Recent Posts of member spermkiss


Short Pants -- An Encouraging Sign 02,Jun,18 19:09
"Relationship Goals", "Cute Couple", "Perfect Couple" etc. 24,Dec,16 13:12
The King of Thailand 14,Oct,16 14:33
Norway 12,Jul,16 17:06
Hong Kong 19,Oct,15 12:24
Gay Men in Military Service 24,Sep,15 14:05
Victory in Ireland 23,May,15 23:04
A Note about routemaster 29,Mar,15 14:18
The Evolution of Gay Sex 07,Mar,15 19:16
Things Every Man Should Do at Least Once 19,Dec,12 19:34
A Heartwarming Story for Christmas 17,Dec,12 15:26
Same Sex Kissing 18,Apr,11 18:13
Fishing for Compliments on the Forum 23,Mar,11 01:28
A Note to Japanese Members of SYD 16,Mar,11 18:08
An Appeal for Civilized Conduct on the Forum 07,Dec,10 01:52
A message from spermkiss 30,Oct,10 14:01


By spermkiss at 17,Jan,20 17:32
Let's face it, men have their needs. One of those needs is to get a nut off with some regularity. For a straight man his first choice to shoot is probably in a pussy. But what if there are no pussies available? In that case he can turn to a male cocksucker.

And it's totally a win/win situation. The man gets oral service and he gets his nut off. What man doesn't like that? The cocksucker gets the excitement, pleasure, satisfaction and feeling of accomplishment from having brought another man to orgasmic climax. Plus he gets a nice, warm, creamy load of man juice.

Then there is butt fucking. That's not really my style, but I've done it. If a really hot straight guy wanted my ass, I'd be game. And of course there are lots of men out there who really enjoy taking it in the ass. Again, this is a win/win situation.

By spermkiss at 07,Jan,20 15:16
A major turn off. If a guy were to drop his pants and reveal that he was wearing ladies' panties, that would be an immediate deal killer, no matter how hot he was. Fortunately this has never happened to me. For what it's worth, from photos posted on this site and things I've seen on the internet and elsewhere, wearing ladies' lingerie seems to be a thing that straight guys do far more often than gay guys.

By spermkiss at 07,Jan,20 15:05
Exactly! I'm all for guys wearing sexy underpants, but it's got to be MEN's underpants.

By spermkiss at 03,Jan,20 12:19
Exactly. For those who enjoy being nude and enjoy showing off their nude body, being hairless takes nudity one step further. No clothes and no hair is as nude as one could possibly be.

By spermkiss at 01,Jan,20 15:46
Do it, man, I know you want too. You even say on your page that you're interested in both men and women.

By spermkiss at 01,Jan,20 15:40
I'm sure the cocksucker liked that. When a straight man gets oral service from a cocksucker it's a total win/win situation. The man gets oral service and gets his nut off. What man doesn't like that? And the cocksucker get the pleasure, satisfaction and feeling of accomplishment from having brought another man to climax. Plus he gets a warm, creamy load of man juice.

By spermkiss at 01,Jan,20 13:34
It sure is and it doesn't seem to be going away. 'Been stylish for more than three decades now.

By spermkiss at 01,Jan,20 13:30
Have an affair with a woman when I was in my early thirties and had been an out gay man for more than a decade. And we had several MMF three ways.

By spermkiss at 01,Jan,20 13:27
Isn't that HOT? It's the ultimate in anonymous sex because both participants not only don't know each other, they cannot even see each other. It's the most pure sex because there is no relationship baggage. All the cocksucker knows is that there is a man who wants to get his nut off on the other side. All the man knows is that there is a cocksucker who wants a load of sperm on the other side.

By spermkiss at 12,Dec,19 11:45
What a lovely family you had!

By spermkiss at 12,Dec,19 11:43
There's also the very real possibility that the cocksucker doesn't want reciprocation. Sucking off a man who is totally straight and who wouldn't dream of sucking a cock himself is a Major Fantasy for a lot of cocksuckers. If the man being sucked were to switch roles it would destroy that fantasy.

Or he might be engaging in a marathon cocksucking session to see how many men he can bring to climax and how many loads of sperm he can swallow. ('Been there, done that.) See my first post on this topic on Aug 18, 2019 for a discussion of this.

By spermkiss at 08,Dec,19 11:14
I'm totally hairless from the neck down, permanently with laser hair removal. I love it.

