Spoken with hundreds of guys and perhaps twenty women on this site over the last few years. 50% of the guys never respond 99.9 % of the women never respond to a simple hello About 75% of the guys respond answer a question and leave after a few minutes then come back an hour later and answer another question the gone again every 5 minutes or less. Your both chatting away trading pictures and again gone before you either get hard. Less than 2% are reliable make an effort to respond within seconds or a minute, are polite and continue the conversation until you both are satisfied . If if remember correct this is a SEX SITE. Your here to jerk together have fun call each other and make an effort to stay in contact. I have banned hundreds for wasting my time. LIFE IS SHORT ! If you going to be a flake don,t waste my time or others. Most flakes don,t tend to last more than a few months here and they are easy to spot within a few minutes. If you are reliable i thank you. FLAKES