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By bella! at 17,Sep,25 02:18 other posts of bella! 
In my travels to and from Florida, I’ve noticed a good deal of signage offering “boiled peanuts”. I’ve only had the traditional salted and roasted peanut butter apparently folks enjoy them boiled. Has anyone tried boiled peanuts and if so, please share your thoughts.

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By phart at 17,Sep,25 03:37 other posts of phart 
I eat them sometimes, i like the salted or the 1's that have a little heat to them. messy to eat, and i do seem to have to scoot to the bathroom a bit more often if i eat a bunch of them.
Taste, i like them,but most folks think they are to messy . Driving, not a good thing to try to eat driving.
By Cody8789 at 17,Sep,25 05:20 other posts of Cody8789 
Yuck, slimy and icky tasting, I stopped a couple times in Georgia
By bella! at 17,Sep,25 08:26 other posts of bella! 
I must admit, I’M CURIOUS, however there’s never been an adventurous desire to try them because the back of my head is telling me that they are “yuck, slimy and icky tasting”!

I just noticed that in my initial post it reads; “ I’ve only had the traditional salted and roasted peanut BUTTER…..”. I’m talking about peanuts, not peanut butter so there’s no reason for BUTTER to appear in my post. It’s month 6 with this new phone and I know my right index finger did not go rogue on me! I need to reread my posts because it’s 1 of 2 things; my phone is “possessed” or predicted text is engaged!


By bella! at 17,Sep,25 08:07 other posts of bella! 
Oh NO! Eating boiled peanuts and needing to visit the restroom…… IN MY OPINION, NOT A PREFERRED OUTCOME IN CONJUNCTION WITH ANY FOOD ITEM! The guy in the video seemed to be sampling boiled peanuts with a spicy seasoning as well.

How are they messy?
By phart at 17,Sep,25 21:36 other posts of phart 
shells are wet, water drips from the shells as you take them apart to eat. I am not saying a few are going to make you ring the taco bell, i am just saying the amount i eat, seems to send me trotting after a few hours. I always get a large helping of them.
By dgraff at 17,Sep,25 22:59 other posts of dgraff 
Can’t say I ever tried them it must be a southern thing like grits
By phart at 18,Sep,25 01:21 other posts of phart 
um, you would have to go and make me hungry! I love my grits with plenty of real BUTTER on them. and if they are not the best grits, cheese helps.
By bella! at 18,Sep,25 01:50 other posts of bella! 
I’ve never had grits, not interested in trying them because visually, they do not appeal to me.
By dgraff at 18,Sep,25 04:05 other posts of dgraff 
There yucky
I was in North Carolina one time I stopped for breakfast and I tried to order steak eggs and home fries and the waitress told me the steak is served at dinner so I tried the grits never again
By Cody8789 at 18,Sep,25 04:42 other posts of Cody8789 
Wow, what’s a grit, for any real southerner it takes twenty minutes to cook there grits. (my cousin Vinny)

By bella! at 18,Sep,25 06:46 other posts of bella! 
Gee, if you have your mind and belly wanting a piece of beef (or meat of any kind), how could anyone ever consider grits as a proper substitute?

A hundred years ago, during the winter months in Michigan, my mother would often prepare oatmeal OR Cream of Wheat for breakfast so we (my sisters and I) had something hot and substantial in our tummies as we made our way to school. I liked both oatmeal and Cream of Wheat as hot cereals and when I see grits, I see Cream of Wheat on a plate which in my opinion is totally WRONG! In my world, Cream of Wheat is served in a bowl with a bit of brown sugar not with cheese!








By kebmo at 18,Sep,25 00:54 other posts of kebmo 
That looks like a big sloppy mess! I pass. I love my cashews though.
By dgraff at 18,Sep,25 04:00 other posts of dgraff 
Absolutely fresh roasted salted cashews




By bella! at 18,Sep,25 01:51 other posts of bella! 
ABC and Disney have decided to pull Jimmy Kimmel Live late-night program indefinitely because of the Charlie Kirk remarks made in his Monday night monologue.

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By phart at 18,Sep,25 02:01 other posts of phart 



By bella! at 17,Sep,25 20:31 other posts of bella! 
Just a question, did anyone experience any problems entering the site today or was it just me? I wasn’t able to get into the site appropriately 10:30 EST, about 6 hours ago and I’ve attempted to sign in over the periodically throughout my day. Just wondering.
By phart at 17,Sep,25 21:34 other posts of phart 
it seemed to be just completely gone from the web this morning about 9 am.
I didn't check for a long time and now it is back up and working. Must have been getting work done on it.

By CAT52! at 17,Sep,25 21:53 other posts of CAT52! 
The site was off-line for several hours. I couldn't get in until around 3pm.

By dgraff at 17,Sep,25 22:54 other posts of dgraff 
I was on line early 5 am doing my voting and it worked then
By bella! at 18,Sep,25 00:52 other posts of bella! 
I was online at about 4 a.m. and things were okie dokie. I tried to get back online at approximately 10:30 and could not. Both phart and CAT experienced an issue between the hours of 9 a.m. and 3 p.m. so I’m reasonably sure something was going on….. Being so close to Canada, I’m never certain whether it’s an internet issue or a ME ISSUE.




By bella! at 16,Sep,25 11:17 other posts of bella! 
True!

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By CAT52! at 17,Sep,25 13:11 other posts of CAT52! 
🤣🤣

By t-rex at 17,Sep,25 17:57 other posts of t-rex 
By phart at 17,Sep,25 21:34 other posts of phart 




By bella! at 16,Sep,25 04:57 other posts of bella! 
Something interesting I found on YouTube titled; FORGOTTEN HISTORICAL PHOTOS PART 27. What I was completely gobsmacked over was the hemlines of the flight attendants aka stewardesses in the photo circa 1946. WOW!

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By bella! at 16,Sep,25 04:46 other posts of bella! 
MY GUESS is that this is scripted but it is also MY GUESS that there is a fair amount of truth to this as well……

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By bella! at 15,Sep,25 13:44 other posts of bella! 
Please listen to what this empathetic “tough guy” had to say about Charlie Kirk.

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By phart at 15,Sep,25 17:06 other posts of phart 



By bella! at 13,Sep,25 12:40 other posts of bella! 
So odd…. Out of the blue I received a gift from someone that I never interacted with and what makes it more peculiar, I could not personally thank them because they do not accept messages from anyone other than their “friends”!
By Ananas2xLekker at 15,Sep,25 13:08 other posts of Ananas2xLekker 
Do you know any of their friends? Maybe they can help clear it up for you?
By bella! at 15,Sep,25 13:40 other posts of bella! 
Actually, I did do that and his friend, the person that I reached out to said the following of the member; “he seems very respectful, unlike a lot of members we have here, he’s always been nice to me.”

I believe I’ve been a member 13 consecutive years and have maintained the same screen name. The respectful nice guy that gifted me was a former member, a member on my friend list, someone I knew under a different name. It just took him a couple of years to say “hello”.




By bella! at 11,Sep,25 17:42 other posts of bella! 
I’m glad that I’m not the only person that is afraid of needles!

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By Cody8789 at 11,Sep,25 19:36 other posts of Cody8789 
By bella! at 12,Sep,25 02:07 other posts of bella! 
I’m glad that you found the video humorous however the fear of needles is for real, just ask me!
By Ananas2xLekker at 12,Sep,25 12:40 other posts of Ananas2xLekker 
I won't call myself a hero around needles.
It's not the needle that I fear, it's the sting.

It's because of a few bad experiences. It was for a work health checkup once. That needle to draw blood thicker than usual. We always have a survey after the checkup,
so I complained about that needle hurting. They got back to me and told me that no one had ever complained about it ( ), but that they would look into it.

Another time was during the Covid pandemic. There was a shortage of needles, so they used every Eastern European drain-pipe that they could find. The first and third jab were fine, but the second was very much not nice. It still hurt minutes after.



By t-rex at 12,Sep,25 06:33 other posts of t-rex 
As a child I was terrible, I remember screaming and trying to run out of the room, luckily things have changed and I can now watch the whole process. Stay strong young lady 😃
By Cody8789 at 12,Sep,25 07:25 other posts of Cody8789 
As a young boy, I didn’t mind the needles as much as I was terrified on dropping my pants naked in front of the nurse so I could get a shot. I didn’t want anyone to see me naked.
By bella! at 12,Sep,25 08:36 other posts of bella! 
A young boy, huh? That was a few years ago and your gallery of photos is a testament that you’re no longer shy!

By t-rex at 12,Sep,25 12:14 other posts of t-rex 
Good that didn’t last, I personally see many nurses I would like to drop my pants for 🤣


By bella! at 12,Sep,25 08:31 other posts of bella! 
My “little sister” is 20 months younger than me. When we would go to the doctor, a hundred years ago, we had this pact that we “WOULDN’T”. We wouldn’t cry, we wouldn’t wiggle, we wouldn’t misbehave and since we went into the room together, there was no way to be deceptive.

It’s been many years since then and I honestly DO NOT like needles. I have to look away, the phlebotomist and/or whoever is administering the injection, is a witness to my anxiety and sometimes tears. I never would have been able to be a needle using drug taker…..
By t-rex at 12,Sep,25 12:12 other posts of t-rex 
That has to be terrible to still hold this fear, but hopefully you get a lollipop afterwards 😃



By Ananas2xLekker at 12,Sep,25 12:31 other posts of Ananas2xLekker 
This video is 4 years old, but when I saw it I felt so sorry for him.
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By phart at 14,Sep,25 00:44 other posts of phart 
Well with all the issues i have had this past year with blood pressure and chest pain,shortness of breath and what not, i finally got a appointment end of october to get checked out after the dr has been getting my bp down to a level she is happier with. I don't know how many needles i will see the next few months but i dread them.
By Ananas2xLekker at 14,Sep,25 08:35 other posts of Ananas2xLekker 
Doctors can give you medicines, which is sometimes necessary,
but only you yourself can improve your health.

