| When I am showering in the locker room I usually get semi hard if not completely erect. I am straight but I'm worried that this is giving guys the wrong impression about me. Does anyone else have this problem? How do you cope with it? If you are straight, what are your feeling about seeing a guy with a boner in the locker room and showers? Thanks!
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If he likes me, and gets hard, that's his joy, and I am not interested, but he can go home, and get off, and feel whatever he imagines, and I don't know, but it makes him feel good!
That doesn't affect me, in any way, but he can have his joy.
Penises, and erect ones, are really beautiful! Nothing to be afraid of!
Boners are kind of 'contagious' like if one guy gets one, others, seem to, but unintentionally, and usually run away, in fear! LOL!!
I have just talked, sometimes, with some guys, totally hard, and they were kind of trying to flirt, I think, and I just smile, and take it as a compliment!
I'm totally hetero, but I guess "penis friendly?" if that is a thing? LOL!!
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As an addendum to what I just said, I'd like to say that you should not touch your erection or in an way call attention to it. Just circulate and socialize as if it were completely normal to do so nude and erect. As it is (or should be).
The rules change when you get to the showers, however. If you want to stroke out a load in the shower, go for it. Jacking off in the shower is one of the joys of being a man. There isn't a man in the world who hasn't done it. Many men, perhaps most, would like to finish off a session at the gym in which they exercised all their other muscles by exercising their love muscle. But they're too shy to do it at the gym. So get the ball rolling, so to speak. You'll probably have others join you. You and you gym buddies can have a nice shower room circle jerk.
Another thing about guys is that all men, straight or gay, like looking at other guys' dicks. It's a guy thing. And they especially like looking at HARD dicks. So if you get an erection in the locker room or shower, you're giving them a treat.
As to what they think about you, don't give it any thought. If you're confident about yourself, and secure in you own sexuality, what others think about you doesn't mean a thing.
.......As for the erection under the shower,..just ignore it and carry on laughing and chatting to the other men,...DON'T get awkward or try to either hide it or touch it. If others see that it's no big deal to you and that you are completely relaxed about it, they will be quite ok about you getting hard in the shower, and probably quietly admire it as 'spermkiss' has rightly picked up on.....
......If you get all embarassed or furtive then you might have problems with others either thinking you're getting 'turned on' or that you have some kind of warped interest in them and making inappropriate advances to you!
And when you get to be an old fart like me, you'll welcome getting an erection at a nude beach or in a locker room or shower. You'll want to show it off as I do and as I suspect oldbugle and other mature men do.