I discovered sex at age 13 with several similar-age boys in the neighborhood. It only lasted a couple months, and I didn't have gay sex again until I was around 50 and my wife had lost interest in sex. In the 20+ years since, I've had oral sex with numerous men.

Sitting at my desk, jacking off to porn.

When my wife went asexual, I explored the other part of my bisexuality. Got with men of all ages and races. Didn't have "a relationship" with any of them.

Smaller cock? No. But sometimes I think it would be fun to have a cunt.

Not me, but sexy.

Nice! Perfect for sucking.

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Played it at age 13, with several similar-age boys. When a player became naked, the other players would fondle his erect penis.

I love being sexually submissive with a dominant man or woman... mostly in my porn-fueled fantasies.

I'm usually just trimmed, but shaved is nice.

That sounds hot! I'd teach my young self how to suck cock.

I get turned on at the the thought of being (very!) submissive to a (very!) dominant woman... but for some reason the cage doesn't appeal to me.

Seems to depend on the taste of a partner's cum. Sometimes I have no problem (just like eating my own) but sometimes I retch. I prefer that I'm able to swallow.

Many women don't enjoy giving blowjobs, but do it for their partner anyway. Almost all men who give blowjobs enjoy it (I would think).

Same works for cunnilingus. A lot of men don't enjoy it but do it anyway. Women who give oral sex to women are more likely to enjoy it... I think.

Tough choice, but I would go with giving a blowjob.

I love to go to "sex parties"! (Just all-men so far.)

She won't have sex anymore, so I have no guilt about jacking to gay porn and kinky straight porn.

Mine.

Me too, but my 'active' years were in my 40s to 60s. I'm guessing I sucked about 100.

Holding a stiff cock reminds me of my boyhood "feel-up" sessions with friends, all of us around 13

I was 13, discovering sex with three similar-age boys in the neighborhood.

Not "total", but... I prefer being fucked by a dominant man rather than me being a top. I prefer sucking cock rather than being sucked. I love to role-play being a faggot sex slave to a dominant man.

Did it with a boy. We were both 13. He introduced me to dominant/submissive play and we were playing "master and slave". I was the slave and we were in the woods. He commanded me to strip naked and suck his cock. I loved it. He didn't cum that time, but did numerous times on later occasions.

Plenty of times with my wife, mostly after she went asexual several years ago. A few times, she's agreed to "talk dirty" while she watches me masturbate. She knows I'm bi and teases me about my gay porn preferences, calling me a faggot and a cocksucker.

Smaller to suck; bigger to stroke in a handjob.

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My wife plenty of times. Three boys when I was 13. A lot of men in my 40s through 60s and going to occasional gay orgies.

Depends on the type of sex you and your partner(s) are into. If just oral, small-ish might be more desirable than large. If fucking (gay or straight), then not ideal. Handjobs somewhere in between.

"Strip dice". I love it!

It's partially a Dom/Sub (dominance and submission) thing. A fair number of men get aroused about being sexually submissive to a dominant partner, or being sexually humiliated. Lots of guys on this site post pictures on these themes. I've never done the cuckolding thing in real life, but I do love to fantasize.

I'd love this too! Masturbating while my wife gets fucked by a big-cock escort.

Did you ever lose on purpose?

I was 13 and was shy and naive about sex. Then I was invited to join a Sex Club consisting of three other similar-age boys in the neighborhood. We did a lot of "feel-ups", sword-fights, hand jobs, JO while others watched, and brief sucking.

Here's mine:

Here's mine.

There's no shortage of married Bi men (like me) who suck cocks for DECADES without the wife knowing.

Wow! An early start! I was around that age when several older neighborhood boys held me down and pulled down my pants and underwear. I don't remember getting an erection.

Me too! Discovering sex with other boys was a highlight of my youth.

I lost on purpose too. I was always the first to be naked when we played strip poker.

I was 13 and mostly naive about sex. Some friends were talking about masturbation (while we compared boners in the woods), but didn't demonstrate. When I got home, I locked myself in the bathroom and stripped. I was already super erect and started stroking. I had a firm grip in my penis... too firm for my cut dick. After a couple minutes of ecstasy I was spraying droplets of semen on the tile wall. My penis got a little swollen from the rough treatment, but I was at it again the next day.

I was 13 and hairless. So was he.

I had my first experience with dom/sub roleplay at age 13, being submissive to a very dominant 14-year-old boy in my neighborhood. The source of many fantasies.

Me too! I love to fantasize being a sex-slave for a dominant man or multiple men.

Here's mine.

I was 19, and I think she was too. We met at a mixer in college and she invited me up to her dorm room. She was sexually aggressive, which was a new experience for me. I'd been smoking marijuana and couldn't get an erection, so she asked me to go down on her. She came hard, and then she returned the favor, sucking me erect and giving me an awesome orgasm.

A couple weeks ago my wife walked in on me jacking to gay porn. She said "Anything you want to tell me?" I replied "No", but wish I had added "... but maybe I wouldn't be looking at blowjob porn if we had sex more than once a year."

I prefer the 'bottom' role too.