When I was young I wanked at least twice a week and anywhere. Under the school desk, in the school toilets, in works toilets, and at home. My wife and I fucked every night and still do. We are 44 years married. For one reason or another (health mainly)some time now I have been having trouble cumming during sex. I couldn't get a hard on, but yesterday I got a hard on and wanked until I came. I relaxed and just enjoyed the feelings. Here's to better times. Have you had this problem? I think anxiety causes the problem or trying to hard.