Health or lack of it is not just genetic or accidental,
you have a lot of influence over it with food, water, sleep and exercise.

Ask Grok: "What type of diet is best to reduce heart and arteries disease?"

Good food choices for hypertension management include:
Bananas (contain about 420 mg of potassium per piece)
Leafy greens (spinach, kale, Swiss chard)
Beans and lentils
Sweet potatoes
Avocados
Oranges and melons

You can do exercise without spending a cent. It's just a matter of moving some muscles, raising the heartbeat and working up a bit of a sweat.

My hypertension is reaching risky levels too, I've just measured close to 180/100. It's up and down, depending on how I treat my own body. I went to sleep too late, woke up too early, didn't take my supplements, didn't do any exercises, so it's up today. Last week,
I got it down to 140/85, by doing everything right. It's not fun, I would rather eat what I want and I don't like exercises, but heart disease and needles are no fun either.
My doctor isn't giving me any medicine yet. I have to improve my food, water, sleep and exercise, just like I'm telling you. I mainly have to loose weight. Maybe that's not your problem, but the regiment for your health problems is still almost the same.
By phart at 14,Sep,25 15:46 other posts of phart 
weight is a issue, and it has not got better since this started, if i could just feel better, i wouldn't at least gain weight. so much of that stuff that is so good to eat, taste like # sweet taters, yea, watermelon YUK.i can stand bananas. i will look into what you posted.
By Ananas2xLekker at 15,Sep,25 09:24 other posts of Ananas2xLekker 
Weight is just a balance of how much calories go in and how much calories you use. The easiest method of reducing what comes in is eliminating the calories that don't fill you up, like useless sugars and fats. Candy, snacks and sodas are filled with useless sugar and fat. The combination of sugar and fat is highly addictive. If you keep feeding the addiction, it will become worse and worse. Find alternatives for the cravings to conquer the addiction.

The worst you can do is take artificial sweeteners. They tell the brain that something sweet is coming in, creating an insulin spike, lowering the sugar in your blood, because there is no actual sugar coming in. Then the body starts screaming for sugar even louder.

Bananas are just an easy source of potassium and slow sugars (which balance the sugar in your blood). There are other sources of potassium. If there is no potassium food that you like, just buy potassium pills, because potassium is really important if you have hypertension. It can give almost immediate relief. Just don't overdo it, because that's not healthy either.

And just to be sure, I assume you know that salt (sodium) is very bad for you when you have hypertension. You don't have to cut it to zero, because then all food tastes like cardboard, but try to reduce it to the minimum. If you are emptying a bag of potato chips each day, you're killing yourself. Factory food almost always contain lots of salt, sugar, saturated fats or oxidized unsaturated fats. Healthy food is expensive, but if you buy smart and invest time, you can eat much healthier for the same money.
Food factories are turning the cheapest ingredients into PROFIT. They turn unhealthy ingredients into something that people love to eat, by adding sugar, fat and salt,
and feeding the addiction. If you cook for yourself, and be smart about it, you are making money and saving your health.







By CAT52! at 10,Sep,25 21:11 other posts of CAT52! 
Charlie Kirk is dead. RIP. Mr Kirk was assassinated today while speaking at a Utah university. He was a strong Trump supporter. Violence has no place in politics. Prayers for his family.
By bella! at 11,Sep,25 00:30 other posts of bella! 
I like this guy and I subscribe to Yourbestiemishsa on YouTube

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By CAT52! at 14,Sep,25 22:32 other posts of CAT52! 
Makes you think.


By t-rex at 11,Sep,25 01:07 other posts of t-rex 
R.I.P

By bella! at 11,Sep,25 07:43 other posts of bella! 
I recognize that it’s not unusual for folks to say “prayers to so-and-so’s family” however what is happening almost everyday needs immediate attention. We need to pray for our country, our people, pray that VIOLENCE STOPS NOW!

By bella! at 11,Sep,25 09:17 other posts of bella! 
This is the “other” murder captured on video that Misha made reference to…..the young woman from Ukraine.

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By Ananas2xLekker at 11,Sep,25 14:03 other posts of Ananas2xLekker 
I agree, violence has no place in politics.
Like him or not, agree with him or not, he was supportive of the marketplace of ideas
and willing to debate everyone.

There's just one thing though, just because he was active in politics, doesn't mean
that this was political violence. Remember the attempt on Trump's life?
All of the right-wing pointed fingers at the left, but it turned out to be just another lunatic.
When he turned out to be a right-winger, you lot either shut-up immediately or you kept blaming the left somehow. Some even kept saying that he was a lefty of liberal.
Can you wait with pointing fingers, until you have evidence?

And another thing: the same day that Charlie Kirk was murdered, there was another school shooting. Only the shooter is dead and 2 kids were wounded, but you know
how often this turns out worse. It hardly gets any coverage from the news anymore.
Do you think that political commentators have more right to be safe than children?
Charlie Kirk never empathized with school shooting victims. He calls them 'worth it'.
I support his right to say these horrible things, but I don't think that people like him
should be immune from the danger that children suffer each day, because of his ideas.
Care about all the victims, not just your preferred political commentators.

On August 8, 2025, DeKalb County Police Officer David Rose was killed by Patrick Joseph White, a shooter who fired at the CDC complex in Atlanta. White, who died by suicide after the attack, expressed deep discontent with mRNA COVID-19 vaccines, believing they had harmed him and others. The incident, which involved over 500 rounds of ammunition, heightened anxiety and trauma among CDC workers and prompted calls for improved protections for public health employees. I didn't hear anyone talk about this, here.
That's a proven politically inspired murder and mass murder attempt. Does anyone care?
By CAT52! at 14,Sep,25 22:33 other posts of CAT52! 
Bottom line? It's murder and that is not right.
By phart at 15,Sep,25 02:32 other posts of phart 
on this we agree. a murder is a murder

By Ananas2xLekker at 15,Sep,25 07:50 other posts of Ananas2xLekker 
Exactly, murder is murder, and that is not right.

All Democratic politicians are shouting that from the rooftops right now, including all liberal news outlets, and all liberal and lefty channels on YouTube. You really have to search hard and long for a lefty extremist who celebrates Kirk's murder. They exist,
of course, but I've found no one with a big platform.

Have you seen all Republicans say murder is wrong, when a Democrat or liberal
is murdered, or attacked with the intent of murder, with a clear right-wing motive?

All the right-wing media is still blaming the left, while every right-winger with a platform is calling for violence against the left.

They are all hypocrites.


By bella! at 15,Sep,25 04:41 other posts of bella! 
On another note, I’m curious whether you feel and/or believe that mRNA-COVID-19 injection, for the lack of a better phrase, “was necessary to maintain your health and save your life” ?
By Ananas2xLekker at 15,Sep,25 08:57 other posts of Ananas2xLekker 
Does it need to be "necessary"? How about "generally much more preferable than not"?

When I have an infected wound, it's not "necessary" to take antibiotics, but I generally prefer it over cutting out the infection or waiting until I possibly need an amputation.

The chance for anyone to get Covid at some point in life is close to 100%.
The question is: "Do I want to beat it myself or do I want a immunity system head start?"
I think that I would have survived Covid without getting vaccinated, I'm not old and weak, and I generally have a decent immune system. Still, my brother is 4 years younger, and he had Covid before anyone else had it, because he was at the carnival parties in the south of my country, when it first started to spread quickly. He told me that he had never been as sick as that before. He felt very sick for a week, then had a horrible cough for weeks, and 3 months later, he still had trouble walking up a flight of stairs.

After 2 shots, I eventually got Covid. It wasn't fun, but I have had worse flus and migraines that were much worse.
[Before you think that I am saying that Covid is a flu, I'm not. Those are 2 completely different species of viruses. It's just as wrong to say that Covid is Ebola.]
I missed work for a few days, because I didn't feel like working, but I didn't spent any daytime in bed. After I beat those symptoms, I had a bad cough for a week.
What's important to say that I'm overweight and my brother isn't because he does a lot of physical work. There were many UNVACCINATED men of my age and weight who went to the hospital, were put into sleep on a ventilator for sometimes weeks, and lots of them died. More than 1000 men of my age and weight have died. Vaccination reduced that risk by >90%. The risk of severe illness is reduced by about 95%.
So, I had a personal benefit from getting vaccinated.
The general benefit of me getting vaccinated is that I probably missed less working days, when I eventually got sick. I suffered no long-term effects from it. There were hundreds of thousands of people in my country who did suffer long-term effects or
are even still now not fully recovered. That's a burden on society.

I don't know if the mRNA-COVID-19 vaccine saved my life, but it's possible. Many unvaccinated people died, I know several cases from within my circle of acquaintances. I also know people who almost died and people who are still having after effects.
I don't know anyone who died after getting vaccinated, not from Covid and not from side effects of the vaccine. The statistics are in line with the anecdotal evidence around me.

Besides the mRNA-COVID-19 vaccination, I'm vaccinated against Diphtheria, Tetanus, Polio, Pertussis, Measles and Mumps. That's all the standard ones and Mumps at a later age, because I never had it. Those vaccinations were also not necessary to maintain my health or save my life. I never had any of those diseases, except Pertussis, a few years ago for 3 months. The vaccination effect diminishes after 40 years and the bacterium Bordetella pertussis has mutated. After 3 months, the doctor gave me an antibiotic and then it was gone in a week.

Why would you NOT get vaccinated, if all the information shows you that the benefits are much higher than the risk? I looked into all the claims that the mRNA-COVID-19 vaccine was killing people, and I concluded that those claims were either false or unverifiable. Those claims were coming from the same side that was spreading nonsense to people who don't have the knowledge to dismiss the nonsense. When they are telling me that mRNA-vaccines are gene-therapy, I know that to be nonsense.
There is no system in human cells to include mRNA information into our genes.

