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Started by bella! at 20,May,18 18:36  other posts of bella!
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By bella! at 22,Jun,18 01:10 other posts of bella! 
Who has won a Free Theme Image Contest? Were you awarded any points along with the trophy?

By bella! at 21,Jun,18 00:04 other posts of bella! 
I saw this act on AGT and I think that quick change is even more impressive than magic. Just how the heck do they do it?

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By HotFuckerBoy at 21,Jun,18 06:05 other posts of HotFuckerBoy 
My GF and I were amazed by it too. I have no idea how they did that.

By Ravioli_Max at 21,Jun,18 06:22 other posts of Ravioli_Max 
Reminds me of this:

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By bella! at 21,Jun,18 15:22 other posts of bella! 
I didn't readily recognize what was happening....

By leopoldij at 21,Jun,18 10:17 other posts of leopoldij 
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A better version of it is to insert a nudie. Woman loses her clothes entirely and a few seconds later gets them back.

By Andthisisme at 21,Jun,18 11:21 other posts of Andthisisme 
Wow !! I would love to know how she does that. Very impressive indeed.

By Andthisisme at 21,Jun,18 11:28 other posts of Andthisisme 
Oops sorry double posted.

By veryshyguy at 22,Jun,18 00:28 other posts of veryshyguy 
Quite impressive!!

By bella! at 20,Jun,18 23:14 other posts of bella! 
Is it just me or has anyone noticed how boring, wordy OR who knows what the heck the contest is all about thatvsome of the titles to the Free Theme Image Contest are?
By veryshyguy at 22,Jun,18 00:24 other posts of veryshyguy 

By CountryCouple54 at 20,Jun,18 14:24 other posts of CountryCouple54 
Whoever you members were that just voted to delete in the Abuse Panel. Do your homework first. I was trying to freeze the account for 24 hours and within seconds, 3 of you voted. He was a 5 year member, with 7 pages of his own pics. Yes I understand he had 2 pics of another female member that he posted. She said he was not responding to her request. That's because he hadn't been online in 10 days. She could have private messaged Administration and asked him to remove her 2 pics without deleting a 5 year member. The guy hadn't been online in 10 days how could he have a chance to respond. As well, the said member who made the report had been deleted a year ago for posting several internet pics of a Brazilian model under a waterfall. Those 2 pics he had on his page are not visible on her main page. Did anyone think that she wanted them removed right away because they were fake as well. Damn it people slow down and think.
By lanser1026 at 20,Jun,18 14:39 other posts of lanser1026 
Who was deleted? I can't see the abuse panel. I think you have to be verified or be a paying member.

By bella! at 20,Jun,18 15:47 other posts of bella! 
WOW! Who was deleted, CountryCouple54? Perhaps admin can give you an idea if you can't recall.
By CountryCouple54 at 20,Jun,18 16:34 other posts of CountryCouple54 
I don't recall. But the reporting member was bla456 who was deleted before as bla123

By bella! at 20,Jun,18 16:29 other posts of bella! 
Yeah, the new alert button that admin administered has got these new cowboys and cowgirls voting really quickly. It's like they think; "Because so-and-so was reported, it must be true, so why should I think any harder about it?" It's like they're feeling their oats and they're happy they moved from the holiday's table and sitting with the grownups, yet they still think like a

By Andthisisme at 21,Jun,18 11:32 other posts of Andthisisme 
I always look at a reported members profile and if they have not been online since the report was posted or any message sent to them I would generally not vote to delete if the infringement is as minor as you describe. Now if the profile were full of 'reportable' images that would be different.
Sadly not every voting member tkaes the time to 'think'.

By Levigun at 21,Jun,18 10:28 other posts of Levigun 

Does anyone like what they see?

By lanser1026 at 21,Jun,18 09:42 other posts of lanser1026 
I'd like to see a notice that a new thread was posted in a forum I have visited in the last 2 weeks. It's very time consuming to go to all the forums to see what's new

By lanser1026 at 20,Jun,18 14:42 other posts of lanser1026 
I think there should be a list of members who quit or been terminated in the last 2 weeks so we know not to look for them
By bella! at 20,Jun,18 16:50 other posts of bella! 
Who, in particular, are you looking for? Maybe someone can let you know whether they are here but changed their name, whether the willfully deleted their profile or whether someone referred them to the Evaluation Panel and were deleted.
By lanser1026 at 20,Jun,18 16:56 other posts of lanser1026 
No one in particular, Bella, I'm being nosy, but, thanks

By CountryCouple54 at 18,Jun,18 22:59 other posts of CountryCouple54 
Love it when you enter a pic in a contest exactly what is asked. And the member waits till one minute to go in their contest to kick you out. We are flattered. Hope you lose your own contest bitch.
By *jamie at 18,Jun,18 23:20 other posts of *jamie 
I give up on that
By bella! at 19,Jun,18 00:24 other posts of bella! 
Did you get kicked out, too, Jamie?

By bella! at 19,Jun,18 00:24 other posts of bella! 
You were kicked out of another contest and at the last minute? That's just plain ol' mean spirited!

By veryshyguy at 19,Jun,18 12:18 other posts of veryshyguy 
That's not right! I've looked at several of the contests and I must admit I am disappointed. I don't think this is working out as planned.

I see many times the contest has a theme and all you see are the guys with their cocks!!!

I am now coming to believe the system is being manipulated.

I know I will never win any contest that is put up. I don't have the "goods" nor enough friends and followers that would make a difference in the vote count.

By bella! at 19,Jun,18 13:44 other posts of bella! 
Actually, I think the Free Theme Image Contest is doing a'ight! I've seen trophies awarded to some SYD/SYC members that had not entered any contest previously and have won.

YOU DO HAVE THE "GOODS" to be a winner but unfortunately you were spot on when you pointed out that members/winners still need friends and followers to secure a win in this contest.

By bella! at 19,Jun,18 15:37 other posts of bella! 
I created a contest specifically for members 60 and over. You better spend 15 of your 1320 and join.
By veryshyguy at 19,Jun,18 19:08 other posts of veryshyguy 
WOW!!!!!!!!!!!! Nice!!!!!!!!!! I'll find something to upload!!!!
By bella! at 19,Jun,18 20:21 other posts of bella! 
Suit yourself, but what you have on your page would work!

By veryshyguy at 19,Jun,18 19:08 other posts of veryshyguy 
In less than a year you'll have to make a 70 or over contest!!!

By admin at 19,Jun,18 14:46 other posts of admin 
I see you do not like a taste of the fairness.
By lanser1026 at 20,Jun,18 09:41 other posts of lanser1026 
By bella! at 20,Jun,18 11:40 other posts of bella! 
You can't be a winner if you don't participate.

Thanks for participating in the SEXY SYD/SYC MEMBERS 60+ 😁contest!
By lanser1026 at 20,Jun,18 12:04 other posts of lanser1026 

By bella! at 19,Jun,18 21:53 other posts of bella! 
Oh, my goodness! I read something about Kellogg's issuing an apolpgy. Here is the short, condenced version.

"Kellogg’s has apologized after receiving criticism for a racially insensitive cartoon on the back of its Corn Pops cereal boxes, which depicted dozens of anthropomorphic Corn Pops at a mall, with one slightly darker Corn Pop acting as the mall’s janitor."

Now we need to be politically correct when selecting the color of Kellogg's Corn Pops?
By Andthisisme at 20,Jun,18 05:25 other posts of Andthisisme 
My question would be who was it- and some one did - that made the decision to make the janitor darker.
I really have no time for a lot of the stupidly politically correct nonsense but in this case the person making that decision was an idiot.
By lanser1026 at 20,Jun,18 09:38 other posts of lanser1026 

By CountryCouple54 at 20,Jun,18 08:37 other posts of CountryCouple54 
Question for you. When a woman fingers her pussy in the woods, is the correct terminology "wanking in the woods"? Does a woman "wank" her pussy like a man wanks his cock? Is that an Aussie thing?
By lanser1026 at 20,Jun,18 09:38 other posts of lanser1026 
If I may, my wife calls it finger fucking herself, I wank she finger fucks,,,of course, we are not Aussies

By bella! at 19,Jun,18 20:28 other posts of bella! 
I believe that I'm being stalked by a cyber stalker(s). Someone or a group of people are watching me. I have a feeling it is "key members" and members who have blacklisted me and they seem to be infiltrating my space.....
By Andthisisme at 20,Jun,18 05:22 other posts of Andthisisme 
Do you mean you are being stalked while online in general even when not on here ? That is really very disturbing if true.

By 2nice at 20,Jun,18 07:53 other posts of 2nice 
That’s what the big pile of poop is for.

By Dev01 at 20,Jun,18 07:59 other posts of Dev01 
He is long gone

By lanser1026 at 20,Jun,18 09:33 other posts of lanser1026 
Is this true? And, if so, what is a "key member"? Can the rest of us help? (You,I mean)

By bella! at 16,Jun,18 17:41 other posts of bella! 
Do you have a FAVORITE recording artist or group? If you do, who?

Honestly, I don't think that I have a favorite, I like what I like.
By Andthisisme at 17,Jun,18 08:30 other posts of Andthisisme 
Oh yes I do, Elvis of course. I am one of those sad people who had vinyl then cassettes then cd's and now digital versions of his recordings.
By bella! at 17,Jun,18 09:05 other posts of bella! 
Really? Your all time favorite recording artist is Elvis? Strange, I thought if you, particularly YOU, responded, you would say the Beatles.
By Andthisisme at 17,Jun,18 09:13 other posts of Andthisisme 
I can understand why you would think that. I wonder if this is to do with the fact that in the 60s I did not have that many records and played the Beatles a lot, and every day. So maybe I sort of played them out of my system. I do play them occasionally now but I play Elvis way way more, especially in the car.

By lanser1026 at 17,Jun,18 17:08 other posts of lanser1026 
Bellamy Brothers

By veryshyguy at 17,Jun,18 21:59 other posts of veryshyguy 
I really don't have a favorite artist, I have a lot favorites...

Credence Clearwater Revival
Fleetwood Mac
A lot of Mototown groups and singers
John Denver
Linda Ronstadt
Jazz groups like Dotsero, Manhattan Transfer, etc.
Steely Dan

I don't care for rap music nor the techno rock, just don't like it.
By Andthisisme at 18,Jun,18 05:15 other posts of Andthisisme 
The test for a favourite artist is which CD, or digital album you reach for first when you are dashing out to the car. Does that help?
By veryshyguy at 18,Jun,18 11:12 other posts of veryshyguy 
I actually made a mixture of the various artists and their songs!!! So yes, them and many more are on my homemade CDs!!!
By Andthisisme at 18,Jun,18 11:39 other posts of Andthisisme 
Ah yes, the mixed tape I used to do that a lot and still do have some - although on cd now of course.
By veryshyguy at 18,Jun,18 19:59 other posts of veryshyguy 

By lanser1026 at 18,Jun,18 09:26 other posts of lanser1026 

By 2nice at 18,Jun,18 08:03 other posts of 2nice 
It will always be Prince for me.

