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Started by #64328 at 17,Oct,19 15:35
Have you ever masturbated next to someone sleeping? Masturbating in risky places has always been a huge thrill for me and wondered if others get off on it too.

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By SexIsLife at 18,Nov,23 21:59 other posts of SexIsLife 
I used to masturbate next to my sleeping wife. Watch her face while jerking off makes me harder and horny. I sometimes take my precums with my finger then melted her lips with that. Kiss softly to her lips. It's so pleasurable!

By Billybuck55428 at 10,Nov,23 23:02 other posts of Billybuck55428 
I do all the time. Wife falls asleep in notice and then I rub one out. Used to cumins sock, but now at 78 I don’t cum much so i just let it go into my hand and lick it up. When I was younger I would slowly jack until I produced a good amount of precum then would slip my thumb between my foreskin and my cock head and just circle it around till I shot my wad.

By SexyboytoyzMtl at 17,Oct,23 20:44 other posts of SexyboytoyzMtl 
In front of my mother when causer her sleeping nude

By Skinnywank at 25,Jun,22 12:28 other posts of Skinnywank 
Yes, plenty of times. On family vacations next to sister and parents. Next to cousins.

Soccer sleepover camps in summers.

So many times in dorm room with room mate.

By Cummingforyou at 19,Jun,22 23:04 other posts of Cummingforyou 
Yep when I 16 and visiting my cousin unaware we would share bunk beds . I was the top one and such a hot nights I couldn’t sleep . Got the urge to Jack off , hoping my cuz was asleep I went for it trying to be as quiet as ever had to bite my lips when I came to avoid groaning and had a stream of white his on my stomach . I rubbed into my boxers hopingto a void the evidence. Not sure it worked as ge had a big grin on him the following morning

By galaxy123 at 23,May,22 09:26 other posts of galaxy123 
Yes I have. I remember doing it in the same room as my sister when we were younger and sharing a room on family holidays. She would sometimes wake up and could hear me doing it. After a few times she asked me what I was doing, I said turn the light on and I can show you. So she did. I sat on the end of my bed and showed her for a minute or two.
By XJacker at 23,May,22 11:13 other posts of XJacker 
Great! What was her reaction? Did you get her to hand job you or cum over her?
By galaxy123 at 16,Jun,22 12:24 other posts of galaxy123 
No she did not touch it but watched for a few minutes. It was before I could ejaculate so there was not cum. Just a dry orgasm.

By Auscock21 at 17,May,22 01:31 other posts of Auscock21 
Yeah plenty of times, my ex girlfriend would turn on her side and go to sleep and I would tell her that I am going to wank into her ass crack and I would every time

By #625826 at 15,May,22 23:50
Oh yeah , Never Waste A Hard On , Mmmm
Oh yeah , the Sweet Hot Spurts
And quiet Moans
Rolling Over and Back to Sleep.

By XJacker at 15,May,22 14:03 other posts of XJacker 
Yes sometimes next to my wife in bed if she drops off to sleep and I’m feeling horny I stroke one off. Or if I wake in the small hours. I find wanking is a good way to get back to sleep. But in those occasions I don’t give my cock my usual full fisted stroke, I just use my thumb and forefinger across the base ridge of my cock head. I also try to suppress my orgasm thrust and grunt. Other occasions were when I used to go youth hosteling. The dormitories usually had bunk beds. I would be jerking one off with a boy asleep in the bunk above me or below me. Problem was that it was very easy to set the whole bunk rocking. Best of course was when we were both awake but wanking in the dark!

By #667453 at 15,May,22 13:12
Yes. We were at Austin peay state university in Clarksville TN. He was on a bed near the wall, I was on the bed near the window. A bookshelf separated the beds. I climaxed😈

By leopoldij at 26,Nov,21 19:44 other posts of leopoldij 
I have shared beds a few times with girls I didn't know, when I was young, in hostels or camps. Yes, I did masturbate while they were asleep.