And that was even the least dumb conspiracy theory. They were saying that there are micro-chips in the vaccines to track you? Why? People are already carrying their surveillance devices in their pocket. Do you think they can make an injectable micro-chip that can do the job better than your smartphone? They claimed that vaccines were a time-bomb to decimate the population. Really? So they want to kill all the people who trust the government and big pharma and kill all the "critical thinkers"? If it's all a big conspiracy, then that vaccine will keep all the obedient people alive, while they kill the "critical thinkers" with the 100% lethal virus. That's much more logical. I'm still waiting, but neither conspiracy turned true yet.

Let me reverse the question: do you only accept medical treatment, when it is necessary to maintain your health and save your life? Did you ever use medication? Was that medication 100% safe? When you take medication, who do you trust that the benefits outweigh the risk? Are those other people than who told you that the mRNA-COVID-19 vaccine is safe? Can they ever prove to you that mRNA vaccines are safe or will you never trust them?





By bella! at 12,Sep,25 21:31 other posts of bella! 
Are you invited to a Halloween party and need an idea for a costume? Enjoy!

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By bella! at 10,Sep,25 05:31 other posts of bella! 
So I live in a small town, a beautiful little town that comes to life in the summer when the folks with boats dock here on the St Clair River! Yeah, nothing here except lots of water a background for beautiful landscape…… Again, my town is small, it’s not unusual to be in Kroger, local hardware store, on a walk or bicycle ride and bump into someone you know, a “local”.

Perhaps y’all have heard me say that I enjoy McDonald’s iced tea, IF NOT, I DO! So today I pop into my local McDonald’s to purchase and enjoy an iced tea after my 3 mile-ish walk. Just another average day in small town Michigan…… What wasn’t “average” was that I happened to be in line behind a man who apparently identified today as being a woman. How did I come to this conclusion? The masculine voice, the larger feet, the leg hair all screamed “MAN” however the purse as well as the silhouette of the bra appearing through his tight tee-shirt and the massive “lady humps” that the bra held were an attempt to present him as a “female”. In one respect, I applaud him for living his authentic life however it bothers ME that I recognize that I am left confused and bothered.
By phart at 10,Sep,25 12:07 other posts of phart 
well just ignore them, that is what they want, attention. you are not the 1 that is confused, they are.
By bella! at 10,Sep,25 12:42 other posts of bella! 
The issue that I have is ME. I’m not sure that I can explain it in a way that you or anyone else could understand, why should this bother me?

Out of one side of my mouth I say that I’m happy he’s living his authentic life and being his authentic self, yet it bothered me. Perhaps it’s that mentality, MY MENTALITY of; not with me, not in/with my family, not in my life, not in my town, this only happens to someone else, this only happens somewhere else…… Does that kinda make sense? I probably would not think twice if I experienced it in California or New York City, but not in my town. I would like to think that I am open minded but apparently I am not and that bothers me a great deal.
By phart at 10,Sep,25 15:31 other posts of phart 
the issues of mental illness are spreading all over the country. i see purple hair and crap all the time now in this part of the country and this used to be a fitting place to live.
By Cody8789 at 10,Sep,25 16:40 other posts of Cody8789 
Bella, it’s not just you, I’m sure everyone feels the same way, they just don’t talk about it. I don’t see it much and I live in a very populated area and when I see that I 👀 and shake my head and say to myself, “strange” but except it and just go on with my normal life. Even the colored hair is kinda weird why they do that. Bella, we both were brought up in a different time where it wasn’t excepted in normal society.
By bella! at 10,Sep,25 20:23 other posts of bella! 
Yeah, I’m a dinosaur….


By bella! at 10,Sep,25 20:22 other posts of bella! 
The color of hair doesn’t bother me, hair color is changeable.

I will “admit” to this, I’m not keen about too many tattoos OR piercings, either. Regarding piercings, sometimes both guys and girls go too far with piercing their face. If he wants to pierce his scrotum, have at it. If she wants to pierce her nipples, oh well, I don’t care. Now tattoos are another matter. On the face, in my opinion, not good, kind of a scary look. A sleeve, full sleeve on a man is kinda sexy. A sleeve/full sleeve on a woman, not so much…..
By Cody8789 at 10,Sep,25 23:41 other posts of Cody8789 
No tats or piercings on me,,, never. I was thinking of changing my hair color to pink or orange not
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By Ananas2xLekker at 11,Sep,25 15:12 other posts of Ananas2xLekker 
I understand the confusion. I am woke as fuck, but even I am confused sometimes.
A co-worker is a manly, but slender guy with long hair and a mustache.
Sometimes he wears manly clothes and sometimes he wears women's clothes.
He doesn't behave any different, but sometimes he just wears a dress and feminine ear-rings, like big red, orange or pink ones. That confused me. I didn't let him or anyone else notice, because I value his right to wear whatever he wants, without raising uncalled attention. Of course there is a dress code, so he shouldn't walk around in just a leather harness or something. He's just a gentlemen dressed as a lady, without in any other way pretending to be one. That confuses me. I have so many questions. However, that is none of my business, so I don't ask. If it doesn't come up in conversation, and he doesn't show any desire to talk about it, then I don't think I have a right to know all about his personal opinions or feelings.
Would I say I'm bothered? A bit, because my curiosity is not answered to, but other than that I have no negative feelings about it. I do have very positive feelings about him being accepted like he is.

I don't think society will ever progress to a state in which no one even notices anymore. Most of us have the standard sexual identity and attraction wired into our brains. That results in behavior and feelings which are consistent with the standard biology. Society might learn to more accept the biological variations, but people with standard biology will never appropriate those biological variations, even though some people are very worried that it's happening. People didn't all start writing with their left hand, when left-handedness got accepted. We are not all trying to do that, to fit in with the minority. We just accept it from others. People still say "Oh, are you left-handed?".

If I read correctly, the only thing you are bothered about is being bothered about it?
What is the feeling that you get when you are near them? When I first saw my co-worker,
it resulted in a feeling that I would describe as an 'error message' in my brain. I wouldn't say it bothered me, but I noticed some discomfort. I was still able to have a normal conversation with him. He never talked about pronouns, so I just call him 'him'. But, I wouldn't call him 'him' to his face, when he wears women's clothes, without raising the subject. It just didn't come up yet. That discomfort is gone now. I am always interested
in what he's wearing that day though, which I couldn't care less about for anyone else.

I did have such an 'error message' in my brain before, but a much more urgent one.
Years back, we went to an erotic fair, for the second or third time. That year, they had drag queens as greeters, they call themselves 'door bitches'. These ones were over the top, very tall, and I would say sexy too. They made me shy, and that doesn't happen a lot.
One of them made a kiss in my direction and said: "Hi honey!", in a very low voice.
That resulted in an 'error message' in my brain, of the likes last seen on Windows ME.
One part of my brain was filling my dick with blood and the other part of it screamed
"IT'S A GUY!!!!!". Interesting feeling. I hope I didn't show it too much.
By bella! at 11,Sep,25 17:40 other posts of bella! 
Thank you for your kind AND WISE words.

Yes, you are correct, it bothered me that this man standing no more than 3 feet away from me, seemed to bother me and my senses. As an f.y.i., I am enrolled in a cardio drumming class and the instructor is a very butch female. Throughout my years of living and working, I have encountered a number of super butch women and I did not stare OR “analyze” them with the same intensity as this man. My actions bothered me.

Maybe you are spot on with regard to what you call it, my brain experienced an “error message”. Whatever it was, I didn’t like it, again, I thank you for your kind and wise words.
By Ananas2xLekker at 12,Sep,25 10:55 other posts of Ananas2xLekker 
Thank you very much.

I can confirm that I never had the same “error message” in the brain, for a woman
who acts, dresses or even looks like a man. Over the years, we had friend circles that included gay men and lesbian women. We also got to meet their friend. One or two of the friends of the gay men gave me a few of those “error messages”, but the friend circles of the lesbian women never did. Don't you think that is strange?

I don't think it's societal, it must be something biological, but it's so strange that a woman feels it the same, for the same people, as a man. Overtly gay behavior is exaggerated feminine behavior. Drag queens are dressing and putting make-up on to create an exaggerated feminine look, with big tits, big butts and big red lips. That should only cause an "error" in the brain of a straight man, because it is attractive to straight men. Why would this cause an "error" in the brain of a straight woman? Straight women shouldn't be attracted to exaggerated femininity? However, butch lesbians are appropriating masculine behavior and looks. That should be attractive to straight woman. Why would that not result in an “error message” in their brain?

I am sure it's related to attraction, because I have had similar feelings, that I wouldn't really describe as an "error", but more like a "siren". I had that feeling in the sauna, when we were in a hot-tub with several people. There was one beautiful brown women that had already caught my attention, but I acted cool. But then she stood up to leave, passing along with her perfect ass about a foot from my nose, giving me direct view of her shaved pussy. Calling it a "siren" in my brain is an understatement. Can your head explode, without anyone noticing? I think I managed it.
I got a similar "siren", but only DEFCON 3, not DEFCON 1, when a very good looking woman showed me how to lay down on an x-ray machine. I was sitting on a chair next
to it and she lay down in a fetal position, making her tight jeans work very nicely together with her lower body, at very close proximity.
I accept the similarity of the brain "errors" and brain "sirens", as good evidence that
they are both related to my biological attraction.





By bella! at 12,Sep,25 02:12 other posts of bella! 
It was 24 years ago today, that terrorists attacked our country. Thousands of people died and thousands more were injured. A sad, sad day in history, for sure.


By bella! at 11,Sep,25 09:23 other posts of bella! 
Looks like Ken31234 has gone AWOL!


By bella! at 11,Sep,25 08:14 other posts of bella! 
And on the funny side, I hope you enjoy!

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By kebmo at 04,Sep,25 01:53 other posts of kebmo 
I just saw on the news that the current prize for the Powerball in the US is
$1.4 billion! That's absurd. How about 14 prices of $100 million or seven prices of $200 million?

