I just let them accumulate for however long I am hanging out on the site, and right before I log off, I say a quick thank you for compliments. I don't always have the time to chat with every person that contacts me.

Any messages that are like "I'm gonna fuck you till you're walking funny", and the like get ignored unless I'm in a mood to entertain that(and I'm usually not).

Messages that are disrespectful, hateful, derogatory, etc. result in my banning the sender and/or deleting any comments on my page and pics from that person. I've only gotten maybe 3 of those since I've joined this site, and I just chalk that up to ignorance and poor social skills of the sender.

If someone is just being plain old annoying then I also ban, but that's a rarity. Usually ignoring them completely is pretty effective.

just come back to this site after a short break.first thing is get a message saying "hi there please feel free to come check out my huge cock pics etc etc etc".next what do you think of my fat cock.next visit my page and leave a comment on my fat cock.next what do you think of my cock.next please view my page love to know what you think of my big fat cock etc etc etc all in the first five mins give a girl a chance boy if i want to view you cocks then i will i did join a site called show your dick/cunt after all.

Ladies,
I do understand your frustrations and truly sympathize with the relentless bombardment you receive from the mindless testosterone fueled retarded masses.

However...

Primitively, we both suffer from very different needs/desires.

The male needs sexual gratification by any means necessary. We would seriously fuck the shit out of a tree stump if we thought it would feel good.

The female does not have any desire to fuck a tree stump.

Ever.

Hence...the problem.

What to do...

Same problem here.. Basically I only answer nice messages or creative ones, not the ones that say "nice pussy" or "can I fuck you?". Those are not going to be interesting conversations. Some guys find it rude or disrespectful, but you can kinda expect that one would have better things to do than check on messages and answering ones every 2 minutes. And to be perfectly honest I'm just still here to talk to friends I've already made, perv on other peoples pics and talk in the forum, not talk to random strangers (:

From Matt's Wife: This site does not give me confidence

nothing worse than being bombarded with PMS - am I right fellas? Fellas?

Thanks all of you , I am glad that we all experience much the same, appreciate the tips . I too am grateful for all positive comments and of course thats part of the reason I joined .

As someone you have taken the time and trouble to chat to, and knowing what a gracious and sympathetic (and attractive) lady you are, I understand your predicament entirely. Not surprisingly, as a man I don't receive too many PMs or even comments in any given day, but I do feel honour-bound to answer as many as I possibly can – with the exception of the obviously crass ones. I think you just have to be a bit selfish sometimes, and have some 'me' time

From Matt's Wife: I am willing to bet no one gets more pm's than I do and I answer them all.

I am always respectful to everyone. I **** how pignacious all these people can be.