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Started by spermkiss at 18,Apr,11 22:13  other posts of spermkiss
There have been two recent items in the news about same sex kissing causing a stir. On was two actors on Glee kissing each other and the other was two gentlemen being ejected from the John Snow Pub in London for kissing each other.

What is the big deal? We gay men kiss each other all the time and we think nothing of it. But same sex kisses, especially between men, seem to drive a lot of straight people bananas, especially straight men.

To my way of thinking, the mouth is pretty much a gender neutral part of the body. We all have one. Adult males usually have beard growth around their mouths, but other than that one mouth is pretty much like any other. It would seem that any two people of either sex and any sexual orientation can kiss each other.

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By #459351 at 15,Aug,14 02:28
So I have kissed guys and girls and I have to say I LOVE kissing a woman's sweet soft mouth and the sensual way she moves her tongue in a perfectly flawless tango with mine. I do not like however when me and my partner are out on the town having a romantic moment and the looks we get usually from straight woman like we just had sex or something. .men never seem like they mind..they just stare
By #451452 at 15,Aug,14 16:15
I would say most men are somewhat envious when they see two attractive, sensual women kissing.

By #467242 at 15,Aug,14 03:13
I kissed a squirrel and I liked it.
By #451452 at 15,Aug,14 16:13
But was it a male? LOL

By #250164 at 23,Apr,13 23:43
I'm a gay man. I have NEVER wanted to just have sex - I want to make love with sex being a part of that. I love long kisses where our tongues are continuously exploring each other. When in bed with another man that's at least as important to me as anything else that we do.
By spermkiss at 15,Aug,14 15:35 other posts of spermkiss 
I'm with you all the way on this. Sure, I've had casual sexual hook-ups that were nothing more than getting and/or giving a quick BJ. Most gay men have. But sex is so much more fulfilling and rewarding if it both begins and ends with some passionate kissing with a lot more kissing along the way.

By spermkiss at 14,Aug,14 23:34 other posts of spermkiss 
In the more than three years since I posted this topic there has been a substantial evolution in men kissing each other. Of course we gay men still kiss. We always have and I expect that we always will. But now straight men doing gay porn routinely kiss each other. And we're even seeing straight men sometimes kiss in non-sexual situations. Isn't that nice?

By #4222 at 21,Apr,13 21:55
I find that a lot of people agree that kissing can be a deeper level of intimacy than mouth to cock or intercourse. It is a bit of a jump into the kissing fields but worth trying.
By spermkiss at 22,Apr,13 00:44 other posts of spermkiss 
". . . kissing can be a deeper level of intimacy . . ."

You hit the nail on the head with that statement. Many straight and bisexual men have no problem having sex with other men, and not just assuming inserter roles. After all, it's just sex. But to kiss implies an emotional interest and that's a big jump for many men to take.

By johnp at 21,Apr,13 22:56 other posts of johnp 
Ive sucked and fucked guys but would never kiss one....i cant even explain y really its actually kinda weird....i have no problem with with other guys kissing though......guys that do have a problem with it r just scared they will pop a bonner i guess

By #1860 at 20,Apr,13 14:06
Right, again, when I was much younger, teen and early 20's, I progressed with my enjoyment of sex with other boys and men. But ....... I really couldn't bring myself to kiss.

Eventually I realised I was missing out and if "one" was happy to suck off another guy and in time enjoy fucking and being fucked what was so strange about kissing. So I started French kissing my lovers and found it great - all part of the whole package of making love with a guy.

I respect partners and any guy that doesn't want to - it' all about choice and pleasing the guy you are with.

By spermkiss at 20,Apr,13 20:03 other posts of spermkiss 
Interesting comment. That's pretty much been my experience with straight (and to a lessor extent bisexual) men. Often a guy will be willing to lick my asshole, suck my cock, swallow my sperm and kiss any part of my body except my mouth. Go figure.

