,Dec,18 19:47 other posts of Ramil1 
I actually feel wrong about showing my 'goods' in certain situations. Although I m not 'shy'. It just seems a bit rude when every other guy seems to be trying to avoid showing off. I feel some guys would want to call me an exabitionist. Or a flasher. It s a good point to 'discuss'. Because at the end of the day I don t like to feel as though I m trying to hide 'something' . I think it should be custom to behones in a semse. Reveal what you have and be proud to let them look if they want to.
By cutroundhead at 28,Dec,18 10:22 other posts of cutroundhead 
I take your point, but in a locker room or shower situation where nudity is generally taken for granted and accepted, I see nothing wrong, provided one isn't being en exhibionist...but undressing, walking to and from the shower and drying oneself are all quite natural actions.

By cutroundhead at 27,Dec,18 13:49 other posts of cutroundhead 
It seems the trend is worldwide, not only here in the UK. But I have noticed that in a sports club I belong to where a lot of the 35 year old and upwards guys have no problem with nudity, some of the younger guys see this and then gradually join in, as if sensing that it's the manly thing to do.

By oldbugle at 27,Dec,18 04:13 other posts of oldbugle 
This is because of major changes in society in general when it comes to sexuality and 'gender'. The idea of 'maleness' has had a succession on knocks in recent years and young men are much more circumspect about feeling and expressing their gender than their older predecessors.......

Gender bashing, Weinstein, the LGBT thing, media, gay rights, womens movements have all played their part in this and it's not surprising that many young men are shy and even nervous about their masculinity.

.........Only last week there was an item on the BBC Website about a plan to teach boys that they "have periods" just like girls!
By cutroundhead at 27,Dec,18 04:57 other posts of cutroundhead 
Yes, I think you're right...a pity because men can't just be men any longer.
By phart at 27,Dec,18 13:15 other posts of phart 
With the Meto movement,it is safe to say that young males are scared to be males. And frankly,the young women do not seem to be intrested in real manly men anymore.Used to a woman wanted a tough brawny guy and now they like the geeky gamer types that when the car tire goes flat they cry!

By Andthisisme at 27,Dec,18 11:35 other posts of Andthisisme 
I am not a locker room type of guy but as secindary school and college the showers were communal so everything was on display. How strange that today when in theory we are so much more open about sex - than in the early 60s - that young men should be so modest.
Could it be that they have seen some of the - paricularly Us Porn where every guy has a ridiculously large dick that they feel inadequate? That would be so sad.
Sites like this should be recommended viewing for young guys so that they can see the whole spectrum of dick size and shape.

By #571130 at 27,Dec,18 11:04
I remember in H.S. days we had to "shower and change" after gym,the coaches sat in their office that had huge glass windows for easy viewing of us. I'd strip and hang my cock out like most other guys. Then go to the open stall showers were all the cocks were hanging and free to view. I remeber couple of guys had really huge cocks probably 15 inches long, they would lather up their huge cocks and get raging hard ons and start wanking and joking until they would shoot their cum all over who ever was nearby. A couple of other guys had small penises and a lot of guys would berate them to tears, Adolescents can be so fucking cruel, such memories!!

By nolongercurious at 27,Dec,18 10:20 other posts of nolongercurious 
Now that I am into cock I'm thinking about joining a fitness center partly to see cock in the locker room.

By up-for-it at 27,Dec,18 08:32 other posts of up-for-it 
When i was at school where i live (Belgium) there were cubicle showers so we showered individiual and walking to and from the showers almost no one was totally naked. The changing room was cummunial but most did the toweldance there.

I did hear a straight guy say, that with so many gay guys everywhere he doesn't want to be naked in public showers, so i don't think it's always about beeing shy, some are afraid others might look at them in a sexual way.

By hard68 at 27,Dec,18 07:57 other posts of hard68 
I worked in a steel works where there were 300 in the showers at change of shift , no chance to be shy . A great experience

By poolboy886 at 27,Dec,18 05:18 other posts of poolboy886 
I go to a gym and the older men tend to not be as shy. Our showers are separate, but Iím taking the short walk there naked. Iím sweaty - donít want that all on my towel.

By #537175 at 27,Dec,18 03:43
I agree see a couple younger guys in lockers who wear shorts in showers , then do a rather strange maneuver when they dry off and get into boxers .Shame really as it looks like they may be sizeable packages . My bf and I have always been comfortable naked in lockers / showers right from first school years .

By MoeJoe at 27,Dec,18 03:15 other posts of MoeJoe 
At the gym I go to there are a couple of young guys who shower in their shorts...don't even take them off ! I like walking around with my cock flopping about !

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