Started by #154291 at 25,Apr,11 20:17
 | Do all women on reaching the age of 45 or thereabouts...menopause..go completely off sex and refuse to have anything to do with it anymore.It seems an unfair situation when men seem to stay horny.Its a good job this site gives some respite.What do you think? |
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to women you think?
Women have a pussy and can get what they want any time as some men could give a shit less if a woman is moraly or otherwise obligated to another man if they are horny.Men know that. Men have a hard dick and can't get any unless someone give it to them.They know that.
So it appears to me,that men are less apt to hold back dick that women are to hold back pussy,not from everyone,just the husband or man they are using at the moment.
This is a correct observation. Unfortunately, there is an imbalance. Many (most?) men have to struggle to find a woman to have sex with, but for many (most?) women things are much easier. My experience has been this: all that a woman has to do to get laid is walk into the bar and sit there. She will be offered a free drink and she'll have the opportunity to choose and then walk home and have sex. But, for a man to find a woman to have sex with, he has to try again and again and, maybe, once in a while he will get lucky. Typically, this is what happens. I've observed this over the years, in various countries, various cities, various environments.
Of course, I'm not saying that the above is what *always* happens but that, typically, this is what happens.
My question to you was rather rhetorical, I knew the answer, I was just trying to see what you'd reply.
As for women "going off sex", that's a completely separate issue. In some women and in men, there are physical as well as psychological reasons that they don't enjoy or can't physically have sex without pain or irritation. In those cases, they aren't able to determine when or even why they aren't very sexual. In either case, it's not up to them to choose.
If you have a GF who's having issues, you need to be patient and help her work through any issues. If it's a lifelong issue though, you need to respect her feelings and abilities and find other outlets for your needs while being sensitive to her.
Good luck.
Soem of the reasons are;.....hormone difficiency connected with menopause or childbirth,....lack of confidence in her body or personal appearance as age makes changes,.....sexual discomfort such as vaginal dryness due to menopausal (or hormonal) changes,......changes of mind due to aging such as realising that the hubby is a plonker and not worth going to bed with......