Met a non scam cam model. How should I continue?

By #454258 at 13,Nov,17 16:08

Good news, and more good news. First off, the scam artist never called back, so it looks like I'm in the clear. Second, I just got back from a wonderful date with another girl from Plenty of Fish. A real one this time.

By RealTitsLover at 13,Nov,17 16:21 other posts of RealTitsLover

Cool. By the way, if they're really a non-scam cam model, there's ways they can let you view their shows for free without requiring a credit card or any personal information, or anything else. They'll also be willing to talk to you in their free time, about all kinds of things not relating to sex.

By Ravioli_Max at 13,Nov,17 19:51 other posts of Ravioli_Max

Great news, Toon. :-)

By #454258 at 14,Nov,17 02:08

We met for lunch, had a nice talk, then we went and saw Thor Ragnarok. She lifted the arm rest, so there was nothing between us, and by the end of the movie, we were holding hands.

We plan to go mini golfing this weekend. Only a matter of time before we're hanging out on her couch, in a not so public setting.

By #485312 at 14,Nov,17 02:43

good to see more love blossoming, we saw Thor too, the special effects were fantastic and l love the costumes, l liked how it was funny in places and the hulk ... best movie lve seen for a while *lix*

By Ravioli_Max at 18,Nov,17 23:56 other posts of Ravioli_Max

I'm so glad you both mentioned that Thor movie! Because of you calling my attention to the fact that it's now playing, and that you found it to be an enjoyable movie, why I went right out and saw it. You're right, it was good and was great fun to watch. There were boxes and boxes all around the hallways in the movie theater and I bet I know what was in them...I bet they held the new electronically reclining chairs the theater is installing. Then after the movie was over I went to a restaurant I know is open late and had a big plate of chili cheese fries with grilled onions and ketchup and some coffee. I'd talk about the movie but I don't want to ruin it for people who haven't seen it yet.

By RealTitsLover at 15,Nov,17 13:08 other posts of RealTitsLover

Aww... sounds like middle school all over again.

That's exactly what I did for my first and second date with my first girlfriend when I was 12... Don't get me wrong, I'm happy for you, not making fun of you. I avoided dating in high school and didn't lose my virginity until I was turning 18, but I don't think I've had such an innocent date since 7th grade.

By #454258 at 16,Nov,17 06:06

We're trying not to go too fast, but shes making hard for me to show resraint. Tonight we were talking on the phone, and we started talking about swimming pools, and how much fun it would be to go swimming together. then she asked me if I've ever gone skinny dipping.

my face turned beat red, and my mind went fuzzy. but after i snapped out of it, I suggested taking a dip in my hot tub this weekend, and she laugh and said that would be going too fast.

still, the more i learn about her, the more attractive i find her. I'm going to see if she will let me kiss her on the second date.

By phart at 16,Nov,17 15:47 other posts of phart

Something worth having in a relationship is worth waiting for.

By Ravioli_Max at 17,Nov,17 04:20 other posts of Ravioli_Max

Thanks for letting us all know what's new and going on, Toon.
:-)

By #454258 at 17,Nov,17 04:50

Its a good outlet, especially when I have something to say, and i cant talk to my real life friends about it.

By RealTitsLover at 17,Nov,17 11:09 other posts of RealTitsLover

That's cool. Some people I'm sure have noticed I make an ass outta myself occasionally on the forum here. Mainly when I drink too much, which hasn't been so often lately, but I always appreciate the fact that I did it here instead of drunk dialing old girlfriends or friends with benefits. If you don't mind saying, how many girls have you dated in the past? Just curious.

By #454258 at 17,Nov,17 15:12

Shed be my first.

By Ravioli_Max at 18,Nov,17 23:57 other posts of Ravioli_Max

Did you play miniature golf?

By #454258 at 20,Nov,17 02:08

Unfortunetly no, she has a bad knee, and my legs are sore working on Sat. So we just sat and talked. we then went and saw Justice Leage, which was better then i expected. the whole movie, we couldnt keep our hands off each other. Finally, I kissed her goodnite. Next time we plan to hang out at her place for our third date.

