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Started by JustWill at 22,Sep,15 15:12  other posts of JustWill
On another thread, Admin reported that some people, when deleting their SYD account, give the reason that they are doing so because they are SCARED OF BECOMING GAY.
Seriously! They actually tell him that they are leaving out of fear of spontaneous orientation conversion.
Because, I guess, the overpowering, hypnotic sight of so many penises...flaccid and erect...might infect them with queer cooties or something.
It seems to me that once you reach the point where a photo of a dingus brings on the urge to pop one into your mouth deleting your account might just be "too little, too late."



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By small_dik at 02,Feb,16 19:06 other posts of small_dik 
You don't become gay - you either are or you're not. It's not a disease you catch like a cold. You're born gay. So your post shows your ignorance of what being gay means. In fact, I'd go as far as to say you're a moron
By JustWill at 02,Feb,16 22:31 other posts of JustWill 
Begging your pardon, Skippy, but you either have difficulty understanding satire or you didn't actually bother to read the post. See those little " " marks around the title? They are called QUOTATION MARKS. That's a clue that I am repeating what someone else said, not making a statement of my own.
I know that reading and understanding can be HARD, but folks like you shouldn't toss the word "moron" around so casually. Unless, of course, they are looking in a mirror...



By #420420 at 12,Nov,15 23:31
Why is everyone so hung up on 'Gay' or 'Straight'?? Why can't a person just relax, and not be afraid of being judged, feeling, and acknowledging their NORMAL, NATURAL feelings??
Some might prefer, exclusively the same gender, and that is fine, because that is what they feel, and want! Who is anyone to say that they are 'WRONG' for being different than the current 'NORM'??
Some are exclusively hetero, and some, for religious reasons. If that is what they believe, then so what?
Others, maybe, are more curious, more confrontational, exploring things, boundaries, and trying things that they just 'feel' at some time, with someone.
Why Isn't it just "NORMAL" to find someone you like, and share things you like, together?
Why do we even need these "LABELS"?? What are we defining?
I think the labels just divide, and segregate us!
By #505781 at 01,Feb,16 22:12



By #25948 at 29,Jan,16 00:56
Well I am bisexual and love men wimen and any one who wants to be loved have wife 32 years still happy but have many wonderful sessions with guys as well. Am I gay or just enjoying the fruits we are being offered I love cock and vaginas my cock get errect when thier a two way reaction and yes I am in heaven


By NOTgay at 28,Jan,16 18:18 other posts of NOTgay 
I'm not gay (obviously) and I don't think I'll ever turn gay. But do I enjoy viewing the massive slabs of veiny man meat on this site? HELL YES!


By cardinal at 28,Jan,16 17:07 other posts of cardinal 
Theres more dick picks floating around hear then there are vaginas dont see why any gay guy feel ridiculed about there sexuality less they are jealous or something and they just cant take it anymore.


By #500604 at 28,Jan,16 12:53
I dont think one turns gay just by looking at cock pics.Being gay to me means to eventually get married or live with a man.Everyone seeing a cock that is bigger/nicer than their own will automatically feel attracted.So do I.But as soon i logout here no cocks or dick sucking fantasies are on my mind.
So guys,if you feel attracted only to women in every day life iŽd say you are still straight.


By routemaster at 28,Jan,16 05:03 other posts of routemaster 
I didn't ask to be gay - I just got lucky
By JustWill at 28,Jan,16 11:59 other posts of JustWill 
By routemaster at 28,Jan,16 12:33 other posts of routemaster 




By johnp at 25,Sep,15 13:30 other posts of johnp 
I get it .. No one wants to catch the gay
By JustWill at 10,Nov,15 14:35 other posts of JustWill 
The gay runs too fast. Is it worth the chase?
By johnp at 12,Nov,15 02:25 other posts of johnp 
Only if he has a big cock 😳
By JustWill at 12,Nov,15 08:20 other posts of JustWill 
Dang, Johnp, I never took you for a size queen...
By johnp at 28,Jan,16 00:17 other posts of johnp 
Like me the big cock bro ... But if it's clean and looks good I don't discriminate






By #436014 at 10,Nov,15 12:54
I don't blame them. The cock is pretty much irresistable and they probably feel they'll be dominated or overwhelmed by the cock and they'll be made into a little cock slut, and they don't want to lose their feeling of power to that nice hard throbbing cock staring them right in the face, just about ready to jump forth and smack their face back and forth. No, they're just not ready to experience the feeling of being overpowered by that meat pole. And certainly not ready to be splattered into submission by a hot sticky load of cum, that would be the ultimate in being made subservient to the cock, helpless before its face- and throat-covering prowess.


