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Started by Tobes at 10,Apr,12 23:04  other posts of Tobes
I posted this exact question on yahoo:-

Is it strange to just what to give gay sex a go?
First of all, I'm 32 and straight but I just really want to try it with a guy just to see if it's fun. I watch a lot of gay porn and would really like to act out some of the things they do. I've been emailing this guy for a while now with a view to meeting up and trying it out.

I'd really like to do it but once it's done I can never go back and change it. Should I do it or is it something I will regret?

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By #572692 at 04,Dec,18 00:46
Honestly I say go for it, you'll regret it if you don't, I believe all straight guys should try something out with another guy at least once to broaden their sexual horizon, same with girls! Experimenting with another man doesn't make you gay, sex is sex! If getting with a guy for a night of fun ends with you finding out you're bisexual then great, more sex for you with more people than ever before! If it ends with you staying straight then there's nothing wrong with that, at least you can say you tried!
By Scorpio69 at 04,Dec,18 04:26 other posts of Scorpio69 
This post is over 6 years old, and the member hasn't been on in more than 30 days... Perhaps you should be asking how it went.
By #572692 at 04,Dec,18 13:16
Oof didn't even realise with all these recent replies

By 61-69 at 04,Dec,18 04:18 other posts of 61-69 
What's the worst that could happen? Just go for it. Like tasting new food for the first time, if you like it, you have it again, if you don't, you don't. I was 41 when I had my first same sex encounter, in a 3some with a girl. I swore then I wasn't going to die wondering and have dipped my toes in the water several times since then. It doesn't change who you are at all.
By Scorpio69 at 04,Dec,18 04:28 other posts of Scorpio69 
This here post is over 6 years old, & the member hasn't been on in more than 30 days... Perhaps you should be asking how it went?
By 61-69 at 04,Dec,18 05:02 other posts of 61-69 
Ok, but it's still a question for a lot of people, no harm in answering.
By Scorpio69 at 04,Dec,18 12:06 other posts of Scorpio69 
Indeed! I was likewise trying to be helpful 😉

By Scorpio69 at 04,Dec,18 04:30 other posts of Scorpio69 
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By #562152 at 04,Dec,18 00:33
Before you decide you have to answer another question. Are you ready to see yourself as bisexual or homosexual? Many straight guys try it out. Some like it and want more. For some it's enough to have had the opportunity. Either way, you can no longer be considered straight. That shouldn't stop you. Straight, gay, bisexual, these are just words. You'll be the same guy the day after as the day before, only with more heart. No regrets, baby,,,but,,,before you reach that point, remember the first question,

By allin4oral at 19,Oct,18 10:23 other posts of allin4oral 
which is worse, regretting something you did OR regretting something you did not do?
By bella! at 19,Oct,18 10:33 other posts of bella! 

By Scottbill69 at 14,Oct,18 08:18 other posts of Scottbill69 
To be honest it sounds like if you don't , you will regretit later in life .guys usually give much better blow job than girls so ask this guy if you will let you be top . Im sure you will have fun and I can assure you just watching another guy shoot his load is exciting

By XrisXross9in at 13,Oct,18 21:31 other posts of XrisXross9in 
You won't know until you give it a go and frankly it will always stay in the back of your mind then. Go for it. Get a a buddy you can trust and are comfortable with that would be willing. It doesn't make either of you gay. It's experimental. That's why most teen boys do it. In order to see whether it's for them or not... Think about it. What have you got to loose really?

By cumonme1 at 07,Oct,18 07:36 other posts of cumonme1 
Try it if you find out that you don't like it you never have to do it again.

