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No Skype, No Cam = Fake?

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Started by #301038 at 14,Apr,13 07:24
Fake profiles have many red flags, some of them are:

Relatively new account.

Exposed face.

All pictures taken during the same photoshoot.

Pictures produce multiple matches through a reverse image search.

Looks like pictures belong to different people without explaining who they are. Some real members got their play dates posted, but they always indicate who those people are (friends, gf/bfs, dates, etc)

Member never reached out to communicate with anyone.

No comments, no votes, no forum posts, no chat participation.

Pictures are for everyone to see.

Any signatures on the pictures other than from syc/syd.

We all know how many fakes are on this site, especially among female members. And most of us know how to distinguish a fake profile from a real one. But for some, the only proof that the person is real, is their ability and desire to Skype or to cam.

Just so happen, that I don't like to Skype. I don't even Skype with my family and friends. The only 3 people that I ever skype with, are my parents and my husband, that's it. Maybe I'm too self concious and not always camera ready, in my opinion. I like quality erotic photography and porn, and I try to hold my page to the same standards. I don't like being watched by strangers and if I was to put up a show, I'd be making money of it, but that's not something I'm into, neither is my husband.

Just in the past week, I've been accused of being fake 3 times, due to the fact, that I won't Skype. I've been called names and treated like a bearded men from a basement posing as woman, despite the fact that I'm a verified member, have a proof pic on my page and actively communicate with many members. I feel pressured to Skype, in the same manner that members ask you to send them a verification picture standing in a certain pose, or holding a certain object, or writing something on the body, so that they know you are real. I understand a desperate need for verification before meeting someone you met online, in person for the first time. But demanding proof on this site and from someone who shows no red flags, smells like one big fat paranoia.

Maybe the accusers got fake accounts themselves and see fakes everywhere. Or maybe they are mentally challenged, have trust issues and extreme anxiety. Regardless, I refuse to be bored by false accusations... If you think I'm fake, report me. Just don't bother bugging me about it, ok?

Similar topics: 1.fake accounts   2.Who thinks I'm fake?   3.WHO IS A FAKE?   4.Why delete only the "fake" profile?   5.Looking for Skype jo buddy  

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By licksipsuckit at 02,Nov,19 22:30 other posts of licksipsuckit 
can someone give me ONE good reason why any woman would be attracted to Skype with some random stranger??? *Lix*
By #601496 at 03,Nov,19 07:14
There's NO GOOD REASON. I would never do it.

By leopoldij at 02,Nov,19 11:27 other posts of leopoldij 
"My cam is broken"
"I can watch but not show"
"I don't know how to use my cam"
"I'm not alone"

"I'm a man but pretent to be a woman"
By DJS at 03,Nov,19 01:49 other posts of DJS 
Leopoldij the she-male
By Scorps at 03,Nov,19 07:03 other posts of Scorps 
He is a lil bitch...

By SrCums at 02,Nov,19 21:44 other posts of SrCums 
As compared to democrats. No evidence, no collusion,, still impeach.. This site is about as liberal as you can possibly get..

By Harryxxx at 02,Nov,19 16:00 other posts of Harryxxx 
One way to tell when a woman here is "real" is if she never responds to your comments, etc lol...I dont like it when guys try to drag me over to Kik or Skype. If I wanted to be there, I'd be there already
By Scorps at 02,Nov,19 21:21 other posts of Scorps 
LOL I think you're on to something... 😆😄

By #601496 at 02,Nov,19 13:44
only registered users can see external links

Skype accounts can be hacked. The account has a lot of personal info that, if needed to be recovered would be a pain in the ass. Your location, phone number and password plus the last 3 months of conversations can be accessed. I Skype with family and friends. I would never Skype with some perv in a porn site that I've never met, let alone know. If you think I'm fake that's your loss. Keep walking.