By #491615 at 10,Nov,15 09:06
I know who I am and what I like sexually. But many don't or can't get to a place that makes them happy or even secure. I have a friend who is dealing with this question. He Loves male play, but is so afraid he is becoming Gay. And No matter how much you discuss it with him you can Not change his mind.
By JustWill at 10,Nov,15 12:00 other posts of JustWill 
How much male play does it take before one becomes "officially" gay?



By #485159 at 27,Sep,15 00:20
How ignorant. I **** labels too. It's basically the equivalent of what I tell people when they ask if I'm gay here, or bi-sexual? I'm like "I'm try-sexual. I'll try anything once!". Why do we need to put someone in a box? Have someone fit a prototype. I can admit as a heterosexual "bi-curious" man that I've had fantasies of being with women that wanted me to be sexual with other men. Threesomes, etc. With the right woman, it would not be an issue, especially if it was her fantasy to see me share a man with her. So what does that make me? I'm a sexual person, so maybe I should declare myself what Miley Cyrus recently did. "Pan-sexual". If I'm into someone, it doesn't matter what their sex is. Whether they're a transexual or not. It's our lives. We can do what we want to!
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I used the "h" word which is banned. I forgot. I ate labels.
By #499206 at 07,Oct,15 08:32
Well said - I like tri-sexual and I love the threesome with a dominant woman - right up my boulevard.



By admin at 22,Sep,15 15:25 other posts of admin 
This is kinda pointless topic.

First, there is no way to be sure people tell truth on internet. So, that reason may be completely made up.

Second, if we assume they tell true - it's not so strange, really. They are probably already gay inside, but they are afraid of admitting it to themselves and possible changes in their lives caused by that.

I've seen this in real life, when people who thought they are straight realized something wrong with that but tried everything to avoid admitting to themselves they are gay. Some finally accepted it and managed to live happy life, some accepted and it did not work well because their family and friends did not accept it, some never accepted and are being haunted by it constantly. There is no way to be sure what's gonna be better in each particular case. It's a huge risk and people are naturally afraid of something like that.
By JustWill at 22,Sep,15 15:39 other posts of JustWill 
Still, I am always fascinated by the whole "turning gay" thing. I am curious as to whether any other members have experienced a conversion to homosexuality simply because they saw a couple of boner pics.
By leopoldij at 22,Sep,15 16:03 other posts of leopoldij 
It's not possible.
By spermkiss at 24,Sep,15 11:42 other posts of spermkiss 
Exactly. A man's (and a woman's) sexual orientation is hard wired into his (or her) brain and cannot be changed.

As the site administrator has so wisely pointed out, the gayness may have been latent for years or even decades, but it was always there.
By leopoldij at 24,Sep,15 13:23 other posts of leopoldij 
True. But if someone wants to experiment, no problem. But it's silly to think that someone will become gay by watching gay people having sex or by spending time with them.
By spermkiss at 24,Sep,15 18:24 other posts of spermkiss 
Experimenting is a superb idea. Every man should step outside his comfort zone and do some experimenting with someone not of his preferred gender.

I certainly did. I'm gay, Gay, GAY, but when I was in my early thirties I had an affair with a woman that lasted the better part of a year. That didn't turn me straight.
By leopoldij at 24,Sep,15 18:27 other posts of leopoldij 
Did she know you were gay? How did it feel like having sex with her?
By spermkiss at 25,Sep,15 11:57 other posts of spermkiss 
Yes, she knew I was gay and had no problem with that what-so-ever. [I've said this numerous times before, but I'll say it again: Being gay is a Major Babe Magnet. Straight guys, if you want to get laid more often, let the ladies know you're open to a little switch hitting.] While in our circle of friends, men and women, straight and gay, we were regarded as a couple, it was always an open relationship and I never stopped thinking of myself as a gay man while it was happening. As I said at the time and ever since, she's fucking other men and so am I.

