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Started by up-for-it at 26,Oct,18 15:00  other posts of up-for-it
Just saw a remark from a sexy straight guy from Brazil saying he lives in the wrong country to get laid, he thinks living in the US would get him more sex.

Makes me think, why do some people get so many chances to have sex and others don't? Some very sexy people have trouble getting sex and some less sexy people get laid all the time no matter where they live.


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By onthelose at 27,Oct,18 01:34 other posts of onthelose 
I once had a friend who got more pussy than a toilet seat. I asked him what was his ****. He said he just asked. I said you must get turned down a lot. He said yes he did but you would be surprised how many would say yes. H e put himself out there and could handle rejection without letting it cripple him and he was always fucking some woman. Been with him many times while I was trying to get the courage to talk to someone he was leave ing with someone.
By admin at 27,Oct,18 08:30 other posts of admin 
Yeh, I've heard this too, but there are very few people who can overcome a fear of rejection or, worse, being laughed at after such proposal. I knew a guy who was at his early 40, worked as an insignificant clerk at a theater, was dumb as a 14 years old, but he was obsessed with sex, so he propositioned on every opportunity and he got laid a lot, usually with chicks even dumber than him, but who cares.

By up-for-it at 27,Oct,18 09:02 other posts of up-for-it 
Good point! Just ask, sounds so simple but effective i guess.
For most of us that does take some courage to do, i sure don't do that easily!
By leopoldij at 27,Oct,18 19:50 other posts of leopoldij 
Think this: a man must find the courage to ask a woman for sex. A woman can ask any time she likes and can get laid almost each time. So who rules the world?

By #532415 at 28,Oct,18 02:30
You can't be shy. If you want it say it. I'm 56 and not in great shape but I get all kinds of pussy. Late 20's to 40's. Check out my profile
By admin at 28,Oct,18 19:51 other posts of admin 
You mean that you also just ask any women you like if she would have sex with you?

Out of curiosity - how does your usual conversation with a woman you just met and want to have sex with go on? I doubt it's just "Hello, I want to fuck you", there should be some more delicate scheme of approach.
By up-for-it at 31,Oct,18 15:05 other posts of up-for-it 
I have seen this to happen; a guy walks up to a girl in a bar and asks, do you want to fuck and she says yes and of they went!

It baffles me!
By admin at 31,Oct,18 16:07 other posts of admin 
It does not surprise me when this happens in a bar. Girls often come there exactly to find a fuck. So if you look confident enough and not too cheesy, simple yes to that question is quite possible. I wonder how it happens in other places, where girls are not "biased".

By nekekal at 31,Oct,18 13:51 other posts of nekekal 
I also knew a guy who got laid more I a week than I did all year. His **** was that he just ask. He would wrap his arm around their shoulders and go " would you like to go over to my place and fuck? ". No one ever slapped him, and before the night was over, someone would say yes.

To this day, I don't know why I didn't do this. I was terrible at seduction. Rejection isn't fatal.

I have found that asking doesn't work on my wife.
By up-for-it at 31,Oct,18 15:02 other posts of up-for-it 
You have to be really confident to pull this of i think
I don't have that kind of confidence to walk up to someone and ask for a fuck
By nekekal at 31,Oct,18 16:42 other posts of nekekal 
I don't know if it's confidence. You have to know that a lot of them will say no.

I think you have to not care that a lot of women will dislike you. But some will want to fuck. As a horny guy, you just want to fuck them. Not yet to know them, or gain there respect.

The guy I knew almost never fucked the same woman again. Maybe at night, through the night, and in the morning, but not afterwords. I am not sure he even knew their names.

But he fucked a lot of women.
By admin at 31,Oct,18 16:52 other posts of admin 
Well, it's certainly about confidence, just may be not about that confidence people think.

I can't ask a woman to go and fuck with me not exactly because I'm afraid to be rejected, it's much more that I'm not sure I really want to fuck her. What if I don't like something about her when she gets nude? What if I don't like her smell? Sometimes I have problems with erection when fucking unfamiliar woman even if I like her. It's not an erectile disfunction, it was always like that even when I was young and could fuck 6 times per day. And you can't exactly invite a woman to fuck if you are not sure you can fuck her. I think it would be insulting to the women if you do this and then can't. And even if you ask with an attitude like that, they feel you are not sure and say no. So, you have to at least sound confident.
By nekekal at 31,Oct,18 17:03 other posts of nekekal 
That is true. In my youth it was not a problem. I always had an erection and could fuck anything that would spread their legs. And some of them were not that attractive. But my cock didn't care.