By HotFuckerBoy at 18,Jun,18 21:41 other posts of HotFuckerBoy 
I like lots of bands, hard rock, punk and metal. I also like keeping an ear open to new bands, a couple of newer ones I really like are Ghost and Greta Van Fleet

By Whoknows at 19,Jun,18 19:21 other posts of Whoknows 
Wow, this a tough one! As you know, Bella, this is my profession and my grounding passion in life, so it's hard to separate between favourite artists who inspired me and the ones I like listening to most, and that can vary depending on new artists I hear too. Plus I have favourites for different reasons - as song writers, musicianship, character etc.

My fave singers (and my inspiration) are:

Annie Lennox

Dusty Springfield

Stteve Perry

Freddie Mercury

Julie London

Matt Bellamy

All time fave artists are:

The Eurythmics

The Beatles

George Harrison


Marvin Gaye

Dusty Springfield


Tommy Shaw


The faves I seem to listen more these days are:


Christine And The Queens

Imagine Dragons

Sleeping With Sirens


I know there are more, but I could ramble on enough to talk a glass eye to 5leep!

By JustWill at 18,Jun,18 13:56 other posts of JustWill 
Just noticed the new addition to the Forum page. Now you can see when each Topic was started and which member posted it.
Nice addition, Admin!

By bella! at 18,Jun,18 11:50 other posts of bella! 
C'mon, only 4 more hours to vote in YOUR MOST VIEWED PICTURE 😁 contest! This is going to be a crazy BIG win for someone!

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Congrats to Sammybw on a big win!

By kebmo at 17,Jun,18 20:39 other posts of kebmo 
More people drown in Lake Michigan than in all the other four Great Lakes combined.

-Aerial Cities, Chicago episode
By bella! at 18,Jun,18 11:28 other posts of bella! 
And I wonder why that is?

By kebmo at 07,Jun,18 03:42 other posts of kebmo 
I would never trust an Alexa or Google personal assistant in my house. Maybe I'm not their target customer anyways.
By bella! at 07,Jun,18 06:10 other posts of bella! 
What, why?
By kebmo at 07,Jun,18 07:43 other posts of kebmo 
Data is valuable and the more data a company has on you the more valuable you are to them.

Today I saw on the news that Amazon wants to get into the home insurance business. One of the pundits opined that it's not for the cash value but the data. Amazon is in the data business, just like Google. He further stated that 2/3 of Americans have Amazon Prime and if you add all of your financial data to your shopping habits they will target items within your financial limit but at the high end of your limit so they could maximize profit.

I don't want their company's hardware sitting in my living room listening to my every word (data). Suppose I said to a visiting guest, my spouse and on the phone that I was thinking about buying a new red Jeep. How long do you think it would take before Jeep advertising started showing up on my Facebook, Outlook and other sites that I use? Probably just a day or two.

Could the police give Amazon a warrant to listen to you?

What if you were having a party and went to the washroom and one of your guests said "Order 500 pounds of potatoes" or "order every open cart" or whatever else could be done by your "friends".

Big Br0ther is listening.

By Andthisisme at 07,Jun,18 06:44 other posts of Andthisisme 
I totally agree with you. I think that people are walking headlong into huge invasion of privacy issues without realisng what they are doing. These devices are listening to you 24/7 and there have already been some very strange things happen as a result of Alexa believing that she had been given an instruction when she hadn't been. That is before we even start on the issue of hacking.

By leopoldij at 17,Jun,18 10:35 other posts of leopoldij 
You're right. However, there are thousands (and soon to be millions) of idiots who volunteer for more extreme stuff:
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By bella! at 12,Jun,18 00:25 other posts of bella! 
Does anyone still rent movies and do you rent the movie from a brick & mortar store? I ask this simply because there no longer are video stores in my area. Heck, even those Red Box rentals seem to be a thing of the past because I do not see any of those boxes outside of grocery stores or pharmacies.
By veryshyguy at 12,Jun,18 00:52 other posts of veryshyguy 

By Arexa at 12,Jun,18 00:54 other posts of Arexa 
I use the redbox quite often... Around here, they seem to mainly be at Walmarts and pharmacies... I do a lot of renting online too though through Vudu. I have T-Mobile, so I get rental codes for the redbox or vudu multiple times each month...

By Andthisisme at 13,Jun,18 06:37 other posts of Andthisisme 
Until a few months ago I regulalrly rented movies by post - by monthly direct debit - from an Amazon dept called Lovefilm. That was brilliant, you could get virtually any film and I could have 3 films at a time and as soon as I returned one another from my wanted list was dispatched immediately. Totally totally brilliant.

Sadly this offshoot was closed down as according to Amazon's explanation very few people were actually using this and prefering to view online. Very sad as the online film menu is much more limited and to watch the number of films that i was watching would cost me far more to watch online than my monthly subscription to Love film. You don't suppose that was a facor in their decision do you?
By milesbferry at 13,Jun,18 17:41 other posts of milesbferry 
Cinema Paradiso in UK. I used Lovefilm for years, too!

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By bella! at 14,Jun,18 15:40 other posts of bella! 
Good to see you back, milesb!
By milesbferry at 14,Jun,18 17:51 other posts of milesbferry 
I'm back, occasionally! He's a film buff, obvs, so I wanted to help out. ;¬)

By Andthisisme at 15,Jun,18 10:02 other posts of Andthisisme 
Thanks for the tip.

By CountryCouple54 at 14,Jun,18 09:55 other posts of CountryCouple54 
Thanks to all of you who are kicking us out of your photo contests. That's more flattering to us then actually winning.
By bella! at 14,Jun,18 10:56 other posts of bella! 
Really, you and your missus are being kicked out of individual Free Theme Image Photo contests? That's really petty and truly poor sportsmanship. I'm sorry to hear that that is the way things are turning out.
By CountryCouple54 at 14,Jun,18 11:07 other posts of CountryCouple54 
The last one asked for a specific photo. We entered a pic that matched the title. We got booted. So we entered a second pic and was booted again. But what I think, is that the member thinks if she is the only pic in the contest she wins. Maybe they are not realizing if they don't have 5 entries the contest goes POOF. Cause as of now she is still the only entry in her own contest.
By veryshyguy at 14,Jun,18 22:23 other posts of veryshyguy 
Being kicked out sucks and I don't think that's what was intended when the photo contest was created!!!! Doesn't make a lot of sense to me.

By 2nice at 14,Jun,18 11:05 other posts of 2nice 
Some people are dumb.
By bella! at 14,Jun,18 15:39 other posts of bella! 
That sounds like a good forum topic.
By 2nice at 14,Jun,18 20:23 other posts of 2nice 
It does. Only problem is...they don’t recognize it.

By lanser1026 at 14,Jun,18 20:33 other posts of lanser1026 
That sucks the big one. Poor sportsmanship. Sorry to hear that.
By kebmo at 15,Jun,18 01:51 other posts of kebmo 
Yeah CountryCouple, I'm just waiting for the contest that is for "Best cock on site except Kebmo's"
By lanser1026 at 15,Jun,18 07:20 other posts of lanser1026 

By Andthisisme at 15,Jun,18 10:00 other posts of Andthisisme 
Sorry to hear that, it is terrible, and not what the site should be about.

By veryshyguy at 14,Jun,18 23:17 other posts of veryshyguy 
She can still sing it after all these years!!!!!!!

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By lanser1026 at 14,Jun,18 18:35 other posts of lanser1026 
question: How does a man on the SYD side able to post a pic of his girlfriend (or wife, maybe) on the main page of the SYC side???
By Arexa at 14,Jun,18 19:29 other posts of Arexa 
Post it then recategorise it as cunts main...
By lanser1026 at 14,Jun,18 20:34 other posts of lanser1026 

By lanser1026 at 14,Jun,18 18:06 other posts of lanser1026 
I've noticed that many free image entries can't get the minimum # of entries. I've been adding a pic if there's four entries and there's little time left. I don't expect to win. I look at it this way. At least the other entries will get a vote (hopefully). It only costs 15 points and it's something I can do to help. If someone else feels the same,,,,,,well.

By CountryCouple54 at 12,Jun,18 12:38 other posts of CountryCouple54 
Anyone else having trouble entering a pic in the new photo contest. We have been selecting, copy, and pasting the same way we have for 4 years and no luck. Maybe it's a deterrent. Lol
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Maybe it's my phone,
By 2nice at 12,Jun,18 13:42 other posts of 2nice 
I haven’t had any issues yet.

By WhiteBriefs at 12,Jun,18 18:49 other posts of WhiteBriefs 
I’ve had no problems with the photo comps but I can’t post text in the live chat rooms

By CountryCouple54 at 11,Jun,18 08:54 other posts of CountryCouple54 
Did we really have to have a photo contest titled, "Tampon In Ass"? WTF
By bella! at 11,Jun,18 10:57 other posts of bella! 
Is that like having a microfiber butt plug?

By 2nice at 11,Jun,18 11:16 other posts of 2nice 
Yeah, that just happened. Really.

By lanser1026 at 11,Jun,18 14:28 other posts of lanser1026 
Hey,,my best pic is "a tampon in my ass",,,besudes,,i may win that one,,HAHAHAHA,,
By kebmo at 11,Jun,18 21:50 other posts of kebmo 
Oh don't even go there. My TIMA photo is much better!!
By lanser1026 at 11,Jun,18 22:12 other posts of lanser1026 
Only TIMA will tell,,

By Arexa at 12,Jun,18 00:55 other posts of Arexa 
I should stick one in my ass just to see if I stand a chance at winning anything in one of those contests. 😂 I doubt it gets the minimum amount of entries though. 😂
By HunterAce at 12,Jun,18 01:13 other posts of HunterAce 
You'd get my vote

By 2nice at 12,Jun,18 09:45 other posts of 2nice 
That would HAVE to be uncomfortable to remove.
By bella! at 12,Jun,18 11:51 other posts of bella! 
Oh, be gentle.....

By JustWill at 12,Jun,18 12:02 other posts of JustWill 
Perhaps it's just like ripping off a Band-Aid. Just grab the string, grit your teeth, and give it a yank...

By lanser1026 at 12,Jun,18 12:27 other posts of lanser1026 
Vaseline going in,,Vaseline going out, baby,,we are pervs,,not masochists,,,
By 2nice at 12,Jun,18 12:36 other posts of 2nice 
Sort of defeats the purpose of what a tampon does, doesn’t it? I mean how absorbent can a Vaseline tampon be?
By lanser1026 at 12,Jun,18 12:39 other posts of lanser1026 
a man that wears a tampon does so to feel feminine,,,daring,,HOT,,and continually finger fucked,,, who cares how absorbent it is??
By CountryCouple54 at 12,Jun,18 12:43 other posts of CountryCouple54 
Dude, I ain't that way. But if I was, I'm sure I could think of something more comfortable then shoving a tampon up my ass. You want to feel daring, shove a golf ball up there for the day.
By lanser1026 at 12,Jun,18 13:00 other posts of lanser1026 
guy,, my ass has had everything from dicks to bottles,,veggies,,and all kinds of toys,,,but,,,when you go shopping at the supermarket, it's either a butt plug or a tampon,,,butt plugs have the habit of starting to slide out no matter how good a base they have,,the tampon stays on,,, surely you agree that you can't have a dick attached to your ass as you walk the isles of the local supermarket,,not allowed "dude"

By 2nice at 12,Jun,18 12:44 other posts of 2nice 
Oh, I see. Got it. I thought it was for medicinal purpose. Offset anal leakage or something.
By CountryCouple54 at 12,Jun,18 13:03 other posts of CountryCouple54 
That's the road he is headed down. By the sounds that he has had everything under the sun shoved up his ass. Won't be long before he is wearing diapers to control the uncontrollable ass leakage.
By lanser1026 at 12,Jun,18 13:04 other posts of lanser1026 
diapers are good!!! careful, baby,,the claws are starting to show,,

By 2nice at 12,Jun,18 13:09 other posts of 2nice 
Were you here when a member (can’t remember his name now) liked to shove a toaster up his ass? That was around the same time as the smelly wrist watch guy.

