my wife asked me to quit mastrubating. is that normal

By PITBULL at 05,Sep,22 13:11 other posts of PITBULL

If you have a good sexual relationship with your wife I think is normal. Nothing better to enjoy the pleasure of sex with your wife than if she suspects that your ejaculation during sex with her has changed. Your wife looks like she wants to enjoy all your semen in her vagina, and if you masturbate she finds it unfair.

By LGA6969 at 05,Sep,22 13:06 other posts of LGA6969

I say its healthy to have a good ejaculation.

By Ananas2xLekker at 05,Sep,22 08:36 other posts of Ananas2xLekker

It's just a question of health. Men need regular release or there is an increased risk
of prostate cancer and testicular cancer. So either your wife or girlfriend provides
regular release or she should allow and even encourage you to masturbate regularly.
She doesn't want you dead, I hope. Maybe ask her that.

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Couldn't find anything about testicular cancer, but I know I heard it somewhere.
There is an increased risk for prostate cancer from vasectomies.
Important, now that more men get vasectomies because of the abortion ban.

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By abhisig at 05,Sep,22 07:31 other posts of abhisig

that's true no girl would like that her love shoild masturbate in front of her. when pussy is readly availabe why should one masturbate.

By #275407 at 05,Sep,22 07:04

Never been married. But with all the girlfriends I've had, I've never once masterbated in front of them. Maybe because they were always wanting sex when I needed it, but also I've always respected them in a way to not masterbate in front of them if I ever needed to. I don't think most girls want to see that. There feelings of masterbating is a private matter and feel it should be kept to yourself. Opinions on just the girls I've been with.

By nekekal at 05,Sep,22 05:49 other posts of nekekal

My wife once ask me to not masturbate in front of her as she felt bad. I said fuck it. She said that I should masturbate, just not where she can see it. It made her feel inadequate. I told her she was inadequate. Now, she just doesn't watch.

By #662360 at 03,Sep,22 06:57

I think my wife mildly disapproves of me masturbating but recognises I need to. Sometimes in bed together I’m up rock hard but she’s not in the mood. I ask her to “put your hand on my thigh” which is our message for “I need to wank”. As I lay back with my legs spread and tug my cock off she snuggles next to me and gently caresses my balls, my arse and my inner thigh tops in a way that strains my dick even harder. I run my spare hand over her naked body. I sometimes edge but usually wank straight through without restraining my grunting and thrusting till I shoot over my belly. Being a tidy woman she then hands me a tissue to clean up!

By stroker11 at 12,Sep,13 12:54 other posts of stroker11

Her asking is normal, but quitting is not normal.....keep stroking!

By #389093 at 11,Sep,13 22:18

yes is normal to see my wife when i cuming she is excite my masturbing

By #354961 at 18,Aug,13 13:07

Does she take care of your toy at list once per day? No? Than is not normal, it's selfish.

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By Walker at 23,Aug,13 14:42 other posts of Walker

Yah, that's what I want to know, does she feel like she is missing out? Do you say sorry honey I just shot my load you are going to have to wait for a fuck. Humm... I think not. I got that demand ones at a cookout with a group of friends. I replied OK if we fuck everyday. Her friend's eyes went wide, everyday. She shut up after that. I then tried to fuck her in the morning and at night. She told me to go back to masturbating.

Jack on

By CreativeOne at 10,Aug,13 00:50 other posts of CreativeOne

Awwwwwwe ... That's Too bad "raidermab"

Hope you find time to take care of yourself , otherwise !!!

By #414941 at 15,Aug,13 11:34

thanks

By CreativeOne at 23,Aug,13 08:09 other posts of CreativeOne

Oh , for sure ... you are very welcome and my pleasure !

By spermkiss at 14,Aug,13 00:51 other posts of spermkiss

Tell her to take a hike! Masturbation is healthy and normal and it should be part of every man's sexual repertoire, even men who have regular partnered sex. A man can dearly love his wife or partner, but he should also love himself. What better way to love himself than to bring himself to climax from time to time.

By #414941 at 14,Aug,13 22:01

good advice i'll tell her to take a hike and me and my hand will be happy on the couch and never get her pussy again.

