Recent Posts of member spermkiss


Of Interest to Mature Men (Like Me) 28,Nov,21 22:11
Are Masks Required on Nude Beaches? 28,Aug,20 21:40
The Gay Nineties and the Meaning of Gay 16,May,20 19:21
Short Pants -- An Encouraging Sign 02,Jun,18 23:09
"Relationship Goals", "Cute Couple", "Perfect Couple" etc. 24,Dec,16 18:12
The King of Thailand 14,Oct,16 18:33
Norway 12,Jul,16 21:06
Hong Kong 19,Oct,15 16:24
Gay Men in Military Service 24,Sep,15 18:05
Victory in Ireland 24,May,15 03:04
A Note about routemaster 29,Mar,15 18:18
The Evolution of Gay Sex 08,Mar,15 00:16
Things Every Man Should Do at Least Once 20,Dec,12 00:34
A Heartwarming Story for Christmas 17,Dec,12 20:26
Same Sex Kissing 18,Apr,11 22:13
Fishing for Compliments on the Forum 23,Mar,11 05:28
A Note to Japanese Members of SYD 16,Mar,11 22:08
An Appeal for Civilized Conduct on the Forum 07,Dec,10 06:52
A message from spermkiss 30,Oct,10 18:01


By spermkiss at 22,Jun,22 22:05
" So I stay in the closet and suffer..."

Man, what's wrong with this picture?! Come out of the closet and live!

Concerning your wife and friends, there's a very good chance that they already know, or at least suspect that you like to suck cocks, so you very well might be creating a problem where none exists.

First, concerning your wife. If you have a happy marriage based on love, respect and good companionship, there is a good chance she'd be fine with you sucking a few cocks now and then. Many women who would be very upset if their husband were to have a sexual liaison with a woman have no problem if he were to be with an occasional man. Indeed, many find it titillating. She might even want to watch. And if your marriage is not a happy one, then why try to save it?

Now about your friends. You have such doubt about them that you even put the word in quotes. Now-a-days a man being gay, or even being straight but liking to suck cocks is pretty much a nonissue. Most men consider it a badge of honor to have gay friends. You underestimate them if you think they will abandon you if you come out. And if they do, then they weren't really your friends.

Yes, coming out is a monumental step and it ain't easy. But it's worth it. Every one who has done it has reported that it feels like a great burden has been lifted from their shoulders. No more hiding. You can do it! And you'll be glad you did!

By spermkiss at 10,Jun,22 15:59
What's wrong with be labeled a cocksucker? Yes, in much of society that word is used as an insult term. But I wear that label with pride as a badge of honor.

After all, what do we cocksuckers do? We give sexual satisfaction with orgasmic release to our fellow men. What is more honorable and noble than that? And we are rewarded for our effort with a rich creamy load of man juice. Yum. It's truly a win/win situation.

By spermkiss at 29,May,22 22:53
Man, you've been a member of SYD for a year and a half now. You must know by now that dicks come in a huge variety of sizes from micro up to jumbo. Sure, the jumbos get attention, but many times a micro will make it to the most popular page. So a lot of people like them.

You have exposed yourself on this site but you say that you never expose yourself in locker rooms or changing rooms. But I know you want to, so do it.

Here's how. When undressing don't cringe and cower as if you are ashamed of your small endowment, but drop your pants with flair and bravado as if you are unveiling the most spectacular cock in the world. Maximize the time you are nude by postponing putting on you gym wear or swim wear until you are ready to leave the room. Circulate about the room nude and socialize with the others to give everyone a look. Seek out the guy with the biggest cock and make friends with him so everyone can see the contrast between his jumbo and your micro. After you have done this a few times you'll really look forward to putting your micro on display.

By spermkiss at 23,May,22 23:33
Of course there are.

