Recent Posts of member spermkiss


Are Masks Required on Nude Beaches? 28,Aug,20 21:40
The Gay Nineties and the Meaning of Gay 16,May,20 19:21
Short Pants -- An Encouraging Sign 02,Jun,18 23:09
"Relationship Goals", "Cute Couple", "Perfect Couple" etc. 24,Dec,16 18:12
The King of Thailand 14,Oct,16 18:33
Norway 12,Jul,16 21:06
Hong Kong 19,Oct,15 16:24
Gay Men in Military Service 24,Sep,15 18:05
Victory in Ireland 24,May,15 03:04
A Note about routemaster 29,Mar,15 18:18
The Evolution of Gay Sex 08,Mar,15 00:16
Things Every Man Should Do at Least Once 20,Dec,12 00:34
A Heartwarming Story for Christmas 17,Dec,12 20:26
Same Sex Kissing 18,Apr,11 22:13
Fishing for Compliments on the Forum 23,Mar,11 05:28
A Note to Japanese Members of SYD 16,Mar,11 22:08
An Appeal for Civilized Conduct on the Forum 07,Dec,10 06:52
A message from spermkiss 30,Oct,10 18:01


By spermkiss at 17,Sep,21 15:22
Exactly. If it's a police car and the officers are getting out with their flashlights to shine in your car, it might be a good idea to stop. If it's just ordinary folks, carry on and enjoy putting on a show.

By spermkiss at 14,Sep,21 22:53

If I found you awake and asking to be fucked, yes.

By spermkiss at 13,Sep,21 15:42
To you and all of the others who are opposed to pubic region grooming I have three questions:

Do you have the hair on your scalp cut and styled or do you just let it grow wild?

Do you shave your face or if you wear a beard and/or mustache do you keep it trimmed and shaped?

Assuming you answered yes to haircuts and yes to shaving or beard trimming, why should grooming stop at the neck?

By spermkiss at 11,Sep,21 16:17
Who else would make gay porn videos? Most men. A man can be totally straight (or think he is), but get out a camera and in a flash he'll be on his knees sucking.

By spermkiss at 04,Sep,21 16:15
First of all, you are not alone. There are many people whose ass is so tight that they cannot take a dick or dick size object. This is well within what is normal, so don't fret about it.

Having said that, it's clear from your remarks that this is something that you really want to do. So let me give you some tips and words of encouragement.

The most important thing is learn to relax. This is not especially difficult to do but it does take some practice. The normal condition of the anal sphincter is to be somewhat tensed to keep the opening closed. But with thought and concentration one can learn to relax these muscles to allow entry. And take the entry slowly. It's an unwritten rule of anal sex that the person being penetrated gets to control the entry. At the first sign of pain, stop, relax, wait awhile, and start over. Or even postpone it for another time. Otherwise the pain will cause you to tense up which will cause more pain and lead to a never ending cycle of pain and tension.

Another important thing is to stretch your asshole. Looking around the internet it's not difficult to find photos of (men mostly) who can take enormous things up the ass. If you wish me to send you some, just ask. Popular items are a two liter beverage bottle and of course a fist. Full disclosure here, I once fisted a guy almost to my elbow so I know it can be done. I did it not because I wanted to but because he wanted me to. Do you think that these men were born with a huge asshole? Of course they weren't. They got it by stretching it out over a period of weeks or months. If they can stretch out their assholes to accommodate a two liter bottle or a fist, you can stretch yours to take a dick.

Good luck and let us know how things go.

By spermkiss at 30,Aug,21 15:26
Good buddy tb1 where are you?

By spermkiss at 29,Aug,21 15:29
To answer your question about how good prostate massage feels I'll say this: It depends entirely on the man.

I myself am as gay as they come and I've been anally penetrated hundreds of times. That's not really my thing, but if the guy is hot and/or I'm really fond of him and he wants my ass I'll give it to him. The knowledge that he is using my ass for his sexual pleasure can make the experience really satisfying. But the physical pleasure just isn't there. And I'm gay.