By #628350 at 11,Nov,21 19:58
Yes, usually next to my wife if she wasn't in the mood and had gone to sleep, but a few times next to her when she asked me to, she like me to cum on her lovely tits and them massaged my cum in. She won't ever masturbate in front of me, won't admit to ever having done it and doesn't really like wanking me off. I have an occasional fuck buddy who like to masturbate herself while I do the same. That really makes me cum good, she is also gives a great blowjob as well as being a fantastic fuck. The truth is that she loves cocks as much as I love cunts.
By tb1 at 25,Nov,21 10:38 other posts of tb1 
Good pairing

By #631372 at 20,Jan,21 04:43
yeah man. at least 2 buddies whom i so desperately wanted to wank with, but could never quite convince them!
By #544883 at 22,Nov,21 16:43
you never know, they might have been doing it thinking you were a sleep.

By #652988 at 22,Nov,21 04:50
I have and put my cum on her back

By Lvphose at 17,Nov,21 10:28 other posts of Lvphose 
Yes I’ve masturbated next wife when had one and girlfriends when the weren’t in the mood and they wouldn’t give me just a hand job! I did get the blankets and their night clothes a little wet when I came and if they weren’t asleep at least they pretended to be. I came something like this!

By lawrenceo at 08,Nov,21 13:37 other posts of lawrenceo 
Yes, my wife (both of them). I had my hand on her breast the second time and unfortunately she awakened just as I let my spunk flow. She wasn't pleased!

By #652988 at 08,Nov,21 11:14
Yes I cum on her back

By #625826 at 07,Nov,21 02:40
Sure , quietly/privately..under covers in mixed dorm/hostel setting

By Lvphose at 02,Feb,21 04:18 other posts of Lvphose 
Yes when I was horny and when I was married my wife turned me down, I jerk off next to her in bed. I have also had a few girlfriends who were not in the mood when I was horny and when they turned me down I jerked off next to them in bed also!

By leopoldij at 31,Jan,21 19:22 other posts of leopoldij 
I did it again!

By #630392 at 31,Jan,21 16:11
Yep I sure have

By german_guy at 20,Jan,21 19:15 other posts of german_guy 
sure did, and it was lot of fun

By leopoldij at 20,Jan,21 01:25 other posts of leopoldij 

By #634594 at 19,Jan,21 11:24
Yes many times. Beside my brother when we were young, my step daughter fell asleep on our bed while watching a movie and my wife jacked me off, but the coolest was when I was young and my parents and I were camping out my buddy stayed with us, my parents were on a air mattress and he and I were on the ground, after they fell asleep a got my buddy hard and sucked him off till he came.
By german_guy at 19,Jan,21 21:32 other posts of german_guy 
having good times

By #628350 at 19,Jan,21 19:11
Yes lots of times, no special thrill, just a need to cum.

By #626775 at 29,Sep,20 11:45
Many times
By #64328 at 29,Sep,20 16:02
Me too

By #64328 at 21,Sep,20 20:05
I have many many times

By #623583 at 15,Aug,20 19:10
I have several times going back to middle school. I've alway gotten an extra thrill jerking off in odd places. School, work. Theater, many public places.
By #64328 at 21,Sep,20 20:03
I agree...I've always have thought beating off in odd, risky or semi public places is a serious turn on

By #624140 at 21,Sep,20 18:07
I had been masturbating near my older sleeping brother in them early days.It was time when we slept together until 16years old.There was nights I jerked slowly and came in my undies.
I also jerked in my 20ies, while living with two roommates.At night we were 3 sleeping in same room and somenights I just pleasured myself slowly while they sleep very near.
I also jerked on my drunk brothers wife.After a party she was passed out donwstairs

By #608810 at 21,Sep,20 16:03
I used to tell my ex before she went to sleep that I am going to wank into her ass crack and I would fill her crack with cum a lot of times

