Recent Posts of member spermkiss


Of Interest to Mature Men (Like Me) 28,Nov,21 22:11
Are Masks Required on Nude Beaches? 28,Aug,20 21:40
The Gay Nineties and the Meaning of Gay 16,May,20 19:21
Short Pants -- An Encouraging Sign 02,Jun,18 23:09
"Relationship Goals", "Cute Couple", "Perfect Couple" etc. 24,Dec,16 18:12
The King of Thailand 14,Oct,16 18:33
Norway 12,Jul,16 21:06
Hong Kong 19,Oct,15 16:24
Gay Men in Military Service 24,Sep,15 18:05
Victory in Ireland 24,May,15 03:04
A Note about routemaster 29,Mar,15 18:18
The Evolution of Gay Sex 08,Mar,15 00:16
Things Every Man Should Do at Least Once 20,Dec,12 00:34
A Heartwarming Story for Christmas 17,Dec,12 20:26
Same Sex Kissing 18,Apr,11 22:13
Fishing for Compliments on the Forum 23,Mar,11 05:28
A Note to Japanese Members of SYD 16,Mar,11 22:08
An Appeal for Civilized Conduct on the Forum 07,Dec,10 06:52
A message from spermkiss 30,Oct,10 18:01


By spermkiss at 07,Jan,22 20:53
I didn't know that there was an "official definition" of bisexual.

By spermkiss at 05,Jan,22 22:05
Yes, the skimpier and more transparent the better, but with one condition: they've got to be for men. If a guy were to drop his pants revealing that he was wearing lady's underpants that would be an immediate deal killer.

On this subject, does anyone remember a SYD member named jumpramp? He had a huge wardrobe of sexy briefs. Everything from the basic tighty whitey to the tiniest g-string and he was kind enough to post photos modeling them. (He also looked good nude and he posted those photos, too.) I crowned him the Underpants King.

By spermkiss at 05,Jan,22 17:15
Yes, yes, yes! Sucking a guy off and receiving his load is fun. Doing it with other guys watching is enormously more fun.

By spermkiss at 02,Jan,22 17:44
An interesting thread here. Who has heard the old expression for something that was exceptional (good or bad) "It really knocked you socks off"? That dates to the antique pre-internet days of porn when it was 16 or 8 mm movie film. Often in those movies the men would have removed all of their clothing except their socks. Then they had sex that knocked their socks off.

By spermkiss at 20,Dec,21 16:38
I love a man who is devoted to scientific research. You have dedicated many hours on your knees collecting data relating to the size of men's copulatory organs and the flavor of their ejaculate. The things researchers do to advance the boundaries of human knowledge are amazing. Sir, I salute you.

By spermkiss at 17,Dec,21 16:38
It sounds as though you've done your research on this matter so my previous comment was pretty superfluous. But I thought I'd put it out there. Good luck and let us know how it goes.

By spermkiss at 16,Dec,21 18:57
In each other's mouths, of course.

By spermkiss at 16,Dec,21 18:55
I'm pretty much the same. Though I've done it both as inserter and receptor, it' not really my thing.

By spermkiss at 16,Dec,21 18:53
So is casual sex with strangers, but we do it. Or at least I did when I was single.

By spermkiss at 16,Dec,21 16:24
'Sounds like the old joke about being the perfect Cinderella date. She fucks like a whore until midnight and then she turns into a six pack and a pizza.

By spermkiss at 16,Dec,21 16:20
Like most American men born since about 1920 I was circumcised as an infant. Unlike so many who were also cut in infancy, I'm not complaining. I like being circumcised.

On to your question. Obviously I do not have personal experience, but many years ago I had an intimate encounter with a gentleman who had had the surgery done as an adult. He had it done purely cosmetic reasons as he preferred circumcised penises and that's what he wanted for himself. I was his first sexual encounter after a six week recovery period after the surgery. Needless to say, he was raring to go. Something you might want to discuss with your urologist and/or surgeon is how long your own recovery period might be. Would it be six weeks? Could you wait that long for sex?

By spermkiss at 13,Dec,21 17:43
I'm a cocksucker and proud to be one.

By spermkiss at 09,Dec,21 16:52
What man isn't?

By spermkiss at 01,Dec,21 16:57
Welcome to middle age, though at 32 you're a bit young to hang that tag on you.