In Canada we have something called Lotto Max. The prize limit is capped at
$80 million and anything above that the kitty gives away $1 million prizes called Max millions. In order to win the million dollar prizes you have to have seven correct numbers.
There could be 2, 10, 15 or 20 million dollar prizes.
By bella! at 04,Sep,25 04:11 other posts of bella! 
That jackpot is CRAZY! And to think, I could be over the moon with winning somewhere between 5 to 10 million……
By t-rex at 09,Sep,25 05:08 other posts of t-rex 
You and me both


By phart at 05,Sep,25 23:14 other posts of phart 
I seldom if ever buy a lotto ticket but oddly enough the largest winnings have been from tickets bought within 100 miles of me in the past couple weeks. 1 million here and another larger 1 later in the week.
but in regards to this big jack pot, i would wait until it was won and then buy a ticket a week later. to many being sold right now because of the big jack pot making the odds alot less in my favor.
By kebmo at 06,Sep,25 22:00 other posts of kebmo 
... but if you don't buy a ticket the odds are zero.
By Cody8789 at 09,Sep,25 08:05 other posts of Cody8789 
I didn’t play the Powerball, the odds of winning are about 450 mill to one. Now the fl. Lott o was going for 31 million and the odds are about 70 million to one. Odds are so much better than playing Powerball and don’t you think 31 million is more than you can spend in a lifetime, so why not play the odds and go for the 31, I don’t want the billion, too much hassle paying taxes and people getting your phone number asking you for money, I’ll be happy with a mere one million.
By kebmo at 09,Sep,25 14:15 other posts of kebmo 
Did somebody win the $1.4 billion Powerball?
By Cody8789 at 09,Sep,25 14:59 other posts of Cody8789 
Yes, two people won the 1.8 billion powerball and after taxes they should receive there three dollars and fifteen cents
By bella! at 09,Sep,25 15:11 other posts of bella! 
I do not play the lottery and with that said, I don’t really follow the lottery. Thanks for the update, I was not aware that the jackpot had been won! Only two winning tickets, eh? The winners are in Texas and Missouri, eh? Even splitting the winnings, each ticket holder is going to receive more money than they will ever need in their life! Can you imagine receiving $410MILLION dollars? Like I said, I would be over the money with 5 to 10 MILLION

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By bella! at 09,Sep,25 19:51 other posts of bella! 
Why are you laughing? Cody8789 failed to mention that the $3.15 was not U.S. dollars, his calculations were converted to Canadian currency!
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By Cody8789 at 09,Sep,25 17:10 other posts of Cody8789 
Will it ever stop raining, it’s been thundering all week, the week I decided to take off of work to paint my car, too wet and damp to do much, there’s just so much I can do in my garage without breathing in all the paint fumes.
By bella! at 09,Sep,25 19:54 other posts of bella! 
Your garage is big enough/ventilated well enough to allow you to do painting? NICE!

By bella! at 09,Sep,25 19:58 other posts of bella! 
By the way, my friends were saying that the weather in LaBelle has been high 80’s, low 90’s but raining…… I’m waiting for tornado season to come and go and then I will make my way to Florida.



By bella! at 09,Sep,25 04:58 other posts of bella! 
Look at the size of these dogs! Can you even begin to imagine what is involved in the backyard clean up!? Oi!

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By Cody8789 at 09,Sep,25 08:06 other posts of Cody8789 
That’s not a dog, that’s a horselol. You’ll have to get a second job just to keep them fed
By bella! at 09,Sep,25 12:06 other posts of bella! 
And second job to keep the dog fed? No, a second job to buy the backhoe needed as a pooper scooper!

I knew Great Danes are large but there were a couple of breeds in there that I could not identify and have no idea what they are. Can you imagine one of those being a trained police K-9 partner? Who needs to train German Shepherds or the Belgian Malinois? Can you imagine one of those things charging in after you? They are the size of a Mini Cooper…….me, I would shit bricks and surrender immediately!


By kebmo at 09,Sep,25 14:18 other posts of kebmo 
Just get a pony sized saddle and the grandkids will be in their glory!
By Cody8789 at 09,Sep,25 17:13 other posts of Cody8789 
I had one of those Great Danes charge me when I was very young, I ended up on the roof of someone’s car to get away from it, scary




By bella! at 03,Sep,25 18:03 other posts of bella! 
A grocery store sells pickle juice? I had NO IDEA that people wanted and bought pickle juice OR that there was a need for 1/2 gallon of pickle juice! Oi! What in the heck would you do with that much pickle juice? The things you will see and possibly “learn” on YouTube!

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By phart at 03,Sep,25 21:24 other posts of phart 
-pickle juice is supposedly good for cramps. along with yellow mustard.

By dgraff at 03,Sep,25 21:57 other posts of dgraff 
Pickle shots come to mind
1 double shot glass
Fill half way with stollitchnia 100 proof vodka
Top off with pickle juice
Garnish with a dill stem
There very good

By BirdDog at 04,Sep,25 04:55 other posts of BirdDog 
Great for long distance bike rides. Before during and after
By bella! at 04,Sep,25 10:36 other posts of bella! 
This is a sincere WHY? Does pickle juice have some type of “medicinal value”?
By Cody8789 at 04,Sep,25 22:16 other posts of Cody8789 
Pickle juice is ok in moderation but not good for the kidneys, it contains salt and acids that are no good for you and it may give you high blood pressure if you take too much.
By bella! at 05,Sep,25 01:44 other posts of bella! 
I believe there’s a homemade salad dressing that requires probably two tablespoons of pickle juice but I just can’t wrap my head around someone wanting to buy a 1/2 gallon of it!
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I think some people put pickles in the juice to marinate them, haven’t googled it, just guessing







By dgraff at 03,Sep,25 11:17 other posts of dgraff 
There’s talk of a new detainment center for illegals in the panhandle of Florida
The name of this facility is the panhandle pokey
You got to love Florida
By bella! at 03,Sep,25 13:33 other posts of bella! 
Seriously, Panhandle Pokey? Is this a new facility or is this a preexisting facility that is being repurposed?
By phart at 03,Sep,25 13:55 other posts of phart 
the whiners whined about the alligator place so i guess they had to make a new 1.
they should find where all the whiners live and put the illegals in their homes and let them feed them a while, r@pe their daughters and eat their cats, then maybe they would be ready to get rid of the illegals.
By dgraff at 03,Sep,25 15:53 other posts of dgraff 
I’m still laughing about Ron Desantis and Greg abbot sending there illegals to Martha vineyards were Obama lives i love it that was instigated by our one and only Donald Trump


By dgraff at 03,Sep,25 15:48 other posts of dgraff 
I think it’s going to be a new one and alligator Alcatraz is still in operation at this point but they say it’s to far away from the panhandle so they need another facility

By CAT52! at 03,Sep,25 16:37 other posts of CAT52! 
Dgraff, how about a super facility in the Arizona desert where we send EVERY felon of any age in the nation no matter how small their crime is? It would save a lot of tax money and free up a lot of realestate. Meke prisons into Airbnb.
By dgraff at 03,Sep,25 20:44 other posts of dgraff 
That works for me

By phart at 03,Sep,25 21:23 other posts of phart 
I say put the prison system up for bid to foreign countries and the cheapest bidder gets to keep them. it would prevent them from escaping back into our country and a country like china doesn't have all the red tape we have here. if anyone gets out just shoot the bastard and leave them laying there to stink and remind the others to remain for their sentence.





By bella! at 03,Sep,25 16:33 other posts of bella! 
A wedding crasher steals bride and groom’s gift box with an estimated 80k to 100k in cash!? YIKES!

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By bella! at 27,Aug,25 17:54 other posts of bella! 
We lost TWO longtime members in the last 7 days and that’s such a shame. The first one to go was a “SYC” member of 8 years who posted something in her bio about charging for sex. Really!? Reported and deleted because she charges for sex, oh my! So what about the members that blog about selling their underwear OR will create a video for you for a certain price? Heck, there’s a new member boasting that she will “fuck anyone to get what she wants”? Are you not offended and incensed over that? Perhaps Showitoff’s MORAL MAFIA needs to jump on getting rid of that member, too!

Yesterday, a 15 year member, someone who was here right from the inception of this site was deleted because of “Illegal images”, yes, the reporting member called it “self-hurting” because spatzi, the 15 year member, held a knife to his penis in one picture and an opened scissors in the other! Can you imagine being referred for review by a new member who looked through your gallery of photos and found one picture posted 6 years ago and the other was posted 12 years ago? YIKES! The first 4 knuckleheaded voters voted to delete, one went as far as saying that this type of picture has no place here then the other 3 sheep folk their leader. I put a “FREEZE” on the voting when I recognized it was a 15 year member who had not been online in more than 30 days and reached out to admin for help. Thanks to admin, he deleted the offending pictures however that DID NOT stop the last two dumbasses from voting to delete!

admin clearly states that the voting member must have “common sense” but some of you verified and tenured members seem to lack a healthy dose of common sense and should really not be voting!
By CAT52! at 29,Aug,25 13:53 other posts of CAT52! 
I believe there should be a mechanism to challenge the banning of a member b4 he's deleted. Having five members deciding the membership of one of us seems too haphazard to be fair.
By bella! at 30,Aug,25 05:33 other posts of bella! 
Freezing the vote is a process set in place that “challenges” the voters to think about what they are doing. I voted NO ABUSE with the comment that I would not allow the voting members to delete the 15 year member without him receiving a “warning”. Because the member had not been online in quite sometime, I reached out to admin and explained the situation. admin deleted the “offending pictures”, the last two voting YING-YANGS apparently didn’t care that the pictures were removed and decided to hammer the “nails into the coffin”.

It is exhausting to see how little effort and thought some voters use when casting their votes, many offer no comment/reason for how they arrived at their vote. For someone to find a report pictures that were uploaded 6 and 12 years prior to them becoming a member is beyond me!

