Started by #301038 at 07,Dec,12 07:00
 | Is that true? After being fucked by a BBC, who knew how to fuck, am I really doomed to never enjoy sex again? |
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But, what if…you would have had an equally great experience with an:
Asian. Once you go Asian you get a couple raisins.
Arab. Once you go Arab, uh...nothing rhymes with Arab.
Latino. Once you go Latino you spend too much on Keno.
Italian. Once you go Italian you'll be bucked by a Stallion.
I'm just sayin'...
Of course a white guy with a big cock and really knew how to use it would be awesome too. Maybe what you mean is once you have had a big cock and a guy who knew how to fuck, you will never be happy with small and terrible again.
I am not sure that size of the person matters that much. We do all line up pretty well in the horizontal. But I do think that sometimes size does matter. I think that the saying should go "Once you go big, you never go back" That is probably what they were trying to say. lol
Of course, I could be wrong...
Long story short, he took this "being first BBC" to a whole new level. Nobody!!!, nobody never came even close to this guy... I was blown away, fucked to exhaustion. When we were done, I asked him if he fucks like this every time. He said that he had "to represent"... Anyways, an innocent NSA turned into an everyday ordeal. I just couldn't get enough of that magnificent men and his gorgeous cock. Thick 8 and a half inches of "caramel" meat. And he sure knew how to use it. I learned how to deepthroat that monster cock all the way. I loved it when he would grab my head and face fuck me nice and deep. Loved choking on his cock. Such a turn on.
It felt like I was under a "he makes me cum a lot" spell, all I wanted was another great fuck...nothing else in the world mattered... It couldn't last forever, I had get back to being a good housewife for my husband and having a BBC on my mind was way too distracting. We decided to be just friends, and we often get together for a quick burn and talk.
It took me awhile to get over my friend.n I tried to find a replacement, a substitute, another BBC, but I was really dissatisfied. It's not hard to find a big cock, the trick is to find a big cock that knows how to fuck without destroying my pussy. You see, I like to fuck every day, and if my pussy was ruined the night before, I can't fuck for couple of days. Plus, it sucks to have your pussy destroyed in the first place. Anyways, after some sarch, I just bought a thick 8 inch dildo that mounts to the surface. A life saver, I must say.
Half a year later, I still think about his cock and wish he would be willing to share me with my husband... But men that I like, unfortunately, have too much testosterone and don't play well with other men.
I understand that with the right partner everything is possible, but the temperament is something you can't acquire or master.
My husband and I, have great sex, but it's not mind blowing and overwhelming like it was with the other guy.
Every woman I have been with, obviously for more than a couple months, tells me how she notices that the sex just keeps getting better. And that progress never ended for any of the long term relationships I have had (8 and 10 years being the longest). I don't know about you but I would rather be with someone who starts of average but gets better, than someone whose first couple "performances" were exceptional but it went no where from there.
I think you need to honestly to ask yourself;
What it is that is stopping you from having "mind blowing sex" with your husband?
Do you need to have "mind blowing" sex every time you do have sex? One of my exes use to like to have "quickies" every once in a while - and I am not really into "quickies" - but I had no problem helping her out with those.
Can you be monogamous with a person with which sex is only "great", while deep in your heart you seem to feel you need "mind blowing"?
Is the 8 inch dildo really doing it for you?
As far, as "great show to represent goes", it didn't go nowhere from there. We had amazing, mind blowing, guts turning sex every single time. It was a more of a joke, that he had "to represent". But, honestly, don't we all try the hardest the first time we are with that person? Kind of on our best behavior? Cause our true inner desire is to charm that new partner?
I can see how sex with my husband is evolving and getting better, but due to the cultural differences (I'm open minded European, he is an open minded mormon style), and sexual experiences.... where my parents saw fit taking me to the go-go show in Thailand when I was 19, his parents are super reserved and never spoke of sex, or showed their skin to him. In my family, it's ok to work around the house in your underwear when it's just us, but in his family you can't show any skin at all. But we are embracing our differences and celebrating the diversity, you know.