Every man remembers those days of youth when his worst fear was getting an erection while nude in a semi-public place such as the locker room, changing room or showers at a pool or gym. Or out in public and having to go about with a tent pole in one's pants. When one gets to be my age (79), or even your age, one realizes that there are a lot of things in life that are worse than having an erection. One of them is not having an erection. It's one of the cruel ironies of life that we men spend the first 30 to 40 years of our lives trying to keep our dicks soft and the rest of our lives trying to get them hard.

Turning now to your ED situation. As I said above, it might be due to the normal aging process. Or it might be because of your closeted gayness coming out. Only you can answer that. If ED manifests itself when you are with your GF but not when you are with a man (or even thinking about a man), you know the answer.

By spermkiss at 01,Dec,21 05:21
No, the photos are not here on SYD. I found them elsewhere on the internet and as I said in my header, posting internet photos in the public areas of the site is not allowed. But as the site administrator said in his reply, I can post anything I wish in Private Messages. So they'll be coming to you that way.
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I went to your page to send you the photos and WOW! You sure do have an attractive dick and you take spectacular photos of it. Fine art quality work. You can be sure I'll be downloading some of your pictures for my collection.

By spermkiss at 29,Nov,21 20:28
Even in my youth I never was much of a multi-ejaculator. Generally once was enough, sometimes twice and on rare occasions three times.

But I sure know that multi-ejaculators exist. Once I had an encounter with a guy who climaxed six times (yes, SIX!) in the course of our evening together. He was a practicing Catholic and at the end of the evening he began to fret about what he'd tell his priest at confession. "It's bad enough that I have to confess that I had an encounter with a man, but I just cannot confess that I climaxed six times. I guess I'll confess to only three."

By spermkiss at 28,Nov,21 23:56
Of course they're not my own which is why I'm not posting them in the public areas of the site. But as far as I know, I may send them in private messages. Site Administrator If you're there and I'm wrong about this, let me know.
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There you are bella!

By spermkiss at 25,Nov,21 17:34
Absolutely. Looking at other guys' dicks is a guy thing, not just a gay thing. All guys, no matter how straight they are, like to do it.

By spermkiss at 17,Nov,21 21:32
Dozens, maybe hundreds, of times. In the San Francisco Bay Area there are numerous nude beaches and at some of them, Land's End and the north end of Baker for example, sex on the beach is de rigueur. I've sucked and been sucked on a beach towel when there were people on neighboring towels only a foot away.

By spermkiss at 17,Nov,21 17:31
Au contraire! It honors the dead with a gift of seed.

By spermkiss at 07,Nov,21 16:17
As is the case with most who have posted here, it was the showers after P E class in high school. But in my case it was the realization that I was bigger than most. Not all, by any means, but most. But I had no pubic hair. When I entered puberty, the first signs were that my dick grew to adult size and that I could shoot jizz when I jacked off. Hair growth didn't happen until nearly a year later. So there I was with my skinny, hairless boy body and a man size dick. I was sometimes kidded about not having hair, but never about the size of my dick as I was bigger than most.

By spermkiss at 29,Oct,21 19:56
First of all, you might wish to pull up my Forum post "Things Every Man Should Do at Least Once". You might find it interesting.

Now about fisting. I once fisted a guy, not because I wanted to do it, but because he wanted me to do it to him. What was most interesting was the control this guy had with his asshole. He could open it up so I could put my hand, wrist and more than half of my forearm inside. After I took my hand out I put my dick in. Now you might think he'd be so loose that it would be like fucking an open window, but no he was nice and snug. He could open his ass up to take a fist and then close it up around a dick. And he was a damn good fuck.

By spermkiss at 28,Oct,21 16:17
Absolutely! I'm a proud cocksucker and I'd like everyone to know it. Sucking a man to climax is my all time favorite sex act. It's fun in private, but enormously more fun with an audience. Knowing that there are others watching and enjoying the show, makes it so much more exciting.

By spermkiss at 30,Sep,21 15:30
On your page you say that you're 61 years old and have never been with a man, and now you come right out and say that you want to suck a dick. Good for you, man. I'm sure that cocksuckers all over the world join me in sending you good luck and best wishes that you will be soon joining our happy fraternity. Please let us know how it goes.

By spermkiss at 17,Sep,21 15:22
Exactly. If it's a police car and the officers are getting out with their flashlights to shine in your car, it might be a good idea to stop. If it's just ordinary folks, carry on and enjoy putting on a show.

By spermkiss at 14,Sep,21 22:53

If I found you awake and asking to be fucked, yes.

By spermkiss at 13,Sep,21 15:42
To you and all of the others who are opposed to pubic region grooming I have three questions:

Do you have the hair on your scalp cut and styled or do you just let it grow wild?

