Well, that's admin's rule.

You really cannot mean that.

For five days, voting has been almost deadlocked regarding the future of member #523495, pandorasbox. My goodness, today the vote was a plus 2 and in less than 12 hours, there were at least 3 more members that decided that the 4 year member had to go.

I would like to think that it is not happening.

You weren't one of his posse members, were you? At the time JohnS was here, no one dare vote ABUSE HAS NO GROUND.

Is that how you play horseshoes, too?

Take a stroll down memory lane and read JohnS's post from March 2016.

It's rather fun and funny to read JohnS's thoughts in the post that admin captured! Can you believe that JohnS got pissy because he felt "abused"? And as far as I'm concerned, the only thing unethical about the Evaluation Panel was that when he reported a member, he rounded up his posse of followers and the reported member was gone in a BLINK! HE/JohnS was the motivation behind the "freeze" voting option! Gosh, I remember the time that someone was reported for having a picture that was merely two high top sneakers, dropped pants and what appeared to be a wall that separated stalls in a washroom. Yeah, go figure, that was enough for JohnS to report them for deletion. And there was the time that he convinced another member to report a member because her mouth/lips made her look under 18 years of age. JohnS was a wack-job! Below, is an excerpt of his post.

"It is financially absurd to continue paying money to a website where I receive abuse and inappropriate comments, the review panel business was unethical and the catalyst for the decision to depart."

Hey, dgraff...JohnS was posting about his departure in March, 2016, NOT 2015. How good did you say your memory is?

Thank you. The fact remains, that even with your keen memory you aren't entirely certain what caused JohnS to want to depart from the site.

Since you are a new member, my guess is that you would like us to welcome you to the site.

Everybody say "hello" to Desibhabhi0908

As I said, I do not recall why he wanted to leave.

I DO remember that JohnS went on and on and posted in the Forum about needing to contact "his banker" for the purpose of deleting his profile. If I'm not mistaken, that was at a time that if you had a premium paid membership, you could not delete your profile without the assistance of admin. Example, to simplify it, if your 30 day premium membership expired on the 30th, you couldn't delete your profile on the 18th without the aid of admin. Maybe that had to do with people/members expecting a prorated refund, or something.

What I DO NOT remember is what caused JohnS to decide to leave so abruptly.

What Korean guy?

I don't recall that.

I thought this was REALLY funny!


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Clarify, what seems harsh?

When I hear the name, Devo, I immediately think of the song, Whip It, and the band wearing upside down, red flower pots on their head!

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Is that your nickname for Dev01 , "devo"?

Billy Joel, THE RIVER OF DREAMS

In the MIDDLE of the night
I go walking in my sleep
From the mountains of faith
To the river so deep
I must be looking for something
Something sacred I lost
But the river is wide
And it's too hard to cross
Even though I know the river is wide
I walk down every evening and I stand on the shore
I try to cross to the opposite side
So I can finally find out what I've been looking for
In the MIDDLE of the night
I go walking in my sleep
Through the valley of fear
To a river so deep
I've been searching for something
Taken out of my soul
Something I'd never lose
Something somebody stole
I don't know why I go walking at night
But now I'm tired and I don't want to walk anymore
I hope it doesn't take the rest of my life
Until I find what it is that I've been looking for
In the MIDDLE of the night
I go walking in my sleep
Through the jungle of doubt
To a river so deep
I know I'm searching for something
Something so undefined
That it can only be seen
By the eyes of the blind
In the MIDDLE of the night
I'm not sure about a life after this
God knows I've never been a spiritual man
Baptized by the fire, I wade into the river
That runs to the promised land
In the MIDDLE of the night
I go walking in my sleep
Through the desert of truth
To the river so deep
We all end in the ocean
We all start in the streams
We're all carried along
By the river of dreams
In the MIDDLE of the night

The word for Wednesday, February 24, MIDDLE

I'm sure you light things up in there, for sure.