By lanser1026 at 12,Jun,18 13:06 other posts of lanser1026 
strictly fun and pleasure,,,anal drip is only after several lovers decide to have me all in one "sitting" so to speak,,hahah
By CountryCouple54 at 12,Jun,18 13:15 other posts of CountryCouple54 
You sure have done a shit load of talking the last 3 days for a guy who was never involved in anything on this site before. Are you sure this is you talking. Cause these comments are bringing back some memories, like I might be talking with TWOWARMTTS. Just saying.
By lanser1026 at 12,Jun,18 13:20 other posts of lanser1026 
you could be,,but,,no,,twowarmtts would tear you a new ass,, i'm nicer,,we do live together and i guess we chat the same way,,but,,again,,careful, baby,,the claws are starting to show,,,,and if i found my mouth (typing fingers) what it to you?? just saying,,
By CountryCouple54 at 12,Jun,18 13:36 other posts of CountryCouple54 
Is it possible to tear someone a new ass on a text msg. Does anyone ever win with this back and forth shit. You have your opinion we have ours. So I will be done with you Mr TT's. But I still think the golf ball up your ass for the day would make you way more cooler.
By lanser1026 at 12,Jun,18 13:40 other posts of lanser1026 
you are right, dimples,,i'll consider it,,meanwhile,,, it's possible to extend a hand on a text msg,,if not friends,,i'll try to stay out of your way if you do the same,,deal??

By bella! at 12,Jun,18 11:54 other posts of bella! 
I do a fair amount of ordering from Amazon and I notice that the prices seem to fluctuate and I can never understand whether I'm going to be charged sales tax or not. Is anyone fluent in Amazon shopping?

By kebmo at 08,Jun,18 07:06 other posts of kebmo 
I welcomed new members early Friday morning and received my usual four points for the first two but not for the following two. I tried four more with no luck. Any thoughts?
By bella! at 08,Jun,18 07:20 other posts of bella! 
Switch it up. You are going to have to be unique and different with each member.

I had the same concern and messaged admin directly. This was my response;

Jun 8, 07:09 admin: You brought to my attention that it's too easy to flood someone with the same message. This was never meant to be, I simply missed that this is possible. So I have corrected it.
By CountryCouple54 at 08,Jun,18 07:29 other posts of CountryCouple54 
Also, depending on your membership you are allowed a certain point max limit. I know with us if we are at 400 points and we comment on a new member, we get no points. If we are under 400 points, then we will receive the 4 points.
By bella! at 08,Jun,18 07:46 other posts of bella! 
My guess is that you actually addressed kebmo's concern. In my situation, I was attempting to "welcome" new members and after I posted my first "🙂 Hello and welcome to SYD/SYC!", I was not permitted to post a second and identical message because it was considered "flooding". I believe there is a 5 minute waiting period before you can post the same message again.

By kebmo at 08,Jun,18 16:59 other posts of kebmo 
I had not exceeded my max points and I don't rubber stamp my comments. I dislike seeing that.

I just tested this by commenting "Nice jewelry" on new member bbwsub and received no points and typed gibberish on new member LilKyle and received four points. "Nice jewelry" is something that I have never said to a new member so I will assume that the message was too short.

Admin, are there rules to this that we should be informed of? Are there words that will trigger your system not to give points.
By admin at 08,Jun,18 19:31 other posts of admin 
So far there are no such words, but your post encouraged me to add a simple detector for gibberish...
By kebmo at 08,Jun,18 19:59 other posts of kebmo 
So any language but English would be tagged as gibberish? How about broken English or misspelled words?
By admin at 08,Jun,18 20:43 other posts of admin 
My point exactly. I don't like telling people how things work because there are always people who try to exploit that knowledge and I have to make it more sophisticated which is not that difficult for me, but it becomes too unpredictable and then even I don't know how it works.
By kebmo at 09,Jun,18 02:08 other posts of kebmo 
Sissyclit is a new member and I commented "I like pink!" but received no points for that. I think that you will find that people will stop welcoming new members altogether if you make it a hassle for them to "earn" their promised four points.
I believe your idea to both welcome new members and keep current members interested in doing so may be an exercise in futility if it's difficult and has unclear or no directions.
By bella! at 09,Jun,18 02:32 other posts of bella! 
You minimize your comment, kebmo, and you should not. To post; "I like pink!" might sound like gibberish to some but those three short words made a whole lotta sense to me and were very meaningful. Clearly, you were reacting favorably to the new member's lingerie pictures where he had donned pink panties a color of panties that have in your collection.
By kebmo at 09,Jun,18 02:43 other posts of kebmo 
So now I have to direct my comments to a computer algorithm instead of the new member?
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Sissyclit has since read my posting and posted a public message on my page. He got it but the computer didn't. Surprise, surprise.

By admin at 09,Jun,18 09:00 other posts of admin 
I can easily post automated impersonal greetings like "welcome", "nice pics" or "I like pink". I don't really need members for this. Frankly, a simple bot leaving random greetings picked out of predefined list would be more creative than this. You are supposed to write something meaningful and not something that a primitive algorithm can.
By JustWill at 09,Jun,18 09:51 other posts of JustWill 
You are forgetting that many of the folk who come here are kind of "primitive algorithms" in their own right...
By admin at 09,Jun,18 10:21 other posts of admin 
I'm trying to connect people here. And this may sound funny, but this site does not have much to offer to primitive people. They would be better in some video chat where people just jerk off on cam.

By bella! at 09,Jun,18 10:03 other posts of bella! 
I'm thinking out loud but I'm directing this at you admin;

If I'm meeting someone for the first time and in person, I will most likely say, "it's nice to meet you" and in my opinion, that was very sincere and meaningful. If the person that I just met has something unique that grabs my attention, I MAY comment on that. Women are tricky and this is just an example; I have complimented women on their purses, a unique piece of jewelry, a hairstyle or the color of their clothes (I would love to meet someone like Queen Elizabeth II and tell how much I like her choice in colors. That woman's stylists are not color shy. I love the fact that this "granny" is not afraid to be BOLD). For men, it might be their necktie, I recall complimenting a man on his socks, the socks were yellow and had a paisley design on them. And recently, I was at a funeral home and one of the young directors there had the most gorgeous AQUA eye color. Was that the proper setting to go goo-goo over a young guy? I think not. But when meeting someone either face to face or even online, it is important to present yourself as being sincere WITHOUT sounding creepy. Without hearing a person's tone or seeing facial expressions, words COULD come across as sounding creepy and in many cases, get you blacklisted especially SYD members who creep out the new SYC member.

I just wonder if we have a member that will be able to think of a greeting that is unique and different for each or any new member.
By admin at 09,Jun,18 10:32 other posts of admin 
Most of new members are men. I have no interest in men, but I opened 2 random new accounts, one named smallshaft and another firestarter69. I did not comment, indeed, but just in 2 seconds I came up with two lines - "hey man, your shaft is not that small at all" and "This dick is about to start a serious fire". And this is not my native language. Second one may be corny, but I'm sure most of men would be satisfied with it.

And as for the women, they get lots of comments here without any points rewards.
By bella! at 09,Jun,18 10:40 other posts of bella! 
But keep in mind, that it was you who created the new accounts and it was you that came up with the hypothetical comments. Those comments coming from a man, MIGHT creep another man out.

Your site is filled with a number of men that identify themselves as being "straight" and something like those comments could be construed as being creepy.
By admin at 09,Jun,18 11:00 other posts of admin 
It was a wrong choice of words. I did not create those 2 accounts I just opened those profiles to see what they have. They were created by real people. I do not create fake profiles on this site.
By kebmo at 09,Jun,18 13:38 other posts of kebmo 
I wouldn't comment on either of those new sites because firestarter is the activity of a criminal and smallshaft is obviously fishing for compliments.
Totally unrelated: Bella, Queen Elizabeth wears bright colours so people can pick her out in the crowd that is often ten deep and know that they have seen her.
By bella! at 09,Jun,18 15:04 other posts of bella! 

I still like the fact that she wears and she rocks the bright colors. She's 92 years YOUNG and she looks GREAT!

By 2nice at 08,Jun,18 13:04 other posts of 2nice 
I don’t think I could live without my Google Home. I use it for everything. So...I guess I’m fucked now?

By JustWill at 08,Jun,18 13:38 other posts of JustWill 
Um...I think you posted this in the wrong spot, Mr. Yumm.
By 2nice at 08,Jun,18 13:46 other posts of 2nice 
Haha. I sure did, and I haven’t even started drinking yet.

By 2nice at 08,Jun,18 13:47 other posts of 2nice 
Haha, I can’t believe you still call me that. I wonder how Peach is doing? I always liked her.
By JustWill at 08,Jun,18 15:58 other posts of JustWill 
Who else am I going to call "Mr. Yumm" if not you?
And, I agree...I really miss Peach around these parts and I hope she is doing well. She was a genuine class act.

By bella! at 08,Jun,18 15:25 other posts of bella! 
Do you really think that your Mr. Yumm responded in the wrong spot OR IS IT POSSIBLE that we placed our random post in the wrong place?
By JustWill at 08,Jun,18 16:00 other posts of JustWill 
Is this a "po-tate-o" vs "po-tah-to" thing?
By bella! at 08,Jun,18 17:37 other posts of bella! 

By AdenRice at 08,Jun,18 19:48 other posts of AdenRice 
I haven’t gotten any points for new member comments for the last two days. Doesn’t matter what I say.
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never mind. Just had to get even more creative.

By lanser1026 at 11,Jun,18 14:31 other posts of lanser1026 
my problem is that i don't know where to go to find "new members",, neither Candy nor I know,,,i sometimes hit it lucky and get the 4 points. I also noticed that if the member is on here more than a month or has a good amount of points, i don't get points
By kebmo at 11,Jun,18 16:57 other posts of kebmo 
To the right of your upload tab on your home page there is a search member tab. Click on it, registration date then search and you will find the newest members at the top of the list.

One thing is that you won't get points for welcomes less than four words. They must be four or more words in length.
By lanser1026 at 11,Jun,18 17:16 other posts of lanser1026 

By bella! at 08,Jun,18 13:06 other posts of bella! 
In the northern hemisphere, June, July and August are our summer months and it is also the time for chˇ.ldren to be on summer vacation. I believe that the traditional school break had to do with agricultural needs, when farmers needed to plant crops and then reap their harvest.