What is stopping me from having mind blowing sex with my husband? There are certain things that he won't do... I like diversity and variety, so to speak. I want Vanilla sex on Monday, BDSM on Wednesday, sex outdoors on Friday and a house party/orgy on the weekend. Thats how I would do it, if I could get everything what I want. I want him to surprise me with something new and original, something he wanted to try, but never had the chance... While my box of unrealized fantasies are still almost full, his box is empty and we are doing re runs. I don't like being the only one, who brings ideas to the table. I want some input, I want to hear that he want to do something that would challenge me, push my boundaries further and explore my sexuality. And feels like he is happy with everything he gets with me, and I am left to satisfy my "perversions" on my own. At least I have that option, you know.
Do I need to have mind blowing sex every time? Yes, I do, keeps me humble and monogamous. And inspires me to cook the best food on earth. It tastes simply divine. If the sex is ok, my food is ok too. I just don't feel inspired to put the effort in. In 5 months that we were together, I cooked every single day after I would get back from work. I would devote a good hour or two preparing a three course meal. Than cleaning the house, and getting ready for him to come over. I just felt inspired to make him happy, as mush as he was making me happy.
Our relationship were never monogamous... it's "do whatever you please" kind.
8 inch dildo can hit the spots my hubby can't... he uses it on me once in a while too. I like to be fucked into exhaustion, until my fingertips start to tingle from all the orgasms I had. It's better than laying after sex, staring at the wall wide awake, while you partner is snoring happily next to you...
My parents were pretty open about semi/nudity and talk about sex when I was growing up as well. But I do not think a person has to be limited to how their parents were about these things. If sex with your husband is getting better why don't you kindly and firmly push it a little further to try and get closer to your ideal? Perhaps if his juices get flowing he will develop more originality and excitement in that regard.
Abot 50% of the women I have been with cannot even climax from intercourse. They did climax quite readily from me performing oral sex on them. But size of the penis was not the issue with them. If size is really a deciding factor in your ability to reach "mind blowing" orgasms perhaps there is something else your hubby can do to compensate. I have actually had to be carefull with many women that I did not hit their cervix too hard when I was having an orgasm. Perhaps your hubby is a little intimidated by your ability to take quite a bit and your labido and a different approach might work.
What I don't understand is how most women settle for a guy that is not concerned with their sexual satisfaction. When I am really into someone, and this usually happens further on down the road than the very beginning, I want to wait before I ejaculate until they have had enough or they ask me to come. It takes a while for me to get that comfortable with a woman. Perhaps your husband is still inhibited by his own fears. That can make a guy want to come quick and get the heck out of there because they have not learned that they can handle the pressure.
I do understand about the finger tngling kind of sex you are talking about. And it usually takes me a while to get there. I am kind of like a woman in that regard. I have had that kind of sex, and usually as the relationship blooms into something I cannot put into words, with every person with which I have had long term (1 to 1.5 years +) relationship. But then again I have never been a very promiscuous person myself, and have almost always had monogamous (1 on 1) relatioships, except for a couple threesomes with 2 of my exes.
And he answered:
Your joy is your sorrow unmasked. And the selfsame well from which your laughter rises was oftentimes filled with your tears. And how else can it be?
The deeper that sorrow carves into your being, the more joy you can contain. Is not the cup that hold your wine the very cup that was burned in the potter's oven?
And is not the lute that soothes your spirit, the very wood that was hollowed with knives?
When you are joyous, look deep into your heart and you shall find it is only that which has given you sorrow that is giving you joy.
When you are sorrowful look again in your heart, and you shall see that in truth you are weeping for that which has been your delight.
Some of you say, "Joy is greater than sorrow," and others say, "Nay, sorrow is the greater."
But I say unto you, they are inseparable.Together they come, and when one sits alone with you at your board, remember that the other is asleep upon your bed.
Verily you are suspended like scales between your sorrow and your joy.
Only when you are empty are you at standstill and balanced. When the treasure-keeper lifts you to weigh his gold and his silver, needs must your joy or your sorrow rise or fall."
Kahlil Gibran