Started by #384365 at 06,Oct,13 13:14
 | This site satisfies a lot of human needs and is very useful to many.
It gives each of us the opportunity to show ourselves off in public – to be an exhibitionist without any resultant problems We can indulge in voyeurism with no problems, of which we are all capable and desire. We can loose our inhibitions about any part of our body and show whatever part we like to any extent We can unburden the most closely kept secrets about out life regarding sex, salving our guilt feelings (especially if you, like in my case, were brought up in a guilt ridden catholic household), finding we are normal and having just the same inhibitions, experiences, thoughts, desires and urges We can find others who having had the same experiences who bond with you All this is good and excellent, but the site seems to have some aspects that are counterproductive. Women by nature make few comments and, no matter how unrestrained, do not match men in this activity The forum, and probably the whole site is almost entirely devoted to the male ego. What size, shape or length is your penis? How far can you ejaculate? How much? How often do you masturbate? When did you start? Most male forum participants seem to be obsessed with topics like these as well as talking, comparing or linking up with other males. There are women too with the same type of motivation as well as husbands or partners who want to know what other males think of their spouses, who possibly know nothing about this. There are no problems with homosexuals of either gender, but problems do occur, apart from forum entries being so repetitious and a bit banal after a time. So what? Well there seems to be a limited number of heterosexual females and they get inundated with messages from the few males left who are interested in women or just mildly flirting, excluding those who just want to be crude. The end result is that both males and females in this category get frustrated. Women get inundated with messages and well-meaning men get no responses to mere comments of admiration. There are lot of attractive women (and men) on the site and many I am sure are just as beautiful inside, rather than in physical beauty, but photos can be a bit repetitious. Does anyone need to see about 300 pictures of erect or ejaculating penises? The same can be said to for sites with numerous pictures of spread female legs. We seem to forget that these are not necessarily the most important part of us and anyway we have what we have and generally cannot change things. We forget that the whole person is a better view. Who cares if you are fat, small, curvaceous, muscular, beautiful or ugly? Men: we should remember our world would be a worse place if dominated by men whose competitive instincts were not moderated by the milder influence of women. I sound as if I am preaching or stating the obvious, but I thought someone needed to say it.  |
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'Women by nature make fewer comments'. Have you met bella! The list could go on E-F, Emm, etc. They frequently comment in most areas of the site and are quite vocal when they do!
I would dispute the statement about 'only a few males left on the site interested in women'. There's plenty and you seem to discount the very large bisexual element to the site.
I'm still left confused by what you claim not to be working? Is your issue with women not responding to you? The regularity of forum topics or just too many cock and cunt pics?
An interesting piece all the same...
Yes I have met Bella and also Emma and they are both very nice ladies and also Stefi who have lots to say. Often seeming a bit caustic in one case but to the point. But if one looks at the comments made on a female member's page, most do not comment and having taught many girls I know they are less forthright at least in the company of males.
What sort of women do I meet. None really but my wife and daughter. I have been married 43 years and still happy with the woman I chose to partner.
What I mean by not working is that women get so inundated by messages from a greater number of men, that they cannot due to a lack of time, with the best manners in the world, respond. I think because there are less women than men on the site. I know this is natural.
Do I discount bisexuals - no, not intentionally. I tried but probably failed to be totally inclusive.
One thing I do notice in the forums is that people often do not discuss, but just give their viewpoint. Often it is difficult to work out to whome a comment is being addressed.
Sory if I offended.
It's the same with almost any forum. I'd say it's a nature of people in general. Most of them don't care what other people say, they just want to express their own opinion when see something familiar.