On the other hand I've anally penetrated hundreds of men, some of whom self identified as straight. The vast majority of these men gave every outward indication that they were really enjoying it and most of them climaxed in the process. Some of them solely from the prostate stimulation without any stimulation to the penis. And remember, some of these men were straight.

Turning now to you. Do you like to be penetrated? I suspect that you do or you wouldn't be asking about anal toys. I suggest that you begin with a dildo and see how it feels. If that gives you pleasure, then consider investing in a prostate massager. Good luck.

By spermkiss at 23,Aug,21 15:58
Fear not. I've worn my cock ring pretty much 24/7/365 for more than fifteen years now with no ill effects what-so-ever. I even have worn it to medical appointments (even with a urologist!) and no doctor has so much as commented on it, much less advised me that it was harmful.

Now I'm gonna kinda sorta retract what I said about no ill effects. Both the rubber and the metal ones have caused my skin to break out. Even ones that claim to be surgical steel. So I use a c-h-ild size jade bracelet. This has the added advantage of not setting off the metal detector in airport security lines.

By spermkiss at 18,Aug,21 21:19
There is something about driving without pants and I've done it hundreds of times, mostly in a convertible with the top down. A few times I've been fellated to climax while driving, again in a convertible with the top down.

By spermkiss at 18,Aug,21 16:40
Well, you're off to a good start. Your full erection photo and your testicles photo are really fine. With equipment like that good photos will flow naturally. Your chastity device photo, however, is a turn off. Chaste makes waste.

By spermkiss at 18,Aug,21 16:37
Well I've come close. Years ago when I was young and single and lived in San Francisco I sucked off twelve guys in one evening. Lafayette Park was, and probably still is, notorious as a place where guys could go for anonymous sex. My goal whenever I went there was to suck off three guys and then let someone suck me off and call it a night. As anyone who has been there knows, warm evenings are unusual in San Francisco. (Never leave home without a jacket.) So I when I went to the park on a warm evening the place was jumping. That's the evening I sucked off twelve guys. At one point I was on my knees giving oral service and there were two guys with their pants down waiting their turn.

By spermkiss at 18,Aug,21 16:16
Pretty amazing! And just so fantastic that it's got to be true. I totally believe you. Nobody could make up something like this.

By spermkiss at 16,Aug,21 14:31
Hey, pal. I know you prefer intact, but doesn't he have a nice circumcision and a lovely exposed glans? And his photos of urine flowing are stunning.

By spermkiss at 10,Aug,21 15:54
None! Especially if he is wearing snug pants made of thin fabric.

By spermkiss at 08,Aug,21 20:04
"...information just tends to stick around in his head long past its usefulness..."

That sounds like me.

By spermkiss at 02,Aug,21 23:27
Exactly, the penis is the universally loved sex organ because a penis doesn't lie. It's impossible to fake an erection or fake an ejaculation. When we see a load of jizz squirting out of a hard cock we know it's the real thing. That ejaculation is what all viewers of porn want to see. It's an urban legend that porn actors do not get paid if they fail to ejaculate on camera. There's a reason it's called the money shot.

Sure, straight guys want to see pussies, asses and tits, but they also want to see hard cocks. They might want to see those hard cocks entering a pussy, an asshole or a mouth or rubbing between a pair of tits, but most of all they want to see the jizz.

By spermkiss at 02,Aug,21 23:13
I've probably told this story here on SYD before, but for new comers here it is again.

When I was in my early thirties and had been an out gay man for more than ten years, I had an affair with a woman. She knew I was gay and was totally cool with it. And it was always an open relationship. As I was fond of saying at the time and ever since, she's fucking other men and so am I.

In any event, she and I had a lot of MMF three ways. One guy was interesting in that he was not very sexually experienced. Not a virgin, but almost. He was not crazy about having me in bed with him, but he really wanted the lady. If he had to accept me being there to get her, he could do that.

