The wife and I are SLOWLY thinking about her having sex with another man while i join in. She is slowly coming around. She flashes and has let me show her photos to friends. We have made several sex tapes by ourselves. Two years ago this would have been unheard of. But she has slowly come around and is really getting into this. Does anybody have any suggestions how I can move a little more forward into her actually being with some one else. I want to go slow and at her terms.