I started to go to a gay sauna this year. See my blog posts on the subject if you like.

Had a lot first time experiences there.
Most guys there a very respectfull a simple no is a no !
If you want o walk around looking at al tha ctze or notion going on and not join in, that won't be a problem.

As for size, some guys look for a certain size, big or small they will have a look or feel and they will let you know if they like your sie or not, still if they don't like your size they will still have a chat in the bar

Thanks i was right!

I have poppers and a couple of horny friends, let's have a party !!!

I gues it depends on how strong they are and if the one using them uses them often


For me it was my first time and i have come to understand the one i used is quite strong, so maybe that is why it did not have such a good effect for me.

As far as i understand it rush is a kind of poppers.

Nothing wrong with you!
I'd love to spend a night cuddling with someone!

That's a good fuck; when you don't notice what's going on around you!

Beautifull hot setting, apart from the deranged guy, stuff for a good porn scene!

Don't be sorry, you're still a great guy!

I always appreciate your comments!

Wish we could for a drink,sure we would have lots to talk about!

Yes i totally enjoy the men's sauna now,being naked and surrounded by naked guys fels good now!

I missed so much too, being shy and reserved, at times i still find it difficult to approach someone and i'll wait untill they give me a signal they are interested


I had to push myself a little, but i am glad i did!

Very reserved and shy!
Had you told me 2 years ago i would visit a gay sauna and enjoy myself with men there, i would have said you were crazy

I knew i liked men, never thought anything would ever happen.

Since i am on here i made a lot of changes in my life, started doing many new things met new people, on and offline.


Reading the blogs and comments on pictures and PM's have showed me there re others in the same situation


I needed to do something with my feelings for men, this site and mostly the people on here have showed me what and how to do it, given encouragement when i doubted.


I wouldn't be having the fun i am having now without this site!

Yes i have!
This site is so important to me that i have told people about it

Yes there was a lot of lube and patience involved but my ass is open for business!

Need some more practice now to really take a cock and enjoy it for a longer time now,still tight but i am able to keep it in for a while now!

Yes did some training on my own but i guess i wouldn't allow someone the control over it.

In the last week 3 guys have succeeded to penetrate even starting to enjoy it altough they were well hung!

Had a lot of first times in a bath house; first trio,first foursome,first group,first big cock in mouth…

Also had some good long cuddling and kissing sessions so it's not al hard meaningless sex as some may think
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That depends on the crowd frequenting the bathhouse ofcourse

That sounds great, one day i will have that!

I am sure even in these modern times bath houses are still for some the only way to take a proper bath, for most it's the social part of it that still draws people to them

Yeah friends make life better, small things are lifechanging ones are better with a friend

That's a true friend alright!

Oh yeah!!! A friend that makes you cum is the best!

I think most who post here are not offended, i did get blocked from a straight guy once when i gave him a compliment,he was very young maybe that was the reason!

Yeah that's a good quality in friend, one i appreciate very much!

Very important, friends are ther in the bad times too and help when they can or.support

Yes true friends are rare!

You surely knew at a young age , at that age i was hardly aware there was such a thing as sexual attraction!

Thanks Leo ! Friends don't have to like all the same things, there can be differences without it being a problem

Oh Yes, lies ruin it for me too!
Once someone haas lied to me as a friend it is very hard for me to trust them again

Some good points here.
It sure is important to be able to be yourself around friends.
Helping eachother with insecureties is also very important to me.
And being able to talk about anything without hesitation is a great factor of friendship!

Thanks

I see, guess i had the wrong info about them

Thanks for explaining

Perfect answer to this!

I love a man's ass!!! Always spend lots or time there when i can;my tongue between those cheeks; just wonderfull

That is one of the best first times i have ever heard! Thanks for sharing!

I enjoyed some of those long wanks too and not cum.
As you said;the yourney is enough fun sometimes!

I feel the same about it.
I can be completely happy too just seeing my partner satisfied

We can't always explain our own strange kinks can we?
It sometimes takes someone else to say something about for us to think; oh that(s where it comes from!

They get a kick out of it i'msure

We all work a little different

It does happen often to me,i do take a long time to cum mostly and most guys are not patient enough, even when they get me very close!

It's not a problem when they try, but when they cum and say ok that's it for me. That's a different feeling for me.

Well, i'll never say no to that, it just takes a litle time in my case and some guys are not patient enough

Right or better still;wait a bit and go for a second round!

That's the difference, when the partner cares about you and wants you to cum

Ofcourse i like to cum too, but when i see a stisfied partner who i had hot action with i do not care so much about myself

Really? Even if she thanks you for making her cum so good?

I do take a long time too cum sometimes as well.

But with the right partner it's not frustrating at all , unless my partner really doesn't give a damm about me and just want s to cum and forget about me!

I feel the same johnny!

That's the kind of friend i like!

You are full of good ideas!

Never fucked on a beach or anything like that.
But as things are changing for me and i do more and more stuff itprobably will happen, i just need to find someone now!

NO, come to think of it don't see many hitchhikers around anymore.

Thanks man! Well that's very clear isn't it?!