By spermkiss at 23,May,22 23:28
Consider that thousands, yes thousands, maybe tens of thousands of men have shown their faces sucking cock, licking ass and getting fucked. Have all of these men, many of whom are straight away from a camera, had their lives totally destroyed because they did porn? Porn has gone totally mainstream and lots of regular guys do it. And many nominally straight men like to step away from their usual sexuality and be gay for pay. They find it exciting. Considering that, posting face showing nude photos on this sit seems rather tame. There is life after porn.

Because porn is so mainstream, it's become a rite of passage for young men to post nude photos. It's the thing to do. For young gay men, and many young straight men, they like to kick it up a notch and do a sex video.

By spermkiss at 08,May,22 15:41
Well, you have a plethora of dick photos on your page and now you've turned around and shown us your ass. Indeed, your ass being digitally stimulated. I'm guessing that your dick has gotten the attention it needs and now you want some ass action.

So, do you want to be fucked?

By spermkiss at 21,Apr,22 15:55
Only every man in the world.

By spermkiss at 19,Apr,22 18:06
Tough call to know what ladies think. But it's easy to know what men will think. They will approve. The bottom line is that men like to look at other men's dicks. All men do, not just gay and bisexual men. All men. The popularity of this site proves that.

I had a look at you wearing the blue patterned swim brief and your equipment is indeed rather visible thru the fabric. But if you're comfortable wearing it and if you're fine with putting your goods on display, I say go for it and enjoy yourself. And you're still hot stuff at 50+.

By spermkiss at 09,Apr,22 17:50
This is an oh so common refrain from straight men. They find so difficult to score with women. They have to wine them and dine them, say all the right things and do a lot coaxing just to get a whiff of their Precious Pussy. But men are easy. Just say "sex" to a man and he'll start opening his pants.

The truth is that by-and-large gay men are sex pigs. Like me sucking twenty or thirty cocks in a hour in a steam room. Sometimes other gay men call me out for saying that, but it's mostly true. And it's true not because we are gay, but because we are men. Straight men would do the same thing if they could (hello, leopoldij).

And some straight men can. Certain celebrities have women flocking to them and tossing their lingerie at their feet. Film actors, musicians, athletes (hello, Tiger Woods), politicians (hello, Bill Clinton).

By spermkiss at 29,Mar,22 14:51
This exchange is reminding me of that old canard: "Beauty may be only skin deep, but ugly goes all the way down to the bone". Donald Trump is living proof of that hypothesis. Ted Cruz too.

By spermkiss at 28,Mar,22 15:15
Isn't that fun. Years ago I liked to sit on the floor next to the door of the steam room room and suck the cock of every man who came it. Sometimes to climax, but mostly it was just a quick in and out. It was fulfilling to have had twenty or thirty or more cocks in my mouth over an hour's time.

By spermkiss at 23,Mar,22 16:00
You got that right. Putin ha no need for toilet paper as Trump will lick his asshole clean whenever he wishes.

By spermkiss at 21,Mar,22 15:48
Could be. And perhaps the reason he and Donald Trump were so chummy is that Trump did blow him.

By spermkiss at 16,Mar,22 16:28
An interesting post.

One reason it's interesting is that you got penis growth so late, at 22. Mine grew to adult size when I was 13. When I started high school two months shy of my 14th birthday and I began seeing other boys' dicks on a regular basis in the showers after gym class, mine was bigger than most. But I didn't have any pubic hair. So there I was with my skinny, hairless boy body with a man size dick. You mentioned it was awkward in locker rooms because of your small size, in my case it was lack of hair. Most other boys had at least some, and many had impressive pubic bushes. I was sometimes kidded about that, but never about my dick size. Even when hair did begin to grow, I didn't get very much very quickly.

A second and more powerful reason it's interesting is that you seem to have gotten over any discomfort about having a small dick. On your page you have a fine portfolio of photos showing your handsome face and your small wonder. Sir, I salute you.

By spermkiss at 10,Mar,22 16:36
I tend to prefer the ones that are in my mouth.

