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Started by #497672 at 23,Oct,15 12:05
I often have nights when I wake and cannot fall into slumber again. I have tried relaxation methods to no avail, but have found that if I get my cock erect and continue wanking I get two benefits.
Wanking helps me to switch of my busy mind and even if I don't cum, when I stop, my body relaxes and I soon fall asleep.
Has anyone else either tried this or found that it works?
Yeah. In my younger days a couple of wanks in bed would send me off to ****. These days my wife complains that five minutes after I've filled her I'm fast asleep. If I'm on a business trip in a hotel a whisky and a wank never fails to get me a good nights ****. I think it's an evolutionary thing to put us guys to **** after sex otherwise we'd shag our women to death!
By #496814 at 21,Oct,16 08:41
The designated part of the brain for sex is located next to sleeping. There are rumours that yawning has an evolutionary link to sex (making court). Some antidepressants can result in spontaneous orgasms and insomnia as side effects.
By #497672 at 26,Oct,16 16:01
I'm with you. I always fall asleep after we have had sex. When I was away in hotels without my wife, I always took some pin-up books and wanked off to them before I went to ****.
By #519017 at 26,Oct,16 19:52
Me too, though I usually brought a memory stick loaded with porn for my laptop. In some countries like Germany there are free late night porn channels in the hotel TV and I've often jacked a couple times watching them before a last one in bed in the small hours to put me happily to ****.
By #497672 at 27,Oct,16 19:38
It is nice to hear we are not alone. It seems a way of going to **** just like at home after sex with your wife. We have sex every night before going to ****.
By #497672 at 26,Oct,16 16:11
as a follow up to my comments. When I wrote this post, I was frantic. I had been on sleeping tables for about 18 years, which started when I had them for gall-stone pain. I had stopped taking them some 9 months before my post, but still I was suffering from insomnia. I mentioned that I was starting a "mindfulness" course. It is about 9 months since I finished it. I now do at least 15 minutes of meditation each day. I **** at least 7 hours - not always uninterrupted, but who does. the thing is I now know how to go back to **** again, and I do (without wanking). To do the course is tough and needs determination, but it certainly works and I can recommend it.
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By #485312 at 21,Oct,16 07:59
l don't have a cock, but masturbating certainly does put me to ****. it does stop my brain from thinking and relaxes me when lm finished *Lix*
By #497672 at 26,Oct,16 16:03
I find the same. Even though my brain won't stop to let me go asleep, starting to wank switches off all thoughts allowing **** to follow.
Definitely helps me when I can't ****. Whether it be from stress, restlessness, or just having a boner calling me that just won't go away. Pleasuring myself for awhile and ending with an amazing orgasm will put me right out every time
Yeah I jerk off a lot at night. Right before I go to ****. It's the perfect sleeping pill!
By #497672 at 15,Nov,15 11:46
It certainly is.
By #497672 at 11,Nov,15 09:18
Like everyone else who posted, I found wanking off let me fall asleep again. But I worried about what would happen when it didn't work.
To help others, I must report something which I have found helpful. Via an online search I found a free 8 week "mindfulness" course.
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I am into my second week and have already found I can relax when I wake and can fall asleep again. I recommend the course to anyone, though it does require a lot of practice, reading, watching videos and keeping to a schedule, but it seems worth it.
its work for me not only for have a nice ****,i like to doing it some morning ,so i have a nice relaxing day too
By #497672 at 29,Oct,15 16:48
A nice nighttime jerk off seems to relax us all, though I never thought of creating a relaxing day. Good idea. I shall try it.
By #496814 at 29,Oct,15 00:46
I do ovcasionally masturbate for practical reasons more than horniness. Sometimes to help me fall asleep, sometimes to get rid of my morning wood so I can have a leak, this among other practical reasons.
It usually works to fall asleep easily.
