I feel very frustrated if I don't come...and these days it take slonger to build up to a stiasfactory finish...so mored edging and almost getting there, then holding back, but it leads to an amazing eventual orgasm and masses of jizz...
I definitely enjoy the feeling of arousal more than the climax. The problem is that eventually I get to the point when I just can't take any more and I lose it. So yeah, I can handle not coming. It's more fun to play than to finish.
I am having some trouble myself lately. BUt i can totally enjoy giving soemone else that pleasure and enjoy it.
By #545468 at 12,May,19 18:34
While I love cumming, I do not need to cum to feel satisfied. I love sucking cock and after working on my guy's cock for a long time and getting to swallow his load is reward enough. I have often fallen asleep with him completely happy after swallowing his load.
But I never leave my partner unsatisfied. I always make sure she gets an orgasm. Always. Unless, for some reason, she's happy to stop. Otherwise, I'll continue until she feels great.
By #584076 at 11,May,19 22:12
I take quite some time to cum...
Don't know why...
Hust how it is...
There have been times where my partner has cum multiple times and is wrecked so we've stopped...
It's just about bearable but frustrating as all hell...
Generally, at this point I'll end up using an electric massager.
But with the right partner it's not frustrating at all , unless my partner really doesn't give a damm about me and just want s to cum and forget about me!
By #584076 at 11,May,19 22:58
Yeah... I can go full pelt for up to 4 hours and still not get there...
At that point my gf has usually cum about 6 or 7 times and she'll generally have exhausted herself too...
It's absolutely still fun and there are times where I'm too exhausted to care...
But she feels bad if I don't cum when she's had so many orgasms which is why we usually break out the electric massager...
Normally I will sy not to worry about it but inside I'm delighted she's keen to finish me off.
That's the difference, when the partner cares about you and wants you to cum
Ofcourse i like to cum too, but when i see a stisfied partner who i had hot action with i do not care so much about myself
By #584076 at 11,May,19 23:12
See for me, I'm like this with guys...
When I'm with a guy it's all about sating their needs and they never usually last long enough to get me close anyway, so I leave content with their load.
Right or better still;wait a bit and go for a second round!
By #584076 at 12,May,19 08:16
Sorry... Hit the -1 bit by mistake when I went to reply.
My actual response... Sadly in my vast experience... And it is vast... Most guys do not have the capacity to wait a short time then go again... I've been with hundreds of guys who just cum and are completely spent and have no interest in continuing.
By #275407 at 12,May,19 05:13
Not me, I have to cum at least two times to be satisfied. I can't get enough
Well, i'll never say no to that, it just takes a litle time in my case and some guys are not patient enough
By #551207 at 11,May,19 22:14
As long as my partner cums I'm happy
By #583549 at 11,May,19 22:28
I have been stroking my cock until the precum starts and I get it on my finger and lick it.I let my cock rest a few minutes and then I start the process all over!tasty precum!
As you said;the yourney is enough fun sometimes!
Last night however i had a good time at a sex party but not having cum myself did feel less satisfying and now i really feel i missed something
I can be completely happy too just seeing my partner satisfied
It's not a problem when they try, but when they cum and say ok that's it for me. That's a different feeling for me.
Don't know why...
Hust how it is...
There have been times where my partner has cum multiple times and is wrecked so we've stopped...
It's just about bearable but frustrating as all hell...
Generally, at this point I'll end up using an electric massager.
But with the right partner it's not frustrating at all , unless my partner really doesn't give a damm about me and just want s to cum and forget about me!
At that point my gf has usually cum about 6 or 7 times and she'll generally have exhausted herself too...
It's absolutely still fun and there are times where I'm too exhausted to care...
But she feels bad if I don't cum when she's had so many orgasms which is why we usually break out the electric massager...
Normally I will sy not to worry about it but inside I'm delighted she's keen to finish me off.
Ofcourse i like to cum too, but when i see a stisfied partner who i had hot action with i do not care so much about myself
When I'm with a guy it's all about sating their needs and they never usually last long enough to get me close anyway, so I leave content with their load.
My actual response... Sadly in my vast experience... And it is vast... Most guys do not have the capacity to wait a short time then go again... I've been with hundreds of guys who just cum and are completely spent and have no interest in continuing.