Now this is my curiosity, those living in the southern hemisphere, are your school years based on closing during your warmer months, the months of December, January and February?
By lanser1026 at 11,Jun,18 00:33 other posts of lanser1026 
Yes, they are. School year is usually from March to late November

By bella! at 10,Jun,18 10:25 other posts of bella! 
Looks like members are so shallow that they will blacklist you 1) because you did not support their friend(s) and/or 2) because you have an opinion that differs from their friend(s) and/or 3) just because their friend(s) don't like you.

Yes, OZZY45100 , this post is about you.
By *jamie at 10,Jun,18 12:08 other posts of *jamie 
He blacklist me too don't know why .so I did the same
By bella! at 10,Jun,18 13:05 other posts of bella! 
Did you just get blacklisted by him within the last few hours? That makes 4 of us, so far, that have been blacklisted by the same member. I suspect that my blacklist was because I could not support a member's referral of another member for deletion because the referring member did not provide any proof of their claim. A voting member (who can be linked to the referring member) provided what they perceived to be proof but it seems that a "brave" member pointed out that websites like Motherless dot com and imagefap were similar to this site.
By *jamie at 10,Jun,18 15:10 other posts of *jamie 
No I comment on his pic .think that's what happen

By bella! at 09,Jun,18 21:45 other posts of bella! 
This is an almost 6 minute video of a 96 year old woman in a wheelchair, on her way home to Indiana from Maryland. In the video, she is being patted down by a TSA officer and although the search is as respectful as any search can be, it seems a bit much.

What has me curious is toward the end, the TSA officer takes some type of wand and rubs it across her gloved hands and then across the wheelchair. What is that all about?

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By newwt10 at 09,Jun,18 19:14 other posts of newwt10 
Just wanted to say hey!
By bella! at 09,Jun,18 19:45 other posts of bella! 

By bella! at 08,Jun,18 12:53 other posts of bella! 
These FREE THEME IMAGE CONTEST's have been well received by so many members! Thank you, admin!
By 2nice at 08,Jun,18 13:02 other posts of 2nice 
I agree. I think they’re awesome.
By bella! at 08,Jun,18 13:08 other posts of bella! 
It's been fun and it only costs 50 points to create a contest and 15 points to join in on the fun!

By bella! at 09,Jun,18 11:14 other posts of bella! 
At the time that the contest officially kicked off, there were 104 participants in the Free Theme Image Contest, YOUR MOST VIEWED PICTURE 😁 but now there are only 103.

In nine days, when the winner is revealed, not only will he/she get an attractive trophy but will also receive a substantial amount of points. Sincerely, admin, thank you for creating a new contest concept that is cost effective so most anyone can join and also for point sharing with the winner. These contests have even piqued the interest of members who have previously chose to not participate.
By kebmo at 09,Jun,18 12:55 other posts of kebmo 
I just won one! Or I should say that MoeJoe did. His tribute photo to me won the best tribute photo! Thanks MoeJoe!!

By bella! at 09,Jun,18 11:40 other posts of bella! 
I've come to this realization that it is truly odd that there are certain words that cannot be used in the forum yet members can use them in their screen names and/or blogs. I wonder why the difference?

By bella! at 08,Jun,18 15:06 other posts of bella! 
If someone, with any iota of common sense, who has not yet been blacklisted by that outback trash and her mighty midget, if you could please advise her that Skittles and I are NOT one and the same.

It is time to get your face outta his ass, YOU are not as smart as you think you are!
By JustWill at 08,Jun,18 16:01 other posts of JustWill 
"Taste the Rainbow"!
By bella! at 08,Jun,18 17:05 other posts of bella! 
She's such an asswipe!

By leopoldij at 08,Jun,18 08:46 other posts of leopoldij 
STUFF, STUFF, STUFF. I just remembered to ask the question: who buys most stuff in the world?
The answer is US, followed by Japan.

The American consumer market is 29% of world market.

Japanese consumers represent 8.51% of the world consumer market.

In the US people buy, buy, buy stuff, stuff, stuff all the time. I felt compelled to have a lot of stuff in my US home. People buy stuff. This is, of course, done by state design.

The world will reach a very critical point when the Chinese will be in a position to each buy at the same rate as USpeople. It's started, Chinese consumers represent 5.29% of the world consumer market, but that's not close to the critical rate.

By Andthisisme at 07,Jun,18 06:50 other posts of Andthisisme 
I saw this video today

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The bare faced way in which the Police spokesman once again blames an innocent person who clearly poses no threat to the officers involved is frightening. The level of **** which was described as needed to get the guy to sit down is appalling.
I am sure there are many many good police officers in the US but my god there are some really terrible officers and when we see them clearly behaving ina totally unacceptable manner the police authorities and even the courts, if a case ever gets there, just aquit them.

There are bad apples in all police forces in every country and jurisdiction and country what I find so frightening in the US is the way the violent misbahevaiour is defended by the authorities.

By jayman73 at 05,Jun,18 17:09 other posts of jayman73 
What is your favorite yogurt? Kind and/or brand?
By bella! at 05,Jun,18 21:28 other posts of bella! 
I really like anything citrus, especially LEMON and I believe that Oikos has a lemon chiffon or meringue.
By kebmo at 05,Jun,18 23:33 other posts of kebmo 
I mix 325g of a any flavour of Source yogurt with Oatmeal Crisp cereal and blueberries for breakfast every morning. I've been doing that for about three years.

By footluvrsgirl at 06,Jun,18 07:02 other posts of footluvrsgirl 
Siggi’s ~ Mixed Berry!! It’s delicious

By bigg at 06,Jun,18 14:31 other posts of bigg 
I like "natural" ie unflavoured yoghurt with that yummy crunchy muesli stuff in it. Mmmm.

By Arexa at 06,Jun,18 15:16 other posts of Arexa 
Call me juvenile, but those cotton candy go-gurts are absolutely amazing, especially when smeared on a blueberry muffin.
By 2nice at 06,Jun,18 15:24 other posts of 2nice 
By Arexa at 06,Jun,18 15:35 other posts of Arexa 
They're yogurt tube things... I get them for my daughters lunchbox. Right now she has paw patrol and Spongebob ones....

By bella! at 06,Jun,18 02:26 other posts of bella! 
The YOUR MOST VIEWED PICTURE 😁 contest needs only 7 more participants to reach 100 entries. C'mon, if you haven't entered, you still have time and it only costs 15 points to join.


By *jamie at 04,Jun,18 23:28 other posts of *jamie 
Any Female Pictures That's Not Lix Or Countrycoupe by AndreaAsian,..... what the hell why is this? a Game is a Game
By bella! at 05,Jun,18 00:30 other posts of bella! 
Of course, a game is a game and should be an option for anyone meeting the criteria established. Unfortunately, the creator of the contest most likely feels that she and/or any other SYC member does not stand a snowball's chance in hell of winning a contest when competing beside countrycouple54 or lix.
By CountryCouple54 at 05,Jun,18 07:51 other posts of CountryCouple54 
That member has won a contest or two. Don't forget about sweetslit and footluvrsgirl. They are both doing very well in the new contest as well.
By bella! at 05,Jun,18 10:48 other posts of bella! 
Yes, I am aware that both footluvrsgirl and sweetslit have done well in any of the contests that they chose to enter but the name of the contest that Jamie referred to clearly excluded two members, lix and countrycoupe.

By bella! at 05,Jun,18 21:34 other posts of bella! 
Actually, I've looked at the stats on the contests, so to speak, and it would appear that lix has won 8 contests BUT for the most part, they are smaller in number. The "largest" contest she has won was with 20 participants.

countrycouple54 has won in excess of 12 contests, I say 12 because I can see 12 at this time, earlier wins have dropped off the contest page.

footluvrsgirl has won 4 contests BUT a couple of those contests had a staggering number of participants. There was one contest that had 35 participants and another with 48 participants.

sweetslit has won 3 contests.

And let's not forget to mention *TheWife+Hubby , they have won 2 contests that has 36 and 37 participants in them. Those are incredible wins!

By bella! at 05,Jun,18 15:01 other posts of bella! 
WOW! There are 87 members that have already entered the YOUR MOST VIEWED PICTURE 😁 contest and with 2+ days to enter, I hope that it reaches the 100 members mark.

This is really going to be quite a contest and the winner is not only going to win a nice trophy from admin but, my guess, they will also receive a CRAZY AMOUNT OF POINTS, too!
By CountryCouple54 at 05,Jun,18 15:17 other posts of CountryCouple54 
I'm just glad to see this new contest is finally getting back to normal. With the winner of "sexiest girl on this site". Thank goodness, I was wondering how long it would take.
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Glad she entered a pic from 30 years ago.
By JustWill at 05,Jun,18 18:47 other posts of JustWill 
But she IS the sexiest girl on the site. Just ask her if you don't believe me...
By CountryCouple54 at 05,Jun,18 20:52 other posts of CountryCouple54 

By admin at 03,Jun,18 16:31 other posts of admin 
From abuse reports that are not shown on the panel:

Type: Dangerous behavior
Member bella! Reported by UndisclosedMember at 03,Jun 16:16

Explanation: this member dosent have pictures of itself at all. only creates this picture contest which are all fake. take a look by your self. i dont wanna be on this site with this type of people.

By Andthisisme at 03,Jun,18 17:53 other posts of Andthisisme 
I am puzzled by why you have posted this. Is the allegation that bella! doesn't have photos of herself on her profile and that is dangerous behaviour? or is the dangerous behaviour creating photo contests which the undisclosed member thinks are fake?

Neither of these allegations qualify as dangerous behaviour.
By bella! at 03,Jun,18 18:01 other posts of bella! 
Andthisisme, this is just a personal attack against me and their "REASON" is merely a reflection of their lack of creativity.

I'm sure that the "undisclosed member" was too stoopid to realize that their referral went directly to admin and unfortunately their posse would never have an opportunity to vote.
By Andthisisme at 04,Jun,18 03:05 other posts of Andthisisme 
I did assume that the report was a petty personal attack.

By admin at 03,Jun,18 19:23 other posts of admin 
I posted it so that more people could see what ridiculous reports are submitted on a regular basis.
By Andthisisme at 04,Jun,18 03:04 other posts of Andthisisme 
I did think was probably the reason but I just wanted clarification, thank you for your explanation.

By bella! at 03,Jun,18 17:54 other posts of bella! 
Well, my guess is the "undisclosed member" is some butthurt pussy that does not have 15 points in order to submit their picture. OR, some sad ass looking midget or amazon.

Hey, pussy, when I sponsor a contest I've also followed up with a blog stating that any member in need of points may contact me and I will help them with points. The same goes for you, you spineless little twat.
By lanser1026 at 05,Jun,18 18:42 other posts of lanser1026 
I'm with you. These people are cowards. We (the normal perv's) have to ignore them. As you know, I have personal motives to butt heads with you, but, you are right

By Estebanxxl at 05,Jun,18 07:54 other posts of Estebanxxl 
A hot pic of my fiends hot wife and me. I was so lucky to pleasure her for differents hours. Thanks to my friend.

By routemaster at 05,Jun,18 05:27 other posts of routemaster 
How on earth do you choose just TWO of all those delicious dicks to vote for in the uncut dicks photo contest? I eventually selected two but I felt like I wanted to vote for ALL of them!

