Started by Blade at 25,Aug,18 04:21 other posts of Blade
 | Does prolonged anal sex affect the Sphincter? Does it damage this area?
I'm asking because this topic came up, and we wondered if people who have anal sex for a while, such as a gay male, do they have issues later on with incontinence? In other words, is the ass of someone who never had anal sex basically the same as someone who has it all the time? Or does that cause issues with your ass over time? |
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I get totally addicted after my first try and passed months with anal sex with hours every day. Haven't any inconvenience. I can well relax my sphincter and accommodate each cock without problems.
The next day my anus is very loose and wiping is an issue when your hands slips too deep and you need more moist tissues than normal for clean up! It settles back a few days later and my anus re-tightens.
But the trained anus has memory and easily re-opens each time, gradually taking deeper and wider with practice...
Moving on to industrial grade anal penetration. And I do mean fisting. Full disclosure: I have fisted a guy, almost to my elbow. I did it because he wanted me to, not because I wanted it. It did satisfy a certain intellectual curiosity I had about what it would be like to put my hand, wrist and most of my forearm up a guy's ass, but I didn't find it especially erotic. After I took out my hand, I put my dick in. One might think that this asshole would be so loose it would be like fucking an open window. But no, this guy had amazing anal control. He could open his ass to take a fist and then close it up around a dick to give his fucker a damn good fuck.
But I did wonder what happens later in life to guys who regularly get fisted. Apparently nothing. Sex advice columnist Dan Savage addressed this topic in his column "Savage Love" a few months ago. Proctologists he consulted claimed there was no real damage from this practice.
Since you're asking this question, I'm guessing you want to take it in the ass. If this is something you want, go for it and don't worry.
And I did wonder what the long term effects might be. For months I considered writing Dan Savage a letter with this question myself but I never got around to it. And then a letter from someone else with this very question popped up in his column. So good old Dan consulted with experts on assholes, proctologists, for his answer.
If you're not familiar with Dan Savage and his column "Savage Love", I recommend it without reservation. I stumbled upon it in a weekly tabloid almost on the day he began writing it more than twenty years ago. I now read it on the internet. Here's a little tidbit for you: He writes his column at Ann Landers's desk. After she passed away and her belongings were being auctioned off, he bought her desk. As he put it at the time, I grew up reading her column and I just had to have her desk. Well, so did I, Dan.
Returning one more time to Dan Savage and "Savage Love", that column is a font of knowledge on things sexual. A lot of what I know I learned there. How 'bout writing him a letter and asking him?
The house trailer had a general nasty, shit smell.
But they put on mask and went on with their work.
All went ok with the cleaning out until they got to the spare bedroom.Now bear in mind this guy lived there for 3 years,the trailer was 3 years old.The guy tossed the landowner the title to the trailer and said merry Christmas. When they opened the door to the spare room it was over 2 foot deep in dirty BVD"S and fruit of the loom underware. They were shit stained. The landowner was intending to clean the trailer out and rent it out.The fire department got it for a practice burn. So did he have a problem with health or just had a wore out ass,who knows,but his mechanic said the car seat was stained Terriably.
If his rump was that nasty, I can't imagine how nasty the other guy was that wanted it so bad!
Another sex advice columnist (alas, I do not remember her name) discussed this in her column. She said that the shit lessons were the most difficult part of her sexology training. The educational photos the lecturer was showing were positively disgusting. Advice she gave to those into shit was smear it on your skin if you must, but don't eat. (But some do.)
The original poster as well as spermkiss are discussing whether it is possible for the sphincter muscle to be stretched to the point of it being useless. What you are talking about is a mental health disorder, hoarding. Hoarding is not specific to big, fat gay guys, it can be a problem with slim, petite straight women as well.
I sometimes play, alone, with toys, and over the years I find it has helped, rather than hurt.
Something like working out, a muscle, and it gets stronger.
Some research supports this, but I don't have those links just now. Google it!