Would it be a mistake or good that any who join here would be required to hold up a paper that clearly shows reference to the site ( SYD, SYC or similar ) so we have some indication that a guy, girl or couple are not for the most part faking it. I know it's not a perfect solution but if we would get this and match with other pictures in their albums it would be a start. Just a suggestion

ps. no facial picture requirement.