By spermkiss at 08,Dec,19 11:11
That's an entirely personal question that only you can answer. Many men find it rewarding, fulfilling, satisfying and of course exciting to put their entire nude body including their face on public display for the whole world to see. If you're one of those men, go for it.

By spermkiss at 28,Nov,19 14:27
Man, you hit the nail on the head. Is is indeed more fun to be the sucker. There is nothing, absolutely nothing, as exciting, rewarding, fulfilling and satisfying as sucking another man off. And when it's done in the totally anonymous setting as thru a glory hole it's that much better. As you put it "It's just me and the cock." Real men suck cocks.

By spermkiss at 26,Nov,19 17:17
Glory hole sex is HOT. I've been the cocksucker and the man being sucked dozens of times. It's the ultimate in anonymous sex as the participants know almost nothing about each other and they cannot even see each other. All the cocksucker knows is that there is a man who wants to get his nut off on the other side. All the man knows is that there is a cocksucker who wants to give oral service and take a load of jizz on the other side. For this reason it's pure sex. Sex that is happening solely because the participants want sex and nothing else. No baggage about being an expression of a Meaningful Relationship.

As for who participates, the cocksuckers are mostly gay men who like to give oral service, though some are men who are nominally straight but want to take a walk on the wild side. They like the anonymity that the glory hole provides. The men being sucked are horny men who want to get a nut off. Many of them are straight so again they like the anonymity.

For these reasons the sex is mostly one sided. But sometimes it goes both ways. The man will put his dick thru and get serviced, then he'll drop to his knees and service the man who just serviced him.

By spermkiss at 13,Nov,19 10:30
No I cannot. With cut guys, especially those with a large "helmet head" glans it's often easy (and nice) to see the glans outline thru the fabric. It's harder to tell with intact guys. I can, however, see the outline of the vein along the top side of your dick. Hot.

By spermkiss at 12,Nov,19 12:22
'Just went to your page and, man, you really do have a fine glans. So show it off!

By spermkiss at 12,Nov,19 12:20
And that's exactly why men should wear swim briefs (aka Speedos), to show off their stuff and their circumcision (or lack of same) without being nude. But of course, actually being nude is best.

By spermkiss at 12,Nov,19 12:15
What man hasn't?

And no, it doesn't make a straight man gay if he does. For that matter it doesn't necessarily make him gay if he sucks another man's dick. There are a lot of straight cocksuckers out there.

By spermkiss at 04,Nov,19 11:49
Manscaping has been around now for well over thirty years now and it doesn't seem to be going away. So at this point it's safe to say that it's more than a fad. A trend perhaps.

By spermkiss at 03,Nov,19 12:21
About all I can say is try it and find out. A whole body shave is something every man should do at least once in his life, just to see what it's like. And you're not doing anything permanent; it will grow back.

Why do I do it? Three reasons: how it feels, how it looks and how it makes me feel about myself.

To elaborate. First on how it feels as this is the least subjective. IT FEELS GREAT, STUNNINGLY SENSUAL.

More subjective is how it looks. I just plain like the hairless look. Others may not.

Finally how I feel being hairless. I like being nude. Being nude and hairless is as nude as one can be. It takes nudity one step further. Any man who likes showing himself off here on SYD should understand that.

By spermkiss at 26,Oct,19 11:49
No, of course he's not right! Cocksuckers have been sucking off straight guys since the beginning of mankind and it's a total win/win situation. The straight guy gets pleasurable oral service and he gets his nut off. The cocksucker gets the fun, satisfaction and the feeling of accomplishment of having brought another man to climax. And he gets a load of man juice. Both parties get something the like.

But every now and then some jackass comes along and says something like "Any man who lets another man suck his dick isn't really straight" and it scares off the straight guys. Fortunately they come back.

In my personal life I've had several suck buddies. These were straight men who didn't get as much sex as they'd like. They'd stop by for a visit, drop their pants and I'd kneel before them and give them oral service. By and large we had no other relationship besides the sex.

By spermkiss at 23,Oct,19 15:02
While I agree with your statement that it's polite not to wave your dick around, I very much disagree with your statement about people being grossed out by the sight of a dick.

Au contraire, the penis is the universally loved and admired sex organ. All men, I repeat ALL men, not just gay and bisexual men, like to look at other men's dicks. The popularity of this site proves that. Enjoying looking at dicks is a guy thing, not a gay thing.

By spermkiss at 23,Oct,19 14:50
Me too. While I don't like them totally rank, I also am not attracted to fresh from the shower and smelling of perfumed soap. Washed about three or four hours ago followed by vigorous activity to work up a good sweat to release a lot of male pheromone is just about right. 'Love that man musk.

