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Started by twisted1975 at 04,Nov,24 23:55  other posts of twisted1975
Since I was in my late teens (I'm nearly 50 now) I've enjoyed wearing women's clothing, particularly bras with breast forms. I don't believe I was misassigned at birth, or that I'm female, but I find wearing breasts comforting or calming and I don't necessarily get sexually aroused by dressing in women's clothes. I like colors that are typically not masculine, lace, and the way women's clothes accentuate bodies. I don't feel "feminine" wearing them, just comfortable (although wearing panties for any length of times smashes my balls and gets uncomfortable). I'm not attracted to men usually but there are some who I might try some experimentation with. I find some trans people generally attractive as long as they are feminine and not effeminate. I've never been with anyone with a penis but if that right person and circumstance came along I would try it both orally and anally. I engage in anal play alone. To me I'm a series of contradictions and can't figure myself out. I've been working toward letting my wife know about liking women's clothes but maybe not the rest. I'm really not sure what I am, and it makes it more difficult to try to explain it to her. Does anyone have any suggestion as to what my identity would be and the best way to share with my wife what my life has been for many years.



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By Moench at 06,Nov,24 17:53 other posts of Moench 
You speak from my heart, I have the same feeling. In public I wear men's clothes, but within my four walls, four fences, I prefer to wear sexy girls' clothes and always a bra with implants. That's how I feel most comfortable, and that includes in my bedroom with my wife. She fully understands my preference and supports me with it. It all started with my mother's things when I was very young. I like looking at other men's penises, but have never touched one. Yes, sometimes I would like to try that, but it hasn't worked yet.
By twisted1975 at 07,Nov,24 16:31 other posts of twisted1975 
Our experiences are similar. You are very lucky that your wife supports you at all and the fact the she is comfortable with you doing it with her there is exceptional. You are very lucky.



By wycowboy at 05,Nov,24 17:36 other posts of wycowboy 
I would say you are a bi-curious cross dressing male
By twisted1975 at 05,Nov,24 21:14 other posts of twisted1975 
Thank you. I appreciate your reply. I’m finding that in this age of many identities trying to figure out where I fit in to be more difficult. I don’t necessarily want to be classified into a category but have been wondering how my experience relates to others.
By wycowboy at 06,Nov,24 15:08 other posts of wycowboy 
I have been straight for 61 years even though I had some bi play with a cousin in my early teens. But, lately, I have found myself watching cocks more than cunts and wondering what it would feel like to be fucked in my ass. I don't want to be "classified" as anything except a sexual human though.







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