By overeight at 15,Aug,20 16:37 other posts of overeight 
Well I cant say I jacked off next to someone sleeping per sei. However I can say this one woman I had to share a hotel room with on a out of town job. The room had two beds of course. Well one morning I woke up so rigid hard that the covers were looking like a true teepee. Well the alarm clock went off and she woke up. And she asked do you want the bathroom first or next. I told her well I need to lay here a little bit unless you just want to see me get up in all my glory in front of you. She giggled and said yeah I kinda noticed your a little excited that's why I asked. Well she got a shower and walked out dressed and she said ok we got 20 minutes to get to work and I was still rock hard. She said if you want I'll shut my eyes. I said well I'm not modest but I dont want to offend you. She said oh I'm not the virgin Mary or anything I've seen a few before dont worry about it. So I stood up,my cock was outside my boxers and pulsating it was so hard. She saw it and said holy shit your not kidding your excited damn what a cock. She watched her eyes glued to it while I grabbed my clothes and went to the bathroom. When I came out she said well did it go down. I said yeah i got it tamed. She giggled again and said you know i thought you didnt want to get up because you were embarrassed but i see now your not so from now on dont worry if that happens again. Honestly i kinda enjoyed being flashed first thing in the morning you have a pretty nice body,every bit as good as any Male stripper I've ever seen so dont sweat it.

By #623512 at 10,Aug,20 02:45
I had been masturbating some nights when my older brother slept besides me.We had been sleeping in a same bed for a few years when growing up and I secretally masturbated silently in the middle of the night.I used to cum inside my underwears.
One time I masturbated in front of drunk and passed out brothers wife.She was so drunk she didnt felt how I pulled her panties down and jerked watching her sleeping in bed.

By #621517 at 09,Aug,20 15:25
Many times next to my sleeping wife. I get hard thinking of her naked body next to mine. I masturbate gently so it doesn’t wake her. I find suppressing my desire to franticly pump my cock means my cum builds up slowly and is exquisite when my load spurts. But sometimes I accidentally wake her or she’s not really asleep and she reaches across, wraps her hand round my shaft and HJ’s me through.

By kebmo at 15,Jun,20 03:08 other posts of kebmo 
I was going to reply here but the answer was too long so I wrote a blog story. /blogs/44412.html
By tb1 at 15,Jun,20 06:04 other posts of tb1 
🌞. Hot hot hot

By leopoldij at 15,Jun,20 02:53 other posts of leopoldij 
I just did.

By CAT at 14,Jun,20 17:25 other posts of CAT 
All the time

By Viers32 at 14,Jun,20 16:07 other posts of Viers32 
Jacking off in public

By #618293 at 03,Jun,20 22:22
yes,,my sister and my wife

By #618023 at 23,May,20 16:28
Next to my wife a few times, when she’s to tired

By lawrenceo at 23,May,20 12:48 other posts of lawrenceo 
Yes, when my wife wanted to go to sleep and I wanted an orgasm.

By leopoldij at 23,May,20 01:57 other posts of leopoldij 
I just did that.

By #548379 at 21,May,20 03:27
Yes..my gf n her friend in bed .gf was sleeping g her friend wasnt..her friend jacked me off .I came in minutes

By #532851 at 20,May,20 22:51
I did only one time

By anyfun at 20,May,20 17:26 other posts of anyfun 
Can't even count how many times
By #64328 at 20,May,20 19:14

By massco at 10,May,20 21:08 other posts of massco 
Yes unfortunately a lot.

By 3fdfd at 10,May,20 02:29 other posts of 3fdfd 
Yes ... but in an adjoining bed. Motel rooms on trips.
By tb1 at 10,May,20 05:39 other posts of tb1 
Me too
By 3fdfd at 10,May,20 10:22 other posts of 3fdfd 
If you and I were in bed together .......
By tb1 at 10,May,20 13:39 other posts of tb1 

By #616943 at 10,May,20 00:57
Next to a sleeping buddy in the same bed.

By #609970 at 13,Feb,20 17:57
Next to my husband---when he was too tired--i really let loose too !!

By #522791 at 13,Feb,20 16:59
Yassss I definitely have

By nekekal at 21,Oct,19 17:16 other posts of nekekal 
Yes. Mostly long stories, but it happened quite a bit. Then I got married and found out the wife hates to fuck, so I masturbate all the time next to her. She only cares if I wake her up. The foam mattress keeps me from waking her up.
By #23212 at 21,Oct,19 22:41
Why would you marry someone who "hates" sex?
By nekekal at 22,Oct,19 02:13 other posts of nekekal 
You don't know that at the time. She fucked me a lot before we got married. Women lie and will do anything to get married. Over time I found that she just hates anthing to do with cock.

