Started by Zeradios at 01,Jun,20 09:35 other posts of Zeradios
 | Hey, I'm 25 years old. I've been trying to father a child with my girlfriend for 3 years but it doesn't work. I am very depressed about it and feel very unmanly and am worried that at some point she will get pregnant by someone else. |
Which leads to my second thought that perhaps she does not want a child and is using birth control. Have you discussed a child and pregnancy with her?
A third thought is you you need not feel unmanly if you cannot sire children. Many men cannot. See a urologist to find out what's going on.
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'Just went to your page and had a look at your photos. Wow! You should definitely NOT feel unmanly.
Aside from all the medical possibilities, I hope that in an overpopulated, messed up world that at 25 years old Zeradios has a stable job and some money set aside, a stable relationship (which I doubt he does if he is truly worried that she will move on and find someone else to impregnate her) and a commitment to a child for at least 18 years. The ability to create life should NEVER define whether a man is "manly" or not.