Absolutely emotional cheating in my opinion is more of betrayal then physical. Relationships tend to withstand a physical affair but went feelings are involved it's not as cut and dry espouse can come to terms and understand the physical desire to be with another companion but becomes emotional it makes the other feel inadequate or as if the other person is giving there's spell something they're lacking. And when confronted and asked the questions of why are you doing this please respect my boundaries in feelings they just regarded as you are overreacting I'm just having fun just being a friend.

my wife was here for 3yrs and her chats were HOT and sexual with many men and a few women,,i knew that, and now i'm on and while not in her league i do talk trash too,,and she knows it.
i think it's between you and hubby,,if you don't like it or he doesn't like it,,,,well,,some cheat (how much varies) the correct way is not to do it,,,

depends on what kind of chatting, just general stuff isn't cheating, but talking about sticking your dick in them might be starting to cross the line.. *lix*

Wifey and I chat on here all the time. Its all good,clean,harmless fun. Actually, reading her chats is sometimes a huge turn-on. But I do agree with one point, if you not into it, your spouse should maybe consider your feelings too.

It is what it is. Most people online are letting out part of themselves they feel they can't in real life. So long as your not being fake (ie male pretending to be female, posting fake pics or revenge porn, etc) I see nothing wrong with it.

but, aren't you posting too?? and what is the harm??

Is this the male or female posting this? By reading your bio, it sounds like you were aware of what was gonna happen.