Once we got started, he got really turned on by watching me fuck her. His comment was that it was like watching porn except it was live, right in front of him. And he was also turned on by having me watch him. His innocence really came to the fore when we got to oral sex. He had never had his cock sucked, but he was fine with having the lady suck it. Pretty quickly he warmed up to having me suck it. When it came to going down on the lady, he was OK with watching me do it, but was really reluctant to do it himself. I chided him by saying that I was as gay as pink ink and I could eat pussy, so get down there and start lapping. He did.

Now comes the really interesting part. At some point the lady became hungry and went out to the kitchen for a snack. As soon as she was out of the room he went wild. He French kissed and sucked cock like a champ. And yes, he took me to climax and swallowed.

The next morning he told me that since he had never been with a man before and might not have another opportunity, he wanted the full experience while he could. My kinda guy.

By spermkiss at 31,Jul,21 22:34
So, have you ever had a real dick in your ass? 'Just askin'.

By spermkiss at 31,Jul,21 22:31
And you self identify as straight. This goes to support something I've long asserted: Men like to look at other men's dicks, all men, not just gay and bi men. Looking at cocks is a guy thing, not a gay thing.

By spermkiss at 29,Jul,21 16:12
I'm sorry to hear that. But do give up, eventually you'll score.

By spermkiss at 28,Jul,21 18:34
I came for the dicks. I stayed for the exchange of thoughts and ideas here on the Forum, on comments on photos and in Private Messages.

By spermkiss at 28,Jul,21 18:30
Of course, what gay man hasn't? Casual, spur-of-the-moment sex with a total stranger is an intrinsic part of gay life.

By spermkiss at 27,Jul,21 14:57
Suck, without any doubt what-so-ever. Mainly because I can do it more often.

Let's face it, even the most potent of men can only climax a limited number of times per day. So there is only a limited number of blowjobs a man can receive. But there is no limit on the number he can give. I've sucked off as many as twelve men in one evening.

By spermkiss at 21,Jul,21 15:52
Be aware that now-a-days virtually all hotels have cameras in the halls. So when you take your naked walk the security personnel and the person at the front desk and probably others, perhaps even hotel guests, can see you. But I expect that's part of the thrill.

By spermkiss at 11,Jul,21 16:23
Would you like to add your glaze to my doughnut? I'd let you.

By spermkiss at 11,Jul,21 16:21
Man, you are such a tease! You self identify as straight, but in this post you have neatly summed up the pleasure, joy and satisfaction of giving another man oral service. Is this the voice of experience? 'Just asking. And even if it is, you don't have to turn in your Straight Membership Card. A lot of straight men like to suck cocks, and I do mean a LOT. In my own life I've known several and there are undoubtedly millions worldwide.

By spermkiss at 11,Jul,21 15:54
Honestly, that's really a tough call. I usually don't go for hairy men, but yours sure does look good on you. So the completely natural photo looks really good. It doesn't hurt that your have a strikingly attractive dick and balls. I downloaded this photo and put it in my Penis Portraits file.

On the other hand your shave is really sexy. You have such thick, dark hair on your chest, abdomen and legs that the contrast with your smooth, hairless play area is stunning. As the old expression goes, you don't see much grass on a playground. Again, I downloaded this photo.
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As an addendum, I've got to ask if you've ever done a full body shave? 'Just wondered. With hair as thick as yours that would be a monumental task, but I'd be happy to help you. I ask because in your shaved photo the skin looks nice and clean and smooth without any trace of shaving bumps. So a full body shave is viable.

By spermkiss at 10,Jul,21 15:56
Not only will stores and restaurants be opening up, but men's pants will be too.

By spermkiss at 09,Jul,21 22:15
So did I and so have I and so will I.

There's a fun story about the first time I sucked a guy to climax. I was 23 and he was 19. Even though he was four years younger, he was a LOT more experienced, having sucked guys off since he was 16. He knew it was my first time.

