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Started by #65262 at 04,Apr,10 09:09
I've always been curious. Does that make me gay



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By #58000 at 04,Apr,10 12:23
I remember this site where guys would write all sorts of sexual confessions, and you wouldn't believe how many straight guys who wants to suck cock. Dan Savage mentioned this in his podcast Savage Love, he said something like "straight guys like dick, and some straight guys like dick so much they want to put one in their mouths every once in a while." He also said there are different forms or degrees of bisexuality. You could identify as straight and also enjoy sucking cock every once in a while. It doesn't mean you're going to wake up gay one day. "It's not a cancer, it doesn't grow", haha.
By spermkiss at 05,Apr,10 01:02 other posts of spermkiss 
This is exactly right. A couple of dozen men who identify as straight have sucked my dick. Several have even taken me to climax and swallowed my sperm. There are thousands of straight cocksuckers out there in this world.
By #55802 at 05,Apr,10 14:22
sorry ,there is no such thing as a 'straight cocksucker'
By spermkiss at 05,Apr,10 17:04 other posts of spermkiss 
I have to disagree. It may come down to semantics if you're going to say that anyone who has ever had any sexual contact with people of both sexes is bisexual, but I think that how one self identifies and how one lives are far more important.

Look at me, for example. I've had sex with two or three thousand men, I self identify as gay, I live as gay and I'm married to a man. I've also had sex with three women (most gay men have) and even had an affair with a woman. Does that make me bisexual? I don't think so.

Turning that around, are you saying that a man who self identifies as straight, whose primary sexual activity is heterosexual but who dabbles a bit with men is bisexual? Again, I don't think so.

I stand by my original statement that there are thousands of straight cocksuckers out there. I've known a couple of dozen personally.

But what do the experts have to say on this subject? Are there any sexologists or psychologists in the SYD membership who'd care to weigh in on this subject?
By #55802 at 25,Apr,10 15:05
still disagree, i've gotten blown by too many 'straight' guys on the 'DL' who can't keep a cock out of their mouth. also what's with the logic of the married guys who suck me off, then say "as long as it's another dude, i'm not cheating on my wife" ??? fess up to what u r and live with it. of course i really enjoyed every guy who has done me !!
By spermkiss at 25,Apr,10 17:49 other posts of spermkiss 
And I still stand by my statement. The men you are describing do not fit the description of the men I talked about in my third paragraph above. I, too, would define these men as gay or maybe bisexual. A man who "can't keep a cock out of [his] mouth" isn't straight.

Perhaps you've never known a man who was primarily heterosexual but dabbled a bit with men, maybe as a one time thing, but I have. Several, in fact.

When I was in my early thirties and had been an out gay man for more than ten years, I had an affair with a woman. She knew I was gay and was OK with it. In our circle of friends, men and women, gay and straight, we were regarded as a couple, but I never stopped thinking of myself as a gay man while the affair was in progress. She and I had several MMF threesomes, mostly with straight men. Most of these men were reluctant at first to be in bed with another man, even with a woman present, but they all warmed up to the idea pretty quickly. They all French kissed me (generally the first time with a man) and all but one sucked my dick. On one occasion the lady left the room for an extended period of time leaving me alone with the other man. When she was gone he went to town like you wouldn't believe. 'Sucked cock like a champ. Later he told me that since he had never been with a man before and might never get another opportunity he wanted to fully experience it.

I've also met several straight men on my own without the woman. Many were first timers and maybe even one timers who just wanted to see what it was like.

As Silhouette has mentioned, Dan Savage has discussed this at length in his column Savage Love (savagelove.net). And I'd still like to hear what the experts have to say on this. If there are any sexologists or psychologists out there please comment. If I am wrong, I'll retract what I said.
By #55802 at 26,Apr,10 04:03
'NOT CHEATING' HUSBANDS---------ALSO FIND THAT MARRIED GUYS, EVEN THOSE WHO WILL 'GIVE AND TAKE' USUALLY REFUSE TO KISS, WHY ???
By spermkiss at 26,Apr,10 17:20 other posts of spermkiss 
The gay porn director Chi Chi LaRue touched on this very question in an interview. (S)he (I'm never sure of the correct pronouns to use with a drag queen) has worked with hundreds of men in his/her hundreds of gay porn movies, both gay men and straight men doing it for the money (gay for pay). His/her answer was "Straight men won't kiss." They are willing to suck cock lick ass and eat sperm, but not kiss another man. His/her conclusion was that kissing is the most intimate of all acts between two people.

That has been my own experience as well. The straight men I've been with frequently would not kiss me even though they were quite willing to suck my dick, often to climax. As a gay man I find this a bit hard to understand because we gay men kiss each other all the time. Furthermore, a mouth is pretty much a gender neutral organ. While a man's mouth has beard growth around it, that's the only difference.

There are exceptions, of course. Some of the straight men I've known couldn't get enough kissing. One straight friend of mine kissed me and other guys regularily. He was also a major tease in that he was always saying that some day he might be up for more than kissing, but it never happened (at least not with me.)

I've really enjoyed having this friendly discussion with you, victor17. And were are the sexologists and psychologists hiding? There must be some in the SYD membership.
By #55802 at 27,Apr,10 03:48
enjoying you also! could it have something to do with kissing being a sign/ token of love ? "i dont love you, just want to blow you" ???
By spermkiss at 27,Apr,10 17:26 other posts of spermkiss 
I'm sure that goes right to the heart of the matter. There are lots of men who think of themselves as heterosexual because they have no interest in having a loving, romantic relationship with another man, but nevertheless are willing to have a sexual relationship. Some of them are even egar for it. These are the men I was thinking about when I mentioned "straight cocksuckers" so many messages ago.









By spermkiss at 05,Apr,10 01:05 other posts of spermkiss 
Hi Silhouette, It's nice to meet another Savage Love fan. I read him religiously.



By #46165 at 27,Apr,10 03:12
youre gay if you think youre gay.

I like cocks. Ive sucked a cock. Ive been sucked by a dude. I prefer women, but sex is sex, and if its fun, who cares who its with?

I wouldnt say Im 'gay', or even 'bi'. if anything, im just 'not fussy'.


By slipper at 04,Apr,10 21:19 other posts of slipper 
Check out the lengthy thread here about not being into guys, but into guy parts--seems VERY apropos.





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