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Started by -Y-_DemonXer_-Y- at 14,Oct,18 02:41  other posts of -Y-_DemonXer_-Y-
Some of you might know me from the past, some of you may not. Some of you like me and i'm pretty sure some of you don't; or i'm just the sort of person that doesn't like the same things about this site as i do...and that's cool. Each to their own when it comes to what you actually do here.
However, we need to work together to do something to fix the dwindling member numbers on the site.
I'm an oldish member who comes and goes once in a while. Coming back, i was so glad to see all of the site stalwarts who keep this place we all love operating still here and still contributing to keep this site viable; some of the new features are awesome too...but, there is no reason why there should be only 20k members on the site - most of us have probably trialled other sites and realised that this is the place to be. It's warm, it's community-like, it's familiar to the point of even being nostalgic/sentimental to some of us, it's easy to use, there are tonnes of friends to talk to and it has even been improved by some of the extra features admin (and whomever may have advised him) has put in place.
Let's group together and think of ways to kick-start the membership levels increasing and maintain those member volume increases!
✊️✊️✊️SYC/SYD! Oi Oi Oi!

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By #562152 at 03,Nov,18 10:29
I still think that the site makes it too easy for non contributing members to continue free of charge. Maybe, kicking them out would kill the site, so,why not give them a week timeout to nudge them every 3 months

By #487013 at 18,Oct,18 09:48
LF you know I love you but that rant made my head hurt a bit.
By -Y-_DemonXer_-Y- at 19,Oct,18 05:55 other posts of -Y-_DemonXer_-Y- 
Kisses for your head, but there are 40 new members in the last 2 days

By -Y-_DemonXer_-Y- at 24,Oct,18 05:31 other posts of -Y-_DemonXer_-Y- 
Make that 70 in a week - still better than nothing
--------------------------------------- added after 75 hours hasn't returned to that 40 after 2 days from 80 up overnight. Shhhh! I'm sure it was just admin purging dummy accounts and dormant profiles - call me an optimist who is skeptical about most things

By #559941 at 18,Oct,18 19:08
The political schema of the site has favoritism. Lots of people here with power can do what they want with immunity while others face deletion. I respect the sovereignty on how the site is structured..
I agree oldies that were here before miss the old days and it was fun and we all came together as a group. Things change. Sometimes not for the good but what is suited for who runs the domain. It is clear what the intentions are which must be respected..
By -Y-_DemonXer_-Y- at 20,Oct,18 13:30 other posts of -Y-_DemonXer_-Y- 
I disagree with the old members getting priviliges, mate. It's just like anything in life - you get rewarded for your actions. Thst was a very well-written and valid point; but some of the most senior people on this site get smashed as much as the most junior. I've only been back for a wwek and i've already seen multiple recent posts where senior members get as big a "serving" as more junior members
By Skittles at 20,Oct,18 14:23 other posts of Skittles 
Some get smashed? Who needs to be smashed?
By -Y-_DemonXer_-Y- at 20,Oct,18 15:50 other posts of -Y-_DemonXer_-Y- 
Come on, old nemesis 😈. I've only been back a week though, so i don't qualify yet...and we've been all lame and bro-ish; but if people want entertainment

By bella! at 14,Oct,18 03:33 other posts of bella! 
Yes, there have been a number of changes made, some good, some questionable.

As for the dwindling membership, yes, membership has dropped but keep in mind there were things that factored into that and two reasons come to mind. Something to do with Google cracking down on the porn industry, so people looking for sites like this could no longer find them AND admin did some housekeeping. Yeah, he has set up the system to purge inactive profiles after 6 months.

I'm not going to harp on this issue HOWEVER we seem to still receive abuse referrals for lame reasons and what is even more lame, there are voting members that support the lame referrals.

Also, the site needs to receive financial support. It would wonderful to see more people providing financial support whether it be buying their membership or purchasing points. I know of no industry that can survive without cashflow.
By -Y-_DemonXer_-Y- at 14,Oct,18 05:14 other posts of -Y-_DemonXer_-Y- 
Totally agree, b!
I think the Google crackdown has eased since it first came in. I stopped watching porn for a while after that, but when i got back into it the other day - all of the major sites appeared if you typed their name in.
I'm not the sort of brain who knows anything about the internet or tech. The day after i re-registered a couple of days ago i typed "show your cock" (instead of "show your dick") into the search engine and the site was nowhere to be found (every other amateur site turned up). Whenever someone types show your tits/breasts/boobs/vagina/pussy/twat/beaver/love holes/body/dick/cock/dong/prick/donger/member/arse(ass)hole/homemade porn/amateur porn/p.r.i.v.a.t.e. photos (pics) etc etc etc - the site needs to turn up in the first 3-4 search items.
I think you are right, that requires money and those of us that buy memberships to get those procedures put in place...but admin could chuck some in too with the hopes of profits in the future?
There might be some members around that are able to spread the site around to their real or social media friends - but i reckon 99% of us would rather our friends didn't know that we participated in sites like this. Careers/jobs/families/people in the closet/straight women&men (telling their straight or bi or gay friends and the possible implications that may arise from that)/people with partners/friends in general/etc etc etc again.
We can do this though, b! - don't be defeatist - we're awesome (:!!!--------------------------------------- added after 18 minutes

I remember 2 or 3 years ago i was searching porn on XHamster and a pop-up ad for one of those scam penis enlargement pills blasted me in the face. I gave it a slight glance, and i was like, fucking hell "that's my little American bro from another mother" - it was blatantly a stolen picture of the original MAJOR. They're stealing our shit, let's advertise there (XHam might be a bit pricey - but one of the smaller free sites...). I can imagine a tonne of bored gals/guys that are sick of searching for porn that they actually like going "fuck this, i'm going to try this site out - it looks fun and i get to put my own stuff on it and maybe have a human say hello to me or show me some gratification." The add would have to be super non-intrusive whilst being alluring though
By #568737 at 14,Oct,18 09:50
Xhamster must be one of SYDís biggest competitors. You can arrange your pictures in galleries. Iíve noticed pics donít stay on the XH front page long so there must be a lot of posts to give a fast turnover.