After he climaxed in my mouth I thought to myself "What am I going to do?" Then I realized that guys have been swallowing loads for millennia so I guess I could do. And down it went.

He was blown away. He said "Wow! I've been sucking guys off for three years and I still haven't swallowed and you do it on your first time."

By spermkiss at 09,Jul,21 22:03
Me too.

By spermkiss at 09,Jul,21 22:02
Exactly, there are plusses to all options.

All things considered, I think the best option is to take the full load in my mouth, swirl it around to savor the flavor, then with the sperm still in my mouth give the man a sperm kiss and pass half the load back to him. Then we each swallow half of the load.

A reasonable alternative is to swallow the entire load myself. It's nice to know that his sperm will go down into my gut, be digested and turn into muscle tissue in my body. Part of him will become part of me.

One thing a cocksucker should not do is spit out the load as this is a major faux pas. The man has given the cocksucker a gift as thanks for having gotten good oral service. And what a fine gift it is as it's a living product of his body. There are live sperm cells swimming around in that semen fluid. To reject this gift by spitting it out is a serious breach of cocksucking etiquette.

Finally there is the facial. That's not my first choice, but if the man wants to shoot his load all over my face, that's fine with me. It's fun having a face that looks like a glazed doughnut.

By spermkiss at 02,Jul,21 15:52
First of all, welcome to the site, man. I first saw your photo in pushed down briefs with an erection. That got my attention so I pulled up your page. More hot photos and I noticed you're a new guy. Again, welcome.

Moving on to this photo, yes, it look crazy, but not in a bad way. It's off-the-charts-sexy crazy.

By spermkiss at 28,Jun,21 18:19
Is that a gun or are you happy to see me?

By spermkiss at 28,Jun,21 18:18
I don't know nothin' about birthing babies.

By spermkiss at 27,Jun,21 16:15
First of all, I strongly suspect that the amount of Pre-Cum a man produces is genetically determined and it cannot be changed. So all you guys out there who want more, just accept the fact that it ain't gonna happen.

I, myself, am a leaker. Much of the time a little bit will ooze out. If there is any kind of sexual excitement the flood gates are really opened. Sure, it's fun in the right situation and Pre-Cum makes a great fuck lubricant. But it's definitely a mixed blessing. When going commando one just has to get used to spots on one's pants. Again, a mixed blessing. In a pick-up situation a bit of moisture in the crotch can really advertise one's interest. And with washable pants this ain't no big deal because it readily washes out as long as hot water is not used. But going commando with dress pants is out of the question because it won't dry clean out.

By spermkiss at 03,Jun,21 14:57
Your thoughts are worth far more than two cents. They're spot on and worth at least a million dollars.

By spermkiss at 31,May,21 14:52
You can do it, man. Hey, I'm as gay as they come, gay as pink ink, queer as a three dollar bill, but I know a think or two about pussies. I've done the old in-and-out and I've been down there lapping. If I can lap up that pussy juice, you can eat a bit of jizz.

I know you want to. "...enter one that was just cummed in..." " wife nd I to share a man" Do it.

By spermkiss at 31,May,21 14:43
There is no normal. Just as men come in a large variety of shapes and sizes and penises attached to those men come in a variety of shapes and sizes, foreskins which are part of those penis also have variety.

By spermkiss at 28,May,21 14:35
It's entirely normal to lose all interest in sex right after an orgasmic climax. Most men do.

But you want a taste. The solution is to watch another man fuck the lady. Get up close and personal with the in and out action. After he climaxes, have him put his dick in your mouth so you can taste the mixture of jizz and pussy juice. Then eat out the lady and put your dick in her pussy that still has the other man's jizz inside.

By spermkiss at 19,May,21 23:05
'Just got back from a shopping trip. As I was entering the store a young guy was coming out wearing short shorts. He looked as though he was in his late teens and he had a nice dusting of blond hair on his legs. YES!!!
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By the way, the store was Powell's Books, the world's largest bookstore, on West Burnside Street at Tenth Avenue. Yes, the world's largest bookstore is right here in Portland, Oregon.

