| There have been two recent items in the news about same sex kissing causing a stir. On was two actors on Glee kissing each other and the other was two gentlemen being ejected from the John Snow Pub in London for kissing each other.
What is the big deal? We gay men kiss each other all the time and we think nothing of it. But same sex kisses, especially between men, seem to drive a lot of straight people bananas, especially straight men.
To my way of thinking, the mouth is pretty much a gender neutral part of the body. We all have one. Adult males usually have beard growth around their mouths, but other than that one mouth is pretty much like any other. It would seem that any two people of either sex and any sexual orientation can kiss each other. |
You hit the nail on the head with that statement. Many straight and bisexual men have no problem having sex with other men, and not just assuming inserter roles. After all, it's just sex. But to kiss implies an emotional interest and that's a big jump for many men to take.
Eventually I realised I was missing out and if "one" was happy to suck off another guy and in time enjoy fucking and being fucked what was so strange about kissing. So I started French kissing my lovers and found it great - all part of the whole package of making love with a guy.
I respect partners and any guy that doesn't want to - it' all about choice and pleasing the guy you are with.
As a gay man who has been with quite a few straight men over the years, it has been my experience that a straight man usually will not kiss me. He could be quite happy to suck me to climax and swallow my sperm or to lick my butt hole, but he will not kiss me. Interesting.