By CountryCouple54 at 02,Jun,18 17:16 other posts of CountryCouple54 
And let the Bullshit begin. So I guess the new antics of the Free Themed Contest is to just kick people out so you stand a better chance of winning. I knew it wouldn't take long to fuck up what started out as a good game.
By bella! at 02,Jun,18 19:57 other posts of bella! 
What? Is that what you believe happened? Were you given a reason as to why you were booted?

I only booted one member out of a Free Theme Image Contest that I sponsored and that one person was booted because of personal reasons. That person had blacklisted me and I figured, what the heck would possess them to associate themselves with anything that a sociopath cunt created. It must have been a temporary lapse in good judgement, on their part.
By CountryCouple54 at 03,Jun,18 18:51 other posts of CountryCouple54 
The contest was labeled as "Suckable Nipples" The wife entered a pic. She was kicked out and the reason was "you are not mature". So we guess it should have been labeled as "old gal's suckable nipples" Hell if we know
By bella! at 03,Jun,18 19:13 other posts of bella! 
So were you booted before the contest started? In your opinion, do you feel their actions were directed at you personally?
By CountryCouple54 at 03,Jun,18 19:31 other posts of CountryCouple54 
I think we are taking it personally. Cause they did not kick out the 29 year old member who entered a pic.

By JustWill at 02,Jun,18 20:11 other posts of JustWill 
Never underestimate the craziness of people with serious self-esteem issues CC54.

By veryshyguy at 02,Jun,18 22:59 other posts of veryshyguy 
HUH? That don't make any sense. I can't see why anyone would be booted unless they put a pic in the wrong category. But I don't think that would be a cause to be booted.

I'll never win no matter what the category unless I'm the only one in there and then it would be embarrassing not to get any votes!
By kebmo at 03,Jun,18 04:24 other posts of kebmo 
So if I start one and boot everyone a few hours before the ten days is up of course I'll win!

I could start one called harriest pussy then two hours before the end boot everyone and add a photo of my big toe and win the contest.
By AdenRice at 03,Jun,18 13:55 other posts of AdenRice 
You would have to leave yourself and 4 others in. Or it won't start.

By AdenRice at 03,Jun,18 13:59 other posts of AdenRice 
It could be that some others want some glory i guess. You guys are the Golden State Warriors of the Free Themed Contest. (They always win for Non NBA fans). People are just jealous. Don't let it get to you!

By bella! at 03,Jun,18 13:26 other posts of bella! 
Last week, a high school teacher, in Florida, drowned 2 raccoons and an opossum in front of his students. Apparently, the raccoon or raccoons killed a chicken "they" were raising and that is what prompted the teacher to undertake drowning of the wildlife in front of the students.....?????

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This week in Idaho, a high school teacher feeds a puppy to his snapping turtle.

WTF is going on in our schools?
By veryshyguy at 03,Jun,18 14:16 other posts of veryshyguy 
I try not to make sense of these things anymore. The hatred, the bigotry, the madness, and just and uncivilized behavior makes no sense. Everyone insists they are absolutely right and everyone else is wrong is insane.

What really is frightening is the drop off in those who are pursuing a higher education. If we are to continue to be competitive in the world's economies we have to be well educated. But what I see is that we are becoming more isolated and withdrawn from the world. This is not good for our future.

By bella! at 29,May,18 09:44 other posts of bella! 
Question for mature you, when you have contemplated embarking on a serious or forever relationship, did you make it a point to discuss finances?
By Andthisisme at 29,May,18 16:38 other posts of Andthisisme 
I assume you mean the state of each individuals finances at that time, rather than who will pay whay bills in the future.
Amazingly, nope we never did have that discussion, we just married 'blind'.
To be honest that never was an issue - even when we were sorting out the financial settlement for the divorce.
But then neither of us was hugely wealthy.

By bigg at 29,May,18 16:48 other posts of bigg 

But first marriage, meanwhile divorced. Together come whatever. Circumstances can and do Change on the rocky path through life.

If I were to be in a forever relationship again, I suppose i would discuss, but not in the sense to put up fences, more so that dearly beloved opposite sees the reality. But still, in for all. Maybe i´m just old-fashioned.
By bella! at 29,May,18 17:55 other posts of bella! 
But what if your beloved that you entered into the relationship with had a mountain of financial debt that he/she brought to you. Do you feel that the love you share would be great enough to see you through?
By kebmo at 29,May,18 19:18 other posts of kebmo 
Oh, the love vs debt ratio. Yes, discuss finances when it gets serious. I'd do that before moving in together.
Being financial equals is very convenient because this doesn't become a problem. If you are the more secure, you might wonder if the other really loves YOU and if they are the more secure you might wonder if they think that there is an underlying reason to your love.
It's a bit easier if there is a financial difference but your ages are similar. If a younger person is with an older, wealthier person the older person would wonder if it's love or convenience... if they're smart.
And...if I were willing to take on that person's debt, I would also take over all finances because obviously they can't handle them.

By bigg at 30,May,18 17:21 other posts of bigg 
Love is for me a life Thing, debts are a daily Thing. Not that i´m a millionaire or such. Love doesn´t have the small print " depending on financial Status". But this is just my opinion. I don´t think when you go the whole roller coaster that you can selectively pick which parts you want and which parts you don´t. Just me saying...
By bella! at 30,May,18 17:43 other posts of bella! 
I appreciate your honest response and I wonder how many other beautiful, wonderful, like minded people there out in the world similar to you.

I want to be as equally honest to you when I say that I learned many years ago, that I need not DEPEND on any person to define who I am or to take care of me. I am strong willed and I am independent. 100 years ago, it absolutely pissed me off me when I was getting up and going to work and my significant other was still in bed snoozing. I understood going into the relationship that he was on a medical disability and during that time, made use of an educational program offered because he injured himself at work....when it was all said and done, he could return into the work world, he had no ambition, as far as I was concerned, a drinking problem, too and in too much debt....BAM! YOU GOTTA GO!
By bigg at 31,May,18 18:04 other posts of bigg 
understand where you´re coming from, life is a roller coaster and (sooner or later found out the hard way) each of us are ourselves only and not defined by others or their Points of view. It´s like a small boat in the big sea, happy to have another on board but only as Long as they pull on the oars too

By Andthisisme at 01,Jun,18 07:31 other posts of Andthisisme 
That is a really good point and I really don't know the answer. I assume we are talking many thousands in you hypothesis. The honest answer is that I don't know how i would respond. However, if my partner did have a mountain of debt it would be hers not ours, and that very comment probably answers your question. I would not want to take on someone elses massive debt.
I do wonder though, if within a premarital financial discussion whether someone with huge debt would actually own up to it.

By 2nice at 29,May,18 19:36 other posts of 2nice 
Understandably, but emphatically,
By bella! at 29,May,18 20:14 other posts of bella! 
Really, why not?

By bella! at 31,May,18 09:58 other posts of bella! 
Danish atress Brigitte Nielsen, 54, is pregnant with her fifth chˇld! A fifth chˇld and 54, too!?
By mr_blue at 31,May,18 10:47 other posts of mr_blue 
I bet that's gonna pop out like the log in a log flume

By bella! at 30,May,18 23:26 other posts of bella! 
How do you feel about your customer concern type calls being routed outside of the country you live in?

Dammit, when I have a problem with my DirectTV in the United States, I want to talk to someone in the United States!
By RC0000 at 31,May,18 00:24 other posts of RC0000 
Provided that there is an option to speak with someone who is fluent in my language of choice when I entered into the contract with the company, then I really don't care where they are based.
By kebmo at 31,May,18 03:19 other posts of kebmo 
Canada has two official languages, English and French, so almost all companies offer French when you call their 800# with keypad search options. If they are the French operator they're in Canada so they always speak English too so I get a Canadian that way. This technique is especially beneficial when dealing with the federal government for any reason, they are ALL bilingual and you get faster service if you choose French.
By bella! at 31,May,18 04:32 other posts of bella! 
My frustration was over a call that I initiated a call to Amazon regarding a return. They wanted me to use UPS and I preferred to use USPS (the United States Postal Service). UPS is about 20 miles away and USPS is 1 mile away.

The Amazon rep indicated that I could leave the package on my porch and UPS would pick it up. I want some type of receipt stating that they (UPS) have the package for liability purposes because I go to work and have a whack-a-doodle, busy neighbor....

I don't know if the conversation was so frustrating because Amazon only uses UPS or because the distance in miles that I would have to travel made no sense to them.
By Ray10754 at 31,May,18 05:27 other posts of Ray10754 
Amazon uses both USPS and UPS I use Amazon monthly and have had deliveries from both,seem to me the larger the package,are delivered by UPS. I think it also depends on weather your a prime member or not.Also I think it would have a lot to do with the way the package was shipped to you originally.

By leopoldij at 31,May,18 08:24 other posts of leopoldij 
Indeed. I always use French in Canada (once to the frustration of someone at the customs in Toronto, especially when he realized I'm neither French nor Canadian). And in the US I use Spanish. Whenever I hear the "para continuar en espan~ol oprima el dos", that's what I do: I press 2 and speak Spanish. This automatically excludes speaking to someone from India.

Actually, I use different languages whenever I get a phone call from a telemarketer. This ensures getting rid of them quickly.

By leopoldij at 31,May,18 08:19 other posts of leopoldij 
US companies rely on cheap labor. Therefore they'll employ anyone who's willing to get paid 1/10 of the salary of someone in the US. Lots of people in the Indian subcontinent, for instance, will accept that happily. This is how capitalism works. It's all about maximizing profit, not about caring whether the employees are Americans or Martians. If they could replace all phone operators by robots/bots, they would. In fact, sooner or later, this will be the only option.

By Andthisisme at 31,May,18 09:08 other posts of Andthisisme 
This is a problem that we in the UK have suffered with for some time. Most commonly the customer support lines were based in India. too often although the support assistant spoke English communication was very difficult, sometimes impossible. There have been many many complaints and some companies have now promised to repatriate their customer service lines.
As a humourous aside i have spoken to customer support assistants from parts of th UK whose accents were so thick that the same problem applied.
By bella! at 31,May,18 09:36 other posts of bella! 
I can honestly say that for probably 98% of my calls that are geared toward customer service for any company I deal with are answered by someone outside the continental United States. The only entity I deal with where the person on the other end is within the United States is Bank of America. Their representatives will answer saying; "this is so-and-so in Sacramento (or state)".

My DirectTv issue was in April but my persistence paid off as they said I would be issued a credit in the amount of $720.00.

By kebmo at 31,May,18 06:08 other posts of kebmo 
Dick's Sporting Goods stopped selling assault rifles and upped their firearm customer age to 21 in February. They just reported a stock price surge of 27% after reporting a stronger than expected quarterly sales and profit Wednesday.

Gun sales are down but new customer acquisitions are up.
By leopoldij at 31,May,18 07:57 other posts of leopoldij 
It makes no sense, does it?

By bella! at 23,May,18 09:40 other posts of bella! 
I read a short article regarding New York parents that were f0rced into having their 30 year old son legally evicted out of their home.

Question, is there an age that a chˇld should be self sufficient, employed and on their own? At what time is the parent's obligation met?
By 2nice at 23,May,18 09:54 other posts of 2nice 
I’ve always viewed it as 18 years, time to hit the road, k1d. Longer if one chooses to go to school. In which case, 22-23 years old.