A fair question is why I stayed and didn't run. I don't know. I should have.
By tb1 at 22,Oct,19 04:45 other posts of tb1 
Did you have c.h.i.l.d.r.e.n.?
By nekekal at 22,Oct,19 05:37 other posts of nekekal 
Nope. No kids. Early on used protection, after that I don't think that I ever got fucked enough. Maybe the gods thought that I had enough bad luck.
By tb1 at 22,Oct,19 12:05 other posts of tb1 
your comment "She fucked me a lot before we got married. Women lie and will do anything to get married." is quite true, been there, done that
By nekekal at 22,Oct,19 17:31 other posts of nekekal 
After we started fucking, she seemed to love it. Before we started fucking we sent out a lot, then we started to just staying home and fucking. She fucked at the beach, in a tent in a crowded campground, morning noon and night. It was fucking heaven.

Then we got married. I suspected that I had been had when she wouldn't fuck me after the wedding. Ok, she claimed being tired, and we were in her parents house, and more than a little drunk, but I expected to get fucked.

After that it was down hill all the way. Too tired, not in the mood. It was my fault, she didn't like her tits touched, or any position but missionary, and please don't take too long.

Initially, you want to make it work. I tried harder, cooking, cleaning, etc. Over time I came to realize that she just hates to be fucked. She hates cock and detests cum.

I should have left. But it is like a battered wife, I believed it was my fault and that I probably could not do any better, and now I am too old. Probably not if I was rich, rich guys can always find women who want to fuck, probably for their own agenda, but will fuck.

Sorry to unload on you.
By tb1 at 22,Oct,19 18:13 other posts of tb1 
Don’t be sorry. My situation is quite similar. I got head when she was trying to convince me to marry her. I thought getting a blow job was terrific. After we were married, no head. I was some pissed. We did still fuck. Eventually k.i.d.s. arrived. I couldn’t leave. If I had it would have been a financial disaster and devastating to the k.i.d.s.
By nekekal at 22,Oct,19 22:45 other posts of nekekal 
I used to envy guys with a lot of kids. I knew that they were getting fucked every so often.

But I understand the financial problems. I think that the wife understood too. She doesn't like to fuck, but isn't stupid. About the time that we really could not financially separate, she quit fucking altogether. About 15 years ago I got my cock in her for the last time.

She did still suck cock a bit. Easier to suck it than fuck it. She doesn't swallow so it is basically a hand job with a bit of head sucking. I think she has now given that up. I begged her for it and got a chuckle.
By tb1 at 23,Oct,19 05:03 other posts of tb1 
You have my sympathy. Begging never worked for me. When we were dating, one night she must have thought I wanted an eager overzealous blow job. She was really aggressive and sure as fuck her teeth grazed my super sensitive glans. Instead boner shrinker. It bloody hurt. She did not understand how it could hurt. Well, it sure as hell did. It didn’t bleed but it was tender for days.
By nekekal at 23,Oct,19 17:23 other posts of nekekal 
Begging has never really worked. Mostly because if it did, and she complied, she acted like I should be indebted to her forever. A real princess complex. I got very reluctant to beg because if it worked, I would have to live with the bitch for weeks. Getting your cock sucked was not worth that!!!

Since she never really wanted to suck cock, she is not very good at it. She tends to just suck the tip and almost always nips me with her teeth. She might do that so I don't ask again. I learned early on to not criticize her or she would never do the act again. I bought a video once on how to fuck and she refused to watch it. it was months before I could fuck her again.

By #588327 at 23,Oct,19 09:47
Do you think she understands how it makes a guy feel when his wife doesn't care enough about him to have sex.
By tb1 at 23,Oct,19 09:51 other posts of tb1 
In my case, I think she understood perfectly. It was another way to belittle and humiliate me. This side didn’t show up before we were married, or, if it did, I was blinded by lust and didn’t see it.
--------------------------------------- added after 6 hours

My sisters saw it though and tried to warn me but again, I was blinded by lust. I thought the good times would continue forever ........hah

By nekekal at 23,Oct,19 17:30 other posts of nekekal 
I think that she understands. She just doesn't care. I was once in bed next to her and tried to interest her in having sex. But no. So I masturbated. She ask me if I knew how bad that made her feel. Me masturbating next to her. I said no,I didn't know it made her feel bad since she didn't want to help in anyway, i thought it was ok to do it myself.