By dgraff at 01,Sep,25 23:47 other posts of dgraff 
You lay low for a couple weeks then come back with a new phone and a new name no big deal i know many that have done it
By CAT52! at 02,Sep,25 02:12 other posts of CAT52! 
Probably but you are missing the point

By bella! at 02,Sep,25 09:40 other posts of bella! 
I understand what you are saying however in MY OPINION, neither members should have been deleted.

The SYC member, the 8 year member, sure did say something in her bio about sex but it would “cost”. So what!? Premium paid member UnderCoverAngel aka AndreaAsian advertised her underwear for sale. There’s SYD members that blog about selling their used underwear, too! What is the difference between the members that sell underwear versus the member that “sells” sex? It’s like the members that are reported for having cannabis in their pictures. SO WHAT!?

As for the 15 year member that was deleted based on one photo that was uploaded 6 years ago and the other that was uploaded 12 years prior…… SO WHAT!? Gee, isn’t there some type of STATUTE OF LIMITATIONS that should be invoked?

Think of it this way, my friend, if you were deleted tomorrow for a LAME REASON, yes, in a week or two you could return however you would have lost everything that you had established for the last 12 years. Do you consider that fair treatment?
By dgraff at 02,Sep,25 15:52 other posts of dgraff 
I agree with you 100 percent but I have a new and improved attitude since I retired and I figure I was looking for something new to do when I found this site and I can be looking for something new to do when I leave
By bella! at 02,Sep,25 21:02 other posts of bella! 
Of course but YOUR DEPARTURE should be upon YOUR DECISION not because a panel of dumbass voters decided it was your time to go.
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Definitely 👍








By dgraff at 01,Sep,25 14:45 other posts of dgraff 
I watched the news this morning and what do I see 3 loud mouth niggas spouting off that trump did this and that one was from New York one was from Wisconsin and one the mayor of Chicago
Listen trump is doing exactly what the people want now stop slowing down the process let’s storm their cities gather up the illegals and ship them the fuck out
You loud mouth niggas remember what happened to Martin Luther King don’t you so shut the fuck up
By phart at 01,Sep,25 18:59 other posts of phart 
well the only other way to fix shit holes like chicago is to put all the kids and old people on buses and take them to safety and let the rest kill each other.
that city has been a criminal shithole since Al Capone, and even though he was a criminal, he invented the soup kitchen to help the starving poor during his time. the criminals now would take away the bread and water. nothing but a democrat shit hole.
I hope Trump sends troops in and cleans the place up.
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By Ananas2xLekker at 19,Aug,25 10:27 other posts of Ananas2xLekker 
OK, some sexism is just damn accurate.

"Women vs Men Closing Car Doors"
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By bella! at 19,Aug,25 23:33 other posts of bella! 
I tend to agree that some of my female passengers will close my car doors a bit more “aggressively” than male passengers.
By phart at 20,Aug,25 02:19 other posts of phart 
yep, and alot of it is the fact that a man values his car, and their women are jealous of the car and miss treat it on purpose.
By Ananas2xLekker at 20,Aug,25 06:59 other posts of Ananas2xLekker 
I don't think that my girlfriend is jealous of my car.
She doesn't have a drivers license, but a personal chauffeur, me.

She even picked it out for me. I was looking for a car on only registered users can see external links,
but couldn't find 2 specific brand/types/vintage/model on the top of my list.
Then she found one a little bit lower on my list, in red metallic with a sports pack on it. She urged me to go look at it. I liked the look of it, the ride was nothing exciting,
but acceptable, it's full of extra's that would have made the other cars very expensive,
so I made a deal and bought it.

She's fond of the car. Still, she lets the tailgate just drop, while I guide it down.
She slams the doors, and she always lets the seat belt hang down and backwards.
I don't know what it is. However, if I see how she mistreats her bike, while she also
lets someone fix it every time it breaks, it must be some disability to care about things,
or something like that.

I always fix the seat belts, every time someone used any of them. It's not just women.
I just accept the door-slamming now. I just accepted the car as transport, instead of 'treasure'. Five years ago, I was in a pile-up. I hit the brake in full ABS, but it was so wet that I still hit the car in front of me at about 10 mph. The back was hit even harder by the person behind me. Their insurance paid for the damage to the back, and my insurance paid for the car in front of me. I have all-risk insurance, so it paid for my front damage too, but I lost some claim-free years and my maximum no-claim discount. The damage was fixed perfectly, but the metallic shine is off a bit. That bugged me for a while. I had to relinquish some love for the car to accept it.

A few years back, I still paid money to fix some scratches, but I stopped doing that. There's a crack in the back bumper, that would probably cost several hundred dollars
to fix, but I just said "fuck it!". As long as nothing is at risk of falling off, I just let it deteriorate. Maybe someone hits the back again, and then I can have it fixed
on their insurance.
By bella! at 20,Aug,25 09:19 other posts of bella! 
You know, now that I read your post and give it more thought, it’s not really a male versus female issue or relating to car doors, the difference between how we treat things might just come down to who made the purchase.

A hundred years ago, my parents purchased my clothing, my shoes, etc. They expected my sisters and I to take care our things, to come home from school, change from our “school clothes” and into our “play clothes”. The school clothes were properly hung on hangers, folded up and put away in the chest of drawers, etc. But if we tore up our school clothes or shoes, we knew mom and dad would replace them with new.

Fast forward to my early 20’s, I’m working and indecently living outside of my parents home and I have to buy my own clothes and shoes. I am glad that my parents taught me to respect my possessions and take care of them properly. I realize money does not grow on trees and how many hours I must work to afford that “must have” purse I desperately want.

Perhaps I’m generalizing too much and I don’t want to pigeon hole every renter however I do not feel that all renters respect the home and property that they rent. The home is not theirs, when they want to move on they do so and they may leave you, the homeowner, with a mess.

Getting back to your car and your girlfriend, my guess is that if she invested her 30k (plus) to purchase an automobile, she would treat it more respectfully. My guess is that most people are not in a position of replacing their cars every year and attempt to take care of it so that the car can provide reliable service until it is paid off and possibly beyond.
By Ananas2xLekker at 20,Aug,25 14:28 other posts of Ananas2xLekker 
You definitely have a point there. Someone who didn't pay for something might not appreciate it as much as someone who had to save-up for it and felt the pain of spending the money.

But why would that be more applicable to me, that to my girlfriend?
We have a shared pool of money that we both work for. Her job is tougher than mine.
We spent the same money for the car as for her bike. She feels less bothered when spending money than me though. I'm pretty frugal. It's mostly my girlfriend who tells me when we need to spend money on something. However, she knows that if we spend money on one thing, the list of expenses is not getting additions for a while.

I paid $17.500 for the car. I never took out a loan for a car though.
I only borrowed $3000 from my parents for a car once, when I bough the car
before my current one, but I paid them back in 3 months.

I have driven all my cars to "beyond economical repair".
The first one was an absolute death trap, when I drove it to the junkyard.
It was one brisk braking action removed from the front wheels breaking off.
The cars after, still had some trade-in value left.
By bella! at 20,Aug,25 15:08 other posts of bella! 
I can’t begin to understand why your girlfriend, my friends, phart’s friends sometimes slams doors or allow themselves to forget how expensive things are.

A hundred years ago (when I was 23) I bought my first house. I was so excited, I bought new furniture for what we call the living room (some call it a lounge and now these rooms are located more toward the back of the house and they’re supersized and called “family room”). Anyway, I had a female roommate who would dig her feet into my brand new sofa/couch. My mother NEVER allowed us to put our feet in the furniture so when Nancy did this, I had a problem with it. That coupled with she would could in one of my nonstick pans and rather than dirty a plate that she would have to wash she would eat out of the pan. There were cut marks and scratches, you can imagine. She would pack her lunch and take my utensils, knives, forks, spoons, as needed and sometimes they never made it back home. My guess is that because she did not dig into her pockets and pay for these things, she was not aware of the cost. I only had a roommate for 4 months and I told Nancy that she needed to find a new place……
By Cody8789 at 20,Aug,25 15:47 other posts of Cody8789 
That’s why I live alone, it’s so hard to find someone that respects what you have and for me, finding someone that I trust, so I would never have a roommate.
By bella! at 20,Aug,25 20:30 other posts of bella! 
I hear you. I’ve got stories that were prior to when I bought my house. I lived with my boyfriend at the time and he opened his house up to others……. Oi! The stories I could tell! Thank goodness I am level headed and didn’t choose to travel the “wrong path”!
By biggg at 29,Aug,25 19:49 other posts of biggg 
Shared a rented house with a french woman (among others, we were 5) when i was a student, she boiled her knickers every weekend in the cooking pots and dyed her hair black in the bathroom, leaving everything messy black. And the other lunatic planted sunflowers in the garden and demanded, if she wasnt there, that "we" should run out when it rained and shelter them poor little plants with an umbrella. Oh the joys of sharing accomodation


By bella! at 20,Aug,25 20:33 other posts of bella! 
So you mean to tell me that the rumors of you being “loud”, if ya know what I mean, are true?

By phart at 20,Aug,25 20:56 other posts of phart 
same here, the level of trust you have to have in someone to leave them alone in your house is high.and i don't know very many people i would trust that much. maybe 2 or 3 max.
By Cody8789 at 21,Aug,25 13:10 other posts of Cody8789 
Bella, loud, not me. Everything I do is quiet, no noises coming from my mouth



By Leilani at 22,Aug,25 08:51 other posts of Leilani 
I'm a stickler for keeping things nice. I hate destruction of property and putting unnecessary wear and tear on anything.
By bella! at 22,Aug,25 11:04 other posts of bella! 
I hear you especially when you’re able to realize that the silverware/cookware represents “x” hours of pay and/or that it’s going to be 3 years, 5 years, 30 years of monthly payments before the car or house will be paid off!
By Leilani at 23,Aug,25 07:35 other posts of Leilani 
What she did to you was a form of abuse. As if messing up your things wasn't bad enough, she'd also make your belongings go missing. I'm so sorry. She didn't have any right or good reason to do any of that.