By #376736 at 16,Apr,13 22:05
We do not skype, cam, or do anything outside of this site.
By #366828 at 17,Apr,13 05:03
By #301038 at 17,Apr,13 05:36
they are a couple.
By #366828 at 17,Apr,13 06:36
and i,am the king of Siam.
By #301038 at 17,Apr,13 16:13
I was suspecting that. Is the crown too tight, or something.
By #366828 at 18,Apr,13 02:45
no,and,much of what you have said,about fakes,is true,and i wish more people,men, would use their common sence,just like you do.however,you have missed one,of the more disgusting,disturbing,abuseful,not to mention ****,practise on this site,that of men,posting pictures of there wives/exwives/girlfriends or exgirlfriends,or as i have just seen,on a "females" page,boyfriends,with out their knowledge.to put it another way,a page were the male partner,shows,just,his cock,the female,on the other hand is willing to show every thing,face,tits,arse,pussy the lot,nothing is sacred.not,only that she is willing to be shown giving blow jobs,hand jobs,having vaginal sex,having anal sex,being covered in cum,nothing is,it would appear,for these ladies,off limits.....this is one of my bette noirs,and i find it repugnant in the extreme.look at Luvclitandcocks page and tell me they are,a concenting couple.
By zakwild at 18,Apr,13 05:59 other posts of zakwild 

By #316255 at 18,Apr,13 17:36
I am totally in agreement with this one.. I find it repugnant that some men put up photos of their SOs on here, without their SO's consent/knowledge. There are millions of photos of couples having sex on the Internet. People can view any number of photos on any sex site. But to have some asshole post photos, without their wife/gf/SO's knowledge is an abuse of trust and, IMO, a 'break-up-able' (as in: "Get the fuck out of my life, you sleazy fuckwit!!!") offense. Oh yes, how silly of me to have SOME morals when I am on a sex site. I would never put up a naked/sex photo of anyone without their explicit permission.
By johnp at 01,Jan,14 14:20 other posts of johnp 
I love it w u talk dirty emm!
By #316255 at 01,Jan,14 14:34
I do it often. You'd get sick of it.... well, perhaps you wouldn't
By johnp at 01,Jan,14 19:16 other posts of johnp 

By bella! at 17,Apr,13 17:08 other posts of bella! 
7, YOU be nice!

By _avg_ at 17,Sep,13 22:20 other posts of _avg_ 
Or you could, ya know, just post a verification pic/video......

By #91208 at 16,Sep,13 23:32
My Skype SoccerDick

By #316255 at 18,Apr,13 17:38
I'm not entirely sure why anyone gives a damn about verification or being verified. It's not like we're exchanging Christmas cards.
By bella! at 18,Apr,13 21:39 other posts of bella! 
Emm, you might be surprised.

By DarkMax at 16,Apr,13 16:12 other posts of DarkMax 
No Skype, No Cam, but I'm not a fake!!!
By bella! at 16,Apr,13 17:26 other posts of bella! 
Prove it!
By DarkMax at 16,Apr,13 17:29 other posts of DarkMax 
By #301038 at 17,Apr,13 05:42
post a proof pic, take a picture where you are holding a sign that says

or write that on your skin.
By DarkMax at 17,Apr,13 13:49 other posts of DarkMax 
By #301038 at 17,Apr,13 16:12
LF is right, if you don't want to do it, don't... But that's one of the ways to get verified. After you make that picture, ask 3 verified members you know, and who's been here for 1 year or longer, to verify you. A blue question mark on your page will change to a check mark.
By DarkMax at 18,Apr,13 17:10 other posts of DarkMax 
Where is this question mark???

By bella! at 18,Apr,13 17:22 other posts of bella! 
I would like to clarify some things mentioned about verification and/or being verified. Any member seeking verification should contact their "verifier" of choice 1) to ask if they will verify them and 2) what the "verifier" will need as proof.

I know one male member verified a female based on their exchange of pm's and a voice verification. Recently, a female member when asked to verify, advised the male member that she wanted to see a picture from her gallery and his penis in the verification pic. A picture with your nickname, the date and SYD.org may work for some members that verify but not all.

By Onetwo at 18,Apr,13 06:10 other posts of Onetwo 
Most people I come across think I'm fake . Don't care anymore . I just carry on about my business . I think some people are just intimidated by my pics they will just have to get over it .

By zakwild at 17,Apr,13 18:17 other posts of zakwild 
I don't skype either. It's not even on my computer. I don't skype. ever.

I guess that makes me a fake uh ?
By #301038 at 18,Apr,13 00:23
I'm not that paranoid... if your pics look too good to be true, all what I had to do is run them through a reverse image search... and seems like they are yours....
By zakwild at 18,Apr,13 01:47 other posts of zakwild 
some of my pics do return results when doing an image search. But none of the other site are commercial, it's only blogs and thumblr etc that stole my pic (the date I posted the pics on here is always the first).