What was the sex like? New and different. After ten plus years of man-on-man sex, this was something that was brand new. It was my opportunity to be a virgin all over again.

But perhaps the most rewarding part of this experience was the camaraderie I felt with straight men, something I hadn't known before. To walk down the street or to step into a restaurant with an attractive lady on my arm felt good.

So guys reading this, both straight and gay, again I say step out of your comfort zone and do some sexual experimenting. You'll be better men for it.
By leopoldij at 25,Sep,15 16:02 other posts of leopoldij 
Re. your last sentence:
Probably so, but one can't **** oneself being something. Things should come naturally!
By spermkiss at 25,Sep,15 20:53 other posts of spermkiss 
I'm presuming that the censored word is f-o-r-c-e. Let's continue this discussion in private.
By leopoldij at 26,Sep,15 06:43 other posts of leopoldij 
Indeed. But why on earth was the word censored? Whatever... I'll talk to you in private.
By spermkiss at 26,Sep,15 13:12 other posts of spermkiss 
It has something to do with SYD's credit card payment system for paying members. Certain relatively innocent words are censored while nasty words like "fuck" and "asshole" go right thru. Go figure.











By johnp at 26,Sep,15 13:19 other posts of johnp 
Arnt all the topics on the forum kinda pointless ??? Isn't that the point? 😆



By oldbugle at 25,Sep,15 14:57 other posts of oldbugle 
.....That's what i love about this site;....you may come here with the troubles of the world on your shoulders but you always leave laughing!......
By bella! at 25,Sep,15 16:03 other posts of bella! 
And TheUnicorn does like to provide us with our daily dose of smiles!



By bella! at 24,Sep,15 19:22 other posts of bella! 
Well, what about the flip side, what about the gay guys that won't interact with women or welcome a woman's comment on their pictures? Are they worried about becoming straight? You know there's some weird men out there.....
By leopoldij at 25,Sep,15 08:27 other posts of leopoldij 
There are men who don't like women's comments, there are women who don't like men's comments, there are men who don't like men's comments, and there are women who don't like women's comments. It would be nice if everyone was open, but that's not the case.
By bella! at 25,Sep,15 13:16 other posts of bella! 
I understand everything that you stated, but in the context of THIS thread, is that because they're concerned about becoming straight?


By palunko at 25,Sep,15 13:31 other posts of palunko 



By bella! at 22,Sep,15 15:27 other posts of bella! 
I'm curious, are those queer cooties airborne, transmitted by sharing the same eating utensils or are they in our drinking water?
By JustWill at 22,Sep,15 15:40 other posts of JustWill 
For the purposes of this discussion, it would seem that the cooties are transmitted visually.
By bella! at 22,Sep,15 15:58 other posts of bella! 
I bet the visual virtual queer cooties are quite difficult to treat, no?

By #396572 at 24,Sep,15 13:50
Uh-oh.....can i catch them just by looking at my computer screen? maybe i should wear a protective space-helmet?
By bella! at 24,Sep,15 18:57 other posts of bella! 
bigg, bigg, bigg...don't be daft! A space helmet will not do anything UNLESS, you have one of those gizmos that you flip down across your face, something like a welder would wear!



By sinanff47 at 23,Sep,15 22:28 other posts of sinanff47 
In many instances, those 'queer cooties' are transmitted through any kind of actual body contact, including hand shaking, shoulder bumping, etc. Best to keep to one's little cabin way out in the forest.



By horniperv at 24,Sep,15 08:40 other posts of horniperv 
Thats dumb. I mean I admit I can appreciate a nice cock but looking at pictures of other dudes dicks isnt gonna turn you gay. Yea I like dick once in a while but I dont look at guys the way I do girls. ... People are so insecure, phobic, ... ridiculous.





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