By CAT52! at 29,Aug,25 13:47 other posts of CAT52! 
Ruben Amorim: Manchester United head coach admits 'sometimes I want to quit' amid difficult start to first full season in charge

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Anyone else follows European soccer?


By bella! at 23,Aug,25 23:57 other posts of bella! 
Please take the “test” and see how you score.

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By quint at 24,Aug,25 23:49 other posts of quint 
I'm older than dirt!
By bella! at 25,Aug,25 03:07 other posts of bella! 
Yeah, I fall into the “Older than dirt” category, too!

By biggg at 26,Aug,25 20:30 other posts of biggg 
so am i


By phart at 25,Aug,25 02:19 other posts of phart 
yep, i baby sat dirt when it was still mud.
only 2 of those things i didn't have interaction with, the delivered milk and the party phone line. still have about 500 45 rpm records, still play 8 tracks and have worked on a couple studebakers.
By bella! at 25,Aug,25 03:08 other posts of bella! 
Shut the front door! Seriously?
By phart at 25,Aug,25 15:06 other posts of phart 
yep.the coke bottle candy, to me that shit sucked,
still have my metal black lunch box that was recovered from a dump back when i was a kid for me to carry lunch in, and i have my grandfathers as well.
didn't need roller skate keys but remember them
it wasn't called home ec when i took it but it was the same thing, we were shown how to use a stove, how to fill out a check to pay for something and so on.
i vaguely remember the movie "Hawmps" at the drive in as a kid, a calvary using camels, that's about all i remember.
so much of it has went away and no really good reason for it to.



By t-rex at 25,Aug,25 03:23 other posts of t-rex 
Older than dirt also 😐
By bella! at 25,Aug,25 19:38 other posts of bella! 
I know I’m older than dirt when I go into McDonald’s to get my iced tea and see a young boy (he said he was 11 years old) in their lobby wearing a tee-shirt with the following printed across the front;

I ❤️ TITTIES & BEER

What in the world is wrong with this country OR WORLD that parents allow this?
By t-rex at 25,Aug,25 23:26 other posts of t-rex 
I have a shirt that says, please tell yours boobs to stop staring at my eyes! But I’m not 11, nor would I have let my son wear it, until he was at least 16,
By bella! at 26,Aug,25 03:07 other posts of bella! 
16?

I never had children BUT IF I HAD….. I probably would not allow that type of shirt at 16. My philosophy is that you can wear what you want when 1) you pay for it out of your own pocket AND 2) when you are no longer living under my roof.
By t-rex at 26,Aug,25 03:23 other posts of t-rex 
I was laughing, I was the same way as you were thinking, both my kids grew up and turned into fine adults


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By dgraff at 26,Aug,25 14:35 other posts of dgraff 
OMG i have that same shirt i got it at a biker rally near sun berry pa
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By bella! at 26,Aug,25 18:39 other posts of bella! 
You were 11 but looked older because you were tall and already grew a mustache, right?
By dgraff at 26,Aug,25 19:21 other posts of dgraff 
No I was 35 at least and partying my ass off






By CAT52! at 27,Aug,25 20:46 other posts of CAT52! 
I remember all 17. Good old times.



By bella! at 25,Aug,25 12:12 other posts of bella! 
Winner, winner, chicken dinner!

Congratulations to dgraff who received an award of 30 points in the PLAY BALL! game! Way to go, Dan!
By dgraff at 25,Aug,25 12:51 other posts of dgraff 
I still know how to pick a team
Thank you team



By bella! at 23,Aug,25 21:40 other posts of bella! 
How many of you fellas can relate to this?

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By t-rex at 25,Aug,25 03:25 other posts of t-rex 
Me,



By bella! at 23,Aug,25 21:35 other posts of bella! 
There’s a rise in AI relationships? Here’s what you should anticipate.

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By phart at 25,Aug,25 02:16 other posts of phart 
well, if it brings her comfort,i am ok with it, but it might behoove her to interact some with other actual humans with similar conditions.
By bella! at 25,Aug,25 03:21 other posts of bella! 
I can’t wrap my head around feeling and/or believing that a “relationship” could develop between an AI “cartoon” and a human. I mean this with sincerity, if “you” are someone who is desperate for a relationship, why not consider a pet of some sort? Dogs are loyal and will give unconditional love.




By bella! at 23,Aug,25 18:09 other posts of bella! 
Gentlemen, please tell whether “swamp ass” and “Niagara balls” are conditions that you’re concerned about.

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By phart at 22,Aug,25 11:55 other posts of phart 
this sucks, poor little thing,
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By bella! at 21,Aug,25 11:56 other posts of bella! 
Here’s another joke from RetroKid. Apparently the right brain see a horse while the left brain sees a gorilla. I DO NOT see either, I’m not going to say what I see because I don’t want to influence what you will see…..

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By Cody8789 at 21,Aug,25 13:02 other posts of Cody8789 
I see neither, looks like a pair of boobs to me
By bella! at 22,Aug,25 10:56 other posts of bella! 
That’s what I saw, too!




By Leilani at 11,Aug,25 06:45 other posts of Leilani 
Free movie I enjoyed watching and it's on YouTube.

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By bella! at 12,Aug,25 02:01 other posts of bella! 
Leilani, my opinion, this was a strange movie! You might notice that I post a good number of what I find to be interesting shorts that I find on YouTube but I don’t think anyone pays them any attention and what you posted is 1 hour 27 minutes. For those that might be interested, the name of the movie is CIRCLE and it is a 2015 psychological thriller. A synopsis of the movie is copied and pasted below;

“ Fifty people awaken in a darkened room, arranged in two concentric circles around a black dome. When they attempt to move from their designated platforms or touch the others, alarms sound off. When someone ignores the warning and leaves formation, a beam from the dome kills them, and their body is quickly removed. As the others panic, a man attempts to calm them, but the device kills him mid-sentence. Thereafter, every two minutes, another person is killed. After several people die, the group realizes that the room's technology allows them to use hand gestures to vote for who dies, while arrows on the floor show each person their own vote but not others'. They attempt to boycott the vote, but someone is randomly selected to die after two minutes.
Following a college student's suggestion, the group buys time to think by deciding in advance to eliminate the elderly for the next selections. The captives discuss where they are, how they got there, who has abducted them, and why. A young man, Eric, remembers attempting to flee Los Angeles, and others concur. Eric says that he was pulled into the air, later waking in a red room with other humans. The old man next in line agrees, saying he saw and heard aliens. The disbelieving group eliminates him instead of listening.
After the college student aggressively targets a 52-year-old cancer survivor over the objections of people who do not consider her elderly, he is eliminated. Several people say they recognize the others: a man identifies the woman next to him as his wife, another man identifies the doctor he was having an affair with, and a tattooed man is eliminated after he admits to a cop's accusation of domestic violence. After several minorities are quickly eliminated, an African-American man claims the process has become racist. Several others dispute this, but when the cop goes on a racist rant, he is selected next.
The captives experiment with voting, find they cannot vote for themselves, and attempt to give one vote to every person in the circle. One man gives a second vote for a pregnant woman, so Eric votes for him; this causes a tie and the man is killed in a run-off vote. After several take their own lives by leaving formation to buy the others time, an atheist antagonizes the theists who praised the volunteers' faith. The atheist is briefly saved, but when he mocks the girl beside him for having her boss pay for her breast enlargement, he is killed. A homophobic lawyer targets a lesbian, and he is killed as a result. The group realizes that one of the final two people left must not vote (and be killed) to render a winner.
The group creates a schism. One bloc (led by Eric, a Marine, a one-armed man) believes that everyone should sacrifice themselves to save a pregnant woman and a little girl, while the other bloc (led by a bearded man and a banker) wants to eliminate them immediately as a threat to their survival, as they believe everyone is equal and no special privileges should be afforded. After eliminating a Spanish translator, a Hispanic immigrant and the little girl tie, resulting in him sacrificing his own life. The husband is forced to vote with Eric's bloc when they threaten to eliminate his wife, but, under interrogation, the couple admit that they concocted the relationship to curry favor, resulting in the "husband's" elimination.
Eric's faction incurs heavy losses after a six-way tie but eliminates the other faction, leaving only Eric, the pregnant woman, the girl, and a silent man who has never voted. Eric theorizes that aliens have used the process to learn about humanity's values. After the silent man is eliminated, Eric and the girl agree to simultaneously sacrifice themselves. As the girl dies by suicide, Eric instead casts a last-second vote to kill the pregnant woman, only to realize that the pregnant woman's unborn child counts as a person. Eric votes to kill the child and then wakes up in Los Angeles where he joins a group of people, composed primarily of children and pregnant women, watching a fleet of alien crafts float over Los Angeles.”
By Leilani at 19,Aug,25 09:20 other posts of Leilani 
Good morning. I just wanted to say hello and thank you for responding...and ask you, did you watch it?
By bella! at 19,Aug,25 09:54 other posts of bella! 
Yes, I watched CIRCLE. Leilani, I have to admit that the person who out witted/out played/out lasted the others (yes, the tagline of Survivor) surprised me. I will admittedly say that I DID NOT understand the last and ending scene of the folks looking up at the hovering spacecraft, perhaps I just gotta have a movie with a storyline that is more black & white because I really didn’t understand the significance of that last scene.
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See below. I DID NOT understand the joke. mr_blue presented his spin and I still have no admit that I’m confused and saying “what if”…
By Leilani at 22,Aug,25 08:45 other posts of Leilani 
Yes, that surprise ending was really something, wasn't it?
Boy, that person was out to win, no matter what. It was pretty shocking to me that he could backstab like that but it's allowed in the game and being devious sure is part of human nature. The last scene...maybe those people standing and looking were other winners of other games (if "games" would be the right word) and simply wondering what the aliens were going to do next. Why they're not quickly walking away looking for a place to hide, I don't know. I like the red and black colors theme of the alien stuff.