By spermkiss at 19,Feb,22 17:42
Yes we did have that phase and it's a normal, healthy and wholesome part of growing up. And alas many men do indeed grow out of it, which is really too bad. If guys would get together now and then for a little show and tell, the world would be a better place.
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Some further thoughts on where we are now, and I hope I'm not getting too heavy duty political.

From the number of times Vladimir Putin has been photographed shirtless, one has to conclude that he really wants to show off his dick. If western Europe and North America were to show some interest in seeing it, perhaps we could take a big step toward world peace. After all, what is the big military buildup along the Ukraine border but a giant phallic symbol.

Just imagine President Biden calling him up and saying "Hey Vlad, how 'bout dropping by The White House and taking off your pants. I'll take mine off too and we can check each other out."

'Just sayin'

By spermkiss at 18,Feb,22 17:13
No, all guys are not "ever so slightly" interested in seeing other guys' dicks. They are VERY interested. And this is not just gay and bisexual guys, but ALL guys. Guys like looking at dicks; all guys do. This is a guy thing not a gay thing.

By spermkiss at 12,Feb,22 17:38
Oh for those days of youth when every young man's worst fear was getting an erection in a semi-public place like a gym shower. When one gets to be my age one realizes that there are a lot of things in life that are worse than having an erection. One of them is not having an erection. It's one of the cruel ironies of life that we men spend the first forty years of our lives trying to keep our dicks soft and the rest of our lives trying to get them hard.

So what do you do if you get an erection in the gym shower? Don't do anything. Neither should you attempt to hide it nor should you flaunt it. Just keep on doing whatever you'd be doing if you didn't have an erection. Erections are normal and natural and nothing to be embarrassed about or ashamed of. In all likelihood everyone will pretend not to notice.

By spermkiss at 07,Feb,22 17:10
I think you want to be fucked.

By spermkiss at 23,Jan,22 19:47
What man hasn't?

OK, Darthshame, it's time for you to take a dick in your ass. Try it, you'll like it. And you don't have to turn in your Straight Membership Card. A lot of straight men like taking it in the ass.

By spermkiss at 07,Jan,22 20:53
I didn't know that there was an "official definition" of bisexual.

By spermkiss at 05,Jan,22 22:05
Yes, the skimpier and more transparent the better, but with one condition: they've got to be for men. If a guy were to drop his pants revealing that he was wearing lady's underpants that would be an immediate deal killer.

On this subject, does anyone remember a SYD member named jumpramp? He had a huge wardrobe of sexy briefs. Everything from the basic tighty whitey to the tiniest g-string and he was kind enough to post photos modeling them. (He also looked good nude and he posted those photos, too.) I crowned him the Underpants King.

By spermkiss at 05,Jan,22 17:15
Yes, yes, yes! Sucking a guy off and receiving his load is fun. Doing it with other guys watching is enormously more fun.

By spermkiss at 02,Jan,22 17:44
An interesting thread here. Who has heard the old expression for something that was exceptional (good or bad) "It really knocked you socks off"? That dates to the antique pre-internet days of porn when it was 16 or 8 mm movie film. Often in those movies the men would have removed all of their clothing except their socks. Then they had sex that knocked their socks off.

By spermkiss at 20,Dec,21 16:38
I love a man who is devoted to scientific research. You have dedicated many hours on your knees collecting data relating to the size of men's copulatory organs and the flavor of their ejaculate. The things researchers do to advance the boundaries of human knowledge are amazing. Sir, I salute you.

By spermkiss at 17,Dec,21 16:38
It sounds as though you've done your research on this matter so my previous comment was pretty superfluous. But I thought I'd put it out there. Good luck and let us know how it goes.

By spermkiss at 16,Dec,21 18:57
In each other's mouths, of course.

By spermkiss at 16,Dec,21 18:55
I'm pretty much the same. Though I've done it both as inserter and receptor, it' not really my thing.

