| I’m sure I’m not the only person on this site to want to solve his/her addiction to porn. I wonder if some of you got out of this hell.
I’m a classic case, I found porn when I was 12, I started being obsessed with it when I was 14, I was homeschooled(from 14 to 17) at that time and it was how I explored my sexuality because I was really lonely. I was masturbating at least 5 times a day at that time, it started with pictures(mostly on good old pichunter.com ) then videos and games ( I still play some meet n fuck games once a while) I started to be more and more selective on what I watch. And I got gradually started to watch more intense content cause I get blasй by what I watch. Like, most of the time when I crave something it’s porn that makes me feel bad about myself afterwards. Porn sex is not even the kind of sex I want to have, I’m a lover, a romantic, penetration is not my favorite part of the love making and yet, I watch the total opposite because of my addiction. Like when I smoke weed or cigarettes or drink caffeine I always end up talking higher dose after a while. I’m sure this addiction is the main reason of why I’m still a virgin at 25 and I realized it was also bad for my self esteem. So yeah if you know a way to be able to watch porn in a more healthy way or to stop completely please help me. |
So you need to find a way to cut it down to healthy proportions.
Maybe decrease the quantity and increase the quality?
With a good supply of vaseline or other lubes, duh!
I prefer finding someone to chat with and go from there. I have never had the desire to meet anyone here directly. Just online.
You live in a city of just under 200,000, and you are about an hour from Montreal, the largest city in Canada.
Your excuses just go on and on!
Get some help!!
And don't worry about your weed smoking, the worst case that can happen is that you don't get out of your bed. Count the stars until you get to the planet Jupiter and wait until nighttime arrives
I would never say that to your face? Wake up. I nearly pissed myself..
In fact, you are ONLY to be Called Small Ken from now on. In reference to Ken31234. Another virgin retard.
very well said. I hope
you can beat your
addiction.
Beat 1 off..
Sex is more about making the other person feel good. That's your job, to help them have an orgasm and help them feel good and sexual. Let or have them share their sexual side with you. They are opening and sharing their sexuality with you. Then it's your turn to let them help you have an orgasm and you share your sexuality with them. You share your body and thinking with them.
Now your both having sex to make each other feel good vs just yourself like in porn or when we were younger and just masturbating all the time. I think that would be more romantic and loving and people would feel good about themselves after because it was not all about yourself. It was all about each other
Jacking off too much till it starts to hurt and get sore is not your problem,, its a symptom but it is not the root cause. You must find out the root cause as to why you feel so down and out about yourself.. Another problem is only you can do that. Face your fears and don't be afraid to take risks..