By spermkiss at 18,May,21 15:50
The bottom line is that I like dicks, all dicks. Yes, I tend to prefer circumcised dicks, but I can definitely go either way. When I see an intact dick with a large well formed glans and the outline of that glans is showing thru the foreskin, it drives me wild. (See above and other photos on neednopants' page.)

The large variety of foreskin configurations does indeed add a dimension to intact dick appreciation. There are small foreskins that cover half or even less of the glans, even when the dick is fully flaccid. Then there is the peek-a-boo foreskin that covers most of the glans with just a bit peeking out (see above). At the other extreme is the large foreskin that completely covers the glans and overhangs it, ending in a nice nipple tip.

Dicks are so fun to look at and every man enjoys doing it.

By spermkiss at 17,May,21 15:11
Hey pal, every time I see one of this member's photos I think of you.

One, because he has such a lovely foreskin and I know you prefer intact dicks.

And two, because he has such a fine portfolio of urinating photos and you are SYD's urine specialist.

I'd been thinking of calling your attention to him but obviously you found him yourself.

By spermkiss at 14,May,21 16:33
Your handsome face, nice physique and good looking dick are all major pluses. But your best feature is your smiling expression. You really enjoy your orgasmic climaxes. Of course you do; all men do. And you take extra pleasure and satisfaction from being fully nude out of doors in the sunshine and bringing yourself to climax in front of a camera.

By spermkiss at 14,May,21 16:25
Cheer up, this too will pass. I don't know how things are in Canada, but as you've probably heard here in the USA the CDC has lifted most mask requirements for fully vaccinated people. This looks like the beginning of a return to normal.

Soon we cock lovers will be able to stand shoulder to shoulder with our dicks out for each other to see. We'll be able to grab a quick feel and sometimes if the mood is right a quick suck.

Few things are as exciting as giving and/or getting a spontaneous spur-of-the-moment BJ with a total stranger in a men's room. It's cheep and trashy but oh so much fun. Real men suck cocks.

By spermkiss at 04,May,21 16:44
When it comes to ass hair (or any hair below the neck, for that matter) I prefer the extremes: totally smooth or lots of thick, black hair.

Since your hair appears to be fine and light, yes you should shave.

By spermkiss at 03,May,21 15:54
Another encouraging sign. A couple of days ago on the internet I stumbled on an posting about men's swimwear for the coming season. Of the twelve or so posted, all but two were swim briefs, a couple very brief briefs. Alas, no thongs. Of the two that were not briefs, one was a square cut and the other was shorts, only slightly longer than short shorts.

By spermkiss at 03,May,21 15:15
All not true.

By spermkiss at 02,May,21 16:50
What does that make you? Normal.

Yes, most men are what is generally regarded as heterosexual. But very few are so totally and absolutely heterosexual that they could never ever have any kind sex with another man under any circumstances. There are some, but not many.

And yes, some men are what is generally regarded as homosexual. But very few are so totally and absolutely homosexual that they could never ever have any kind of sex with a woman under any circumstances. There are some, but not many.

As we might conclude from these remarks, the vast majority of men are somewhere in the middle. And it is not at all unusual for men reaching middle age to think about doing some switch hitting. Which brings us to you. ("At 46, I just wanted something different...") You tried it, you liked it, you enjoyed it and you found it exciting. Of course you did. It was an opportunity to be a virgin all over again. Good for you.

And you don't have to turn in your Straight Membership Card if you don't want to.

By spermkiss at 02,May,21 16:25
That's harder. But I'll give it a whirl. I can think of two kinds of people.

One is a bona fide artistic photographer whose work includes nudes, including nude children. This person is seeking guidelines to be sure his work doesn't cross over into pornography. Look up Jock Sturgis.

The other is pornographers who wish to make their work look "artistic" to avoid arrest.

By spermkiss at 01,May,21 15:55
"Who" not "Whom". It's the subject of the verb "ask".