By spermkiss at 20,Aug,13 15:26 other posts of spermkiss

To elaborate on what I said earlier, your dick and your hand are part of YOUR body. You have the right to do whatever you want with your own body. No one has the right to tell you not to masturbate. Not your wife, not your family, not your priest, minister or rabbi NO ONE. A woman who would say this to her husband sounds like a manipulative, controlling bitch. You should tell her in no uncertain terms that making a demand like this on you is a good way to make your love your dick and your hand more than you love her.

By #7976 at 05,Aug,13 21:04

Whether it's normal or not will depend on who you ask and their particular point of view. You have to ask her what her reasoning is. Is it because she thinks masturbation is immoral, ****, or just plane dirty? Is it because she thinks your wasting sperm that could be making babies? Is it because she has a religious view that opposes masturbation? Is it because she married you and thinks that all your sperm is rightfully hers and she wants every drop for her own enjoyment. Or, does she feel that masturbation is a form of cheating and that sex with her is the only type of sex that the two of you should engage in.

As for you, why do you masturbate? Just because it feels good. Because she doesn't give you enough sex? Or perhaps, you've been masturbating all your life and just like the way it feels.

Ask her why she's opposed to your jacking off. Some of the reasons listed above are going to hard to get around but you'll at least have some information to work with. If you just need the release tell her that if she doesn't want you jacking off then you'll pull out your cock when your horny and she can masturbate for you.

I've been married to two women and have had many lovers and none of them has ever asked me to stop masturbating. Since my wife and I have different sexual need levels, she actually tells me to go jerk off and have a good time. Sometimes, we simply go to a private place and either jerk off together or masturbate each other. Both are fun and satisfying.

Good luck solving your dilemma.

By #315550 at 02,Aug,13 17:49

From the perspective of a female, I see no problem with it as long as it doesn't interfere with your sex life or performance. However, from what I read it sounds to me like she doesn't want more sex from you, it sounds like she wants you to be backed up and in turn cumming faster, thus ending sex sooner. My advice to you would be to keep right on fucking her after you cum the first time and explain later that since you are no longer jacking off you have more cum "reserved" and need that extra long fuck session to get a second orgasm. If I am right and she just wants it over with she will soon tell you that she is OK with you jacking off.

By #414941 at 02,Aug,13 23:59

that sounds like fun. i'll have to try that

By #23212 at 04,Aug,13 20:50

It "sounds like fun" to you to be basically told your wife doesn't really enjoy sex with you?? I realize that you're in SLC, but are you really that naive? Get some counseling, and NOT from a 'church' counselor.

By #285354 at 02,Aug,13 18:28

Your wife wants to believe that she can totally satisfy your needs. That's natural. It's also natural for the male to want to have sex more frequently than the female. I guest the best thing to do is enjoy your masturbation in private.

By botanic at 01,Aug,13 16:05 other posts of botanic

Did you ask her why ? Do you always do as you are told ? Do you still wank in **** ?

By boc at 01,Aug,13 06:48 other posts of boc

OMG is that a masonry bit you have inserted into your urethra? Was that your wife's idea? Was she preparing you for one of those old catheters?

That hurts just looking at it.

By boc at 01,Aug,13 05:51 other posts of boc

Here is what you need to tell her:

"Pheremones from a female partner actually increase sperm production for a man. So since you **** in the same bed with her (you do, right?), then she needs to be a little more understanding of how you need to release the boys more often."

By boc at 01,Aug,13 05:36 other posts of boc

Maybe you should ask her to jack it for you then, I don't know.

By #316255 at 31,Jul,13 16:59

What's her reason. If my husband asked me to stop I'd laugh.

By boc at 01,Aug,13 05:35 other posts of boc

A man would either have to be stupid or gay to ask his gf/wife to stop masturbating. If I was your husband, I would ask you if I could sit in (just watch - maybe a quick cop feel of your ass, leg, elbow... while you were cumming) on a couple of your sessions.

By bigone21 at 31,Jul,13 21:16 other posts of bigone21

fill us in if you ask this question in this forum..!

are you at it all day? is she missing something you don't give her anymore because you are playing willy and the handjive? what is the problem?

i know i have to masturbate everyday, my bf doesn't mind.

By DeepThroatThis at 31,Jul,13 20:08 other posts of DeepThroatThis

It's healthy to clean the pipes regularily

By #136427 at 31,Jul,13 19:53

Id stop if she started gobbling once a day...

By #593 at 31,Jul,13 13:52

If you're satisfying her while satisfying yourself what's the problem!! Bonding with your cock is sooo important!

my wife asked me to quit mastrubating. is that normal

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