I moved out of my parents house one week after my eighteen birthday. Never returned home afterward, like I see so many do nowadays.
By bella! at 23,May,18 10:05 other posts of bella! 
I was on my own at 19 years old. Yes, I agree that things were different 100 years ago, when I was growing up.

It is a total eye opener when you venture out on your own. I still remember my shock related to my initial shopping trip. Basically, I shopped for the miscellaneous things that I needed to set up my apartment; cleaning products, toiletries, spices, condiments, the things you buy that will last for a while..... I don't recall the amount I spent only that I spent more than I anticipated and I hadn't even purchased any "real food", yet

By RC0000 at 23,May,18 10:15 other posts of RC0000 
Nothing in life should be based on a person's age. it should be based on their capabilities and their ability to accept responsibility for what they are about to undertake. An individual with physical or mental impairments should not be removed from their family home simply because they have turned 18. Conversely, an abled individual should not be given the liberty of becoming a professional parasite.

I read the story that you mentioned and it sounds like the man is perfectly able to look after himself but has chosen not to do so. It's a shame that the parents had to go to such extremes but they are well within their right, in this case.
By bella! at 23,May,18 10:21 other posts of bella! 
Thank you.
By CountryCouple54 at 23,May,18 11:04 other posts of CountryCouple54 
My wife and I were on our own at 18 and 20. In an apartment, getting married, and having our first son. Like bella said, things were much different and cheaper back then. I think our first apartment cost $700 a month, which included cable and water. In a good neighborhood in a new building. Speaking as a parent of a 24 year old who has a great job and makes good money. It's hard now a days to be on your own as a single individual. It takes two incomes to make it work. The average two bedroom apartment here in Ft. Lauderdale goes from $2,000 and up. Our son has been working and paying his own bills, truck payment, cell phone, truck insurance, he even helps out with dog food for his 2 dogs that we keep. So in our situation, he is welcome to stay as long as he needs for him and his girlfriend to save enough to put a down payment on a house and start a family without being in debt doing so. Then we have a 17 year old, now he is a different story. He is the typical k id of his generation. No job yet, mom and dad pay for everything. He stays up till 4 in the morning playing video games or hanging with friends/girlfriend. He has a year to get his shit together like his b rother did. Or we will send his ass down the road without blinking an eye. So I think each k id is different and each situation is different. But your not gonna be 21 laying around my house with no job playing video games all night. Hell no.
By bella! at 23,May,18 16:50 other posts of bella! 
Of course there are relationships between parents and offspring that would be mutually beneficial and/or acceptable for both parties but it seemed apparent that this mom and dad/husband and wife wanted their 30 year old son OUT and he wasn't going to go without a fight. It's too bad that the parents had to go through the process of legally evicting him!

In my situation, I could not abide by the "house rules" ie coming and going as I wanted, which was disruptive to my parents. My pops told me that there were "too many chiefs and not enough Indians" an in his house, he was the chief. Bottom line, go by the house rules or move. I moved and never regretted it, it was time for me to grow up.

By RC0000 at 23,May,18 13:00 other posts of RC0000 
UPDATE: The court ruled against the son and he has to leave the family home. The judge spent about 30 minutes trying to convince the son to voluntarily leave his parent's house but he refused. He has said that he is going to appeal the court's ruling. So apparently he doesn't have the means to support himself but he does have the means to launch a legal appeal OR he is furthering his parasitic lifestyle by using legal aid to pay for his appeal.

By bigg at 23,May,18 16:54 other posts of bigg 
(Live in Germany although not German) Legal parental responsibility here Ends with completion of Education, so if your beloved offspring jumps directly in the work market, that´s it: if they decide to study, responsibility continues until the study (once only) is complete. I read this article too. I don´t personally think that a specific Age can be attached to this, Kids don´t choose to be Born and the parent(s) are responsible until they can stand on their own two feet. For some it´s easier than others. Bear in mind that the recession hit hard in Europe, it´s increasingly common for "Kids" to move back in with parents simply because rents and the cost of living have become impossible.
By bella! at 23,May,18 17:11 other posts of bella! 
Apparently the 30 year old son believes that he is not yet able to stand on his own two feet. So, do you feel that the parents were justified or unjustified in wanting their 30 year old son out of their house?
By bigg at 26,May,18 17:28 other posts of bigg 
I believe that in this case, the cuckoo may have grown too big for the nest The Gentleman in question seems to be very comfortable in his Position and not under any sign of duress or worry

By veryshyguy at 23,May,18 18:50 other posts of veryshyguy 
I was gone by 19, Uncle Sam decided they needed me more than my parents. On my own after I got back home. Paid for school (with help from the GI bill). Paid for all of whatever mistakes I made along the way.

I have no idea what the age when kids should move on, I think it becomes a decision made by the parents, kids, etc. Yes, there are circumstances where that make it difficult for one to more out.

From what I read this person is quite capable of figuring out how to take care of himself. I don't think this person is disabled in any way.
By kebmo at 23,May,18 20:54 other posts of kebmo 
veryshyguy I think he may suffer from lazyfuckingbastarditus. Give him a service peacock and send him on his way!
I was 16.
By footluvrsgirl at 23,May,18 21:20 other posts of footluvrsgirl 
I moved out @18!! Was in college & worked 2 Jobs. At 23 became a single mom & still was on my own. & my daughter was married & had kids by 30 & damn sure wasn’t on her lazy ass in my house. No way. If there’s a health issue or something that’s understandable.. but I saw that dude interviewed... i agree w the lazy assitius.
By 2nice at 29,May,18 08:12 other posts of 2nice 
One of my co-workers is currently dealing with a 25 year old unemployed st3p s0n who sleeps all day and plays video games all night. His last comment to my friend was priceless, but also quite pathetic when he was lasted grilled about getting a job. He said, “Hey, not everyone needs to work, I mean your parents don’t have a job”! My friends answer back to him, “They’re retired, dumbass”.
By bella! at 29,May,18 09:27 other posts of bella! 
So, this is your friend's stepson? How long has he been married to the boy's momma?

A stepchild, and in this case, a young man, is a BIG reason why this marriage or a similar marriage could end in divorce. Love does not conquer all and if you don't think this is placing a strain on his marriage, I think you would be wrong. Second marriages are often very tricky when one comes with a chˇld or chˇ ldren or anything that could be construed as "baggage". Chˇ ldren and finances are two of the biggest relationship killers in second marriages.
By 2nice at 29,May,18 09:33 other posts of 2nice 
It puts a strain on the marriage most definitely.

By veryshyguy at 24,May,18 19:24 other posts of veryshyguy 
I agree, after reading more about the issue and I also saw the interview he surely is suffering from lazyfuckingbastarditus!! Good diagnosis!!!

By Andthisisme at 26,May,18 09:02 other posts of Andthisisme 
In the UK, the ridiculous rate of house price increases and more stringent rules on deposit size, and high rental costs have made home ownership for young people more problematic for many. The situation may well be different in the US.

I was concerned about how my son would cope, but he and his now wife, rented and are building up a deposit gradually. I was so thrilled as I hoped that he could start an independent life after Uni, just as I did. Living at home definetly the worst option.

I saw this news story and was really appalled by the son's attitude, if it was reported accurately.

I don't suppose there is a hard and fast line. If the **** is doing all that they can to get a job and attempt to build up reserves so that they start an independentt life that is all that we can ask for. But I tend to think that if the **** went to Uni, by 25 they should be independent. If they went straight to work rather than going on to Uni, then sooner.

By Angelofdeath at 29,May,18 10:07 other posts of Angelofdeath 
I was on my own at 14. My Mom was disabled and couldn’t support me, so I had to do it on my own. I grew up really quick. I got married very young, and was unhappy because I did it because I felt alone. My son is 18 now and still lives at home, he works part time and is in school full time and is In the NASA program which isn’t cheap. I don’t pay his phone or insurance but I help him with a place to stay and feed him, etc. I told him he can stay until he is stable, but even then I’d never turn my kids out. They don’t stop being your kids because they turn 18. I guess it would different if he had no goals or ambitions, but I like to think I raised him with a sense of self worth and to know nothing comes in life for free or easy. I guess each parent and **** is different. He knows I’d never allow him to just free load or not pull his weight around the house.
By bella! at 29,May,18 10:54 other posts of bella! 
As I recall, the initial article that I read did not specify that the 30 year old "chˇld" had any limitations, I got the impression that there was absolutely nothing physically or developmentally wrong with this "young man" other than he was not ready to leave the nest. Yes, each chˇld is different and even in the case of a chˇld having limitations, what happens to that chˇld turned adult once the parent dies?

Yes, I recognize that things are different. Heck, many years ago young men chose to enter the armed forces rather than finishing their education but even now, Uncle Sam is selective about who "he" takes. And many years ago, you could have a high school diploma and get yourself into the job market and be taught skills. Now it is almost mandatory to have a college degree and even then, it does not guarantee that you will find a job. Knowledge alone is nothing if you lack ambition.

It is with sincerity that I applaud you, and the rest of the parents, that were able to raise strong young people and turn them into productive human beings, no matter what their capabilities are. They are OUR future.

By kebmo at 29,May,18 04:51 other posts of kebmo 
Are you watching the NHL Finals? The Las Vegas Golden Knights are made up of 11 Canadians, 7 Europeans and FOUR Americans!
The Washington Capitols are 6 Canadians, 7 Europeans and THREE Americans!
From those numbers, Canadians and Americans should both be going for Vegas!!

By kebmo at 23,May,18 21:01 other posts of kebmo 
Is it unpatriotic for NFL football players to kneel during the anthem?

I don't think it is. I do, however, agree that they are at work and are obligated to follow the company rules just like us real people.

If their employer says to stand, they should stand but their employer would soon suffer the wrath of the company's customers AKA the fans.
By RC0000 at 23,May,18 22:48 other posts of RC0000 
The people complaining about the NFL players taking a knee during the anthem are usually wedged into a Lazy-boy, covered in Doritos, while the anthem is playing on their tv.

Standing for any national anthem is merely a courtesy, nothing more.

What the NFL players, who are kneeling, are doing has nothing to do with the anthem, the flag, veterans or patriotism. They are simply using their platform on a national stage, when the cameras are on them, to bring attention and awareness to their cause of injustice and inequality towards people who are black. However, Trump and his knuckle-draggers made it about the flag and the anthem and now the white NFL masters have decided to punish their 'property' if they don't stand during their national anthem.
By jsmythe73 at 23,May,18 23:16 other posts of jsmythe73 
Respectfully, I disagree. The Flag and the Anthem are symbols of the United States, and are founded in what to Founding Father's fought for, died for, and what all of the soldiers today fight to uphold: A PERSONAL RIGHT to express themselves, to protest, but in reasonable ways.
I know that many of the Armed Forces and Police, that put their lives on the line, daily, so we all have the right to dissent, and disagree. Many have expressed disgust, at this particular form of protest.
Is it 'Wrong', no. Is it in bad taste, and likely to offend many that would have otherwise supported the 'cause'? yes.
I am trying to understand their reason for protesting, but how can I, really, being white, never having faced 'racism' like they have?
I just think that they should protest in another way, that doesn't offend the Flag, the Anthem and what those stand for. I think this particular kind of protest, alienates some that would otherwise support their position!!
In changing any major thing, in any society, the ones that are suppressed NEED, above all, the support of society, as a whole, to **** the change, gathering momentum by gaining supporters.
Kneeling at the Anthem, is losing supporters, I think, that would otherwise be aligned with those issues!
By RC0000 at 24,May,18 00:32 other posts of RC0000 
The Founding Fathers of the United States were John Adams, Benjamin Franklin, Alexander Hamilton, John Jay, Thomas Jefferson, James Madison, and George Washington and are referred to as the Signers of the Declaration of Independence in 1776.

