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Started by #303566 at 29,Sep,12 20:34
I've often wondered this, I'm gay and it amazes me that straight guys will put down gay men in public or with thier mates then in private seek gay sex or use sites like these for other guys to check them out.
Dont get me wrong, Im not having a go at this site or the guys on it, I just would love it if you straight guys could explain this to me.
Any tips on seducing straight guys without getting my teeth kicked in would also be greatly appreciated

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By #585534 at 16,Apr,19 19:49
With me it was a progression from girls was out at a club one night 2 trans guys in tight skirts got my cock hard and then started to like big cocks now like everything

By nekekal at 16,Apr,19 13:15 other posts of nekekal 
I don't know about all, but I don't.

By #583980 at 12,Apr,19 04:54
Yes, lots of straight men have. But others do not at all. To explain this? I do not believe that humans are fixed in their sexal preference. Therefore I think same sex fantasies or practizing is quite "normal" independent from "gay" or "straight".

By AussieMan187 at 09,May,18 06:07 other posts of AussieMan187 
I have a good one!

Do gay guys have straight fantasies?
By spermkiss at 26,Mar,19 19:45 other posts of spermkiss 
Yes, of course we do. I cannot say that all gay men have straight fantasies, but I certainly do.

It's a little known fact that straight men having gay fantasies and vice versa is so commonplace that it's well within the range of what's normal.
By AussieMan187 at 27,Mar,19 02:23 other posts of AussieMan187 
I can't say that I myself haven't had bi-curious thoughts

By #554098 at 12,Apr,19 00:35
What about straight guys just having sleeping dreams of being with, talking to and meeting guys that are 'gay', and then waking up hard??

By 0-00 at 03,Apr,19 11:44 other posts of 0-00 
I have often wondered about this. I have no way of knowing until I am confronted with such a situation but do not fantasise about this. I recently had the pleasure of spending some time with a sexy transgender and it felt completely natural for me, possibly because I saw her like any other woman. I am not so sure about a normal guy, I think if I was in an MMF 3some it may happen but not otherwise.
By 61-69 at 03,Apr,19 12:09 other posts of 61-69 
Yeah, like I said, I never thought about it until it happened, but when it did I found I liked it.

By 61-69 at 03,Apr,19 03:34 other posts of 61-69 
I didn't have them at all until the first time I had a threesome, MMF. As we were rolling around naked together, it just seemed the natural thing to do was to touch, lick, and suck everything in sight. I'm not sure if it was his first time with a man as well, but he was as enthusiastic as me. I realised that day I was bi, I'd honestly never even considered it.

By #554098 at 03,Apr,19 02:19
I can only speak for me, and nobody else, but I am not at all interested in doing anything, personally, sexually with any gay man, even my closest gay friends!
I don't think of them as anything but men, and friends, and never, in a sexual way.
That said, I do, sometimes, get in a mood, and go on this site, and like looking at the penis pictures, and like what some say, and get really turned on, and yeah, a few times, get off to some of the guy's penises here!!
But those friends are not these guys, here, on this site.
It's different! Guys I know, versus anonymous pictures, and aroused moments, alone.
If you are a gay guy, liking a 'straight' guy, I can only say for myself, responding, how to connect, if you like him.
I HATE that you say that you are afraid to be hurt, just expressing your feelings for another, that may or may not reciprocate! That is just wrong, and a failure, in our society!!
I don't think I am that attractive, but a few times, when I was younger, guys have asked me out, and it always made me feel AMAZING!!
I couldn't, but them just asking me, was a HUGE compliment, to me,I thought!!

Personal chat is ok, if you would like...

By #583980 at 30,Mar,19 15:19
I suppose most Straights have homophile fancies sometimes. It depends on if and how much one allow these fantasies. I dont believe in that humans are 100% straigt, gay, etc. - only more or less.

