Recent Posts of member spermkiss


Are Masks Required on Nude Beaches? 28,Aug,20 21:40
The Gay Nineties and the Meaning of Gay 16,May,20 19:21
Short Pants -- An Encouraging Sign 02,Jun,18 23:09
"Relationship Goals", "Cute Couple", "Perfect Couple" etc. 24,Dec,16 18:12
The King of Thailand 14,Oct,16 18:33
Norway 12,Jul,16 21:06
Hong Kong 19,Oct,15 16:24
Gay Men in Military Service 24,Sep,15 18:05
Victory in Ireland 24,May,15 03:04
A Note about routemaster 29,Mar,15 18:18
The Evolution of Gay Sex 08,Mar,15 00:16
Things Every Man Should Do at Least Once 20,Dec,12 00:34
A Heartwarming Story for Christmas 17,Dec,12 20:26
Same Sex Kissing 18,Apr,11 22:13
Fishing for Compliments on the Forum 23,Mar,11 05:28
A Note to Japanese Members of SYD 16,Mar,11 22:08
An Appeal for Civilized Conduct on the Forum 07,Dec,10 06:52
A message from spermkiss 30,Oct,10 18:01


By spermkiss at 03,Jun,21 14:57
Your thoughts are worth far more than two cents. They're spot on and worth at least a million dollars.

By spermkiss at 31,May,21 14:52
You can do it, man. Hey, I'm as gay as they come, gay as pink ink, queer as a three dollar bill, but I know a think or two about pussies. I've done the old in-and-out and I've been down there lapping. If I can lap up that pussy juice, you can eat a bit of jizz.

I know you want to. "...enter one that was just cummed in..." " wife nd I to share a man" Do it.

By spermkiss at 31,May,21 14:43
There is no normal. Just as men come in a large variety of shapes and sizes and penises attached to those men come in a variety of shapes and sizes, foreskins which are part of those penis also have variety.

By spermkiss at 28,May,21 14:35
It's entirely normal to lose all interest in sex right after an orgasmic climax. Most men do.

But you want a taste. The solution is to watch another man fuck the lady. Get up close and personal with the in and out action. After he climaxes, have him put his dick in your mouth so you can taste the mixture of jizz and pussy juice. Then eat out the lady and put your dick in her pussy that still has the other man's jizz inside.

By spermkiss at 19,May,21 23:05
'Just got back from a shopping trip. As I was entering the store a young guy was coming out wearing short shorts. He looked as though he was in his late teens and he had a nice dusting of blond hair on his legs. YES!!!
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By the way, the store was Powell's Books, the world's largest bookstore, on West Burnside Street at Tenth Avenue. Yes, the world's largest bookstore is right here in Portland, Oregon.

By spermkiss at 18,May,21 15:50
The bottom line is that I like dicks, all dicks. Yes, I tend to prefer circumcised dicks, but I can definitely go either way. When I see an intact dick with a large well formed glans and the outline of that glans is showing thru the foreskin, it drives me wild. (See above and other photos on neednopants' page.)

The large variety of foreskin configurations does indeed add a dimension to intact dick appreciation. There are small foreskins that cover half or even less of the glans, even when the dick is fully flaccid. Then there is the peek-a-boo foreskin that covers most of the glans with just a bit peeking out (see above). At the other extreme is the large foreskin that completely covers the glans and overhangs it, ending in a nice nipple tip.

Dicks are so fun to look at and every man enjoys doing it.

By spermkiss at 17,May,21 15:11
Hey pal, every time I see one of this member's photos I think of you.

One, because he has such a lovely foreskin and I know you prefer intact dicks.

And two, because he has such a fine portfolio of urinating photos and you are SYD's urine specialist.

I'd been thinking of calling your attention to him but obviously you found him yourself.

By spermkiss at 14,May,21 16:33
Your handsome face, nice physique and good looking dick are all major pluses. But your best feature is your smiling expression. You really enjoy your orgasmic climaxes. Of course you do; all men do. And you take extra pleasure and satisfaction from being fully nude out of doors in the sunshine and bringing yourself to climax in front of a camera.

By spermkiss at 14,May,21 16:25
Cheer up, this too will pass. I don't know how things are in Canada, but as you've probably heard here in the USA the CDC has lifted most mask requirements for fully vaccinated people. This looks like the beginning of a return to normal.

Soon we cock lovers will be able to stand shoulder to shoulder with our dicks out for each other to see. We'll be able to grab a quick feel and sometimes if the mood is right a quick suck.