By bella! at 22,Aug,25 04:32 other posts of bella! 
Summer is over in the northern states of the United States as well as northern countries! The mornings in Michigan are cool and it’s dark before 8:30p! Time for me to think about heading south!


By bella! at 20,Aug,25 20:46 other posts of bella! 
Would this spook you? Frick! There’s no doubt in my mind that I would pee all over myself!

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By bella! at 16,Aug,25 05:35 other posts of bella! 
So I’ve posted 2 or 3 jokes uploaded on YouTube by RetroGuy that are quite funny. I’m scratching my head on this one and there’s a statement saying that only men will understand the joke. Uh, can someone please explain?

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By dgraff at 16,Aug,25 12:22 other posts of dgraff 
I think he’s drinking out of a boobie mug only a man would spot that

By mr_blue at 17,Aug,25 20:15 other posts of mr_blue 
Look at it again guy changes his mouse hand so he can use that hand to play with something else
By bella! at 18,Aug,25 01:32 other posts of bella! 
Oh, geez……

Tell me this, that is assuming the “jerkster” is right hand dominant, right? Don’t guys use their dominant? What if he’s a leftie?
By Cody8789 at 18,Aug,25 04:41 other posts of Cody8789 
I’m right handed and always have used my left.
By Ananas2xLekker at 18,Aug,25 10:49 other posts of Ananas2xLekker 
Practice both hands, and you can switch when one goes tired.



By bella! at 18,Aug,25 20:09 other posts of bella! 
Here’s another joke by the same content provider…… no explanation needed!
By Cody8789 at 18,Aug,25 21:44 other posts of Cody8789 
My hand has never gotten tired or my arm, or my dick
By phart at 19,Aug,25 01:31 other posts of phart 
if we were all as in a good of shape as you and looked as good, none of us would ever have to worry about a tired arm or hand.



By bella! at 19,Aug,25 02:52 other posts of bella! 
Dang, mr_blue, I said I was posting another joke that needed no explanation and I FORGOT TO POST THE LINK! Hey Cody8789 , I’m curious whether you are one of the “handsome” fellas? wink, wink…

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By Cody8789 at 19,Aug,25 22:49 other posts of Cody8789 
I was very good looking when I was younger, I always got hit on by both guys and girls, but now that I’m older, one of my eyes fell out and I had to move my one eye to the center of my head, and ever since I got hit by that train I cant stop oozing from all parts of my body
By bella! at 19,Aug,25 23:30 other posts of bella! 
Dude, did you watch the YouTube short video above on the joke about the definition of threesome, twosome and handsome?

By phart at 20,Aug,25 02:21 other posts of phart 
you are so full of shit!! and no i did not need that visual of a 1 eyed fellow pooping himself along the train track.
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By phart at 20,Aug,25 02:50 other posts of phart 
europe is just chock full of nice people.
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By bella! at 19,Aug,25 11:16 other posts of bella! 
Is it me or does anyone else not understand this relatively newly established and accepted sense fashion?

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By t-rex at 19,Aug,25 12:50 other posts of t-rex 
Hilarious



By bella! at 19,Aug,25 12:23 other posts of bella! 
I wonder whether the driver’s brakes failed or if these crashes are attributed to their attention being redirected or fatigue?

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By phart at 19,Aug,25 12:49 other posts of phart 
lack of attention, that is painful to watch as that exact thing is why i am partially handicapped. being hit in the ass sitting still by a truck going full speed hurts those in the smaller vehicle. most of the time bad.

and i know the younger generation will disagree but trucks no longer drive like trucks, in the old days, you shifted gears, the load slowed you down, you never forgot what you were doing . now, trucks drive like hondas ,have lots of power so the average load is not even felt while driving, the trans is automatic, freeing up the right hand to hold phones, dicks,whatever.



By bella! at 19,Aug,25 11:11 other posts of bella! 
Another joke that needs no explanation.

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By bella! at 19,Aug,25 03:29 other posts of bella! 
Golly, it’s that time of the month for FREDDY aka PITBULL . Yep, it’s his “lady time”, he’s “on the rag”……. he’s blacklisted me once again.


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old ,outdated, but still funny


By bella! at 18,Aug,25 12:39 other posts of bella! 
So at the beginning of the month I went to the Apple Store for a one hour “class” which really was not what I hoped it would be. It proved to be a basic introduction to the Apple iPhone, the functionality of buttons on the sides, where the microphone is, how to turn the phone on and off, how to access the flashlight feature, stuff that anyone that owned a mobile device for the past 25+ years, no matter what type of device, would have been able to sort out.

Okay, okay……. Yesterday was a long day for me, I was up and out of bed at 7a and didn’t get home until shortly after 11p, so it was a 16 hour day of rippin’ and runnin’ mainly in the water and sun. I’m in bed just before midnight and I’ve got my phone, reading a few emails and watched a few things on YouTube. This morning I wake up and my phone is in bed with me and stuck/frozen on
YouTube content that I have listened to HOWEVER now the guy is speaking in Spanish. My guess is that sometime during my sleep, I mashed something somewhere and this IPhone is capable of changing the language of the YouTube content.

Has anyone experienced this issue, do you know how to change it back to English?

One thing I did learn at my iPhone class, when I bought the phone in March in Fort Myers, I was looking at an iPhone 16 and the Xfinity store sold me an iPhone 15. That day on my drive home, I called Xfinity and apparently iPhone has a new release launching somewhere between September 7 through the 21st and they will take back this phone and credit me with the full amount against the purchase of the new version. I asked the Xfinity rep that I spoke with what the “new features” are and although most of it sounded like “blah, blah, blah”, she said something about the newer phone wouldn’t get so hot. That is one of the things that I have noticed about this phone, it gets hot super fast when I’m playing games.


By dgraff at 15,Aug,25 11:35 other posts of dgraff 
Gavin newsom is a queer
I seen him on the news this morning hugging and kissing fellow California Democrats
I bet after the news briefing they all get naked and jump in a pile
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By phart at 15,Aug,25 13:39 other posts of phart 
far as i am concerned that asshole can take his state and his crooked,immoral idiots straight to hell. look at elizebth warrens district and tell me that is a nice state
By Ananas2xLekker at 15,Aug,25 13:46 other posts of Ananas2xLekker 
Massachusetts was recently ranked the best U.S. state economy overall by WalletHub (June 2025), thanks to robust performance across innovation, education, healthcare, tech, exports, and start-up growth.
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Massachusetts had been a Democratic leaning state since 1928, and a Democratic stronghold since 1960, and is still considered a deeply blue state today.

You were saying?

By CAT52! at 15,Aug,25 17:16 other posts of CAT52! 
Funny, that's what we liberals think of your state, is, better given back to the British

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By dgraff at 15,Aug,25 15:08 other posts of dgraff 
Fucking gay
By Ananas2xLekker at 15,Aug,25 15:12 other posts of Ananas2xLekker 
I know you would love to cum past his fake white teeth
and on that smooth Hollywood face, but he wouldn't like you.



By phart at 15,Aug,25 13:38 other posts of phart 
most are the result of a "pile" back in the 60's and 70's.
By Ananas2xLekker at 18,Aug,25 10:46 other posts of Ananas2xLekker 
How's Nebraska doing?
It looks like the crooked, immoral idiot is kicking it straight to hell.

"Nebraska MAGA farmers Frozen In Fear & Regret After Realizing
They’re Going Bankrupt #FAFO Season"
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By Cody8789 at 15,Aug,25 21:35 other posts of Cody8789 
What’s wrong with that, I would luv to get nsked and jump in a pile
By dgraff at 15,Aug,25 22:09 other posts of dgraff 
I will remember you said that Cody
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By dgraff at 17,Aug,25 11:05 other posts of dgraff 
7am and there is 100 things I should do today but then I remembered it’s Sunday and I’m retired i don’t have to do anything
By phart at 17,Aug,25 17:40 other posts of phart 
well, i rest a bit on sunday morning but most of the time i do some kind of yard work on sunday afternoon to help spruce up the place
By Cody8789 at 17,Aug,25 22:47 other posts of Cody8789 
Dgraff, I think you should open your garage back up weekend's just to make alittle extra money under the table, I’m sure you won’t have any problems finding work.
By phart at 18,Aug,25 02:07 other posts of phart 
if you do good work,and you are affordable, people will wear you out with work. learning to say no to some stuff lately has been tough but the stuff i troubleshoot and fix, is not the easy shit and plus i have a life and a few goals of my own. but saying no to work is not easy
By Ananas2xLekker at 18,Aug,25 09:43 other posts of Ananas2xLekker 
“A really efficient totalitarian state would be one in which the all-powerful executive
of political bosses and their army of managers control a population of slaves who
do not have to be coerced, because they love their servitude.” - Aldous Huxley






By bella! at 17,Aug,25 08:39 other posts of bella! 
This is a musical “fun fact” about Rod Stewart.

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By Cody8789 at 17,Aug,25 22:51 other posts of Cody8789 
I heard another fact about rod when he was out with Freddy and Elton, that he had to have his stomach pumped at the emergency room because he had over a half gallon of sperm in his stomach that made him sick, anyone else heard that.
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Cody8789 here the link Rod Stewart Addresses Stomach-Pump Story You Never Thought He'd Ever Address Ever (Video) - TheWrap only registered users can see external links




By Ananas2xLekker at 15,Aug,25 14:41 other posts of Ananas2xLekker 
Another lovely specimen of human, that I'm sharing the planet with.
Lovely on the outside, but sadly nothing inside of that pretty head.
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By bella! at 13,Aug,25 02:30 other posts of bella! 
This is very interesting! The police did not use a “pit maneuver” definition provided by Google;

“A PIT maneuver, or Precision Immobilization Technique, is a law enforcement tactic to force a fleeing vehicle to stop.”

