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Started by #166567 at 01,Jun,11 03:08
My BF and I fuck a lot - really A LOT - but in the middle of the night I find him jerking off - when I offer to suck or fuck - he pushes me off saying he just needs to get off quick.. what gives?

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By weluvswinging69 at 03,Aug,18 10:40 other posts of weluvswinging69 
I love fucking my wife like nobody's business but it's easier to jerk off and fall back asleep, less effort LOL.

By Tm1234bb at 02,Aug,18 19:22 other posts of Tm1234bb 
I will wake up early,go downstairs and masturbate to porn,instead of trying to fuck my wife.I know I can get her to fuck me,but I rather jerk off.Every once in awhile will fuck her to keep her satisfied.She will also give me a handjob and when her hand gets tired,she tells me to take over.She'll watch as I Jerk myself ,then she'll squeeze my balls as I stroke my Cock.Only rule ,she likes to make it cum,and will finish me off.
By bil47 at 02,Aug,18 19:45 other posts of bil47 
Sounds a lot like my marriage! She'd rather jack me off than fuck. These days I actually prefer an edging self-masturbation session over fucking or a handjob. I definitely enjoy having my wife watch while I jerk off.

By cody8789 at 02,Aug,18 14:33 other posts of cody8789 
Jerking is an alternative to fucking, since it's so hard to find a girl that wants to fuck every night
By onthelose at 02,Aug,18 14:51 other posts of onthelose 
Cody you would think that men would be the viable alternative but unfortunately that's just not the case. Men are just as hard to get as women. That is if you aren't willing to be a cum dump, which is what most men want. Women find that out early.

By onthelose at 02,Aug,18 14:36 other posts of onthelose 
Just like everything in life to much of a good thing becomes routine . I've never been in that situation so I cant say How I would react to my wife offering to help me cum. I have a friend who is in a similar position. He regularly turns down sex with his wife because he says its just to much work and very time consuming. I always tell him its worth the effort, if for no other reason, than keeping her from looking for someone who has time for her, see it all the time. Then the guy says to her why did you cheat? Completely oblivious to how she feels.

By #539358 at 26,Jul,18 13:11
Id rather jerk someone else off. Nothing beats feeling their cock throb and pulse as it releases its fresh lovely smelling cum
By tb1 at 02,Aug,18 13:57 other posts of tb1 
Feels good alright

By Mazinga at 02,Aug,18 11:33 other posts of Mazinga 
I rarely enjoy fucking... the guy would have to be
so super hot my type for me to enjoy sex with him.

I'm more inclined to masturbate, I can edge myself
for hours while holding back my load; and just revel
in my own pleasure threshold until I finally break it
and release my load.

In my adult lifetime experience, I've only had one
buddy who enjoyed sucking and edging me for a few hours
until I ejaculated. That was all he wanted with me,
and I never complained about it; I Loved it!
Too bad that buddy relationship was short-lived
for almost two years.

I often respond to ads on Doublelist, only to learn
that the partner just wants to get fucked right away.
I have needs, too; but lately I get hits from
total bottoms who are "Me Me Me". Fuck that shyit!
I'm not a "Me" person, I'm a WE person.
If WE don't click, then it's just Me and MY Dick.

By yellowman at 26,Jul,18 11:57 other posts of yellowman 
I much prefer to masturbate. I am a masturbator so I really love those nice long edging sessions until I can hold off no longer.
By Mazinga at 02,Aug,18 11:22 other posts of Mazinga 
Ditto. Same here!

By cruz69696969 at 02,Aug,18 07:43 other posts of cruz69696969 
No, but we do prefer a blow job to all of the above

By #562567 at 20,Jul,18 09:23
I prefer to fuck than to masturbate.

By bil47 at 13,Mar,18 08:04 other posts of bil47 
Self-masturbation can take two forms that are quite different from each other. One is a "quicky", when a guy just wants an immediate-gratification orgasm. The other is "edging", when the guy floats on the verge of cumming for an extended period.

A partner can easily do the first type effectively. The second is much more difficult - if not impossible - for a partner to do as effectively as the guy can do for himself.

By kebmo at 13,Mar,18 06:59 other posts of kebmo 
My hand has NEVER said no!

By anyfun at 13,Mar,18 06:56 other posts of anyfun 
Fucking every time for me. Jacking is when I've no one to slide into

By mikeyd270 at 03,Jun,11 01:59 other posts of mikeyd270 
Personally I only jerk off when I have no other options.
By phart at 11,Mar,18 23:11 other posts of phart 
When there is something there warm and willing, poke it!

By #545800 at 11,Mar,18 13:13
Myself and wife don't fuck anymore so my right hand is my friend

By nekekal at 06,Mar,18 13:13 other posts of nekekal 
Guy is crazy. Admittedly, women are lousy at doing hand jobs. But jacking off is really just relief. I would much rather have my cock in a woman, than Jack off beside one. If she would volunteer to suck or fuck, my cock is all hers. I would even let her do the band job and enjoy spraying cum all over it she wants. A woman and my cock is all good.

By lawrenceo at 05,Mar,18 03:38 other posts of lawrenceo 
Sometimes there is no choice; especially at my age.........

By BushPilot at 03,Jun,11 18:46 other posts of BushPilot 
I enjoy fucking my wife most of all. I also enjoy her masturbating my cock. We enjoy mutual masturbation as foreplay and on occasion, I like to jerk myself off.

Insofar as your BF pushing you away when he's jerking off, well, in a word, he's nuts. I'd far rather have you do the deed or push my penis in your soft pussy to cum.

However, there are times when no one knows how to jerk a man's cock off better than he. So don't be offended when he wants to jack off himself. I'd suggest you lay next to him and masturbate yourself while enjoying watching him do the same.

Great question by the way. And your a beautiful woman too.

By slipper at 02,Jun,11 00:37 other posts of slipper 
Sometimes the hand rules!!! It's what most guys first learn with and always holds a special place in their hards (er uh, I mean "hearts")

By WristThick at 01,Jun,11 20:42 other posts of WristThick 
I do this sometimes when I'm super horny and your bf may do it for the same reason. It's nothing personal. I've even jerked off after having my way with two girls. Why? Because after they were all fucked out I was still horny and needed to cum one more time. Honestly, don't worry about it. Just offer to suck him off or lick his balls and taint while he's jerking off. It's the least you can do

By pifad at 01,Jun,11 15:28 other posts of pifad 
I have to agree 100% with skinnymofo. Sometimes we just need ourselves.

By #147052 at 01,Jun,11 10:35
I'd get a new model

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