What is with guys that are from India being very Rude ?

By #485312 at 15,Jul,15 13:00

they get their sex skills off the net, they see the mass produced porn that is out there and behave in the same manner, they are copying what they see on the net, because the industry treats women like whores lowlifes, that's the only way they believe western women want to be treated...l don't believe its their fault they behave like that, its all they know..*lix*

By admin at 15,Jul,15 13:20 other posts of admin

You are speaking about a country where parents still sometimes kill their daughters for not being married with the man they wanted or where sometimes a whole village ra.pe women for some wrongdoing as an accepted form of punishment.

Believe me, it's not porn that formed that behavior.

By #485312 at 17,Jul,15 02:08

yes lm sure their daddys say that kind of stuff to their mothers in front of them, like 'suck my big fat dick you dirty slut whore', that sounds like something they discuss around the dinner table while theyre eating rice and curry in front of all their kids *lix*

By admin at 17,Jul,15 02:28 other posts of admin

Well, people are like monkeys they copy what they see. They copied those phrases from porn, yeas. But my point is that porn alone could not do that. It's just that what they see in porn lays down well on the attitude towards women they get from the culture.

I also find it odd same as that half-Indian gentlemen, since I know Indian culture has many books praising women and art of sex with respect to women. Even their movies, at least those I've seen, shows respectful attitude to women. But it's still true, Indian men in general have little respect for women.

By #492341 at 17,Jul,15 02:59

I respect your opinion buy I don't believe it fully. I have in the past had a woman from India be rude to me. I started with "Hello" and in no way said anything sexual. I surmised that,it was a man or she has h-ate issues.

By admin at 17,Jul,15 12:23 other posts of admin

That probably was a man.

By #187362 at 24,Jun,16 12:47

oh dear..It is not true about India....in India Daddys do not say a single vulgar word to their ****......and the most Important thing is that Parents never say a single word related to sex in front of their **** ...but the population of India is too much....most of Indian men are Humble but....some of then may not ....but this "some" amount is also too much (thinking of too much population over 1250 million)...and many who are frustrated may have been done like that......I know because I m from India...and you know me how I am....my dear.....

By #460385 at 17,Jul,15 13:55

There are a lot of disrespectful assholes on here. And they're not all from India. Just saying.

By #68656 at 27,Jan,11 15:57

Hello Matt`s wife.
There is an interesting parallel to your experience with those particular gentlemen in that there are quite a few of them here in Oz working in the taxi industry, in fact an English-speaking taxi or bus driver is virtually non existent in some major cities. Their public relations skill is appalling to say the least and leaves a lot to be desired.
Regards.
John S.

By #59855 at 27,Jan,11 16:11

From Matt's Wife: That does not surprise me, now that you mention that, we went to Hawaii last year and alot of the cab drivers were similar and unable to be civil, in fact our son even spoke up to one that said something to our daughter and he is only 13. The guy kept looking at her in the mirror and mumbling something(I was not there but Matt was) Our son did not like it and said "what is your problem?" Matt just laughed it off and said it best not to say anything and just avoid people like that, I think it was a good learning experience for our son, I am glad he stuck up for his sister though

By #7976 at 22,Jan,11 22:44

While I understand the comments here it's sad that anyone, in any language or cultural system needs to be rude and disrespectful - male, female, straight, gay, you name it. My belief is that the rude men here are those who are acting out their inner fantasies. The ones they can't in real life because it would make them outcasts. I too have traveled the world extensively and in every culture there are those who have manners and those who don't. Here, it doesn't matter what you do, no one, in all likelihood, will ever know exactly who you are.

As for me, I'm here to enjoy people for who they are. I would rather talk about the weather than sex is it it going to offend a woman or man. Either way, it's an enriching way to spend my time. I just wish more people would take the time to chat. But the ones I do chat with fairly often are very interesting people. And I know this without being rude.

Matt'swife, my only suggestion is that if they're rude, tell them so and ask if they want to continue a discussion with you without the attitude. If it's no, then no harm no foul. If it's the other, ignore them and talk to me or one of your other IM friends. It's a win/win for you I think.

By #113232 at 23,Jan,11 14:54

I do understand cultural differences and realize that all people are different. I find most of them very fascinating and kind, but speak to me now bitch, and "you will do what I wish to do to you" are things that should not have to be taught to any human being. This has been several times for me and I do as you said and ignore the ignorance.

By #7976 at 24,Jan,11 01:12

"Speak to me now bitch" isn't acceptable in any society outside of popular fiction. If that's the type of response, then reply by going silent and put the ass on your ban list. He probably won't get the point but then, he may learn a lesson.

Or, tell him to write me and ask the same question if he has the guts, preferably face to face. I think there would be a miraculous alteration in his attitude.

Love ya.

You don't have to take the crap.

By slipper at 23,Jan,11 18:04 other posts of slipper

No place has a corner on rude... or any other characteristic, bad or good. Just move on and better luck with the next Indian. Good luck.

By #107080 at 21,Jan,11 19:06

Matt'sWife.I have loved you from afar for centuries!!

The problem I am afraid is partly cultural (lack of respect among some cultures for Ladies)and partly linguistic.I have lived amongst,and come to know well, people of Indian/Pakistani?Bangladeshi origin all my my life--not in Asia or Europe but Africa.(I am a White Imperialist Ciolonialist Pigdog White Opressor)

The men concerned may be culturally totally unaware that they are offending you.Try helping them understand,if you can,but my sympathies are 100% with you

(I think they are probably trying to be Western -Style "macho-smart"

By #59855 at 21,Jan,11 19:18

From Matt's Wife: I agree there is definately a gap in the language. The nice thing is on here I can just avoid it fairly quickly. I usually make a small attempt to get them to understand but I have no interest in educating them. L0L

What is with guys that are from India being very Rude ?

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