By spermkiss at 05,Oct,19 12:53
It's been my experience that the small and slender 125 pounders often have jumbo dicks, while the big guys often have micros. But, hell, who cares. They're all fun to suck.

By spermkiss at 05,Oct,19 12:46
'Just went to your page, and yes, your dick is indeed small. But here's what you should do: Embrace your smallness, be proud of your dick and show it off. You can be assured that there are people who like small dicks and are fascinated in seeing one.

Here's what you should do.

In a men's room where the urinal is just a long trough, step right up, drop your pants and underpants (if you're wearing any) to mid-thigh, and do this with a certain flair and bravado. Then put your hands behind your back and do a hands free piss. That way every man at the urinal will get as good look.

At a locker room or changing room of a gym or swimming pool, take off your street clothes as soon as you enter. And again, as you drop your pants do NOT cringe and cower as if you were embarrassed. Instead do it with bravado as if you were unveiling the most spectacular penis in the world. Postpone putting on your gym clothes or swimwear as long as possible, but circulate about the room an socialize while nude, giving every man a good look at your little wonder. Seek out the man with the biggest dick and make friends with him so that you spend a lot of time next to him. That way everyone will be able to compare his jumbo with your micro.

And GET AN ERECTION in one of these semi-public places. That way everyone will see that your hard dick is indeed smaller than most soft dicks. And it will show that it excites you to show off you small dick.

Man, you can do these things. You've taken the first step by posting photos on this site. Now go farther. In closing I'll say what I often say to men with micros. Yes, the jumbo dicks get a lot of attention, but a man with a micro who has the balls to show it off and be proud of it is a bigger stud.
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As an addendum to these remarks, let me say that when choosing swimwear, don't even think about those long and loose swim shorts most men wear. Get yourself a swim brief (aka a Speedo), as brief as you can find. That way even when you are dressed for the beach or pool, everyone can tell from the small bulge in your crotch that you have a small dick. You have a small dick. Own that fact and be proud of it.

By spermkiss at 05,Oct,19 11:28
Yes, yes, yes! Sucking off multiple men while they all watch sounds really nice. It's a major bonus if they are all athletes.

By spermkiss at 29,Sep,19 13:49
Try it, man. Yes, sucking your buddy to climax is enormously satisfying because you get a real feeling of accomplishment knowing that you have brought him up and over the top and you are rewarded with his man juice, his essential male essence. He has given you a living product of his body.

But licking his asshole demonstrates a level of trust and intimacy that no other sex act does. One can easily argue that a man's asshole is the most intimate part of his body. After all, as soon as he drops his pants his dick and balls are out there for all to see. But his asshole is still tucked away out of sight between his butt cheeks. When you lick him there you are showing him that you trust that it is clean and ready. Do it. You'll be glad you did.

By spermkiss at 27,Sep,19 12:15
But of course! How could I forget that? The orgasmic climax and ejaculation is the highlight, the piece de resistance, of the entire cocksucking experience.

By spermkiss at 25,Sep,19 15:29
Good! If you're one of those lucky men who can climax from prostate stimulation and if your vibrating butt plug has a control you can put in your pocket, then put it in and go out in public. Find a nice hot person to talk with (man or woman, your choice) then turn it on while you chat. Leave it on until you do number three in your pants, all the while you're having your chat.

By spermkiss at 23,Sep,19 15:46
Well, you didn't get this exactly right. As a former resident of San Francisco I should know.

Believe it or not, but there was no statewide law against public nudity in California and to the best of my knowledge, there still is not. There were, however, some municipal laws. But San Francisco did not have one. It was not unusual to see totally nude people, men mostly, walking down the street.

But it got kind of out of hand. Certain parts of the city, Castro Street in particular, became crowded with nude men, many with their dicks fully erect and standing proud. There was a touching letter published in the San Francisco Chronicle from a man who took his young daughter to a movie at the Castro Theatre and they had to walk thru a crowd of nude men, many with their dick fully erect. He found that more than a little distressing.

So a municipal law was passed outlawing public nudity in most, but not all, situations. That law was proposed by a San Francisco Supervisor named -- wait for it -- Scott

There are some events were public nudity has a long tradition. In particular the Bay-to-Breakers foot race, the Gay Freedom Day Parade, the Polk Street Fair, the Folsom Street Fair, and the Castro Street Fair. Public nudity is still legal for these events.