Speaking of "site machinations" , I was welcoming new members yesterday evening and I came upon the STRANGEST comment posted on this member's wall. It read;

"can you do that again, it was a 1000 point bonus.. your bullshit just gained me many points, thanks a heap moron"

This comment piqued my interest and I wondered how any one member could receive a 1,000 point bonus. I've received some hefty point bonuses at the end of the day for "pics and/or actions", but they have never exceeded 400 points. I have never heard of a member receiving a "bonus" for another member's actions. I would ask if that is even possible, but apparently it is!

Amboy Dukes, JOURNEY TO THE CENTER OF THE MIND

Leave your cares behind come with us and find
The pleasures of a journey to the CENTER of the mind
Come along if you care
Come along if you dare
Take a ride to the land inside of your mind
Beyond the seas of thought beyond the realm of what
Across the streams of hopes and dreams where things are really not
Come along if you care
Come along if you dare
Take a ride to the land inside of your mind
But please realize you'll probably be surprised
For it's the land unknown to man
Where fantasy is fact
So if you can, please understand
You might not come back
Come along if you care
Come along if you dare
Take a ride to the land inside and you'll see
How happy life could be if all of mankind
Would take the time to journey to the CENTER of the mind
Would take the time to journey to the CENTER of the mind
CENTER of the mind
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Of course that spelling is acceptable.

Rolling Stones, 19th NERVOUS BREAKDOWN

You're the kind of person you meet at certain dismal, dull affairs
CENTER of a crowd, talking much too loud, running up and down the stairs
Well, it seems to me that you have seen too much in too few years
And though you've tried you just can't hide your eyes are edged with tears
You better stop, look around
Here it comes, here it comes, here it comes, here it comes
Here comes your nineteenth nervous breakdown
When you were a child you were treated kind
But you were never brought up right
You were always spoiled with a thousand toys but still you cried all night
Your mother who neglected you owes a million dollars tax
And your father's still perfecting ways of making sealing wax
You better stop, look around
Here it comes, here it comes, here it comes, here it comes
Here comes your nineteenth nervous breakdown
Oh, who's to blame, that girl's just insane
Well nothing I do don't seem to work
It only seems to make matters worse, oh please
You were still in school when you had that fool who really messed your mind
And after that you turned your back on treating people kind
On our first trip I tried so hard to rearrange your mind
But after a while I realized you were disarranging mine
You better stop, look around
Here it comes, here it comes, here it comes, here it comes
Here comes your nineteenth nervous breakdown
Oh, who's to blame, that girl's just insane
Well nothing I do don't seem to work
It only seems to make matters worse, oh please
When you were a child you were treated kind
But you were never brought up right
You were always spoiled with a thousand toys but still you cried all night
Your mother who neglected you owes a million dollars tax
And your father's still perfecting ways of making sealing wax
You better stop, look around
Here it comes
Here comes your nineteenth nervous breakdown
Here comes your nineteenth nervous breakdown
Here comes your nineteenth nervous breakdown
Here comes your nineteenth nervous breakdown
Here comes your nineteenth nervous breakdown
Here comes your nineteenth nervous breakdown
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The word for Wednesday, February 23, CENTER
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Um, it was Tuesday and no one caught my error!?

If you’re not part of the solution, you’re part of the problem. – Eldridge Cleaver


And only you can decide whether you want to be part of the solution or part of the problem. - bella!

Hey, it didn't take much for him to gift me a "pissing dog", "granny panties" and a "can of Spam"

I do remember that you posted pictures of snowfall a couple of years back. It totally messed up MY PERCEPTION of what Texas weather was like. If I recall correctly, you had a appreciable snowfall in November and we did not have snow yet in Michigan.

Do you have family and/or friends living in the southern areas? Are they safe and well?

He's weak minded and hateful. admin clearly warns members about visiting/entering chat rooms, SrCums is the perfect example of why the warning is there. SrCums was not in the room when I entered but arrived not too long after. While he was there, he called me a phony, a fuckup, a smelly rotten cunt, a Nazi loving fat cunt, no good fat cunt, etc. Yeah, I referred to him as a miserable, an angry, little man several times and I addressed him by his birth name, which seemed to piss him off even more. I probably should have called him "strange" because that he is, STRANGE!

