What's the difference? OK, just joking. I love sex in the morning. Especially if I'm asleep and my lover starts sucking my cock. I'm half awake with an almost painfully erect cock and she straddles me and starts fucking while I wake up. That always leads to a fantastic climax for both.

On the other hand, after a long days work and a slow build up by seeing your lover lounge around in the evening and slowly get undressed for bed, I'm the one who goes down on her and gets her wet and ready. Then I ride her to orgasm and then my own. We fall asleep spent and satisfied.

Which is best? Morning sex is best in the morning and nighttime sex is best at night. And of course, there's sex in the middle of the day, in the car, at the beach, .... Good question.

Set the alarm for halfway between her bed-time and your morning horny time.

(btw, men get erections repeatedly during each night, in Rapid Eye Movement sleep. You seem to be awaking during one of those periods.)

I agree - do both.... that way you both get to compromise - with benefits

From Matt's Wife: I agree, do both. It works well for us

just do both !