By dem[o]nXer_^-Y-^ at 27,Mar,19 03:01 other posts of dem[o]nXer_^-Y-^ 
NOOO! Not another one of these again!!! I have tonnes of gay/bi friends here and in real life. I have never expressed homophobic behaviour in my life. Why the f’ would i care what my friend’s sexual preference is (i will judge someone on their taste of music though ) or refuse a compliment about the “car” that rides between my legs.
My tips to this ex-member would be, if the ”straight” guy seems receptive to your advances - try to woo them like i do a woman. If they say thank you but clearly don’t want you to push your point, respect that (like a straight man would a woman). If they look like they might kick your teeth in for the mere fact that you complimented them (verbally or by other means), kick their teeth in. I’ve got some friends in Sydney’s Gay Mafia if you need some assistance - those guys are not to be messed with!!!
I know that i have told the story of me pissing all over a guy or 3’s pants when they stared at me and my dick for 10secs or more whilst i was at a urinal...when i looked at them when my dick felt a hole being stared through it and just smiled and shook my head, that should’ve been a polite enough way to stay stop...bashing someone for it shows extreme homophobia/psychopathic-tendencies...pissing on them shows them that you are annoyed that they didn’t get your hint and that you don’t like having your boundaries pushed
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I’d also like to add that us few “get along with everyone, completely straight guys” on here probably get shat on as much as any other minority on the site. No form of prejudice is alright, in real life or on-site

By #581484 at 26,Mar,19 19:23
I am straight I did have the fanticies so I tried it loved getting Bj but hated the ass fuck and the taste of another man's cumm but I still get off on sieng other nice looking cock and wank too them being a active gay or bi is not for me but never hold it against any one we all
deserve to be sexual whether it's with a guy or girl or both

By #583088 at 23,Mar,19 20:30
Straight is straight.. Sucking off a straight guy is someone that is at least bi but won't admit.
By #582293 at 26,Mar,19 09:47

By lawrenceo at 26,Mar,19 09:30 other posts of lawrenceo 
I don't know...."all straight guys".... but I would imagine most who come on here are at least thinking about some mutual wanking..............some think that is gay, others not.

By #583445 at 23,Mar,19 10:48
Of course we do

By #554098 at 13,May,18 03:04
I really **** the idea that a person has to be 'Straight' or gay (and then persecuted) in our society! I ADORE women, and if you have been in relationships, you KNOW how they push you, piss you off!
But you are a guy, and society says you can't like that, and even though you have a penis, you can't find it 'sexy' and actually get turned on, but a penis, or seeing other guys, in the gym, or wherever, unless you are 'Gay'?? WTF??
I have a penis, and LOVE my penis, and I don't need labels, but I mostly like girls, but yeah, what is so wrong if you like seeing another hard penis, on this site, or like some penises in pink panties, here, and get off??

By pipcock at 12,May,18 20:04 other posts of pipcock 
Hell yes, and bicurious/bi guys like me even more so! And I enjoy, really enjoy the socialising with gay guys and that's with no suggestion of flirting etc.

By lawrenceo at 08,May,18 06:45 other posts of lawrenceo 
Mutual wanking with another male; gay or straight doesn't matter

By mahak at 08,May,18 06:37 other posts of mahak 
Hi. I can tell you about myself . I am straight . Yet have been with guys who played with my cock a number of times , some even tried to fuck my ass . But due to pain I could not take. I dont like it more than just some guy also playing with my cock and me too mutual masturbation is something I enjoy and look forward to can check my blog ..and comment

By cardinal at 07,May,18 17:18 other posts of cardinal 
Do gay people ever think about being straight for a change I also noticed alot of gay people hide behind a female profile trying they're best to get attention just don't understand so many gay men and they troll men just for kicks just because their ego tells them to payback years of being oppressed by the straight man.

By knewbi at 07,May,18 13:33 other posts of knewbi 
I did for years. Then decided that I did not want to miss out so tried it and was pissed at myself for not trying it sooner. When I think of all of the cocks that I missed out on!!!

By champstamp at 03,May,18 18:22 other posts of champstamp 
I can’t say that I have had any of those fantasies my self. Upon watching porn I’ve stumbled on some shemale pictures which I thought were hot but haven’t fantasized about doing anything with that. That’s just me though.