"The Star-Spangled Banner" was made the national anthem by a congressional resolution on March 3, 1931.

Unless the Founding Fathers were time travelers, they did NOT fight for and/or die for the National Anthem of the United States.

Many people who have served in the military or who are currently serving have voiced their support of the players right to protest in this manner.

I explained the players reason for protesting.

When you say 'I just think that they should protest in another way', many people have said the exact same thing but have not offered an alternate form of protest which THEY feel would be acceptable.

Black People: March in the streets to bring attention to their cause
White People: Black people should protest peacefully
Black People: Kneel quietly during the national anthem
White People: NO. Not like that
By kebmo at 24,May,18 01:48 other posts of kebmo 
The national anthem started being sang before MLB and NFL games during WW2. It wasn't until 2009 that the NFL players began standing on the field for it.
The thing that changed was that Trump got involved and made it a HUGE issue and of course lied about why they're doing it which his supporters believed to be the truth.
Had he just done the impossible, kept his mouth shut, it wouldn't be such a huge issue today. It would probably quietly disappeared or handled diplomatically behind closed doors.
By PoloFields at 25,May,18 16:32 other posts of PoloFields 
Trump turned the issue into not respecting the flag and the military because he didn't want to deal with racist police. NFL owners are sheep.

That said, why are we playing the anthem at sporting events and not before theatre or opera performances? Just start the game.
By kebmo at 25,May,18 18:29 other posts of kebmo 
Good call, just stop singing it but imagine the outcry by the people that will say that the NFL is antipatriotic!! It really is a tough situation for the NFL to be in. Nothing they decide will satisfy everyone. I think telling them to just stay in the locker room is the best that they can do. The fact they are not on the field will be noted.
By RC0000 at 25,May,18 20:52 other posts of RC0000 
There is a very simple solution to this.

Play the national anthem before every public event and require all in attendance to sing all FOUR verses of the Star Spangled Banner, including the third verse where it talks of putting slaves in the grave. Once people realize that their national anthem is more than just one verse, they will quickly stop talking about patriotism and will call it for what it is ~ a Racist song written by a Racist.

O say can you see, by the dawn’s early light,
What so proudly we hail’d at the twilight’s last gleaming,
Whose broad stripes and bright stars through the perilous fight
O’er the ramparts we watch’d were so gallantly streaming?
And the rocket’s red glare, the bombs bursting in air,
Gave proof through the night that our flag was still there,
O say does that star-spangled banner yet wave
O’er the land of the free and the home of the brave?

On the shore dimly seen through the mists of the deep
Where the foe’s haughty host in dread silence reposes,
What is that which the breeze, o’er the towering steep,
As it fitfully blows, half conceals, half discloses?
Now it catches the gleam of the morning’s first beam,
In full glory reflected now shines in the stream,
’Tis the star-spangled banner - O long may it wave
O’er the land of the free and the home of the brave!

And where is that band who so vauntingly swore,
That the havoc of war and the battle’s confusion
A home and a Country should leave us no more?
Their **** has wash’d out their foul footstep’s pollution.
No refuge could save the hireling and slave
From the terror of flight or the gloom of the grave,
And the star-spangled banner in triumph doth wave
O’er the land of the free and the home of the brave.

O thus be it ever when freemen shall stand
Between their lov’d home and the war’s desolation!
Blest with vict’ry and peace may the heav’n rescued land
Praise the power that hath made and preserv’d us a nation!
Then conquer we must, when our cause it is just,
And this be our motto - “In God is our trust,”
And the star-spangled banner in triumph shall wave
O’er the land of the free and the home of the brave.
By jsmythe73 at 25,May,18 22:28 other posts of jsmythe73 
Reductio ad Absurdum!!

By jsmythe73 at 25,May,18 22:25 other posts of jsmythe73 
Maybe re-read what I posted! I NEVER said anything about the Founders KNOWING the ANTHEM, but rather said that the FLAG, and ANTHEM, are SYMBOLS of their INTENT, and what they did!!!
'Peaceful Protest' is guaranteed. Being obstructive, disrupting travel on highways, roads and in public places is NOT COVERED by 'Free Speech'!
Our roads, and highways are paid for by our taxes, and the right to pass on them, is as much mine, as yours! If a protest INFRINGES upon my rights, it is ****, and shutting down highways, with these protests is ****.
Your rights END, when they infringe upon another's rights!
Sadly, the local police are too afraid to enforce the laws, and everyone is inconvenienced, and thus ****, and REFUSE to support whatever protest that violates those laws, and inconveniences them!
If you want to protest, YOU NEED POPULAR SUPPORT! What IDIOT imagines that shutting down a highway, is going to gain support for the cause??
By RC0000 at 25,May,18 22:51 other posts of RC0000 
When you say ''Peaceful Protest' is guaranteed' ... does that include the peaceful protest by NFL players taking a knee on the field, something which will now guarantee a fine every time they do it. Sounds like that guarantee comes with terms and conditions which are based on the colour of your skin.
By kebmo at 25,May,18 23:12 other posts of kebmo 
RCOOOO, the players are at work. Their right to protest peacefully probably isn't covered at work unless the union votes for it.
By bella! at 25,May,18 23:53 other posts of bella! 
That's a very good point, kebmo!
By PoloFields at 26,May,18 02:27 other posts of PoloFields 
That's part of it, Bella. The players weren't consulted. With a league that has a 70 percent black makeup, it's a continuation of the plantation mentality. It's known at least two owners - of San Francisco and Oakland - abstained from the vote. Compare and contrast with the NBA, which also has a large percentage of blacks, but the league and the players worked together to come to a solution.
By kebmo at 26,May,18 04:31 other posts of kebmo 
The NBA worked it out as adults because Trump didn't stick his nose into it and make it a national issue. I will assume that he watches football but not basketball.

By bella! at 24,May,18 10:45 other posts of bella! 
Over the years, the names for recording artists or groups have become clever, unique or just plain weird.

Grateful Dead pops into my head, what pops into yours?

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By noname at 24,May,18 22:08 other posts of noname 
The Lovin' Spoonful maybe?
By bella! at 24,May,18 22:40 other posts of bella! 
Well, of course that is an odd name. And I have been helping my parents edit the mess that they have at their house and found a stack of 45's that belonged to my sˇster. In that stack was one from the Strawberry Alarm Clock, Insense and Peppermints. Wow!
By noname at 24,May,18 22:48 other posts of noname 
very irregular name, I would say.

By Andthisisme at 25,May,18 10:47 other posts of Andthisisme 
There are so many weird and wacky names of groups in the 1960s. I do remember

Big **** and the holding company, Quicksilver messenger service and Tangerine dream.

In fact in an interview Paul Mccartney did once suggest that the Sgt Pepper album name was a response to the increasingly wierd names of groups.

By Whoknows at 24,May,18 22:54 other posts of Whoknows 
Here's a couple for you...
The 13th Floor Elevators
The Chocolate Watch Band
By kebmo at 25,May,18 03:06 other posts of kebmo 
Somewhat related:
A folk singer from the '70's named Shawn Phillips wrote a song called She was waiting for her mother at the station in Torino and you know I love you baby but it's getting to heavy to laugh.
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His album, Second Contribution is FANTASTIC!
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By bella! at 23,May,18 23:40 other posts of bella! 
Dang! Not that it surprises me, countrycouple54 (or should I say the Mrs.), are tearing up the FREE THEME IMAGE CONTEST! They have four winner's awards on their page. It should have been five because, in my humble opinion, Mr. was robbed of that title in THE BEST BUTT PIC 😁 contest.

By 2nice at 22,May,18 11:52 other posts of 2nice 
This thread will NEVER be as popular as “Pissing At Urinals”.
By CountryCouple54 at 22,May,18 12:33 other posts of CountryCouple54 
Now that's fucking funny but true.

By bella! at 22,May,18 14:22 other posts of bella! 
No, and "PISSING AT URINALS" probably will never be as popular as RANDOM BULLSHIT.

By JustWill at 22,May,18 14:25 other posts of JustWill 
It seems to me that pissing IN urinals is a much more sanitary practice. Just pissing at them is lazy and sloppy.
By bella! at 22,May,18 14:31 other posts of bella! 
I am a firm believer that guys are okay with their urine getting "close" to the target, aka toilet. Occasionally, I will use the unisex restroom at Anytime Fitness and it is plain to see that guys do not give a rat's ass if their urine makes it in the toilet.
By kebmo at 22,May,18 20:33 other posts of kebmo 
I don't understand why homes aren't built with urinals in the bathrooms. If I were to build a house it should would sure have one.

By bigg at 23,May,18 16:43 other posts of bigg 
You may be right there. But numbers don´t necessarily count. Will this thread ever be as popular as "Toilet Times in the Garden of Vesse"? to pincushion.....
By 2nice at 23,May,18 21:34 other posts of 2nice 
Ohhh....those were the days.

You rock, man.

By bella! at 21,May,18 00:55 other posts of bella! 
Was it my imagination or wasn't it originally only 20 points to create a contest in the "Free Theme Image Contest"?
By kebmo at 21,May,18 04:45 other posts of kebmo 
Yes it was Bella. With all the contests on the go obviously that was a bargain.
By bella! at 21,May,18 10:05 other posts of bella! 
Yes, I thought it was only 20 points to create a "uniquely" themed photo contest, such a MAJOR increase in points while the contest concept is still in its "maiden voyage" and there are wrinkles to iron out.

I believe that I recall that it was 20 points if members wanted to add their picture to a given contest yet now I see that the cost is 15 points.
By 2nice at 21,May,18 11:42 other posts of 2nice 
It seems to be taking off with a lot of new entries over the past two days. I don’t mind the increase in cost.
By bella! at 21,May,18 21:06 other posts of bella! 
Yes, it does seem to be taking off. In retrospect, I've sponsored 3 contests that seem to have sparked an interest in a good amount of the membership. There was the BEST OUTDOORS PIC 😁 contest that had 42 entrants, THE BEST BUTT PIC 😁 contest that attracted 50 entrants and BULGES! BULGES! BULGES!!!! 😁 that had 42 entrants.

I want to say when those contests were launched, it cost the member 20 points to enter their picture and even with the going rate of 15 points, the contests with 42 entrants generated 630+ points, the contest with 50 entrants generated 750+ points so I really do think admin should come up with a better prize than one valued at 100 points.

By bella! at 21,May,18 21:31 other posts of bella! 
By the way, I just looked at the contests that are already in progress, IF I COUNTED CORRECTLY, there are 83 in progress and there are 11 that drew 40 or more interested members.