Do you shave your face or if you wear a beard and/or mustache do you keep it trimmed and shaped?

Assuming you answered yes to haircuts and yes to shaving or beard trimming, why should grooming stop at the neck?

By spermkiss at 11,Sep,21 16:17
Who else would make gay porn videos? Most men. A man can be totally straight (or think he is), but get out a camera and in a flash he'll be on his knees sucking.

By spermkiss at 04,Sep,21 16:15
First of all, you are not alone. There are many people whose ass is so tight that they cannot take a dick or dick size object. This is well within what is normal, so don't fret about it.

Having said that, it's clear from your remarks that this is something that you really want to do. So let me give you some tips and words of encouragement.

The most important thing is learn to relax. This is not especially difficult to do but it does take some practice. The normal condition of the anal sphincter is to be somewhat tensed to keep the opening closed. But with thought and concentration one can learn to relax these muscles to allow entry. And take the entry slowly. It's an unwritten rule of anal sex that the person being penetrated gets to control the entry. At the first sign of pain, stop, relax, wait awhile, and start over. Or even postpone it for another time. Otherwise the pain will cause you to tense up which will cause more pain and lead to a never ending cycle of pain and tension.

Another important thing is to stretch your asshole. Looking around the internet it's not difficult to find photos of (men mostly) who can take enormous things up the ass. If you wish me to send you some, just ask. Popular items are a two liter beverage bottle and of course a fist. Full disclosure here, I once fisted a guy almost to my elbow so I know it can be done. I did it not because I wanted to but because he wanted me to. Do you think that these men were born with a huge asshole? Of course they weren't. They got it by stretching it out over a period of weeks or months. If they can stretch out their assholes to accommodate a two liter bottle or a fist, you can stretch yours to take a dick.

Good luck and let us know how things go.

By spermkiss at 30,Aug,21 15:26
Good buddy tb1 where are you?

By spermkiss at 29,Aug,21 15:29
To answer your question about how good prostate massage feels I'll say this: It depends entirely on the man.

I myself am as gay as they come and I've been anally penetrated hundreds of times. That's not really my thing, but if the guy is hot and/or I'm really fond of him and he wants my ass I'll give it to him. The knowledge that he is using my ass for his sexual pleasure can make the experience really satisfying. But the physical pleasure just isn't there. And I'm gay.

On the other hand I've anally penetrated hundreds of men, some of whom self identified as straight. The vast majority of these men gave every outward indication that they were really enjoying it and most of them climaxed in the process. Some of them solely from the prostate stimulation without any stimulation to the penis. And remember, some of these men were straight.

Turning now to you. Do you like to be penetrated? I suspect that you do or you wouldn't be asking about anal toys. I suggest that you begin with a dildo and see how it feels. If that gives you pleasure, then consider investing in a prostate massager. Good luck.

By spermkiss at 23,Aug,21 15:58
Fear not. I've worn my cock ring pretty much 24/7/365 for more than fifteen years now with no ill effects what-so-ever. I even have worn it to medical appointments (even with a urologist!) and no doctor has so much as commented on it, much less advised me that it was harmful.

Now I'm gonna kinda sorta retract what I said about no ill effects. Both the rubber and the metal ones have caused my skin to break out. Even ones that claim to be surgical steel. So I use a c-h-ild size jade bracelet. This has the added advantage of not setting off the metal detector in airport security lines.

By spermkiss at 18,Aug,21 21:19
There is something about driving without pants and I've done it hundreds of times, mostly in a convertible with the top down. A few times I've been fellated to climax while driving, again in a convertible with the top down.

By spermkiss at 18,Aug,21 16:40
Well, you're off to a good start. Your full erection photo and your testicles photo are really fine. With equipment like that good photos will flow naturally. Your chastity device photo, however, is a turn off. Chaste makes waste.

By spermkiss at 18,Aug,21 16:37
Well I've come close. Years ago when I was young and single and lived in San Francisco I sucked off twelve guys in one evening. Lafayette Park was, and probably still is, notorious as a place where guys could go for anonymous sex. My goal whenever I went there was to suck off three guys and then let someone suck me off and call it a night. As anyone who has been there knows, warm evenings are unusual in San Francisco. (Never leave home without a jacket.) So I when I went to the park on a warm evening the place was jumping. That's the evening I sucked off twelve guys. At one point I was on my knees giving oral service and there were two guys with their pants down waiting their turn.