By #556177 at 03,May,18 05:03
Never had a gay fantasy, but I'm just horny and think sex is whatever you want to do. No problem showing a guy my cock if he asked

By #433665 at 25,Apr,18 23:39
I never had gay thoughts but after, a gay paid to suck my cock off while I watched porn. Any gay's I meet now I can't help but wonder if they would want to suck me off

By #550094 at 25,Apr,18 23:31
I'm a gay guy, and I never question if a straight guy
has any gay fantasies. I leave it to mystery.

If a straight guy has gay fantasies he will find some way
to express it discreetly. I cannot help him with it
other than perhaps answer any questions he may have.
But I maintain my boundaries, and I respect him
as the straight guy he is.

I posted an ad on Craigslist last year looking to
get a blowjob. A straight guy answered my ad.
He made it known that he was straight (and Married),
and I tried to turn him down out of respect, but he
insisted on wanting to suck my cock.
So I allowed him to fulfill his wish on a few occasions...

I still treated him respectfully as a straight guy
even during the sessions. He was dayum Good at it!
After he got done taking my loads we high-fived like
typical bar buddies and went our own ways.
I never called nor texted him over to my place.
And I never asked him to let me reciprocate.
He had always made the first moves.

Would he ever wanna see me again? Who knows.
And even so, I would still respect him and treat him
as Cool People as I treat my metalhead buddies.

A man will do whatever he wants until He decides
that he no longer wants to do it.
It's His choice alone. Do, or Don't, he is still a Man.

By Darthshame at 25,Apr,18 23:01 other posts of Darthshame 
Best i can figure, sex is just sex, relationship is icky.

By AussieMan187 at 18,Apr,18 05:51 other posts of AussieMan187 
I've thought about gay sex & sucking a cock. Though I don't think I could ever bring myself to go through with it. I don't think I could even bring myself to accept a blowjob or fuck a guy. I'm pretty open minded & comfortable with my sexuality. I'm not afraid of homosexuals, but I just don't think I could participate in gay activities...

By #553294 at 17,Apr,18 15:26
Not me.

I've always enjoyed comparing packages with other guys & talking about "guy stuff", and a bunch of friends & I used to jack-off together back in grade-school & junior-high - but I've never had any interest in doing anything sexual with another guy. Not even in my fantasies. I have always been sexually attracted to women only.

By #363802 at 18,Dec,16 17:20
I would also love some tips on seducing straight guys!! I mean, I totally get it that they wouldn't want to reciprocate, because they're straight, and I'm completely fine with that! But they love to cum and I love to suck, so I would consider that a fair trade off!

By #460385 at 27,Jun,16 21:01
No No No. Not all.
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That would be like asking a gay man if he has fantasies about straight guys.
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Can a straight guy appreciate a gay man and his body, yes. Can a gay man appreciate a straight man, yes. But not all have fantasies about each other.

By BushPilot at 27,Jun,16 19:35 other posts of BushPilot 
Absolutely no one on earth can answer that question. Now, for myself, I would imagine there is a larger number of men that do than would admit it. I personally have many fantasies. Some are sexual and they can involve everything from straight sex to things that are on the dark side. But their fantasies (and/or Dreams) and exist in another plane of existence all together. Once the fantasy or Dream is over, it's over and don't have any effect on my daily life.

By #488209 at 26,Jun,16 13:57
No why do all gays talk bollox?
By #460385 at 26,Jun,16 14:36
Are the gay men here talking about "testicles" ?????

By #445126 at 24,Nov,14 08:05
Just my opinion --- the need to label people really pigeonholes those who walk the lines of sexuality; and so many people do - men and women. Sexuality can be such a fluid thing; people's lives and tastes change, experiences are sought and abandoned, wishes become reality and hopes become memories. Lots of gay men have had sex with women - it doesn't make them straight or bi. Lots of straight men have had sex with men - it doesn't make them gay or bi. It's part of their life experience and needing to label them is an exercise in futility. People will live their lives no matter what we call them.
By spermkiss at 24,Nov,14 11:20 other posts of spermkiss 
What a perceptive comment. My hat is off to you, pal.

By greatwhite at 05,Aug,15 22:46 other posts of greatwhite 
Perfectly said!

