through most of my life I was sexually active with guys and girls. I had to back off because of my job. You had to be a "goodie 2 shoes" if you worked for the government and had clearances. I never had to go through the "life style Polygraph" They don't have that anymore. So for 30+ years there was no fooling around except for one friend. That is another story.
After I retired early I opened a handyman business with a side of e-bay. A friend suggested I sell something on Craigslist. I opened an account and found another word called personals. I set up a private email account and put out an add. Kept it very general. Had a lot of replies. Being down low married I had to be careful. I just wanted to see how easy it was to get and give a blowjob. Met an older man in his 70's, went to his house and he shoved his hand down my pants. It had been 10 years for me since I was with a man. He had a good mouth and we got each other off. He was a widow and started getting very possessive. Gone.. now I was back in the swing of things. Still DL and in the closet but having fun when I can.