By Ravioli_Max at 20,Nov,17 02:26 other posts of Ravioli_Max

I'm sorry about the bad knee and the sore legs...very happy things are going so well for you two, romantically. So Justice League is a good one? I wasn't sure if I should go see that one or not. Would you say it's as good as Thor?

By #454258 at 20,Nov,17 04:12

For a modern DC movie, it was good. Having seen both, Id say Thor was better, but it was still good. There were a few scenes that felt like i was watching a cutscene from one of the Injustice games. and i mean that in the best way. During a few Batman moments, it almost sounded like the old Danny Elfman theme was playing.

By #502711 at 09,Nov,17 10:47

As someone that has fallen for these things more than a couple of times, I say it's most likely a scam. But in the end, your dick does the thinking for you & you end up with a couple hundreds dollars less than you started with & a big dumb look on your face...

By #358797 at 09,Nov,17 13:55

Woah. A couple hundred dollars in one clip? Or over time?
Maybe I should change my profession...

By #502711 at 09,Nov,17 22:46

Does standing on the corner not pay enough?

By #358797 at 09,Nov,17 22:52

I wouldn't know what that pays, honestly. But I've seen enough dead hookers in my life to know that I wouldn't wanna give it a go.

By #502711 at 11,Nov,17 09:51

Interesting, you've seen dead hookers? Do tell.

By #358797 at 11,Nov,17 15:59

Yep, seen quite a few. There's a truck stop in my area that I worked at as a teen. Truckers, for some reason, liked to pick up hookers in DC/Baltimore, kill them, and push them down the giant hill by the employee parking lot. I can't count the number of times security had to esc.ort us to our cars cuz of it.

By bella! at 11,Nov,17 17:38 other posts of bella!

Uh, Arexa, did he insinuate what I think he insinuated when he asked you; "Does standing on the corner not pay enough?"

Like, how are you supposed to know this?

By #358797 at 11,Nov,17 17:54

I kinda thought the same regarding that comment, but it's not the first time I've been 'accused' of such things on here.

It's definitely nothing I'd truly consider, even though I've cracked jokes about it many times.
Seeing one with their throat slashed beside my car kinda did me in with any thoughts I could ever have towards that profession.

By bella! at 11,Nov,17 19:55 other posts of bella!

For someone that gets his shit in an uproar when anyone belittles his friend, I would have expected him to be above that.

By mr_blue at 12,Nov,17 08:45 other posts of mr_blue

Is that why your face looks the way it does all the time then ?

By #502711 at 12,Nov,17 11:20

Better looking than yours, pencil neck.

By #485312 at 13,Nov,17 00:46

youre a hypocrite, 'ATTACK A PERSONS OPINION, NOT THEIR LOOKS' ... practice what you preach *lix*

By mr_blue at 13,Nov,17 04:21 other posts of mr_blue

Did I attack someone's looks ,I don't think I did ?!!! Read the comment,offence is taken its never given...

By #502711 at 13,Nov,17 05:14

Do you feel insecure? Too many 'bullies' been pushing you around at home & you come over here & try to impress everyone with your cleverness? You think you're so smart, but you're just a weak little man that wants to bark loudly so everyone on here can tell him how clever & smart he is. You're a piss ant.

By mr_blue at 13,Nov,17 05:29 other posts of mr_blue

Where am I coming over to ? It's the internet and your playing internet tough guy...so barking is all there is here,woof...you know cuz you can't bite someone online as there's no physical contact,I think you'll find I'm pedantic and arrogant...

By #502711 at 13,Nov,17 07:32

Yeah, well you'll find I am too. You know, I just wanna come here & not have to read all these shitty, ignorant messages, half of the time they're unprovoked. You're standing up for someone you like here & I am too. Someone is in the wrong here. I know there are people here that just don't like others & they have to bust their balls because of it. I won't name name's. I don't want to come on here & argue with everyone. I'm here to post pictures. But, of course, it is the internet, & everyone is a dick. Myself included. But I'm like this in real life too...