I kinda think that the Free Theme Image Contest has proved to be successful an received with much enthusiasm.
By 2nice at 22,May,18 09:12 other posts of 2nice 
I’m digging it.
By bella! at 22,May,18 09:29 other posts of bella! 
I will be more into it once the results are posted.

Just my observation, for this feature being less than 2 weeks old, I'm finding that some of the contests seem repetitive.
By 2nice at 22,May,18 13:12 other posts of 2nice 
I guess there’s only so many things you can say about dicks, boobs and whisker biscuits.

By bella! at 23,May,18 17:39 other posts of bella! 
One of my friends one a contest that was very popular. He not only received the trophy for being the winner, he received in excess of 200+ points. That's what I'm talking about! WOO HOO!!!! for the FREE THEME IMAGE CONTEST!

By RC0000 at 22,May,18 14:13 other posts of RC0000 
One thing which hasn't been mentioned in the contest outline is what is going to happen when there is a tie in the voting results, which is going to eventually occur.

By bella! at 23,May,18 09:52 other posts of bella! 
Woo hoo!!!! 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

The first few Free Theme Image Contests have been decided and awards were given! The "gift" is attractive and very unique.

I've been told that participating contest entrants are notified, via a system generated private message, that the contest is over AND advised how their picture fared! Nicely done, admin.

By kebmo at 23,May,18 04:57 other posts of kebmo 
I bought tickets for April Wine yesterday. They are a Canadian classic rock band and known somewhat in the US. Here are three of their better known songs. Enjoy!
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Of course it's better with headphones!

By bella! at 23,May,18 09:31 other posts of bella! 
Oh my goodness!

By bella! at 22,May,18 14:37 other posts of bella! 
With regard to the Free Theme Image Contest, I'm surprised that there are a couple of contests that are videos instead of pictures. And some of the videos are quite "pricey" point wise.
By 2nice at 22,May,18 15:32 other posts of 2nice 
Those posting should be more considerate of potential voters.
By bella! at 22,May,18 17:46 other posts of bella! 
For sure! It will be interesting to see which member's video wins and if the views had actually increased.
By kebmo at 22,May,18 19:44 other posts of kebmo 
Is there a way for me to tell how much viewers will pay to watch my video or how much I will pay to watch someone's video? I paid 17 points the other day to watch one and 2 points to watch another. I don't get it.
By bella! at 22,May,18 20:18 other posts of bella! 
Well, if the video is going to cost you points, it is written in red. I really don't know what causes one video to be 17 points and another to be zero. It probably has something to do with the size of the file and the quality of the file. Like if you want to have HD with your dish or cable company, you pay more.
By kebmo at 22,May,18 20:30 other posts of kebmo 
I'm just not going to watch ANY.

By bella! at 22,May,18 08:38 other posts of bella! 
Has anyone ever noticed that when admin posts something in the forum, whether informative OR snarky, you cannot (+) or (-) him. WTF?
By kebmo at 22,May,18 14:10 other posts of kebmo 
What are they for? I've never used them.
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...until now. I just + my own comment. Is that like verbal masturbation?
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Oops I did it again to that new comment. I just let you know that I'll do it again after I post this.
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Oh, I love this!
By bella! at 22,May,18 14:18 other posts of bella! 
You cannot (+) or (-) your own posts, you crazy Canuck!

The (+) and (-) is the means of being able to say, (+) "yes, I agree and support your post" OR (-) "no, hell no, you are way off base".
By kebmo at 22,May,18 14:24 other posts of kebmo 
I can, I did and I will continue to do so. It causes a stimulation within my body below my belly button and above my knees. +++++++++++++++++++++++++
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Oh, that's enough for now. Maybe I'll do it again later and post a photo of me +++++++ing.
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When you live alone, you have to amuse yourself.

By kebmo at 21,May,18 17:45 other posts of kebmo 
Thank you Queen Victoria from all Canadians for the day off!

Maybe I'll take some photos of my cock today Your Majesty.

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By bella! at 21,May,18 18:09 other posts of bella! 
She don't wanna see your Canadian Curve!
By kebmo at 22,May,18 00:35 other posts of kebmo 
Yes she does Bella. EVERYONE wants to see my cock.
By bella! at 22,May,18 08:40 other posts of bella! 
kebmo, either put your readers on or squint and look at that picture again in the link you provided. She's turned her back on you and she ain't smiling!

By 2nice at 22,May,18 07:55 other posts of 2nice 
I wish Donald Trump would give us a day off...
By bella! at 22,May,18 08:34 other posts of bella! 
Well, you work for the "wrong" employer.

By bella! at 22,May,18 09:34 other posts of bella! 
Hey, based on your last private message, it kinda sounds like you would not do anything relaxing if you had a paid day off!
By 2nice at 22,May,18 10:20 other posts of 2nice 
No, it probably wouldn’t be relaxing.
By bella! at 22,May,18 10:24 other posts of bella! 
Well, would it be kinky?
By 2nice at 22,May,18 10:40 other posts of 2nice 
Haha, well...I’m certain at least a few of my activities would be that day.

By bella! at 22,May,18 10:23 other posts of bella! 

I found this interesting post in the "Say Something" column posted on SYD. All interested members can contact the seemingly sensitive member, Dicky

"I'm Really Horny & Need Some New Strange Pussy Can Any Of U Nasty Bicthes Help Me Please I Want To Cum N Some New Pussy"

By roadguy32751 at 21,May,18 10:31 other posts of roadguy32751 
On a NEW SUBJECT: GIFTS: Why is it that IF someone would want to cash in a gift they / you do not get the same value of points : ?


Slice of pie 20 10
Blue Ribbon 20 10
Fireworks 20 0
Sundae 20 10
Movie Date 20 10
Piece of Cake 20 10
Stud Muffin 20 0
Hugs & Kisses 20 0

Just curious ? Any thoughts ?
By bella! at 21,May,18 13:20 other posts of bella! 
My GUESS is that was something admin put into place to insure that there was no point swapping between accounts.

Years ago, there were a good number of shell accounts that were established primarily for the purpose of Domination Game. Can you imagine if YOU were able to create "x" amount of shell accounts that COULD possibly elevate you to the king or queen of the site? And then those shell accounts would gift you and you destroyed those gifts and received the actual point value? You would be sitting on buckets full of points which you COULD use to wreak havoc amongst the general membership. That's really is what happened.

It's also kinda like it costing you 3 points to vote [HOT] and the recipient receiving only 2 OR "donating" points to another member and the recipient receiving about 75% of what it cost you.

Now with regard to the gifts, the gifts are set up as "good", "funny/questionable" and "negative". So as you noted, if I send you a "good" gift, you can destroy it and in MOST cases, receive 1/2 the value of what the sender spent. If I send you a "funny/questionable" gift and if you chose to destroy it, you receive absolutely nothing. And in the event that I send you a negative gift, it will actually cost you the exact point value to destroy it. Capitalism!
By roadguy32751 at 21,May,18 19:25 other posts of roadguy32751 
But what I am saying is the Hugs, Stud, and Fireworks all cost 20 like the others I listed yet "cash in" value is 0 ?
By bella! at 21,May,18 21:00 other posts of bella! 
Yes, I understood but I have no idea what admin's logic was when he categorized the gifts.

I can't explain why the holiday fireworks is categorized as a good gift, yet IF you thought you wanted to destroy for points, there is no redemption value. I have no idea why the "Hugs & Kisses" and the "Stud" muffin gifts are considered "harmless joke" gifts. It seems to me that those gifts were not classified correctly. It was just my intent to illustrate that in MOST instances, "good gifts" could be destroyed by the recipient whereby the recipient would receive 1/2 the original point value. "Joke/harmless gifts" could be destroyed by the recipient and the would receive zip, zero, nada. And "negative gifts" would cost the recipient the face value of the gift to destry/remove it from their page OR any member that chose to do so.

Other than a few different gifts being added or removed, I have no idea why things are done the way they are done but I can tell you that it is the way things have been done for the last 8+ years.

By kebmo at 21,May,18 06:01 other posts of kebmo 
Enjoy this beautiful song while you enjoy SYD.

K.D. Lang sings Leonard Cohen's Hallelujah 17.5M views.

This is the only cover that I think is better than the original. Sorry Leonard. RIP

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By JustWill at 21,May,18 15:29 other posts of JustWill 
HOT DAMN! That was just awesome.
By kebmo at 21,May,18 17:17 other posts of kebmo 
Isn't it?!?!? It's from the 2005 Juno Awards, Canada's version of the Grammy's. She also sang it at the opening ceremonies of the 2010 Winter Olympics in Vancouver, BC.

Nothing says humble like her smile at the end of the song as the crowd gets to their feet.

My Dad's wife is religious and she LOVES it! I didn't tell here that KD Lang is gay though.

Here's KD singing Roy Orbison's Crying. Her range is amazing.

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By binman101 at 21,May,18 09:55 other posts of binman101 
Someone asked him to put a photo on where it had not been pumped, not sure if any were put on though

By princea at 21,May,18 01:16 other posts of princea 
they look terrible when they are pumped!!

By bella! at 20,May,18 18:42 other posts of bella! 
Okay, I'm going to try to be respectful about this and here goes......

I just finished looking at the POPULAR PAGE and I would sincerely like to know why members seem to believe everything that they see? Why, oh why, are there multiple pictures of a new member on that page? The 26 year old guy claims he pumps. The only thing he pumped or pushed was the button on his device under the Photoshop app. Gimme a break, do you ninnyhammers really believe that his dick is real?
By 2nice at 20,May,18 18:55 other posts of 2nice 
I laughed out loud when I saw those pictures. While his shop skills aren’t bad, his ego interfered with what is believable, and what is ludicrous.
By kebmo at 20,May,18 18:59 other posts of kebmo 
But you both "viewed" it didn't you? So did I. That's why he's there. Lots of people do believe but they saw it on the internet so it must be true.
By bella! at 20,May,18 21:45 other posts of bella! 
kebmo, yeah, I "looked" at the picture but I did not have to click on more than one to realize that his damn dong was Photoshop'd!

I'm going to call out all the damn dummies that commented on or voted on the particular member I'm speaking of.

By roadguy32751 at 20,May,18 18:58 other posts of roadguy32751 
No way in hell it is real BUT if it is ... OH MY Still nice to dream right ? Some want to believe it is real.
By 2nice at 20,May,18 19:22 other posts of 2nice 
A dream? That would be a nightmare and a curse. You would be unable to have sex with anyone on the planet. Well, except for maybe a past member here who used to post pictures of tree limbs up his ass.
By roadguy32751 at 20,May,18 19:27 other posts of roadguy32751 
Well with his help I am sure he could make any hole big enough to take it. In my dreams I would like to SEE one that big, I said nothing about taking it

By bella! at 20,May,18 21:51 other posts of bella! 
Yeah, that guy was something else and his poor butt was all tore up!

By bella! at 20,May,18 21:53 other posts of bella! 
But in the picture where he's standing sideways, his dick looks bigger than his calves! C'mon!

By firefox553 at 20,May,18 19:29 other posts of firefox553 
I did not believe it. He said he pumped his dick for 6hrs there is now way.
By veryshyguy at 20,May,18 19:50 other posts of veryshyguy 
Indeed! I can't even imagine 6 hrs of pumping! I doubt the dick could take it and 6 hours would surely cause some major damage.

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