By #301038 at 15,Apr,13 19:39
Where did all comment from his royal majesty went? And where did my comments go? What's happening?
By bella! at 15,Apr,13 19:47 other posts of bella! 
POOF! Gone!

By #274357 at 15,Apr,13 19:48
By #301038 at 15,Apr,13 20:21
more than strange
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I guess it's better than deleting the whole topic..
By Generalcock at 17,Apr,13 00:15 other posts of Generalcock 
now peach what about this, through my travails around this site i have noticed that you 2nice and bella! (for example) communicate quite often and seem to be good friends with each other if they decided they felt they knew you enough and felt comfortable enough to skype you wouldent you feel more comfortable doing it too?
just a thought.

Respectfully yours -Generalcock
By #360973 at 17,Apr,13 00:33
Peach has already said she only skypes with her parents (who live on the opposite side of the world) & her husband (who has to travel for work).
Personally, I only ever use it for business calls when it's absolutely necessary (i don't even use it to talk to my gf who lives and works in another State or my mother who lives 4hrs away- we talk on the phone and see each other IN PERSON whenever we get the chance).
Not everyone sees any worth in skyping or camming...some of us simply find it a little odd/unnecessary and would rather talk face to face when we are actually face to face with someone. Furthermore, who has the extra time in the day to skype with our friends here on top of what we already usually do when we're on-site
By Generalcock at 17,Apr,13 00:58 other posts of Generalcock 
NO NO I totaly agree 100% with what you and every one else that has posted on this forum it was just a thought i have only tried skypeing once to see what it was like and it felt soo awkward that when ever someone wants me to skype them i just think up an excuse not to IE "i cant my roomates are home"
(i did end up deleting my account)

By #301038 at 17,Apr,13 04:53
It's not about feeling comfortable, it's about protecting my privacy and having boundaries. My husband is not found of an idea of me skyping with anyone from an adult site, just the idea seems wrong. What if someone records it and spreads it around... you can never be to careful, when your face is well known and you live in a small town. What are the chances that there are not a single person out of my town on this site? And if one knows, the rumor spreads faster than the wild fire.

I respect bella! and 2nice, but I can never be too careful... Also, they are not on good terms with the person, who accused me of being a fake, and I doubt that their word would suffice.

Also, why should I change my principles because of some paranoid individual, who's opinion worth nothing to me?
By Generalcock at 17,Apr,13 23:26 other posts of Generalcock 
no i agree with your opinions/statements i was not trying to start a debate, like im not going to come back saying "blah blah blah" trying to change your mind it was more of a "what if" statement if you will, and your right you can never be too cairful with all thoes douche bags out there.

By ktalmipn at 17,Apr,13 21:12 other posts of ktalmipn 
maybe just maybe....

By JeffinKS at 14,Apr,13 11:32 other posts of JeffinKS 
I am not a "fake" either. what I find funny or amusing is when certain members accuse me of being fake and then ask me to verify them.....WTF?!?!
I find it weird as well that in order to be "real" you MUST Skype.....
By #301038 at 14,Apr,13 19:11
That's a whole bunch of BS... What if you don't want to reveal your face. All what should matter is that you use your own pictures to depict yourself.

Even if I decide to Skype, you'd be skyping with my ass, not my face.
By Generalcock at 17,Apr,13 00:38 other posts of Generalcock 
the only reason i would skype with someone on this site is to jerk off

By #124665 at 16,Apr,13 04:05
You guys are fucking whacked! Who gives a flying shit!? You're playing the game.

By bella! at 15,Apr,13 13:37 other posts of bella! 
Hey, I just tried to post on MONTED*'s thread, ASSHOLES ON THE SITE. So very strange, I wanted to agree with him however I found that he had blasklisted me. So. odd...... think I have only had 2 conversations with the king.... The first conversation, I contacted him because I felt I was "spanked" in the forum. I didn't want to be disrespectful to him and chose to discuss it one on one. Our second conversation, he contacted me and he was quite rude. Oh well!
By #360973 at 15,Apr,13 14:18
Don't worry, b! - the first time he contacted me was in abusive response to me laughing at what he said here in the forum - he fgoing to win the back & forth and banned me - then I mentioned that he'd banned me in a thread a.d unbanned me again to test that I hadn't banned him too (i hadn't, of course - but people know I like a fruitful dispute if I think it's for a good purpose by now )
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...he figured he wasn't going to win the...*
By bella! at 15,Apr,13 14:52 other posts of bella! 
There was no need for him to be disrespectful or ban me, after all it was he that contacted me.
By #274357 at 15,Apr,13 14:59
Don't feel bad or alone guys, his majesty banned me as well.
By bella! at 15,Apr,13 15:46 other posts of bella! 
Maybe ( blacklisting ) that's how he deals with members that don't agree with him. As I recall, there's a saying;