By mr_blue at 13,Nov,17 08:42 other posts of mr_blue

Don't read the messages then.... blacklist the people you don't like and shut up about it.....I mean ffs,admin gives everyone the tools to ignore someone here,yet people always wanna fuck around talking about fake accounts attacking or some other crap....or be cheeky in a comment then not be able to handle the response......people are entitled to think what they think you might not agree with them,but this is one of the rarest places on the internet,cuz you really get free speech here,not overly censored crap....so if you don't like how someone reacts to you and your actions,tough shit....
And you say these attacks are unprovoked! Have you seen how you talk to women here.....just cuz women show their stuff,you think you think you can talk to them a certain way...you think people don't know what you're like here or something....there are more people here that just stay quiet in public but discuss in private....
Just the same as people talk about me, they'll talk about you...so when you say unprovoked,not so sure about that...
I busted your balls with a wordplay joke and you took offence at that....so did I provoke you,or did you not understand the joke?
And some of your pictures provoke people here...
And if you wanna sit here and act like your actions don't impact on others and they'll just sit there and be polite, you're gonna keep reading things you don't like..

By #502711 at 13,Nov,17 10:13

I never said anything about a fake account, don't know where you got that idea. I can handle any response anyone makes, I don't let it get to me, but i'm not going to be quiet either. & i'm not going to sit here & write a long drawn out message about people calling me names. I really couldn't give a shit. I also don't care whom I offend, I make ART here. If it offends people, then they shouldn't look at my pictures. If they were that bad, admin would have taken them down. If my actions make an impact, then i've accomplished what I set out to do. I don't remember what this "word play" is that you speak of that well, but i'm sure whatever your meaning was when you wrote whatever it was that you wrote didn't come off how you intended when I read it. Some people type things sarcastically & sarcasm is difficult to read in a message. & I only blacklist annoyances that I couldn't be bothered with. I haven't blacklisted a lot of people I would describe as 'dick heads'. I didn't black list you. Maybe that's because you can be reasonable, I can tell that from your messages. But at the same time, you like to butt in & voice an opinion that no one asked for or make some smart arse comment. & I don't appreciate that. But, you're entitled to your opinion. & i'm entitled to mine. So don't get butt hurt when i'm defending myself, or my missus.

By mr_blue at 13,Nov,17 12:09 other posts of mr_blue

Your partner is going on about attacks on her friends by fake accounts...so as if you two don't talk about this site is laughable...
You crack me up,admin is not who finds your pictures offensive... I'm telling you,that you and your missus act in a way that people find offensive ..
And it does get to you,cuz you've already stated you don't want to argue with everyone....
My smartass nature comes from dealing with people like you on sites like this...
I notice you didn't say anything about how you talk to women here ?why is that ?I think that's really the problem here that you spoke to women and then your missus got jealous...
And you should give a shit about people you offend,cuz that's just asshole behaviour....
And I am not butthurt at all....I think you two are....
And if you could handle any response you wouldn't have downvoted my comment to you would you ?...
So carry on trying to make out you two are so innocent here,you reckon you don't care,but you do,cuz you have to be on every page here,on top of every list,do you not think other people get sick of seeing you two everywhere here...
So behave like selfish assholes..
You stood up for your missus as I stood up for my friend cuz your missus said hellraiser was attacking her friend through a fake account...so carry on bullshitting in your bubble...
So your missus was wrong to do that....so spare me your attempts at trying to be decent...you two started half of the shit you face here..

By #502711 at 13,Nov,17 20:52

Yeah whatever mate. I post myself up so much because it pisses people like you off. Every time you log in, you're going to see my sexy arse in your face. People love me, people **** me & that's good. Everyone is talking about me aren't they, that's what I came here for, to show off. Isn't this a place where you come & show off your goods? It's not like me or licksipsuckit aren't giving anyone else a chance to show themselves off. We're not on here 24/7 hogging the whole site. Stop being such a pussy. I don't care if you have a problem with me, you think you matter so much that I'm gonna go have a cry about it? Suck my dick you pillow biting, toe tapping, pussy.

