Started by #65952 at 28,Sep,10 10:37
 | anyone else embarrassed when having to change in front of others. I try to hide in showers and try to use the cubical when using public toilets |
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If you wanted a romantic encounter with another man that included kissing, but got only raw sex and which was over as soon as ejaculation occurred, then you probably have issues. If you had anal sex f-o-r-c-e-d upon you in ****'s homes, than you probably have BIG issues.
I strongly suspect that you have more problems than I or anyone else could deal with over the internet. I sincerely believe that you could benefit from professional counseling. Please consider it. Send me a Private Message if you want to discuss this privately.
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The word that got censored is "c-h-I-l-d-r-e-n-'-s.
You mean a "rumor" like, ... (toondick) was seen in the locker room today by ..., and it definitely can be confirmed that he has 'male parts down below'?
Perhaps you have some other problem?
Or are you hanging out fully nude, fully erect and making a point of showing off in the locker room? Or stroking out a load in the shower? Or giving other guys blow jobs? These things just might cause rumors to spread. But just showering and changing clothes? I can't see it.
Nobody has an absolutely perfect body. NOBODY! We all have our own little flaws and imperfections. So don't be self conscious! Sure, when you disrobe in the locker room other guys there are going to see that you're out of shape, but as you keep going back to the gym and you get better they're going to remember what you used to look like and they're going to notice the improvement.
Like sinanff47, I'm trying to help you here.
He took my smile, and eye contact as an invite, and came over, smiling, with the biggest erection I had ever seen!!
I got hard, and I don't know why, and he thought that was an invitation.
I'm not an attractive kind of guy, so I was kind of liking this, but I'm not gay, and I didn't understand why I was so hard, because I didn't want to do anything with him!
We dressed in the locker room, and he was looking at me, smiling, and it didn't bother me, but rather made me smile, because nobody ever looked at me and got hard,like that!!
This reminds me of an Oscar Wilde quote on the subject of gossip: "There is only one thing worse than having people talk about you. It's when they do NOT talk about you."
Then there's the matter of Alice Roosevelt's pillow. She was the daughter of President Theodore Roosevelt and she had a pillow that she kept on a settee in the family's living quarters in The White House. On that pillow was embroidered: "If you can't say anything nice about anyone, come sit next to me."
It is also totally cool to discreetly check out other guys. All guys, gay bi-sexual and straight, do it. It's a guy thing.
What to do if you become erect. Just keep doing whatever you were doing before. You should neither attempt to hide it nor call attention to it. Just keep in mind that erections are a normal and natural occurance that are part of life.
In all likelyhood the other men present will pretend not to notice. If somone should comment on your having an erection act surprised and say "Oh, do I?", then look down at your dick and say "You're right, so I do. Thanks for noticing." Then change the subject. In the unlikely event he should try to steer the conversation back to your erection, look him in the eye and ask why your penis is so fastinating to him.
Virtually all men get spontaneous erections and they can occur anywhere any time. To be embarrassed about it and attempt to hide it ("...that's what gym towels are for") is a recipe for impotence.
Of course some men are louts who are not astute and aware and that's why I made my suggested response should an unwelcome comment occur ("Oh, do I?" "....Thanks for noticing.")
And even if you were small, so what? A lot of people (myself included) like small dicks. And medium size dicks and big dicks. All dicks were meant to be seen.
So step up to the urinal and whip that puppy out. And don't hug the urinal. Step back and let the guys on either side of you have a good look.
The next time you go to a gym or pool, drop those pants and show yourself off. Spend as much time as you can in the locker room and shower totally nude.
You can do it! And once you do, you'll find it's fun.
But shaowers IE YMCA I like them, and most time my shaved pierced cock get hard and I don't mind anyone looking
If someone wants to look at my body, that's there business as long as they doesn't stair, comment, or touch. Looking is a no harm, no foul activity. That being the case, just forget about the others around you and go about your business.
Good luck and relax.
I love whipping mine out and giving the man at the next urinal a show and I'll strip nude at the drop of a hat. It's fun to linger nude in the shower or changing room knowing that other guys are checking me out.