By spermkiss at 16,Dec,21 18:53
So is casual sex with strangers, but we do it. Or at least I did when I was single.

By spermkiss at 16,Dec,21 16:24
'Sounds like the old joke about being the perfect Cinderella date. She fucks like a whore until midnight and then she turns into a six pack and a pizza.

By spermkiss at 16,Dec,21 16:20
Like most American men born since about 1920 I was circumcised as an infant. Unlike so many who were also cut in infancy, I'm not complaining. I like being circumcised.

On to your question. Obviously I do not have personal experience, but many years ago I had an intimate encounter with a gentleman who had had the surgery done as an adult. He had it done purely cosmetic reasons as he preferred circumcised penises and that's what he wanted for himself. I was his first sexual encounter after a six week recovery period after the surgery. Needless to say, he was raring to go. Something you might want to discuss with your urologist and/or surgeon is how long your own recovery period might be. Would it be six weeks? Could you wait that long for sex?

By spermkiss at 13,Dec,21 17:43
I'm a cocksucker and proud to be one.

By spermkiss at 09,Dec,21 16:52
What man isn't?

By spermkiss at 01,Dec,21 16:57
Welcome to middle age, though at 32 you're a bit young to hang that tag on you.

Every man remembers those days of youth when his worst fear was getting an erection while nude in a semi-public place such as the locker room, changing room or showers at a pool or gym. Or out in public and having to go about with a tent pole in one's pants. When one gets to be my age (79), or even your age, one realizes that there are a lot of things in life that are worse than having an erection. One of them is not having an erection. It's one of the cruel ironies of life that we men spend the first 30 to 40 years of our lives trying to keep our dicks soft and the rest of our lives trying to get them hard.

Turning now to your ED situation. As I said above, it might be due to the normal aging process. Or it might be because of your closeted gayness coming out. Only you can answer that. If ED manifests itself when you are with your GF but not when you are with a man (or even thinking about a man), you know the answer.

By spermkiss at 01,Dec,21 05:21
No, the photos are not here on SYD. I found them elsewhere on the internet and as I said in my header, posting internet photos in the public areas of the site is not allowed. But as the site administrator said in his reply, I can post anything I wish in Private Messages. So they'll be coming to you that way.
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I went to your page to send you the photos and WOW! You sure do have an attractive dick and you take spectacular photos of it. Fine art quality work. You can be sure I'll be downloading some of your pictures for my collection.

By spermkiss at 29,Nov,21 20:28
Even in my youth I never was much of a multi-ejaculator. Generally once was enough, sometimes twice and on rare occasions three times.

But I sure know that multi-ejaculators exist. Once I had an encounter with a guy who climaxed six times (yes, SIX!) in the course of our evening together. He was a practicing Catholic and at the end of the evening he began to fret about what he'd tell his priest at confession. "It's bad enough that I have to confess that I had an encounter with a man, but I just cannot confess that I climaxed six times. I guess I'll confess to only three."

By spermkiss at 28,Nov,21 23:56
Of course they're not my own which is why I'm not posting them in the public areas of the site. But as far as I know, I may send them in private messages. Site Administrator If you're there and I'm wrong about this, let me know.
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There you are bella!

By spermkiss at 25,Nov,21 17:34
Absolutely. Looking at other guys' dicks is a guy thing, not just a gay thing. All guys, no matter how straight they are, like to do it.

By spermkiss at 17,Nov,21 21:32
Dozens, maybe hundreds, of times. In the San Francisco Bay Area there are numerous nude beaches and at some of them, Land's End and the north end of Baker for example, sex on the beach is de rigueur. I've sucked and been sucked on a beach towel when there were people on neighboring towels only a foot away.

By spermkiss at 17,Nov,21 17:31
Au contraire! It honors the dead with a gift of seed.