By spermkiss at 22,Sep,19 12:55
Now get a vibrating butt plug and wear it in public.

By spermkiss at 21,Sep,19 15:23
It's time to move up to all day, every day.

By spermkiss at 21,Sep,19 12:37
When are we going to have a ruling that men can go bottomless in public?

By spermkiss at 19,Sep,19 12:34
Isn't that the pits? From the way you told this it seems as though he was enjoying showing off his cock and enjoying putting on a show for you (getting a boner, for crying out loud!), but as soon as you indicate you like the show he gets all huffy.

By spermkiss at 19,Sep,19 12:27
Exactly. I thought pretty much the same thing. It's awfully presumptuous of humans to presume alien life forms to have two sexes as we do.

By spermkiss at 18,Sep,19 12:10

By spermkiss at 17,Sep,19 20:20
Pictures of dicks, what else.

Interestingly, however, it's the exchange of thoughts and ideas with other members that keeps me here.

By spermkiss at 11,Sep,19 13:31
Sexual orientation is hard wired into one's brain so the answer is "Born that way".

Whether one acts on that orientation is another matter. So many anti-gay people (men mostly) claim that being gay is a choice gay men make. That is, of course, nonsense. Writer and sex advice columnist Dan Savage makes the interesting point that these homophobes very well might be deeply closeted gay men who made the choice NOT to act on their gay tendencies. Chapter 5 "The Choicer Challenge" in his book "American Savage" is must reading on this subject. Indeed, the entire book is must reading.

By spermkiss at 10,Sep,19 19:22
My favorite things to do (in order):

1. Suck cock
2. Suck cock
3. Suck cock
4. Lick ass
5. Suck cock
6. Get sucked
7. Suck cock
8. Have my ass licked
9. Suck cock

By the way, have I ever mentioned that I really, really, really like to suck cock?

By spermkiss at 09,Sep,19 13:05
It sure is. Playing with you own dick is fun, but playing with another man's dick is more fun.

By spermkiss at 04,Sep,19 13:59
What if jacking off were your job? Think about porn stars. They report to work, punch the clock, have ass and crotch makeup applied, and spend the work day showing off their goods and having sex. It's a tough job, but someone has to do it.

By spermkiss at 03,Sep,19 15:27
Ah, yes, crabs. Another good reason to go hairless.

By spermkiss at 03,Sep,19 12:30
I'm old enough to remember when body shaving was virtually unheard of except for competitive swimmers and bodybuilders. But as sex advice columnist Dan Savage has noted in his column, manscaping has been around for more than three decades now and it just doesn't seem to ever go out of style. It started with gay men (we're oh so often the trend setters) and now has gone totally mainstream. Many, perhaps most, men do it to a greater or lessor degree.

What do I like? I can definitely go either way. There are some really attractive pubic bushes posted on this Forum topic and on the general pages of the site. But a totally hairless male body is ultra hot. One of my favorites is smooth-cock. Interestingly, I find hairy legs really sexy. A guy with really hairy legs who has shaved of his pubic patch is sexy.

What have I done myself? I'm totally hairless from the neck down. Permanently, with laser hair removal. And I wear a beard.

What should other men do? Begin by pulling up my Forum post "Things Every Man Should Do at Least Once". One of the items is shave his entire body, just to see what it's like. Do it, guys. You're not doing anything permanent as the hair will grow back.

By spermkiss at 01,Sep,19 11:39
What do you want? Oral service to climax? Sure, I'll give you that, no strings attached. All you have to do is lean back, relax and enjoy it.

By spermkiss at 26,Aug,19 14:39
Thank you, thank you, thank you. If only more straight men thought like you and made their cocks available to cocksuckers.

By spermkiss at 26,Aug,19 14:36
"The feeling of his cock spasming as he comes is intoxicating." Spoken like a true cocksucker.

By spermkiss at 26,Aug,19 14:31
Of course you are right. For two (or more) buddies to swap blow jobs and to swallow each other's sperm is the ultimate in male bonding. But as you also point out, it's also quite satisfying when it goes just one way. And it's a total win/win situation. The man being sucked gets oral service and gets his nut off. What man doesn't like that? The cocksucker gets the pleasure and satisfaction of having brought another man to climax. And he gets a load of man juice.

By spermkiss at 24,Aug,19 11:26
The risk of being seen is a major part of the appeal of an outdoor shoot.

By spermkiss at 23,Aug,19 12:25
No matter how it's done, the most important part of cocksucking is to take the man all the way to climax and SWALLOW HIS LOAD.