Much later, I did worry about not being able to fuck them for whatever reason. And I passed on some opportunities for the reasons you suggest. It would be very embarrassing to ask them to fuck, get naked, and not be able to get hard enough to shove it in them. As you worry about this, it gets worse.

And opportunities get farther apart as you get older. A 30 year old guy can probably get away with asking a 20 year old to fuck. A 70 year old guy will probably be arrested for suggesting it to a 40 year old woman, and a 60 year old woman will probably buy him with her cane.
By up-for-it at 01,Nov,18 04:28 other posts of up-for-it 
It's not just one thing that gets people to have a lot of sex.

People think they are young ,goodlooking; ofcourse it's easy for them, but it's not!
It's also about the way they feel and think

I also wonder what's going to happen once we get naked, or when someone asks to do something i've never done before

Being attracked to someone doesn't always help as fear of not being able to perform will make it worse.

No wonder so many people are getting less sex than they would like to!
By nekekal at 01,Nov,18 12:58 other posts of nekekal 
I have a hard time getting to naked. After that I think I could fake it. Besides if you are just going to fuck and fail, you will probably never see them again anyway and it's doubtful that they will spread the word that they failed to get you hard enough to fuck them. They will probably think it is their fault.

It's all about getting your cock into some cunt. Not long term relationships.

By onthelose at 28,Dec,18 16:08 other posts of onthelose 
I once worked with a guy who used the same strategy. He got more pussy then a toilet seat. He said most where shocked he asked and he was surprised by how many who wanted to fuck and where just waiting for the question. Of course you couldn't be coarse when you are asking, even someone who is horny will be insulted by the way you ask. I just couldn't be that forward. Just a coward when it comes to women.
By nekekal at 29,Dec,18 13:21 other posts of nekekal 
The guy I knew got turned down a lot. But he always found some woman that said yes.

I don't know that there is a non crude way to ask if the want to fuck. He never beat around the bush. He just ask "would you like to come up to my place and fuck?" That way there was no being clever or trying to be suductive. They already agreed to fuck. Just do it. Some night repeatedly.

I am with you. To much of a coward. I could get them to come up to my place but then had to try and convince them to fuck without asking. If I could do it over, I would just ask.

I am sure that a lot of women went away thinking I was weird or neutered or something.

By onthelose at 28,Dec,18 16:12 other posts of onthelose 
Admin is right I was just that kind of guy. If I could go back I wouldn't be so selective. My Dad was right in one way , he said never sleep with a woman you wouldn't want to marry if you got her pregnant. Those were different times when men felt a responsibility for their actions.

By david6799 at 26,Oct,18 16:18 other posts of david6799 
Well I'm in the USA and for my hole life I can't get laid enough too even be close to satisfied, I'm 51 there's only so much time left Dang it!!!!!
By up-for-it at 27,Oct,18 09:11 other posts of up-for-it 
Sounds like you have a big appetite, and you just can't get enough
By david6799 at 28,Oct,18 15:37 other posts of david6799 
That's a big for sure! I want to make a porn with lots of guys Lol
By up-for-it at 28,Oct,18 16:41 other posts of up-for-it 
Daddy has fun with young studs?
Daddy's having fun?
Orgie in the gym?
Island of men?

By admin at 26,Oct,18 16:51 other posts of admin 
From my observations on this matter - main problem is that people have their expectations set too high. Guys don't just want to get laid, they want to fuck a beautiful girl even if they are hideous and rarely shower. Ugly people that are ok with fucking other ugly people don't seem to have a problem to find partners.

I was familiar with a small ring of swingers, most of them were ordinary-looking at best, I would not look at any of them twice on the street, but they liked sex and were ok with fucking each other, so they had plenty of orgies and gradually extended their circle over years finding more people like them.

Also, I had a friend who preferred to fuck below average girls because as he said they fucked best. Sometimes he had to bring girls into his home after dark because he was ashamed neighbors could see him with them otherwise, so ugly they were. He was average himself. But he fucked a whole lot of them. Could get a new girl any day. I think it was over a hundred different girls in all the years.
By up-for-it at 27,Oct,18 09:21 other posts of up-for-it 
That's also a factor in the matter, take what you can get!

By #568737 at 26,Oct,18 16:13
Living in the United Kingdom is a good place to get laid. I got laid here last night!
By up-for-it at 27,Oct,18 09:16 other posts of up-for-it 
Lucky man!

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