This police agency used the “grapple” method! Pretty neat!

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By dgraff at 13,Aug,25 02:51 other posts of dgraff 
I just seen that on Facebook the other day technology at its finest
By bella! at 13,Aug,25 03:25 other posts of bella! 
I thought the grapple method was very impressive. It kinda reminded me of cowboys trying to tame a wild horse!
By dgraff at 13,Aug,25 09:31 other posts of dgraff 
Yep or rope a calf
By bella! at 13,Aug,25 14:53 other posts of bella! 
BINGO! I wonder whether the “grapple maneuver” caused the grappled vehicle to go all “Willy nilly” or if the grappled vehicle was trying to get loose? The maneuver could have caused additional accidents between or with other vehicles not involved.
By dgraff at 15,Aug,25 11:30 other posts of dgraff 
The video i seen the straps from the grapple wrap and tangled around the rear wheels causing them to bind up bringing the vehicle to an abrupt stop with in a few yards
By bella! at 15,Aug,25 11:45 other posts of bella! 
Very cool! If you should come across that video again, please post it! The one I posted gave me an impression that the target vehicle was either careening about trying to shake loose or that the grapple device incapacitated the car in such a way that they lost all control. Either way, conditions for nearby vehicles looked questionable!
By dgraff at 15,Aug,25 12:55 other posts of dgraff 
I think they are still learning to use it correctly your video they only got the left rear wheel the video i seen they got both rear wheels it stopped the vehicle that fast the police officer had to jamb on his brakes to keep from hitting the grappled vehicle
By bella! at 15,Aug,25 13:22 other posts of bella! 
Oh! So you viewed something more detailed! Thanks for the explanation!
By phart at 15,Aug,25 13:37 other posts of phart 
some these maneuvers are just plain deadly for the crook. the local police booted a motorcycle off the road and from what i remember the rider was beheaded going under a fence. no charges were filed against the cop. the rider had done some minor infraction and then ran from the cops at about 2 am. no traffic,no real hazard to anybody, the cops just got tired of being made to look inept and wound up killing the fellow.











By bella! at 13,Aug,25 02:03 other posts of bella! 
dgraff, this guy must make one helluva living driving cabs is New York City because his content is mainly about rating restaurants with Michelin star located in NYC! This lunch, all in, was about $150.00 although he’s been seated at restaurants where his lunch has cost him more than $400.

Today’s lunch consisted of a $10 mocktail, a $24 salad, a $28 dish of pasta and his $39 main course. And the guy has more than 350k followers!

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By dgraff at 13,Aug,25 02:56 other posts of dgraff 
That was quite a meal
By bella! at 13,Aug,25 03:22 other posts of bella! 
I’m trying to wrap my head around the amount of money this guy must make as a cab driver, that he can afford to spend $150 on one lunch!
By dgraff at 13,Aug,25 09:40 other posts of dgraff 
I’ve already spent a hundred on a meal for myself i started off with a bowl of killer crab dip and crackers then i had a bucket of clams in butter then my main course was a king cut of prime rib and a one pound whole lobster that came with a sea food salad and to top it off a couple of Black Russian
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And I ate it all
By bella! at 13,Aug,25 10:51 other posts of bella! 
A couple of weeks ago I went for my normal, every swim at 5:30p and stopped for a bite to eat at 7:30 or so. I went to a nearby Lebanese restaurant and ordered a fattoush (a yummy salad mainly lettuce, with tomato, onion and Persian cucumber dressed with an amazing lemon, oil, fresh herbs and seasonings…possibly vinegar, too) and a chicken shawarma sandwich. I ended up taking the sandwich home and eating it the following day! Yeah, that probably had something to do with me eating a the pita bread dipped in garlic sauce along with my salad!

By the way, i have never tried lobster.
By dgraff at 13,Aug,25 11:30 other posts of dgraff 
You never tried lobster 🦞 you must try it it’s delicious and sweet keep in mind the tail can be a little tough if cooked too long but the claws are the best and when i say about the tail being a little tough that’s cooked by red lobster and there standard they suck
By bella! at 13,Aug,25 14:48 other posts of bella! 
Seriously, no, I’ve never had lobster! I have has crab legs a long time ago and my GUESS is that I must have thought it was “meh…” because all I remember about the experience was that it seemed like too much work for so little enjoyment! Last week I had a coney dog that I really enjoyed, it was yummy! In my mind, I’m “simple”, I can enjoy a good burger (although I try steer clear of beef as much as possible, I mainly eat chicken and fish) opposed to eating some foo-foo meal. I would like to try a Wagyu steak to see what all the hype is about!





By bella! at 13,Aug,25 03:27 other posts of bella! 
The salad looked huge, the pasta plate, meh….. And they even comped him some peaches, I think.


By phart at 13,Aug,25 13:30 other posts of phart 
the tipping system up there is ubsurd.



By bella! at 12,Aug,25 01:23 other posts of bella! 
Question; does anyone make their own bread and if so, do you have a relatively easy recipe that you might share?
By CAT52! at 12,Aug,25 16:11 other posts of CAT52! 
They have several on YouTube



By CAT52! at 09,Aug,25 00:34 other posts of CAT52! 
Does anyone know if Jamie is back?
By bella! at 09,Aug,25 02:11 other posts of bella! 
My guess is that he has returned.

I’m certain there’s a reason why he comes and goes so much. None of his past friends have changed their screen name so IF he wants anyone to know if he’s here and who he is, he will so. Allow him the opportunity to make that contact and allow him that anonymity until then. That’s just my opinion though, my guess is that members will do what they want.
By CAT52! at 09,Aug,25 13:40 other posts of CAT52! 
👍🏼
By bella! at 11,Aug,25 13:23 other posts of bella! 
Here’s something for you to think about, he deleted his profile about 2.5 weeks ago and returned 2 days later but you haven’t seemed to miss him until now? Interesting! My mistake of respond to your post because you wasted absolutely no time searching for him.

Seems that you have a “delayed reaction” about what you notice. When Jamie, member #693639 deleted his profile, you lost your verification status and when I noticed that, I became the third member and your green tick was restored.
By CAT52! at 11,Aug,25 17:41 other posts of CAT52! 
Wait a minute. I did notice my verification was revoked. I then asked one of my online friends who has know me since 2014 and he asked for proof. I sent him a video with the caption. Please don't verify me. I don't want nor need you. A friend like you is no friend. Imagine when I looked a few minutes later he shows up as being the third one to verify me. I sent a request to Admin to have him removed from my verifier list even though that would make me unverified. Admin said I should blacklist this individual as that would drop him from this list. I did but my verification stayed. Now I know why. I thank you for the gesture even though I'm not too thrilled it's you that got me verified.
That brings me to Jamie. I don't spend a lot of time on site. I seldom notice things like verification or who touches my heart and I didn't notice I was no longer verified. That's when I thought of Jamie and I asked in your thread about him.
Personally, I don't care what you think or don't think. Jamie and I have reconnected and exchanged friendships. I didn't even asked him to verify me again. I like Jamie and always will. He's a good guy and for that, only, he's worth knowing.
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Oh, BTW, I would prefer you withdrew your verification. I prefer friends to do so. Thank you.
By bella! at 11,Aug,25 17:58 other posts of bella! 
You had so much to say but the fact remains, YOU WASTED NO TIME SEARCHING FOR HIM!

POOF! and done.
By CAT52! at 11,Aug,25 20:01 other posts of CAT52! 
Okay. Happy? POOF. But, why? I didn't make an excuse. I did go looking for him. Is that a bad thing?
By Cody8789 at 11,Aug,25 22:11 other posts of Cody8789 
Well Jamie can’t verify anyway, I thought that was a nice gesture bella did for you, you should take it with a thankyou to her. It’s not often you find someone that you’ve had arguments with that will do that for you.
By phart at 11,Aug,25 22:22 other posts of phart 
just what i was thinking, looking a gift horse in the mouth

By bella! at 11,Aug,25 23:51 other posts of bella! 
I appreciate your thoughts on the matter but I would like to set the record straight, I don’t feel as though I’ve argued with OR been abrasive with her/toward her. I wonder whether she feels likewise?
By phart at 12,Aug,25 00:25 other posts of phart 
there is alot to unpack and try to cipher here but i was just thinking it was kinda odd cat wouldn't want your verification. and i will google the definition of argue, as apparently it has changed.

edit,ok i skipped wimpy google and went to Elon, here is what i learned

what does the word argue mean
The word argue means to present reasons or evidence to support or oppose an idea, opinion, or point of view, often in a discussion or debate. It can also refer to a verbal disagreement or dispute, typically involving differing perspectives.
For example:

Discussing or debating: "She argued that renewable energy is essential for sustainability."
Disputing or quarreling: "They argued over who should pay the bill."

The tone and intensity can vary, from calm reasoning to heated confrontation, depending on the context.


By CAT52! at 12,Aug,25 00:20 other posts of CAT52! 
I thought I did. I just don't like it when someone gives me a gift and then reminds me he/she gave me that gift like I should be indebted for life. Let me remind you, I didn't ask her to. But, I will repeat this. I'm greatful for a thoughtful gift.. I'll also remind, Cody, I don't need to accept it. I also don't want to blacklist Bella over a something like this.
Yes, I'm being petty and ungrateful. Deal with it.
By phart at 12,Aug,25 00:27 other posts of phart 
like GI joe used to say, "knowing is half the battle." and you admit to being petty and ungrateful. so now to work on that issue. it is not a good trait for even a democrat to have. only registered users can see external links
By CAT52! at 12,Aug,25 16:10 other posts of CAT52! 
In this case, baby. In this case





By Jamie50 at 11,Aug,25 22:59 other posts of Jamie50 
Let me put my two cents here. cat52!
Never look for me. It was me that look for her.
By bella! at 11,Aug,25 23:51 other posts of bella! 

By CAT52! at 12,Aug,25 00:22 other posts of CAT52! 
Thank you, Jamie.❤️












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