By #562152 at 14,Oct,18 11:40
And I still say the abuse referrals system is something we don't need. Admin should find a different way to handle them.
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I also think free accounts should have a time limitation of 6 months, then they have to be full members or make a points purchase every 3 months
By cody8789 at 19,Oct,18 03:14 other posts of cody8789 
That would kill this site even faster
By #562152 at 19,Oct,18 08:07
Maybe, but, it could be tried and, if it doesn't work, go back to the present way. The site is going down. Can you say why?
By -Y-_DemonXer_-Y- at 19,Oct,18 09:59 other posts of -Y-_DemonXer_-Y- 
We've actually seen a 45 member rise in 2 days. I understand if some of y''all don't know me; i may be a newby on this account, but i'm not a newby to this site. Sustain that growth and it's 7,000+ new members (on nearly 22,000 at present) a year. I remember the days when it was a lot more than double that.
Let's just keep it exciting to prospective members! We all know it's fun even after Googlef'd us, we can get it back to what it was prior! F'n TEAMWORK, people!!! Fun, fighting, fam, good pictures, good arguments, interesting posts, kinky stuff,...all of the above and more

By cody8789 at 19,Oct,18 20:39 other posts of cody8789 
First of all, if non paying members were booted out after six months, 75% or more of the members would be gone. You won't be getting most of those members back. Too much fighting going on. My opinion on fake accounts, leave them alone, their not hurting anyone. Some members like looking at sexy people. Also, admin should come up with another easy way to buy points or memberships other than using credit cards which I lost one of mine because I was cancelled for using buying points with it. If there's smother way of going to Walmart and buying a money card which I'm not familiar with, it should be posted to members on how to buy memberships and buying points. Second, make a lower cost membership with less power for less money so members that don't have a lot of money can buy a lower grade membership. If anyone can tell me how to spend money without using a credit card or whatever bit points are, I don't know, please let me know, I would luv to spend money to help out this site. Admin needs to come up with new ways we can spend money. Anyway,twowarmths, don't ask me anymore questions on how I can improve this site, ask admin, just my opinion.
By bella! at 19,Oct,18 21:16 other posts of bella! 
I'm not sure if I mentioned this before, if I did, I apologize....I made a suggestion to admin that he have a "sale". So many industries offer a limited time, reduced cost trial of whatever they offer. Have a trial offer for a premium paid membershipd at a reduced cost, same thing for diamond membership. And maybe try a sale on points, rather than $ 14.95 USD for 1,000 points, try a blowout sale of $ 9.95.
By cody8789 at 19,Oct,18 21:20 other posts of cody8789 
Bella, my problem is, I can't get any members to tell me of an easy way to buy a membership or points. Can I use a prepaid visa, or what. Maybe you can help me out, I would luv to be a paying member without losing another credit card for using it on a site like this.
By bella! at 19,Oct,18 21:23 other posts of bella! 
I thought someone posted that there was a glitch with prepaid cards.

By admin at 19,Oct,18 22:00 other posts of admin 
There is no telling for sure, prepaid cards are different. Some work, some don't. You can't know until you try.

I can't come up with "other ways", it's regulated and there are no many options for adult sites, all major payment systems like PayPal do not allow them. If this was not an adult site it would be much easier.

As far as I understand the current payment processor allows to pay from US checking account directly, but it does not mean your bank will allow it.

By #562152 at 20,Oct,18 10:12
You can use a prepaid visa card. Many can be loaded at a national drugstore. Money lending businesses can set you up with one too
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My bank, BB&T, lets you use debit card for site payment

By -Y-_DemonXer_-Y- at 20,Oct,18 13:25 other posts of -Y-_DemonXer_-Y- 
Mate, it doesn't show up as anything that resembles a porn site on your banking record. You're all good if you have a credit card. No one can tell it's from a porn-related site. It's cheap as too and it helps the site. I've only been back a wedk but have seen that you contribute. Less than $20 a month is a bargain for helping keep this place kicking

By #562152 at 20,Oct,18 12:43
I like your suggestion. Also, maybe lower yearly cost.

By PoloFields at 19,Oct,18 00:49 other posts of PoloFields 
Don't know if current management set it up, but there is a third entryway,, for those reluctant to share syd or syc.

By -Y-_DemonXer_-Y- at 18,Oct,18 06:32 other posts of -Y-_DemonXer_-Y- 
Yeah, it has has grown, a bit. Come on new members, you're all welcome!!!
We don't bite as hard as we bark, actually some of us do - but it's all good fun

By -Y-_DemonXer_-Y- at 14,Oct,18 08:23 other posts of -Y-_DemonXer_-Y- 
Come on people, get your dick out of your hand and your vibe off your G for a second and get involved!
By Skittles at 15,Oct,18 20:28 other posts of Skittles 
I am already a paid member, not running a charity here mate
By -Y-_DemonXer_-Y- at 18,Oct,18 06:31 other posts of -Y-_DemonXer_-Y- 
Give me all your money, Skits!

By Dev01 at 14,Oct,18 04:42 other posts of Dev01 
Fuck changes you have my address and feel free bro to pop or stay awhile
By -Y-_DemonXer_-Y- at 14,Oct,18 04:52 other posts of -Y-_DemonXer_-Y- 
For shiz, bruz !
I just want to see this site prosper like it should though, mate - no other site's really like it

By Skittles at 15,Oct,18 16:29 other posts of Skittles 

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