why be in a relationship specifically a married one if you're going to cheat
By #164428 at 19,Oct,11 04:39
In my case, read above.
By #164428 at 19,Oct,11 04:58
Oh, duh. I didn't occur to me that you said this! You did comment above favorably. I'm really tired!
By #135959 at 19,Oct,11 13:28
It's ok
By #59855 at 18,Oct,11 16:33
From Matt's Wife: Sorry but cheating is an indicator of poor character
By #164428 at 18,Oct,11 16:55
In most cases, I have to agree. I'm not saying this to rationalize, but my husband and I need to divorce, but due to economic and health issues, it hasn't been possible yet. We live solely as roommates and spend little time together. My boyfriend is in a similar situation. We found each other and fell in love. We do plan to marry when our divorces are final. I imagine there's more of these situations in bad economic times.
I just finished a good book, "When Good People Have Affairs" (forget subtitle). A lot of people have affairs for a lot of different reasons, and most agonize over the choices. Most aren't players who just want to score or do it for the thrill or whatnot.
Never thought I'd be in this situation, but, alas, here I am.
By #59855 at 19,Oct,11 03:22
From Matt's Wife: What you have described is not cheating nor an affair, your marriage is essentially over in a mutual way
By #135959 at 19,Oct,11 03:40
I agree I had an aunt and uncle in the same situation
I just finished a good book, "When Good People Have Affairs" (forget subtitle). A lot of people have affairs for a lot of different reasons, and most agonize over the choices. Most aren't players who just want to score or do it for the thrill or whatnot.
Never thought I'd be in this situation, but, alas, here I am.