My only complaint is that the site doesn't flag the pictures somehow so I know that I should not answer before I spend the time to answer and push the submit button.

When a member sets their preference, those choices happen. There are far more men than women here and in this setting, I find men are more quirky than women.

Straight men tend to be more bold, raw and graphic. Apparently, many think that the initial meeting with a woman she wants to hear something like; "Nice tits!". Would a man be apt to say something like; "Dude, damn, that's a nice beef whistle you're swingin' between your legs!" if he saw something impressive in the health club locker room?

There are gay members that are offended when women pop on their page and I would never consider leaving a comment unless I asked and they permitted it.

There are straight men that only want to be admired by women. (Lots of luck, buddy, are you certain that the women are women or is the woman you're interacting with actually Uncle Bruce?

There are probably a number of lesbians here that prefer to only be admired by women.

Whatever the scenario might be, this old adage comes to mind; "different strokes for different folks".