By #497672 at 29,Oct,15 16:45
Yes, sometimes I wake up stiff, though I don't have time then to relieve the stiffness, but even last night I needed a bit of cocky relief to help me go back to the land of nod.
By #64328 at 26,Oct,15 17:12
If i have trouble falling asleep jacking off is always the best thing to help me. After i cum im very relaxed
By #497672 at 27,Oct,15 18:54
I have the same experience, thank goodness.
By #449532 at 26,Oct,15 17:13
works for me too.
By #497672 at 27,Oct,15 18:53
Nice pics "retireddude". Are you enjoying your retirement? I hope so. I'm pleased to find that there are lots of us of the same mind. Thank goodness we have a cock and it work - from your pics your's certainly does.
By #455846 at 25,Oct,15 21:16
definately it s awesome to play with my dick untill I fall a s l e e p , even if it s not erect. Sometimes I just fall asleep but other times, most nights because I s l e e p naked its there to be playede with.
On the other hand sometimes it wakes me up when I get erections at night which I play with in my s l e e p or just feel myself 'pitch tents ' in my s l e e p as imy penis pushes up against my duvet and lifts it .
A lot of times I feel the need to s l e e p so I wank it off untill I cum (sometimes I go to the bathroom or sometimes just put on a condom) and have an awesome s l e e p after that.
By #497672 at 26,Oct,15 09:14
there are certainly lots of advantages to having a cock Ramil1. My wife and I go to bed naked (we always have) and fuck every night before we go to ****. I use a baby's sock over my cock to keep the bedclothes clean.
By #455846 at 26,Oct,15 21:56
yes my partner wont let me fall as l e e p with any shorts or anything on and i have really got to like sleeping naked as she does, but she needs more blankets /or thicker duvet and i tend to want thinner . i get very warm at night sleeping. i feel it also has benifits and obviously helps as you say with getting it on befor bed
By #497672 at 27,Oct,15 18:49
It sounds like your partner has things right. We have slept naked since our first night after marriage and, apart from illness, have had sex every night. I hope you do too.
By #499975 at 26,Oct,15 12:00
yes, works for me. Do this pretty much every time I'm on the road
By #497672 at 26,Oct,15 14:33
It strikes me, it is a good job we have a cock, it comes in handy so often. We insomniacs all seem to have the same idea.
By #496816 at 26,Oct,15 12:10
Yes, for sure. I've been insomniac a few times, and a good wank generally works a treat. When I get really worried is when I'm starting a second stroke off, because the first didn't do it Trying to exhaust myself to ****... --------------------------------------- added after 33 seconds
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By #497672 at 26,Oct,15 14:28
You're right. Sometimes I have found that the first wank did'nt work and then you worry. The trouble is you are too exhausted or your cock decides it doesn't want to play so soon after the last. You ask why did I use the word "slumber". Because when I used "****" it was starred out "****" like that.
By #497672 at 25,Oct,15 12:52
Thanks guys. it's nice to find others who have the same in common. It's good that we have found yet another advantage in having a cock and that it is so helpful when nights seem to be so long. I am still a bit worried though about using my cock most nights, in case it becomes a habit that I cannot **** at all through the night without a cock massage. Anyway, best wishes to you all and I hope lots of nights of uninterrupted ****.
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To help others, I must report something which I have found helpful. Via an online search I found a free 8 week "mindfulness" course.
only registered users can see external links
I am into my second week and have already found I can relax when I wake and can fall asleep again. I recommend the course to anyone, though it does require a lot of practice, reading, watching videos and keeping to a schedule, but it seems worth it.
It usually works to fall asleep easily.
On the other hand sometimes it wakes me up when I get erections at night which I play with in my s l e e p or just feel myself 'pitch tents ' in my s l e e p as imy penis pushes up against my duvet and lifts it .
A lot of times I feel the need to s l e e p so I wank it off untill I cum (sometimes I go to the bathroom or sometimes just put on a condom) and have an awesome s l e e p after that.
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