By nolongercurious at 02,Oct,18 18:46 other posts of nolongercurious 
Trying gay sex does not change you into something "you can never go back from". You are still the same person and can decide to do it again or not do it again.
By Tobes at 03,Oct,18 11:22 other posts of Tobes 
Thanks for the comment
Since writing this thread I have now had gay meetups with two different guys. I love it and would do it again. I don't know why I was worried and I don't regret it one bit. And you were right; it certainly doesn't change who you are one bit. You feel fulfilled because you have filled that gap!
By spermkiss at 03,Oct,18 15:43 other posts of spermkiss 
Good for you, man. As you have discovered, your sexual orientation is hard wired into your brain and cannot be changed by doing a little switch hitting. My fling with a lady did not turn me straight and your flings with gentlemen didn't turn you gay. And now you feel you feel as though you're a better man for having done it. Just as I predicted in my first post on this thread back in April, 2012.

You might want to pull up my Forum post "Things Every Man Should Do at Least Once" and have a look. An easy way to do this is to click on "other posts" next to my name.
By Tobes at 04,Oct,18 09:54 other posts of Tobes 
I sure do feel a better man thanks. I actually feel blessed for being capable of enjoying sex with both genders. There's actually a couple of pics from one of my meets on my profile. I'll have a look at your forum post a little later. Thanks.

By jsmythe73 at 06,Oct,18 23:54 other posts of jsmythe73 
I **** labels, first of all, as they seem to divide, and exclude, and conflict! You can be who you are, and just like, what you like, and share that with those you like. It is nobody's business, but yours, and the ones you share with!!
I had the same feeling when a GF suggested role-playing, meaning her with a strap-on, fucking me.
The only thing that changed, was that I relaxed, and stopped believing the nonsense I was told, growing up!
'Playing' with a lady, and her toy, and liking it isn't going to 'make you gay', and I talked with some gay friends, about it!!
Nothing wrong with being 'gay' and liking that, but it is also totally OK, to be straight, and sometimes like some role-reversal kind of things, with a woman, and toys!

By JustWill at 04,Oct,18 12:25 other posts of JustWill 
You can't "go back and change" ANYTHING you do in life.
You also can't go back and do ANYTHING you passed up the chance to do.
That's how life works.
The question is: Do you want to regret a thing you've done, or regret a thing you didn't do?

By knewbi at 03,Oct,18 11:39 other posts of knewbi 
If you really want to try it you need to go for it. If you do not you will live a life always wondering. Give it a go and see how you feel. If you like it you can continue to have it. If you do not, at least you tried and will know. That was my approach.
By Tobes at 04,Oct,18 09:58 other posts of Tobes 
Agreed. Everyone who's curious needs to give it a go and, whether you like it or not, there's no shame in it. Something to be proud of in my opinion.

By slipper at 11,Apr,12 21:07 other posts of slipper 
I've a notion that for you if it's something you have to ask... you already know the answer.

By kneelsoften at 11,Apr,12 11:45 other posts of kneelsoften 
Anything that makes you guilty or feel bad about giving another consenting adult sexual pleasure is all about society.

Homosexual acts are common throughout nature and humanity.

I think sucking cock is one of the best things in the world and I'm glad I did. If you don't like it that does NOT make you a cocksucker. I know because I AM a cocksucker.

Relax and have fun. Attaching any religious meaning to sex is mental illness and abuse.

By #147052 at 11,Apr,12 10:05
If it is something that you want to do, then do it. Too many moralistic people in this world that try to screw it up for everyone else. If it feels good and does no harm to others, then I don't see where it is any of anyone's business.

By spermkiss at 10,Apr,12 23:27 other posts of spermkiss 
Do it! It has been my experience that people regret more the things they didn't do than the things they did do. Besides, who's going to know except you and the guy you did it with?

For what it's worth, I'm as gay as they come and when I was about your age I had an affair with a woman. She knew I was gay and was totally cool with it. It was very much an open relationship. As I was fond of saying at the time, she was screwing other men and so was I. In our circle of friends, men and women, gay and straight, we were regarded as a couple, but I never stopped thinking of myself as a gay man while the affair was happening. I did give me a feeling of comaraderie with straight men that I never had before. I think I'm a better man for having had that affair. And you'll be a better man for giving gay sex a try. Go for it.

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