In her mind, she hates anything to do with my cock, and I should be the same way.

By #172966 at 23,Oct,19 16:58
I was in a very similar relationship for almost five years but fortunately got out from it quite recently.
In the first year she was (pretending apparently) really horny and she sucked my cock and we’d fucked on a daily basis but as soon as I proposed and put a ring on her finger she suddenly wasn’t in the mood to fuck and settled to give me blowjobs and those eventually became handjobs and then nothing but complaints about her being tired or having headaches.
The last two years she’s put on alot of weigh, from 57 kg to ca 100 kg and starting to shower less and less....
Getting out of that toxic relationship was the best thing for me!!!
I hope it’s going to get better for you because you deserve better!!!
By nekekal at 23,Oct,19 17:39 other posts of nekekal 
Women are pretty good at putting on this act. That they really like to fuck and suck but really don't. They want something. To get married and have someone to reach higher places and open jars.

Then you get married and it becomes a burden to spread their legs. I never advise guys to get married. Enjoy blowjobs as long as they can.

I actually believe that one of the reason people put on a lot of weight, and in your case give up showering, is because they want to be as disgusting as they can so no guy want to fuck them.

Congratulations on getting free.

I think it is too late for me. Old women don't seem to fuck, and younger women pretend that older guys are invisible.
By #172966 at 23,Oct,19 18:29
It`s never too late as long as you can feel love and joy and you still get horny and hungry for sex. She don`t deserve a husband if she has no interest of making you happy and maybe getting some therapi or making some kind of effort to your happiness.
As fore me, Due to certain health issues I have been eating alot of strong painkillers the last 2,5 years and they took away alot of my sex drive and my ex`s big weight gain didn`t help either.
And in hindsight I should have broke up with her years ago! The girlfriend i had Before her (who I deeply loved)died very suddenly from epilepsy and I was so sad and lonely after her Death and just wanted a new relationship so a year later I bottled up my emotions and started dating before i was ready and meet my latest ex.
I have not had any luck in love!
Sorry for the bad Spelling, I almost never Wright in English.
By nekekal at 23,Oct,19 19:27 other posts of nekekal 
Talked about therapy once. She said that she had no interest in being a sex fiend like me. She likes herself as a sex neuter and thinks I should do therapy. I almost left over that one.

She would like me to be happy, just not if it involves my cock.

Sorry to hear about your medical problems. I know that lots of things interfere with sex drive. Currently I am taking allergy medication, and it seems to suppress sexual desire. Not too long ago I was in the hospital and antibacterial stuff seemed to enhance sexual desire.

But at least you got out of that last mess. There is always hope. At least until my age. I would just go find a prostitute if I could. I would be a regular customer.
By tb1 at 23,Oct,19 21:32 other posts of tb1 
I always thought I’d leave when the k.i.d.s. were out of school. But thst didn’t work because university followed, then they got married, had their own k.i.d.s. so I was trapped forever
By nekekal at 24,Oct,19 00:25 other posts of nekekal 
I understand completely. It is like you don't want to ruin everyone's life just to get fucked. One bad decision leads to no choice other decisions.

My nephew found himself in the same position. He had not has sex for years. Two kids. Then he met a woman who really liked to fuck so he immediately moved in with her. Then got divorced. The story has not ended, but the ex wife finally screwed him.

Sexless is pretty common I think. I never found a woman that liked to fuck. I found some on the internet, but don't really believe them.

By #588327 at 23,Oct,19 23:19
That suck she or anybody's wife doesn't care about make her guy happy. Even is a wife doesn't want to have sex herself she should be sexual to make her husband happy. Guys need sex or some kind of release and know their wife care about their needs. It's hard to believe that she does not care about have any orgasm herself. Maybe she can't one for some reason and that why she lost interest.
By nekekal at 24,Oct,19 01:39 other posts of nekekal 
That is part of the wifes problem. She hates to be fucked. So in the first few years, she would grit her teeth and allow me fuck her, but over time it becomes harder and harder to fake it. I am sympathetic to this. If I had to do something that I hated just to make someone else feel good, I would try to do it as little as possible.