By mr_blue at 13,Nov,17 21:19 other posts of mr_blue

Do you think you piss me off..OMFG ,see how self absorbed you are.... it's all about you....and yes Lix is on here 24/7....everyone can see how she's on here all the time
So you're really dumb for trying to deflect how you talk to women here who find you repugnant...
And you are still missing the point here,but carry on acting like you are..... it's ok,we all see your insecurities,and how you treat women, that's why you ended up with lix..
And you think I'm a pussy ?oh wow,Mr internet tough guy....you really scare me.....you gonna try and punch me through the the screen now?
So say you don't care about what I post and downvoted my comment again,just shows that do care or you wouldn't have done it.....

By #502711 at 14,Nov,17 03:05

Yeah, keep barking. Trying to analyze me like some psychologist. Perhaps you feel you need to make other people feel inferior because you yourself have deep seeded issues. You need to come on here and argue incessantly to feel some kind of self-worth. Because your real life is deprived of value, no one appreciates you, so you come on here to concoct ridiculous assumption's about other people lives to make you feel better about yourself. Like you think you're Dudley Do-right internet police. Yeah now you can **** better at night, you put those two nuisances in their place with your clever brain. Now you can receive your proverbial pat on the back from all your little buddies. Hey, don't forget to tell your mother how funny you were today. She'd be so proud.

By mr_blue at 14,Nov,17 13:49 other posts of mr_blue

You're too funny,....

I don't need the the internet to feel validation like you and your missus...
You can disagree and try to deflect as much as you want, I told you and you missus the truth....and that's gotta suck for you....

By #502711 at 15,Nov,17 00:07

Of course you need to feel validation. You keep responding to my messages, you need to have the last say because you don't want to look like you couldn't come up with a clever response, you want to receive that feeling of superiority because you are insecure. I'm telling you the truth & you're trying to deflect the reality that you have an inferiority complex. Maybe you've had someone close to you make you feel unimportant or less of a man than you thought you were & now you're trying to make yourself feel better by attacking people here. It really is pathetic in any case. I feel sorry for you my friend. I truly give you my deepest heart felt sympathies.

I hope you can **** better at night. No, you know what I'll let you have this last say. I'm going to be the gentleman & allow you the final word here. Because in my magnanimity I shall grant you your validation. High fives all around for your buddies

By mr_blue at 15,Nov,17 02:21 other posts of mr_blue

Unlucky ,you can't try and act like we all haven't seen you deflect how you treat women here and stand up for your bitter missus too...
And you two just cannot handle being told the truth..
If you think I'm attacking you ,you really are stupid...
And using the "you have to have the last say line" is normally a sign that that person knows they've lost the argument....
You really are hilarious...
I don't feel superior of inferior to anyone,I don't think like that,says more about you....
I told you I'm arrogant and pedantic,and you come to a gun fight with a spud gun....

By dgraff at 15,Nov,17 10:06 other posts of dgraff

Wah wah wah have a good cry Aussie goof 187 go cry on moma lix shoulder you just had your ass handed to you

By #502711 at 15,Nov,17 23:46

Whatever mate. There's nothing wrong with how I talk to women here btw. Not that it's any of your business.

By #485312 at 08,Nov,17 00:55

if it sounds too good to be true... *lix*

By #454258 at 08,Nov,17 01:15

...it most likely is. At least i still have the nudes she sent me, saved on my phone.

By #485312 at 08,Nov,17 22:01

and she still has yours if you took off your pants and cammed with her.. *lix*

By #454258 at 09,Nov,17 05:11

of which, i did not.

By #485312 at 09,Nov,17 07:45

well think yourself extra lucky *lix*

By #502711 at 09,Nov,17 10:49

I did that once, on Skype. At the time my Skype was linked with my facebook. I cammed with some tart, had a bit of a pull on camera, she filmed me, then gathered all of my info on my family & friends from facebook & tried to blackmail me into giving her bitcoins or something in exchange she wouldn't show my family & friends the video. I told her to go fuck herself & to show everyone because she isn't getting shit from me. She didn't send the video either.

By Ravioli_Max at 10,Nov,17 18:36 other posts of Ravioli_Max

I'm glad you didn't panic and send her some money!