Few things are as exciting as giving and/or getting a spontaneous spur-of-the-moment BJ with a total stranger in a men's room. It's cheep and trashy but oh so much fun. Real men suck cocks.

By spermkiss at 04,May,21 16:44
When it comes to ass hair (or any hair below the neck, for that matter) I prefer the extremes: totally smooth or lots of thick, black hair.

Since your hair appears to be fine and light, yes you should shave.

By spermkiss at 03,May,21 15:54
Another encouraging sign. A couple of days ago on the internet I stumbled on an posting about men's swimwear for the coming season. Of the twelve or so posted, all but two were swim briefs, a couple very brief briefs. Alas, no thongs. Of the two that were not briefs, one was a square cut and the other was shorts, only slightly longer than short shorts.

By spermkiss at 03,May,21 15:15
All not true.

By spermkiss at 02,May,21 16:50
What does that make you? Normal.

Yes, most men are what is generally regarded as heterosexual. But very few are so totally and absolutely heterosexual that they could never ever have any kind sex with another man under any circumstances. There are some, but not many.

And yes, some men are what is generally regarded as homosexual. But very few are so totally and absolutely homosexual that they could never ever have any kind of sex with a woman under any circumstances. There are some, but not many.

As we might conclude from these remarks, the vast majority of men are somewhere in the middle. And it is not at all unusual for men reaching middle age to think about doing some switch hitting. Which brings us to you. ("At 46, I just wanted something different...") You tried it, you liked it, you enjoyed it and you found it exciting. Of course you did. It was an opportunity to be a virgin all over again. Good for you.

And you don't have to turn in your Straight Membership Card if you don't want to.

By spermkiss at 02,May,21 16:25
That's harder. But I'll give it a whirl. I can think of two kinds of people.

One is a bona fide artistic photographer whose work includes nudes, including nude children. This person is seeking guidelines to be sure his work doesn't cross over into pornography. Look up Jock Sturgis.

The other is pornographers who wish to make their work look "artistic" to avoid arrest.

By spermkiss at 01,May,21 15:55
"Who" not "Whom". It's the subject of the verb "ask".

By spermkiss at 28,Apr,21 16:17
Concerning erections in public or semi-public places, the best advice of all is don't be embarrassed or ashamed if they happen. This shame and embarrassment can lead to impotence later in life. When one gets to be my age, one realizes that there are a lot of things in life that are worse than having an erection. One of them is not having an erection. It's one of the cruel ironies of life that we men spend the first forty years of our lives trying to keep our dicks soft and the rest of our lives trying to get them hard. So what should a man do if he gets an erection in public? Don't do anything, but keep on doing whatever he'd be doing if he didn't have an erection. He should neither flaunt it nor attempt to hide it. Odds are everyone will pretend not to notice.

By spermkiss at 26,Apr,21 16:21
He asked the question and then went away without answers.
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He does have a nice shave and haircut. And he does have a nice looking dick. That dick would look good with hair in any state from fully grown out and natural to shaved hairless and everything in between.

By spermkiss at 26,Apr,21 16:16
If you get hard then you should definitely step back a bit and let others see your erection.

By spermkiss at 10,Apr,21 16:05
"Top" and "bottom" used as one's preferred role in an intimate encounter with another man. When I first became sexually active in the middle sixties an announcement like this was considered tres gauche and it just wasn't done. Interested parties might wish to pull up my Forum post "The Evolution of Gay Sex".

By spermkiss at 10,Apr,21 15:52
Chaste makes waste.

By spermkiss at 05,Apr,21 21:43
I love it.

By spermkiss at 05,Apr,21 21:41
By any chance was that nude beach in Austin Hippy Hollow?

No, I've never been there, but it's kind of an urban legend.

By spermkiss at 05,Apr,21 15:30
Wouldn't mind? I'd be delighted.

By spermkiss at 04,Apr,21 15:56
I think I want you to T-bag me.

By spermkiss at 01,Apr,21 18:53
First, might I suggest that you pull up my Forum post "Things Every Man Should Do at Least once" and have a look at my list and the comments others have made.

Moving on, if you want to try a bit of switch hitting, go for it, you'll be glad you did. And you don't have to turn in your Straight Membership Card just because you have experience with a man (or even many men). Look at me, I'm as gay as they come, gay as pink ink, queer as a three dollar bill, and I've had experience with women. I've done the old in-and-out and I've been down there lapping. This experience didn't turn me straight.

By spermkiss at 31,Mar,21 23:30
I wear a cock ring 24/7/365 and I use a c-h-i-l-d size jade bracelet. No problems with airport security.