By licksipsuckit at 04,Aug,15 22:57 other posts of licksipsuckit 
its becoming a more open subject with gay marriages and less taboo, but l totally understand that admitting it makes them feel less manly and open to ridicule. hopefully as time goes by all sexualities will be embraced and valued just as straight partnerships...its all about having a good time and feeling good in your own skin, who ever you choose to fuck, getting rid of the labels altogether might help too *lix*

By #289712 at 28,Nov,14 11:47
Honestly I can't say I do. I hear it's common, whatever floats your boat, but it's just not my thing..

By #477982 at 24,Nov,14 07:12
Umm, no - I'm straight and have also discovered I love showing off my cock - why I'm on this and a few other sites, but gay sex has no appeal for me. A tight wet pussy on the other hand
By spermkiss at 24,Nov,14 11:25 other posts of spermkiss 
Not at all unusual. Every man loves his cock and many, perhaps most, enjoy showing it off. And they don't care whom they're showing it too. Man or woman, straight or gay do not matter. The important thing is that charge they get from exposing themselves.

By Sailem49 at 04,Sep,13 11:54 other posts of Sailem49 
I don't consider myself gay but am thinking of going to a gay sauna club, hoping to get my cock played with and hopefully cum. Not wanting anal sex or to suck off anyone.

By #417547 at 13,Aug,13 17:03
That's how I started.fantasize about guys about 15 or 20 years ago then when I was leaving a wayside a guy approach me and from there I consisiderd myself bi. And have play with men for the last 7 years it started with fantasizing I love women and play with men! Bi

By oldbugle at 30,Sep,12 05:51 other posts of oldbugle 
Firstly, the men who "put down" gays in public but then seek it in private are NOT "straight"..!! Of that you can be certain. No actual straight man is afraid of, or upset by, gay men.

I'm a completely straight man and have never considered beign with another man sexually in any way, other than perhaps 'helping' another man with his wife or female partner. However, I have several long term gay friends of both sexes, and would never "put them down" for being gay whther in public or private. As far as I'm concerned they did not ask to be gay any more than I asked to be straight!

As far as "seducing" a straight man, I'm aftaid by definition you can't do that,....only a bi or latently gay man can be seduced into sexual activity with another man. The most you can do is get into conversation about sex and if he is 'ok' about gay topics ask if he has ever been curious about what it feels like etc.....

Also,...Please don't make the assumption that all men using this site are automatically gay/bi,...there are plenty of entirely straight men like me here, even if a majority are gay.
By bigone21 at 02,Jul,13 14:13 other posts of bigone21 

"No actual straight man is afraid of, or upset by, gay men."

Ever so right! As a gay man I have never been afraid to any of the sexes or orientation.

I like straight guys that are not afraid of anything, like my 2 brothers and most of our heterosexual male friends!

we kiss & hug, the sexual orientation is not in the way.

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ps: And like I want to be respected, I never "try" anything on anyone. Respect is a two-way street..!

By spermkiss at 05,Jan,13 01:17 other posts of spermkiss 
Pretty much yes.

By #337858 at 01,Jan,13 20:00
I wouldn't mind jerking off with another nice cock

By #289712 at 30,Sep,12 08:59
i'll explain my actions.. i am a straight guy, and i don't have gay fantasies.. i do, however, have a substantial libido.. where i live, and the social and work environment i exist in, sexuality has been such a non issue for so long, it's a case of "as long as you're getting some".. it's the tolerance we were taught as **** in the eighties, so i don't have an opinion either way who looks at my pics, comments, ect.. although i check out the girls i came(lol) onto this site fully aware it was male dominant.. i'm obviously not concerned about other guys seeing my cock.. i just wanna show all you people my pics.. it's not who looks at them, it's that they are being looked at that is cherry.. i appreciate any positivity, women, men, gay, straight, whatever.. as long as it does something for someone in the world.. i'm happy.. appreciative of all quality comments.. i just want others to love the little fella as much as i do!! haha!!

By #291618 at 30,Sep,12 00:38
Im str8 u were asking if we str8 have gay fantasies?
well im willing to be sucked by a guy just that XD

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