Can you give me advice?

By #28707 at 03,Apr,10 12:55

My friend, I would urge you not to continue in this direction. I suspect that your interests in your sister have more to do with convenience and feeling safe with her than healthy desires. There are millions of women out there and you need to make the effort and take the risks of seeking them out. Paying your sister for sex goes beyond tacky and shameful.

By spermkiss at 03,Apr,10 16:32 other posts of spermkiss

I would have to agree with dreason in that sex with a sister (especially if you were paying her!) is a minefield of unpleasant consequences, not the least of which is that it is unlawful and that you could end up in prison. Do whatever you have to do to get over this. If it takes professional counseling, get it. NOW!

By spermkiss at 03,Apr,10 16:36 other posts of spermkiss

By the way, I sincerely hope that none of the photos on your page is of your sister. If so, you may have gone beyond the point of no return.

By #53276 at 03,Apr,10 16:52

Thanks for your advice, I will be trying something to get over this! And no all the photos are of my gf's! Me and my sister said no photos cause if it got out then it would ruin us! It's just been going on for so long, it's hard to stop! But I know it's wrong so I gotta do something.

By spermkiss at 03,Apr,10 20:44 other posts of spermkiss

I'm relieved that both you and she seem to realize that there could be very bad consequences to this situation becoming public. If this has indeed been going on for a long time it very well might be that you'll need professional help to get out of this habit. I see from your page that you live in Tulsa. Since that is a fair sized city I am sure that there are mental health prosessionals that you could see for little or no cost. Or if you have the means, you could see someone privately. But, please, do something, both for your sake and for your sister's. Send me a private message if you want, and I'll give you as much assistance as I can. Regards.

By leopoldij at 18,May,16 23:34 other posts of leopoldij

You're a nice guy.

By spermkiss at 19,May,16 15:14 other posts of spermkiss

You're very kind to say that. When this topic jumped up on the Forum again and I read what I wrote six years ago I wondered what became of this gentleman and his s-I-s-t-e-r.

But speaking as someone who has benefited from mental health counseling I just had to say something. Of course people of means can get it and it is expensive. But it is also available for little or no cost to people of modest means. I found it in two different cities, Cincinnati, Ohio and my present home town of San Francisco. And this was years ago, before the internet, and my primary reference was the telephone directory.

So I say to anyone who feels he or she needs professional help: GET IT. There is no shame or dishonor.

By #458225 at 19,May,16 17:02

spermkiss, In my opinion, that which member#53276 and **** do/did together is not wrong and, quite frankly no body else's business. Just because others don't agree with them doesn't make them mentally ill, wrong, or against the laws of the Universe, or god. Let me remind you a lot of those same "people" use to say, and still do say, that being gay is a mental illness. So before we go getting out those judgments we so easily pass on others, perhaps we should really consider the biases involved. Peace to all.

By bella! at 19,May,16 19:50 other posts of bella!

SPERM_DONOR, for the most part, I enjoy seeing your non judgemental responses in the forum, however today, I see a non judgemental post that I am obligated to disagree with you on. You feel that the actions between former member #53276 and his sЎster are no ones business but where do you draw the line? Br0ther and sЎster, okay how about father and daughter or mother and son?

By spermkiss at 20,May,16 15:30 other posts of spermkiss

Thank you bella! There has been a centuries long taboo on **** and there's a good reason for that. IT'S BAD. This is not just a cultural thing, but there is solid scientific evidence that the offspring of an incestuous union suffer. If you don't believe me, plug "Risk of Inbreeding" into Google and have a look.

Among the risks are: increased risk of genetic diseases, reduced fertility, increased risk of congenital defects, deformed faces, lower birth weight, slower growth, smaller adult size, loss of immune system, mental retardation. Even if the parties are practicing birth control, accidental pregnancies sometimes happen. Since the offspring very well might end up as wards of the state, it is in society's interest to prevent these unions. Thus the laws against ****.

And comparing these laws to laws against homosexuality just doesn't cut it. No one is harmed when consenting adults have a homosexual union.
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The censored word is I-n-c-e-s-t.

By JustWill at 20,May,16 15:58 other posts of JustWill

Comparing homosexuality to inc*st is not a new thing. The ridiculous "Slippery Slope" idea is always trotted out when gay rights are under discussion.
The "If it's okay for two men/women to have sex, what happens when siblings want to hook-up?" argument is usually followed by "Or what if a guy wants to bang a goat?" It is a specious argument.
Also, beware of people who advise you that "you have no one to answer to but yourself". If an action you wish to undertake is illeg@l then, by definition, there is a great possibility that you WILL have to answer to others if you are caught.

By leopoldij at 19,May,16 20:00 other posts of leopoldij

It is very hard to draw the lines between ethical/unethical. I'm no expert and will judge nobody for what they're doing unless they infringe the rights, freedom, personal space, etc, of others. Maybe having sex with a sibling is not a problem per se. However, paying a sibling for sex is. Another instance were sex becomes a problem is when a boss uses his power to fuck a subordinate, in exchange of giving benefits to the latter (that's equivalent to paying). This creates obvious unfair treatment and nepotism. I've seen it happen and am , now , seeing it happening very frequently.

By leopoldij at 21,May,16 10:45 other posts of leopoldij

No there's no shame. The problem is that good doctors may be hard to find outside the US...

By #61033 at 10,Jun,16 19:32

You are kidding right? Do you actually believe that?

By leopoldij at 10,Jun,16 22:12 other posts of leopoldij

No, I'm not. I think there are very good specialists in the US.

By #455846 at 20,May,16 20:52

oh dear...i hope relevant help was obtained.

By #485312 at 23,May,16 13:33

he's been gone for ages, but we just love dragging the old stuff up for fun, lm sure he and his s!ster lived happily ever after *lix*

By #455846 at 10,Jun,16 11:40

yeh why not ...just for

By #487013 at 23,May,16 17:54

Well look on the bright side, if you do hook up and then break up at least yall can still be siblings...

By #239071 at 23,May,16 17:40

It's true?sounds awkward

By #458225 at 18,May,16 15:52

It may not be for me, and it may even be called "against the law" in some places but, i say do what you will, you don't have to answer to anyone else.

By #485312 at 23,May,16 13:34

l know a couple that are siblings and have been married for years, went to their daughtars wedding last year, it was beautiful, a pagan wedding in the park and one of the best lve ever been too *lix*

By #485312 at 18,May,16 21:38

marry her, saves a name change *lix*

By #507249 at 18,May,16 23:51

Lmao!!

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