Need sex tips!!

By #339790 at 27,Nov,13 21:37

Is he "warming up the oven before he puts the bread in to cook?" If not he needs to tease you at least 15-20 mins and then lick and love on the pussy and all the surrounding area for another half hour...I like to make the gal beg for me to stop and fuck her fast and hard! MOST guys do not realize the hotter that a guy gets the gal the better she will fuck!!! I learned this through much trial and error...NOT all women...well, not any 2 women like the exact same thing. A man has to "Hone" his skill to pay attention to what makes a woman do different things. If I play with a gal for 5 or 10 mins and do not start feeling her tense up and moan....wiggle herself around and start thrusting her cunt into my face/hand I know I must change my tactic, method etc...I have to pay attention to her. Many women have told me that they wish their husband or BF could make them cum like they did with me...It is very typical when I am with women...I hear the same thing from them...he doesn't pay attention to my needs, he jumps on, get off and then rolls over to ****...Shit guys! You wanna make a gal WANT to FUCK you and cum all over you don't you? You want her to CUM TO YOU whenever she's all hot and horny wanting some more of that good "luvin" you gave her the last time? Well, it is just like anything...If you do it right it takes effort on your part!!! Same way with you gals out there...the old man is not doing what you want? you gotta pay attention to him, warm him up and tease him all through the evening or better yet the day so he will 'bout have the Blue Balls by the time you're ready to spread them legs. No one man is the same...what works for one guy won't work for all of 'em...you gotta pay attention to how they react to what your doing! Any of you gals need a little help PM me...guys want some advice PM me too! Anything I can do to help!

By #434203 at 30,Nov,13 15:37

Well, I love giving oral.. I enjoy it way more than receiving. So usually I'll start on him, because it gets me wet. I'm confused, because typically I'm that lady who will see a nude scene on TV, and instantly I'm wanting to go to the bedroom. I don't know if it's me or if it's him. Haha.. There's so much that I want to do to him.. But I'm afraid to do too much to him prior to sex, because I don't want to overly excite him. He already gets off really quickly. Though he has been doing a lot to avoid such. And, he's been trying to change things up a little. It's not that he doesn't want to, he just doesn't know how. He's 28, so I'm actually surprised by this fact, but he's trying. Thanks!

By slipper at 27,Nov,13 21:22 other posts of slipper

What is NOT happening that you want to, or what is that you don't??? Be honest with yourself... and him!!!

By #301038 at 24,Nov,13 08:43

Does he turn you on? Sometimes, when the chemistry is off, it's just not happening.

I found that a lot of women think that it's up to the guy to satisfy her, and there is nothing she can do. But unlike guys, who get satisfaction mostly from the same things, every single woman is unique, and it's hard for the man, to figure out what that particular woman wants and needs to achieve satisfaction from sex.

Maybe he is just not that experienced and if you want to be loved a certain way, you got to show him what exactly you want. Choose positions where you have more control and switch positions often. Pick a soundtrack that matches the rhythm you want to follow.

Look through some porn, pick what you like and play it while you have sex to give him a hint of you want. Or just openly tell him that you want to try THAT. Don't be afraid to guide him and tell him what and how to do.

Also, an easy way to make a guy last longer is to make him cum prior to penetrative sex. Just make sure that you give him some time to recharge before getting to it. I suggest riding his face in the meanwhile, not to waste any time. Some men need just couple of minutes, while others could use an hour and some just can go once a day.
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By #434203 at 25,Nov,13 14:32

It's just weird. I'll get a little wet (but stay mostly dry) and I'll start drying up unless he teases me (which he doesn't do)..
I almost always start out giving him oral (because it turns me on to do so). But I'm afraid to go all out on him, because I don't want him to get off in my mouth first thing, again... I'd at least like to taste my own juices! lol

I've tried guiding him, I'm still working on it.. He's finally figured out how to finger me mostly to my liking. (I don't like my clit rubbed, I guess that's unusual).
The porn was an idea, but he doesn't like seeing other guys. He likes lesbian porn. I like threesomes, but lesbian porn gets boring after a moment and does nothing for me.
I haven't gotten off in 4 days... and we finally had sex and I got off once. This is really frustrating me. I've just never had this issue. No matter what I have tried... and I keep telling him to tease me. (smack my lovely with his cock)... and he doesn't think about it during. I portray a certain leadership in directing him, but I'm trying to help him figure things out as well. I've brought up toys.. and he acted offended/bothered. But it is an open option. Frankly, I'm wondering if lubricant may help me get started... but I
I've always made lots of my own, so really not enjoying that idea. Thanks!!

By #301038 at 25,Nov,13 17:00

it's clear to me, that you get turned on when teased, and he is not getting him. Either he gets it or finds something else that he can do to satisfy you.

It just so happens, that a lot of women tend to cling to the way they get pleasure, programming themselves to respond to only one way of stimulation. You see, women either learn on their own or get taught how to receive pleasure. Whatever that was, is now what she expects to get in order to receive pleasure, until something happens and she learns to do it the other way. It could be a small thing, could be something huge. For example, with one of my ex bf's I needed a finger in the ass, two in the vag and sucking and flickering of the clit, with my first husband I needed him to call me a slut, a bitch and a slap on my butt, a dick in my ass and some porn on screen. Then I had a jungle fever, and all I wanted was a big black cock on a super tall caramel dude, preferably being fucked standing from behind, wearing high heels, and he had to be not only tall, caramel and with huge dick, but also smart and without any tattoos.

So, You either get over the teasing or get someone who knows how to tease you just right.

By #434203 at 25,Nov,13 17:21

It's just one of those things. -Some men can do me in without teasing. It's a guaranteed orgasm otherwise. Oh well, I'll get it figured out. Thanks for the input.

By #301038 at 26,Nov,13 02:26

I'm sorry I couldn't help more.

Are you attracted to that guy? How is the chemistry between you two?

By #434203 at 27,Nov,13 13:12

It's quite alright, thanks for trying!! Emotionally/nonsexually -physically it's all good. Or else, I wouldn't worry about it.

By #358797 at 24,Nov,13 04:53

Use your mouth! Tell him he sucks in the sack and if you don't start getting off you'll trade him in for a newer model. Lol.

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