I'm Bi, and have sucked perhaps 50 cocks over the years. Much as I love having a cock in my mouth, I also like some sort of reciprocation... even if it's just my partner doing "Dom" role-play. I also like rolling around naked on a bed and making out, which straight guys don't do.
Once a week, Wednesdays at lunch hour, in an upscale urban neighborhood. Advertised on CraigsList, but you had to email the organizer for the address. In the finished basement of a townhouse. $10 at the back door and mandatory nudity (except shoes). Usually 20 or so guys of diverse ages and races, but skewed middle-age white. A lot of cock sucking and some fucking. Some guys mostly just watched and jacked off... and enjoyed that guys were watching them masturbate. I would suck multiple cocks each time I went, and one time got in on gang-fucking an insatiable bottom. The whole thing only lasted 90 minutes.
A lot of guys here (myself included) think that cocks in the 4-inch range are really sexy and suck-able. Mine is 4.5 inches, and I'm happy with the way it looks and operates. --------------------------------------- added after 54 seconds
What's the definition of "matters" in this context. Your friend's or family member's life matters to you. Maybe Donald Trump's life matters to members of his base. But not ALL people, or all black people, or all white people.
That doesn't mean you or I wish any person harm. Just that the lives of an anonymous Chinese peasant, or Nigerian slum-dweller, or Arkansas redneck don't matter to me or you. And by the same token, my life doesn't matter to approximately 7.7 billion people (or to all but one no-human life form... my cat).
When I was 13, a slightly older boy in my neighborhood introduced me to gay-sex bdsm. Getting naked and tied up, and then getting my hard cock fondled, was fantastic. Did some over-the-knee spanking too. He was definitely the "dom" and me the "sub".