By #502711 at 11,Nov,17 09:50

Been scammed a few times. Didn't want to be the victim this time.

By PoloFields at 13,Nov,17 07:26 other posts of PoloFields

Had the same thing happen to me too. Finally ended up changing my cell number, email provider and changing social media status from some peace of mind.I guess what bothers me the most is, I should have seen it coming, but didn't.

By #502711 at 13,Nov,17 10:51

Yeah. In the back of my mind I thought "this is s scam". But "fortune favors the bold", "No risk no reward". Sometimes you've just gotta take a chance. It's only money. $100, $200, $300 is nothing. You can always make that back. You've just got to be smart about these things. I didn't give out my bank details. I bought a prepaid card. Anyway, my bank managed to give me back the money I've lost, so it all worked out. Just makes one more cautious in the future.

By Ravioli_Max at 13,Nov,17 19:50 other posts of Ravioli_Max

Aussie, you got that money back?? Well that's wonderful!

By #502711 at 13,Nov,17 20:40

Yeah, I thought so

By Ravioli_Max at 13,Nov,17 21:45 other posts of Ravioli_Max

Glad to hear!

By Ravioli_Max at 13,Nov,17 21:26 other posts of Ravioli_Max

I'm sorry about all of that, Polo.

By jayman73 at 12,Nov,17 15:13 other posts of jayman73

Do not send her any money, I repeat do not send her any money. Do not give out your credit card information for any reason. Even if it's to validate something, it is a scam. There are other ways to verify your age, don't fall for it. There is no practical reason she needs any personal information from you, that's not how traditional dating in my day works.

If you are going to meet her in person, make sure it is a very public place, and it is for lunch only. Find a place about 20 miles from your house, preferably where a lot of cops frequent. Maybe bring a large muscular male friend with you, as your wingman. If you do not find a person resembling the picture of her, leave immediately.

Again, if she actually shows up, do not give her any money and do not give her any personal information. If she gives you a story that her grandfather needs $10,000 to save the family farm, politely look at your phone and politely excuse yourself to the restroom come back and say you have and a work emergency, and say you'll call her and don't call her.

I personally would say forget the whole thing, but if you're going to do this thing do it smart. Traditional dating does not work this way, where money and credit card information is asked up front.

By Leilani at 12,Nov,17 20:26 other posts of Leilani

Well said.
& I know I sound paranoid but you wouldn't want them near your car either. Methinks they can buy an inexpensive tracker & discreetly stick it to your vehicle then find out where you live when they watch where the tracker goes from looking @ their phone or computer.

By #543811 at 07,Nov,17 16:14

This is a scam. And pretty classic one as well.

The first name thing is a simple photoshop - try reverse searching it on Google

By #454258 at 07,Nov,17 16:27

Its hard to tell. most scammers try to get my card right away, but this girl talked me down first.

By phart at 08,Nov,17 03:21 other posts of phart

run don't walk away from it.

At the very least, go to the local wally world and get a prepaid card,that way she can't shit you out of but whatever the card has on it.

By #454258 at 08,Nov,17 04:33

Thats usualy how i do cards anyway, but i think i'm going to drop this completly. she has made no further contact with me, so thats that.

By Ravioli_Max at 10,Nov,17 21:07 other posts of Ravioli_Max

Good that that's that.

By Ravioli_Max at 10,Nov,17 22:59 other posts of Ravioli_Max

I bet the Russian Mail-Order Brides do that all the time, too...they'll hire a beautiful girl to hold up a big, totally blank, white piece of paper and then Photoshop the name of the potential victim of the moment onto it, snap a picture and e-mail it to him.

By #454258 at 08,Nov,17 16:12

Now im wooried that she, or her pimp will come looking for me.

By #358797 at 08,Nov,17 16:57

Highly doubtful they would... Does this woman have your address? Full birth name? Social security number? She'd have had access to all that information if you had given her your credit card number.... Which from what I read, you didn't. Wise decision.

By #454258 at 09,Nov,17 05:10

I dont use a credit card, just a prepaid Debit card I get from Walmart.

Met a non scam cam model. How should I continue?

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