By spermkiss at 31,Mar,21 19:12
You might be interested in hearing about Lafayette Park in San Francisco. There is an expanse of southwest facing lawn with a gentle downward slope. As you might expect, this is a popular place for sunning. It's mostly young men and they're mostly wearing short shorts with no underpants. And there is a lot of stuff on display. Indeed it seems to be de rigueur that men display everything. I'm sure that sexual hook-ups happen as a result (indeed, I KNOW hook-ups happen), but the main pleasure is for men to be able to expose themselves and get away with it.

By spermkiss at 25,Mar,21 22:41

By spermkiss at 25,Mar,21 22:40
I expect that they exist solely in his mind.

By spermkiss at 25,Mar,21 22:39
I beg to differ.

There were red flags in your original post and more than a hint of disapproval, but I choose to set them aside and give you a straightforward answer. I'm sure that most of the millions of men who do body grooming do it for pretty much the same reasons I do: It's fashionable and they like the way it looks and feels. And yes, there are undoubtedly millions, probably hundreds of millions worldwide.

That set off a torrent of vitriol from you in which you make bizarre and unsubstantiated claims about those who do body grooming. Be careful what you say about others as it reveals more about yourself.

Others have called you to task for your remarks so I'll not pile one. But I will say that you have serious issues. You could benefit from professional help. Pleas get it.

By spermkiss at 25,Mar,21 22:22

This sounds like Lafayette Park in San Francisco except it's out-of-doors and you don't have to pay to get in. It's in Pacific Heights which is an upscale neighborhood and has a reputation as a place where cocksuckers go to suck guys off, mostly in the evening, but even all day. I'm sure that even a lot of straight guys know that they can whip it out and receive no-strings-attached oral service.

When I went there my goal generally was to suck off three guys and then let someone suck me off and call it a night. One warm evening, however, it was really busy. Those familiar with San Francisco know that warm evenings are unusual. In any event the warm weather brought guys out. I sucked off twelve guys that night. At one point I was on my knees giving service and there were two other guys with their dicks out waiting their turn. Fun.

By spermkiss at 25,Mar,21 20:10
Hey, if you can make it look like an "accidental" hang out you can generally get away with it.

By spermkiss at 24,Mar,21 21:41
If your cock hangs out when you go commando with shorts that's exactly why you should go commando.

By spermkiss at 20,Mar,21 17:37
Sure does. Tell us about it.

By spermkiss at 20,Mar,21 17:30
I did indeed weigh my words very carefully in crafting my reply. Thank you for noticing. Since others called you out about your smile (I ain't mentioning any names), I wanted to assure you that it is perfectly fine to post smiling face showing photos. Indeed, after looking over your portfolio of photos I'd have to say that your handsome face and big smile are two of your best features.

By spermkiss at 19,Mar,21 20:22
The popularity of this site proves that a lot of men derive pleasure and satisfaction from showing their intimate parts to the world. While many, perhaps most, people would be against it, the popularity proves it is within the range of what is normal. It is not a deviation, even if you're smiling when you do it. That just shows you're having a good time. So enjoy yourself and keep posting photos.

By spermkiss at 19,Mar,21 20:09
Three reasons, going from the most to the least subjective:

How it looks. I just plain like the hairless look. I know this is very subjective and some (maybe many) will disagree. And I can fully understand this as I find very hairy guys sexy. I like the extremes, very hairy or hairless.

How it make me feel about my nudity. I enjoy being nude and I enjoy having others see me nude. Any SYD member should understand this. Being hairless is a way to take nudity one step further. It's being as nude as possible.

How it feels. This is by far the least subjective as it feels great. And to have an intimate encounter with another hairless person is dynamite. The ideal encounter is to meet up, shave each other's intimate parts, then have sex. Try it and see.

Not so great is how it feels when the hair begins to grow out and body grooming is high maintenance. That's why I went with the permanent solution and had everything from my neck down permanently removed with a lasor.

For what it's worth, we gay men started the hairless look in the 1980s. Now forty years it's gone totally mainstream. As you have observed, porn stars, both gay and straight, almost always do at least some grooming and many go hairless.
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I just went to your page and saw your stunning bush. It's really hot and I can understand your reluctance to shave. and regrowth could be a serious problem.

By spermkiss at 15,Mar,21 21:20
I agree. Masturbation should be part of every man's sexual repertoire, even men who get lots of partnered sex. There is something about the self sufficiency of taking one's sexual satisfaction into one's own hands. It's like making love to oneself.