Thats why she would suck cock a bit. I liked it, she h ated it less. Still didn't like it, and was terrified of getting cum in her mouth, but could force herself once in a while. To be honest, masturbating is easier and comes with less drama.

Ah, orgasms. She doesn't orgasm from getting fucked. Most women don't. She doesn't like oral sex on her clitoris. She can orgasm under exactly the right conditions. Mostly with my cock between her legs rubbing her cunt lips and clitoris. She doesn't shave and it is like sandpaper on my cock. Still, I tried to do it as often as I could. I never turned her down. She turned down a lot of my requests to put my cock in her cunt. She doesn't like orgasms enough to want to try.
By #588327 at 24,Oct,19 03:23
Sorry to hear she does not even want to try. I don't understand that way of thinking especially with someone she can trust, if their is something holding her back. Does she masturbate ? We probably can't solve her problems on here but seems like if she can't or does not even masturbate herself. She might think it's wrong to touch themselves. To me that would seem like the most basic part of having sex. She or anyone has to be able to masturbate themselves. So she should be able to tell you how help her reach an orgasm. If she doesn't even know her own body that personal. She is expecting you do to something she can't even do herself.
By tb1 at 24,Oct,19 05:02 other posts of tb1 
One time I was whining to a work buddy about my wife only letting me fuck her once a week. He replied, “You’re lucky. I know some guys she has cut off completely.”

--------------------------------------- added after 10 minutes

A str8 friend of mine told me that he liked eating pussy so much, he wondered if he might be a lesbian.
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Nowadays, he’s not fucking her or going down on her, they are divorced.
By #588327 at 24,Oct,19 12:37
I think asking what she likes is the key because in return a wife will ask what you like. Now both people are having sex to help or make each other feel sexual and hopefully have orgasm together or just to have a orgasm one at a time. Then sex is customized to each other and what each person wants and thinks.

By nekekal at 24,Oct,19 05:15 other posts of nekekal 
I am not sure that she masturbates. She claimed that she did, but would never do it while I watched. She did have serious religious training that the body was bad and her cunt was dirty. I tried to help her with that but don't know how successful I was. She talks a good fuck, but doesn't deliver one.

Early on we did try couples therapy where we tried to make her view a cock as something pleasurable, but I don't think she really was interested.

She just really doesn't like cock.
By #588327 at 24,Oct,19 12:06
If she won't let you see her masturbating I bet that something. She might still think it's wrong or dirty. You should try asking her for help. Ask her what underwear look better on your body. Ask her if she would cuddle with you in bed or on the couch watching a movie wrapped in a blanket together. Ask her if she would give you a back rub. Ask her if she would rub her hands on your body because you like her touching you. Ask if she would just hold your hand. Ask if she would hug you
By nekekal at 24,Oct,19 15:58 other posts of nekekal 
Been there, done that. Like all women, she doesn't like her body much, so she doesn't like to have me watching her. It is embarrassing to her. And I don't think she likes to masturbate. I have never caught her doing it, whereas I do it all the time, and she has caught me. I enjoy cuming, I don't think she does. It might be the out of control feeling or it might be god watching. She never fucked me in her parents house, or in ours when they were visiting. She did suck my cock once while visiting her parents. I think she was excited by the forbiddeness of it.

She hates to cuddle. She knows it will lead to my cock getting hard and then she might have to touch it. She only cares that I cover my cock up, not interested in what with.

Any activity that could lead to fucking she doesn't have time for.
By #588327 at 24,Oct,19 20:28
She has everything covered to never have sex. If she's embarrassed by her body this will sound crazy. Going naked at home will help overcome that. Even better going to a nudist place. I bet she has never been around people that don't judge her body before. I was embarrassed being naked till I went to a real nudist place. I have never been around people that said being naked and sex are two separate things. When you experience that it's a freedom most people never experience. Nudist people really don't care what a body looks like. It all about being comfortable in your own body. She can't even do that. She can't overcome what she was told. She was told the wrong stuff. Maybe if she was comfortable being naked then she could enjoy sex more. I went to nudist place and it changed the way I looked at people and think about sex. I was not embarrassed. The freedom of losing that fear is amazing, I think
By nekekal at 24,Oct,19 20:51 other posts of nekekal 
I got her to several nudist places. Nude beaches. One seemed to have the desired effect. We were with a guy and got naked. She was a bit embarrased. I got a hard on, but the other guy only a little hard. When he left she was a little turned on and even suggested that she could suck my cock, in a secluded spot. I let her. It was great.