By spermkiss at 07,Nov,21 16:17
As is the case with most who have posted here, it was the showers after P E class in high school. But in my case it was the realization that I was bigger than most. Not all, by any means, but most. But I had no pubic hair. When I entered puberty, the first signs were that my dick grew to adult size and that I could shoot jizz when I jacked off. Hair growth didn't happen until nearly a year later. So there I was with my skinny, hairless boy body and a man size dick. I was sometimes kidded about not having hair, but never about the size of my dick as I was bigger than most.

By spermkiss at 29,Oct,21 19:56
First of all, you might wish to pull up my Forum post "Things Every Man Should Do at Least Once". You might find it interesting.

Now about fisting. I once fisted a guy, not because I wanted to do it, but because he wanted me to do it to him. What was most interesting was the control this guy had with his asshole. He could open it up so I could put my hand, wrist and more than half of my forearm inside. After I took my hand out I put my dick in. Now you might think he'd be so loose that it would be like fucking an open window, but no he was nice and snug. He could open his ass up to take a fist and then close it up around a dick. And he was a damn good fuck.

By spermkiss at 28,Oct,21 16:17
Absolutely! I'm a proud cocksucker and I'd like everyone to know it. Sucking a man to climax is my all time favorite sex act. It's fun in private, but enormously more fun with an audience. Knowing that there are others watching and enjoying the show, makes it so much more exciting.

By spermkiss at 30,Sep,21 15:30
On your page you say that you're 61 years old and have never been with a man, and now you come right out and say that you want to suck a dick. Good for you, man. I'm sure that cocksuckers all over the world join me in sending you good luck and best wishes that you will be soon joining our happy fraternity. Please let us know how it goes.

By spermkiss at 17,Sep,21 15:22
Exactly. If it's a police car and the officers are getting out with their flashlights to shine in your car, it might be a good idea to stop. If it's just ordinary folks, carry on and enjoy putting on a show.

By spermkiss at 14,Sep,21 22:53

If I found you awake and asking to be fucked, yes.

By spermkiss at 13,Sep,21 15:42
To you and all of the others who are opposed to pubic region grooming I have three questions:

Do you have the hair on your scalp cut and styled or do you just let it grow wild?

Do you shave your face or if you wear a beard and/or mustache do you keep it trimmed and shaped?

Assuming you answered yes to haircuts and yes to shaving or beard trimming, why should grooming stop at the neck?

By spermkiss at 11,Sep,21 16:17
Who else would make gay porn videos? Most men. A man can be totally straight (or think he is), but get out a camera and in a flash he'll be on his knees sucking.

By spermkiss at 04,Sep,21 16:15
First of all, you are not alone. There are many people whose ass is so tight that they cannot take a dick or dick size object. This is well within what is normal, so don't fret about it.

Having said that, it's clear from your remarks that this is something that you really want to do. So let me give you some tips and words of encouragement.

The most important thing is learn to relax. This is not especially difficult to do but it does take some practice. The normal condition of the anal sphincter is to be somewhat tensed to keep the opening closed. But with thought and concentration one can learn to relax these muscles to allow entry. And take the entry slowly. It's an unwritten rule of anal sex that the person being penetrated gets to control the entry. At the first sign of pain, stop, relax, wait awhile, and start over. Or even postpone it for another time. Otherwise the pain will cause you to tense up which will cause more pain and lead to a never ending cycle of pain and tension.

Another important thing is to stretch your asshole. Looking around the internet it's not difficult to find photos of (men mostly) who can take enormous things up the ass. If you wish me to send you some, just ask. Popular items are a two liter beverage bottle and of course a fist. Full disclosure here, I once fisted a guy almost to my elbow so I know it can be done. I did it not because I wanted to but because he wanted me to. Do you think that these men were born with a huge asshole? Of course they weren't. They got it by stretching it out over a period of weeks or months. If they can stretch out their assholes to accommodate a two liter bottle or a fist, you can stretch yours to take a dick.

Good luck and let us know how things go.

By spermkiss at 30,Aug,21 15:26
Good buddy tb1 where are you?