How are our friends managing the bad weather in Texas? Maybe Jamie can bring us up to date with not only him, but his family and friends.

Thank you to the member who visited my page that destroyed the "gifts" that SrCums gave me.

It is obvious to me that SrCums is a nothing more than hateful and miserable man. He's the type of person, a cretin actually, that needs not get out of bed each morning. He brings nothing to the day/the world except his for shit attitude and negative vibes.

Stevie Wonder, FROM THE BOTTOM OF MY HEART

Me and my heart took a
Vow from the start and a
Vow to my heart I never break
Seasons may come and the
Seasons may go but know
Through every time and space
My love will always stay forever and always
From the bottom of my heart, I love you
I can say these words to you without DELAY
If you're wondering just how long I'll love you
Try forever that's how long I'll feel this way
Me and my heart got a promise from the stars
That they'd keep this love burning endlessly
People will come just as people will go
But know whatever life has in store
Through all eternity you will have my love for always
From the bottom of my heart, I love you
I can say these words to you without DELAY
If you're wondering just how long I'll love you
Try forever that's how long I'll feel this way
Hey, hey, yeah, yeah
From the bottom of my heart, I love you
I can say these words to you without DELAY
If you're wondering just how long I'll love you
Try forever that's how long I'll feel this way
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, baby
Try forever that's how long I'll feel this way
Yes, forever is how long my love will stay
Forever is a long, long time
But so what?
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That was the song I heard that inspired my choice of words.

Yeah, I can tell!

Oh, you are being so playful!

I watch a decent amount of YouTube and YouTube is as littered with commercial ads as what you would find on "free" TV.

I've seen a commercial for a new feminine contraceptive called Phexxi. It's similar to a spermicide whereby the woman will use this product vaginally, prior to intercourse. I must admit, many of the new drug products that are marketed make me want to laugh and shake my head from left to right. Many of these new drugs all but kill you but sound so "glamorous" and doable when the adverse side effects are presented by a woman with a pleasing voice! Yeah, no big thing, I don't care about that....

Anyway, back to Phexxi, here is a list of the MOST COMMON side effects;

• vaginal burning
• vaginal itching
• vaginal yeast infection
• urinary tract infection
• vaginal area discomfort
• bacterial vaginosis (fishy odor)
• vaginal discharge (gray or white discharge)

Women also reported genital discomfort, pain while urinating, and vaginal pain. Some male partners reported genital discomfort (including burning, itching, and pain)

Gee, that's something that I want my doctor to prescribe!

The word for Monday, February 22, DELAY.

I wonder if they are available for sale in Michigan?

Who is the manufacturer of sawdust tires?

Really? That's odd! Why not ask admin !?

Huh? Vita is verified, are you saying you cannot add your verification to his profile?

I've never heard of anything so odd.

sherryann, as much as I feel that leopoldij is a disgusting pig, that report is not going to go anywhere.

No, not totally correct. This is what admin says;

"What happens if you give a false verify?
- In case if it's discovered that verified member is actually a fake, all members who verified this member get their verified status revoked, their ability to verify permanently blocked and all verifications given by them in past to other members are also revoked which may cause further "chain reaction"."

I recall the situation but cannot remember the verified member's name... a SYC member sent him private pictures of herself, her face, and the SYD member uploaded the pictures as a form of blackmail. He was deleted and the members that verified him lost their privilege to verify others. I reached out to admin on behalf of one member and said we verify body parts, not their integrity. admin reconsidered and made the members whole, once again.
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I remember the member's name, it was jtmoney.

Are you part girl?

Here's another video from YouTube, the majority of the guys cannot do it although a couple of them can. They must be part girl, too.


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Good to know. I wonder if there will be any other members that will try and report back...

Ya know, I'm going to say this, if you or anyone else, cannot be OBJECTIVE when they vote on the Evaluation Panel, then they have no business voting.

How you personally feel about the member reported OR the member that did the reporting, should not factor into how you vote.

Please, do not talk like that.

Great TEAMWORK! Teamwork makes the dream work!