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Started by cutroundhead at 26,Dec,18 13:34  other posts of cutroundhead
Why is is that the majority of younger guys are terrified of their goods being seen in a locker room or shower situation? They wrap up, do the towel dance and are generally very furtive. In my day it was just accepted that a man should be totally unshy about being seen nude by other guys in such a situation. What has caused this change?



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By #579310 at 09,Feb,19 13:12
I am from that side who hides and doesnt show my dick in a public showers.I think I did that, because I tought everyone would think I am a fag if I show my dick for everyone there.Also I enjoy watching at other men naked in there.


By spermkiss at 31,Dec,18 15:43 other posts of spermkiss 
That's one of the mysteries of life and it seems like a paradox.

These days with pornography so mainstream it seems like a rite of passage for young men to post nude photos of themselves someplace on the internet. Many kick it up a notch and post a full motion jack off video. It's as if they are saying: "Here I am, I'm a man now, see how potent I am."

For young gay men the rite of passage bar is even higher in that they do a full on hard core man-on-man sex scene. It's as if they are saying: "I'm a real gay man now. I'll suck and be sucked, rim and be rimmed, fuck and be fucked for the world to see."

With these things in mind one has to wonder why so many are shy in a lockerroom.


By #573687 at 31,Dec,18 10:38
There was a womans-liberation but no male-liberation. Males are shy because they are shown stupid like a 3 years old boy in advertising on TV. No man wants to get laughed about him. We do not have a male culture anymore. Many guys grow up without father in a female dominated surrounding and that cause a bad feeling of being male. In lockerrooms of gyms there is nothing but competition. Crazy world...


By Ramil1 at 27,Dec,18 19:47 other posts of Ramil1 
I actually feel wrong about showing my 'goods' in certain situations. Although I m not 'shy'. It just seems a bit rude when every other guy seems to be trying to avoid showing off. I feel some guys would want to call me an exabitionist. Or a flasher. It s a good point to 'discuss'. Because at the end of the day I don t like to feel as though I m trying to hide 'something' . I think it should be custom to behones in a semse. Reveal what you have and be proud to let them look if they want to.
By cutroundhead at 28,Dec,18 10:22 other posts of cutroundhead 
I take your point, but in a locker room or shower situation where nudity is generally taken for granted and accepted, I see nothing wrong, provided one isn't being en exhibionist...but undressing, walking to and from the shower and drying oneself are all quite natural actions.



By cutroundhead at 27,Dec,18 13:49 other posts of cutroundhead 
It seems the trend is worldwide, not only here in the UK. But I have noticed that in a sports club I belong to where a lot of the 35 year old and upwards guys have no problem with nudity, some of the younger guys see this and then gradually join in, as if sensing that it's the manly thing to do.


By oldbugle at 27,Dec,18 04:13 other posts of oldbugle 
This is because of major changes in society in general when it comes to sexuality and 'gender'. The idea of 'maleness' has had a succession on knocks in recent years and young men are much more circumspect about feeling and expressing their gender than their older predecessors.......

Gender bashing, Weinstein, the LGBT thing, media, gay rights, womens movements have all played their part in this and it's not surprising that many young men are shy and even nervous about their masculinity.

.........Only last week there was an item on the BBC Website about a plan to teach boys that they "have periods" just like girls!
By cutroundhead at 27,Dec,18 04:57 other posts of cutroundhead 
Yes, I think you're right...a pity because men can't just be men any longer.
By phart at 27,Dec,18 13:15 other posts of phart 
With the Meto movement,it is safe to say that young males are scared to be males. And frankly,the young women do not seem to be intrested in real manly men anymore.Used to a woman wanted a tough brawny guy and now they like the geeky gamer types that when the car tire goes flat they cry!




By Andthisisme at 27,Dec,18 11:35 other posts of Andthisisme 
I am not a locker room type of guy but as secindary school and college the showers were communal so everything was on display. How strange that today when in theory we are so much more open about sex - than in the early 60s - that young men should be so modest.
Could it be that they have seen some of the - paricularly Us Porn where every guy has a ridiculously large dick that they feel inadequate? That would be so sad.
Sites like this should be recommended viewing for young guys so that they can see the whole spectrum of dick size and shape.


By #571130 at 27,Dec,18 11:04
I remember in H.S. days we had to "shower and change" after gym,the coaches sat in their office that had huge glass windows for easy viewing of us. I'd strip and hang my cock out like most other guys. Then go to the open stall showers were all the cocks were hanging and free to view. I remeber couple of guys had really huge cocks probably 15 inches long, they would lather up their huge cocks and get raging hard ons and start wanking and joking until they would shoot their cum all over who ever was nearby. A couple of other guys had small penises and a lot of guys would berate them to tears, Adolescents can be so fucking cruel, such memories!!


By nolongercurious at 27,Dec,18 10:20 other posts of nolongercurious 
Now that I am into cock I'm thinking about joining a fitness center partly to see cock in the locker room.


By up-for-it at 27,Dec,18 08:32 other posts of up-for-it 
When i was at school where i live (Belgium) there were cubicle showers so we showered individiual and walking to and from the showers almost no one was totally naked. The changing room was cummunial but most did the toweldance there.

I did hear a straight guy say, that with so many gay guys everywhere he doesn't want to be naked in public showers, so i don't think it's always about beeing shy, some are afraid others might look at them in a sexual way.


By hard68 at 27,Dec,18 07:57 other posts of hard68 
I worked in a steel works where there were 300 in the showers at change of shift , no chance to be shy . A great experience


By poolboy886 at 27,Dec,18 05:18 other posts of poolboy886 
I go to a gym and the older men tend to not be as shy. Our showers are separate, but Iím taking the short walk there naked. Iím sweaty - donít want that all on my towel.


By Scottbill69 at 27,Dec,18 03:43 other posts of Scottbill69 
I agree see a couple younger guys in lockers who wear shorts in showers , then do a rather strange maneuver when they dry off and get into boxers .Shame really as it looks like they may be sizeable packages . My bf and I have always been comfortable naked in lockers / showers right from first school years .


By MoeJoe at 27,Dec,18 03:15 other posts of MoeJoe 
At the gym I go to there are a couple of young guys who shower in their shorts...don't even take them off ! I like walking around with my cock flopping about !





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