By spermkiss at 15,Mar,21 21:11
You bet it's hot. For a lot of cocksuckers sucking off a man who is totally straight, a man who wouldn't even dream of sucking a cock himself, is a Major Fantasy. For this reason many, perhaps most, cocksuckers do not want reciprocation because it would destroy that fantasy.

And even if he does, you are under no obligation to give it. The number one rule of sex is that no one has to do anything he doesn't want to do. So if you just want to lean back, relax and enjoy being orally serviced, go for it man.

By spermkiss at 15,Mar,21 21:00
"The best part is, they act like you're doing THEM a favor." Well, yes you are. So thank you, Thank You, THANK YOU. I wish all straight men thought like you.

By spermkiss at 14,Mar,21 16:19
That's not being selfish, that's being generous with your cock and your sperm. We cocksuckers suck cocks because we enjoy doing it and receiving a load of spunk is the piece de resistance of the entire cocksucking experience. And it's a total win/win situation. The man being sucked gets a satisfying sexual experience including getting his nut off and the cocksucker gets the pleasure, satisfaction and feeling of accomplishment of having brought another man to climax. And he is rewarded for his effort with a load of man juice.

So I say to you and to all other straight men out there: Do yourself and mankind a favor and drop your pants for a cocksucker. You'll be glad you did.

By spermkiss at 25,Feb,21 22:08
On stage at a bandstand in a park on a rainy summer night. I also had partnered sex there on a different night.

For those familiar with Cincinnati, it was Seasongood Pavilion in Eden Park. There were cars passing by on Art Museum Drive about 300 feet away.

By spermkiss at 22,Feb,21 00:00
I think you're right. Pubic hair grooming has gone totally mainstream and most men do at least a little trimming. Many go completely hairless. I should like to point out that it was mostly gay men who started this trend back in the eighties. Now it has crossed over and is pretty much de rigueur for men doing straight porn and it remains popular in gay porn.

By spermkiss at 19,Feb,21 21:39
This sounds like the story of my life and the stress of keeping things secret was enormous. 'Turns out everyone knew anyway. Now I'm totally out and married to another man. Our marriage is a matter of public record. And like you, I don't care what anyone thinks.

For what it's worth the feeling of relief and having greater happiness upon coming out and living honestly is universal.

By spermkiss at 17,Feb,21 16:43
Maybe you are and maybe you're not. There are a LOT of guys who identify as straight who like to suck cock, undoubtedly millions worldwide. In my personal life I've known several.

There are several criteria used to identify a man's sexual orientation but by far the most important is how he self identifies. If you identify as straight, odds are that's what you are. And you don't have to turn in your Straight Membership Card just because you like to suck cock. Of course some of these straight cocksuckers are deluding themselves and they are really bisexual or even gay.

So wear the label that feels most comfortable, straight or bisexual.

By spermkiss at 09,Feb,21 19:21
A circumcised guy in the UK. Unusual but not unheard of. Prince Charles is circumcised.

By spermkiss at 09,Feb,21 16:36
Same experience for me. My father was born in 1912 at home and was uncut. I was born in 1942 in a hospital and was cut.

By spermkiss at 07,Feb,21 21:41
So you did see that post. Good for you.

When I was military age the war in Viet Nam was raging and a lot of soldiers were coming home missing limbs or worse, in a coffin. And homosexuality was an automatic out from military service. A lot of my gay friends said that if they were called up for the draft they'd "check the box", meaning they'd say yes to the question about homosexuality.

But a lot had changed between then and when I made that post five years ago. I had hoped to hear tales of how the gay guy in a squadron was treasured because he was the one giving sexual satisfaction to the others. They'd have his back because if something happened to him their source of orgasmic release would go.

In the five years since things have progressed even further. Most people know someone who is gay and it ain't no big thing. We even had a viable gay candidate for president in the last election cycle. I'm wondering (and hoping) that the camaraderie between the gay man and the rest of the squadron I mentioned in the last paragraph has come to pass.

By spermkiss at 07,Feb,21 21:18
I agree. Sex is something that two (or more) people engage in for their mutual pleasure and satisfaction. I suppose that if consenting adults wish to engage in practices that involve force, humiliation and/or degradation it's their right to do so. But these things do not interest me in the least and I find them inherently pathological.

By spermkiss at 07,Feb,21 21:09
Nobody has to hold my head down to receive a load of man juice. I want it. I want it bad. Receiving the load is the piece de resistance of the entire cocksucking experience. And yes, I always swallow. ALWAYS. True blue cocksuckers know that spitting out a man's load is a faux pas. The ultimate in male bonding is for two guys to swap blow jobs and swallow each other's sperm. It makes them sperm brothers.