If the heat's too high,
Get out of the kitchen.

I understand he's a cook............

By bella! at 15,Apr,13 16:45 other posts of bella! 
Hey 2nice, if you've been banned, why do you still have him as your friend? Hmmmm......??????
By #274357 at 15,Apr,13 17:39
Ever hear of keeping your friends close and your enemies even closer? I'm joking, he's not really what I would consider an enemy, per say.

Actually, I didn't even realize I was his friend. Thanks for keeping tabs on my friends list, Bella.

However...now that I do know, I'm not going to delete him. I'll choose the higher ground.

Or...maybe it's because 2nice is fake and I AM MONTED!!
By bella! at 15,Apr,13 18:05 other posts of bella! 
Seriously, I don't keep tabs on your friends, per se. If you recall, that was something I mentioned to you months ago, when we were talking to one another.

By admin at 14,Apr,13 18:09 other posts of admin 
In most cases this is a simple manipulation intended to trick you into making a show for the accuser. They don't really care if you are fake or not, they just want to jerk off to you on skype. No one is obliged to skype here with anyone. Most of times I did not even have skype or used it solely to make cheap phone calls to other countries. Now, when Microsoft bought Skype I feel even more reluctant to use it. All those big companies always spy on you.

Bottom line - just tell those who demand it to go fuck themselves.

By #323005 at 14,Apr,13 10:56
I personally find it a bit creepy that in order to be perceived as genuine or not a fake in the eyes of the entire SYD/SYC community, you must go on skype and cam with this one person who is apparently the soul judge of who is and is not fake.
By JeffinKS at 14,Apr,13 13:01 other posts of JeffinKS 
I agree with you 100%

By bella! at 14,Apr,13 13:10 other posts of bella! 
Well, at first I thought you were PlainSilly to think it's only one person but I think you're right. Just my opinion, some of the members that have been here a loonnngggg time seem to be self appointed gatekeepers the Sergeant of Arms of SYD/SYC. They're so territorial that they're not going to allow just anyone to join THEIR club unless you're able to PROVE yourself to them. And if somehow you're able to be admitted without THEIR approval, you're going to be harassed. There is really only one member that will challenge your authenticity because Skype is his only proof. Who feels a need to prove anything to that one member? Maybe he needs to prove who he is.........

By bigone21 at 14,Apr,13 17:57 other posts of bigone21 
and so: don't do it!! don't even think about doing so! don't be a confused dolphin about THAT! if you're true, you're true!

By #68656 at 14,Apr,13 07:56
The evaluation panel receives several references daily from other members about fake accounts.
As Peach observes some of the common factors are no "member`s recent comments" (one of the first checks done), visible website logos, no contacts or communication with others, and of course the reverse-image search which usually turns up matches.
However it was interesting to read about the exposed face so hopefully I am not fake.????
By bigone21 at 14,Apr,13 17:51 other posts of bigone21 
@JohnS, I don't think you are fake. After all your comments, I fear that you are TRUE!

By #362795 at 14,Apr,13 16:03
Good list of hints !

By bigone21 at 14,Apr,13 12:06 other posts of bigone21 
this is showyourdick.org (and/or showyourcunt.org)

it's NOT:


don't bother with people that ask for that!

By Ray10754 at 14,Apr,13 11:46 other posts of Ray10754 
Last time I checked I was 100% real, As far as I am concerned I don't realy care weather others think I am real or not!If in fact you do think I am fake just move on to someone else and leave me alone,I have meet MANY wounderfull people here and am content with them as my friends. Always willing to accept others in my circle of friends but in no waw am I going to play the games some want to! I am ME and have no reason to portray myself as someone else! That's my two cents on the topic for what it is worth! take it or leave it!

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