But I could never get her to go again. Years later I got her to another nude beach, but she just didn't want to stay and nothing happened. Except that I got a hard on.

I did convince her to go swimming naked on a back packing trip. We saw a lot of naked women on the way in and I was pretty horny, so I talked her into going into the water naked to maybe fuck around a bit. She wasn't having any of it, so I just masturbated alone.

She never goes naked in the house. Sleeps in heavy clothing, gets out of the shower and covers up.

Sometimes I used to grab her tits, but she told me to stop it.

Oh well. I guess she is really screwing me.
By #588327 at 24,Oct,19 21:12
Maybe because she is putting nudity with sex and she can't see them as two different things. Listen to this podcast they talk about how it's not sexual and more about embracing you own body. I have not listen I a while but it must still be the same talking points. Maybe she really does need some professional help if she wanted to overcome her stuff or maybe she really doesn't care. That would really suck. Listen to the podcast see what you think. Maybe it something she would listen to also. It really is about losing that embarrassment we were all told to be about not just our bodies but see other bodies as they are and the people as the are.
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By nekekal at 25,Oct,19 00:16 other posts of nekekal 
The problem is she doesn't care. Years ago, I suggested some therapy. I was perfetly willin to pay for it. I would readily pay to get fucked.

But she doesn't see a problem. She doesn't want to be sex obsessed like me. That's what she told me. She doesn't have a problem not wanting to be fucked. She thinks it is my problem.

So, no fucking, or sex of any kind for me. I would be happy to cheat if I could find any woman that wanted to fuck.
By #588327 at 25,Oct,19 02:41
You can always pay for it. Just tell her if she does not care about what you need someone will. She must not understand how a man's body works
By nekekal at 25,Oct,19 05:25 other posts of nekekal 
If there were any place to pay for a fuck, I would be down there with a handful of hundred dollar bills, or whatever it takes. I need to fuck something so bad that it drives me crazy.

She knows how important sex is to me. But I don't think that she really cares. She thinks I will just get over it. Or something. And doesn't really care as long as she doesn't have to touch my cock or cum.

By tb1 at 25,Oct,19 05:43 other posts of tb1 
do they have “happy ending” massage parlours where you live?
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Or, you could always meet guys here on this site and you mutually get relief from or
By nekekal at 25,Oct,19 17:11 other posts of nekekal 
They don't. Massage around here is done with your clothes on. In Texas they had full body massage, the others would let you jerk it yourself there doesn't seem to be any guys on here within an hours drive.

Before craigslist went prudish there were some women in canada who would advertise, most within driving distance. I keep thinking that there must be one working woman here that could use some easy extra money, but I have been unable to find her. Thats just my luck.
By tb1 at 25,Oct,19 18:13 other posts of tb1 
Sometimes, if you didn’t have bad luck, you’d have no luck at all
By nekekal at 25,Oct,19 19:00 other posts of nekekal 
True. That describes my life.
By tb1 at 27,Oct,19 18:27 other posts of tb1 

By #603797 at 12,Feb,20 18:01
The old joke is "what kind of food turns a woman off sex?"
Answer: Wedding Cake!!

Seems true in your case. Sorry to hear.
Seriously, find a friend to have fun with. They are out there. And do not even feel bad about it.
Good luck!
By nekekal at 12,Feb,20 23:05 other posts of nekekal 
I would not feel bad about it.

Similar old joke. Why is the bride smiling so much?

Because she knows that she has had to suck her last cock.

By onthelose at 12,Feb,20 22:31 other posts of onthelose 
I forgot,, I have rubbed one out while in bed with my wife. If she heard she didn't comment. If she did its her problem to deal with. I also jacked off with a friend of mine when we went to an out of town auto swap meet and stayed overnight at a motel. I was hoping he would join me. He talks constantly about sex but seems reluctant to act on it. Sex with women that is. To bad because his wife told me he has a nine inch cock.

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