By #7435 at 22,May,11 18:59
I guess you are missing an important factor!! It's not the mouth, it's the thought process of a person involved in the act!! For example, some men don't like being sucked by men, but if they get sucked by a man in a gloryhole, they would never know the difference!! It's all in the brain, not the mouth!!
By spermkiss at 23,May,11 21:33 other posts of spermkiss 
You are so right! It has been often said that the brain is the most important sex organ.
By #7435 at 29,May,11 08:11
Absolutlely... If you are upset, you would have trouble getting aroused, won't you??

By #107983 at 23,May,11 22:23
I never mind kissing another guy. I am not into a "wam bam thank you Pam" sort of a meeting and a kiss just makes it somehow a little more caringOne guy i met ages ago gave me such a fantastic lingering kiss then nuzzled into my neck and nibbled,,,,,,,JEZZZZZZZZZZ not even my wife has ever done that to me!!!!! I was rock hard in seconds

By #134537 at 23,May,11 19:47
I was having this discussion the other day. I think it's really odd that a man will have no problem taking my dick in his mouth but slip him a little tongue and he gags.
By spermkiss at 23,May,11 21:40 other posts of spermkiss 
You and I are not the only ones to make this observation. As gay porn directrix Chi Chi LaRue once commented in an interview about straight men making gay porn (gay for pay): "Straight men won't kiss. They're willing to lick a dozen ass holes, but they won't kiss another man."

By #162438 at 22,May,11 07:08
I do not like just having sex. I want it to be a part of making love. I want many, many long deep kisses with our tongues constantly exploring each other. As much as I love having sex - and I do! - to me the lovemaking is what counts the most. And for me kissing is the main part of that. I love it when a man is fucking me and reaches forward and kisses me while fucking me. For me that is the ultimate in both sexual and romantic.
By spermkiss at 23,May,11 21:32 other posts of spermkiss 
You are such a romantic and you're my kinda guy. As I said in my May 4 reply to pifad above, "Sex without French kissing is like a day without sunshine."

By #163488 at 21,May,11 12:00
Wow. I got a hard on just reading this page.
By spermkiss at 23,May,11 21:28 other posts of spermkiss 
What an interesting comment! I just went to your page and found that you identify as straight and are interested in women. And yet you got aroused reading about two men kissing each other. Fastinating.

By #135959 at 06,May,11 07:29
Never kissed a guy but want to

By pifad at 04,May,11 19:52 other posts of pifad 
Well, I have to say that kissing a man is the ultimate arousal for me. I love sucking cock but French kissing another man is absolutely the most erotic act and so satisfying.
By spermkiss at 04,May,11 21:15 other posts of spermkiss 
Right on! As the French like to say about eating and drinking, "A meal without wine is like a day without sunshine." I'll re-phrase that to "Sex without (French) kissing is like a day without sunshine."

By #157516 at 04,May,11 11:25
i kiss my guy friends to show them i like them. also it's an important part of gay sex, as soon as i kiss a guy i get rock hard
By spermkiss at 04,May,11 15:38 other posts of spermkiss 
I agree one hundred percent. Sex is best when it begins and ends with a kiss.

By #157516 at 04,May,11 11:25
i been kissing men since i was ten years old, i mean sexually , French kissing. If the world doesn't like it - fuck them
By spermkiss at 04,May,11 15:36 other posts of spermkiss 
Jedlicka you're my kinda man! I, too, will kiss my gentlemen friends anywhere, any time. If straight people don't like it, fuck them.

By #159163 at 04,May,11 08:30
while i'm quite happy with a mouthful of cock, i don't like kissing other guys. to me it implies something deeper than i want
By #115773 at 04,May,11 08:45
my thoughts exactly.
By spermkiss at 04,May,11 15:31 other posts of spermkiss 
Thank you for your thoughts, gentlemen. Perhaps a kiss is indeed the most intimate of acts between two people, even though it is something that can (usually) be done in public.

As a gay man who has been with quite a few straight men over the years, it has been my experience that a straight man usually will not kiss me. He could be quite happy to suck me to climax and swallow my sperm or to lick my butt hole, but he will not kiss me. Interesting.

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