By spermkiss at 18,Aug,21 16:16
Pretty amazing! And just so fantastic that it's got to be true. I totally believe you. Nobody could make up something like this.

By spermkiss at 16,Aug,21 14:31
Hey, pal. I know you prefer intact, but doesn't he have a nice circumcision and a lovely exposed glans? And his photos of urine flowing are stunning.

By spermkiss at 10,Aug,21 15:54
None! Especially if he is wearing snug pants made of thin fabric.

By spermkiss at 08,Aug,21 20:04
"...information just tends to stick around in his head long past its usefulness..."

That sounds like me.

By spermkiss at 02,Aug,21 23:27
Exactly, the penis is the universally loved sex organ because a penis doesn't lie. It's impossible to fake an erection or fake an ejaculation. When we see a load of jizz squirting out of a hard cock we know it's the real thing. That ejaculation is what all viewers of porn want to see. It's an urban legend that porn actors do not get paid if they fail to ejaculate on camera. There's a reason it's called the money shot.

Sure, straight guys want to see pussies, asses and tits, but they also want to see hard cocks. They might want to see those hard cocks entering a pussy, an asshole or a mouth or rubbing between a pair of tits, but most of all they want to see the jizz.

By spermkiss at 02,Aug,21 23:13
I've probably told this story here on SYD before, but for new comers here it is again.

When I was in my early thirties and had been an out gay man for more than ten years, I had an affair with a woman. She knew I was gay and was totally cool with it. And it was always an open relationship. As I was fond of saying at the time and ever since, she's fucking other men and so am I.

In any event, she and I had a lot of MMF three ways. One guy was interesting in that he was not very sexually experienced. Not a virgin, but almost. He was not crazy about having me in bed with him, but he really wanted the lady. If he had to accept me being there to get her, he could do that.

Once we got started, he got really turned on by watching me fuck her. His comment was that it was like watching porn except it was live, right in front of him. And he was also turned on by having me watch him. His innocence really came to the fore when we got to oral sex. He had never had his cock sucked, but he was fine with having the lady suck it. Pretty quickly he warmed up to having me suck it. When it came to going down on the lady, he was OK with watching me do it, but was really reluctant to do it himself. I chided him by saying that I was as gay as pink ink and I could eat pussy, so get down there and start lapping. He did.

Now comes the really interesting part. At some point the lady became hungry and went out to the kitchen for a snack. As soon as she was out of the room he went wild. He French kissed and sucked cock like a champ. And yes, he took me to climax and swallowed.

The next morning he told me that since he had never been with a man before and might not have another opportunity, he wanted the full experience while he could. My kinda guy.

By spermkiss at 31,Jul,21 22:34
So, have you ever had a real dick in your ass? 'Just askin'.

By spermkiss at 31,Jul,21 22:31
And you self identify as straight. This goes to support something I've long asserted: Men like to look at other men's dicks, all men, not just gay and bi men. Looking at cocks is a guy thing, not a gay thing.

By spermkiss at 29,Jul,21 16:12
I'm sorry to hear that. But do give up, eventually you'll score.

By spermkiss at 28,Jul,21 18:34
I came for the dicks. I stayed for the exchange of thoughts and ideas here on the Forum, on comments on photos and in Private Messages.

By spermkiss at 28,Jul,21 18:30
Of course, what gay man hasn't? Casual, spur-of-the-moment sex with a total stranger is an intrinsic part of gay life.

By spermkiss at 27,Jul,21 14:57
Suck, without any doubt what-so-ever. Mainly because I can do it more often.

Let's face it, even the most potent of men can only climax a limited number of times per day. So there is only a limited number of blowjobs a man can receive. But there is no limit on the number he can give. I've sucked off as many as twelve men in one evening.

By spermkiss at 21,Jul,21 15:52
Be aware that now-a-days virtually all hotels have cameras in the halls. So when you take your naked walk the security personnel and the person at the front desk and probably others, perhaps even hotel guests, can see you. But I expect that's part of the thrill.

By spermkiss at 11,Jul,21 16:23
Would you like to add your glaze to my doughnut? I'd let you.

By spermkiss at 11,Jul,21 16:21
Man, you are such a tease! You self identify as straight, but in this post you have neatly summed up the pleasure, joy and satisfaction of giving another man oral service. Is this the voice of experience? 'Just asking. And even if it is, you don't have to turn in your Straight Membership Card. A lot of straight men like to suck cocks, and I do mean a LOT. In my own life I've known several and there are undoubtedly millions worldwide.