Have you ever told someone you know that you are on this site?

By #581412 at 22,Jun,19 18:36

2 of the guys I know suggested I chat here so I can met and see other people and to give them my Moms email address I didnt do the email

By #442079 at 22,Jun,19 22:33

By #64328 at 21,Jun,19 15:07

I e told a couple friends about it. I always hope they would create a profile so I could anonymously read their posts, polls and maybe have an anonymous chat. Has anyone else ever anonymously chatted with some on they knew? I did and it was hot knowing such private details that he would never talk about in person.

By #442079 at 22,Jun,19 13:23

That would be hot!

By #64328 at 22,Jun,19 16:01

I think so too

it would be cool knowing almost all guys have secrets

By #536913 at 21,Jun,19 15:11

Not exactly. I did once think someone I knew was on this site and asked if we knew each other, and there was a moment when we both thought it was true, which would have been pretty bad because it would have meant some very bad things for the both of us. Luckily, he turned out to be some other teacher in another place.

By #442079 at 22,Jun,19 13:23

By #522126 at 18,Jun,19 21:58

Yes! Why not? It's good fun being on here.

By #442079 at 19,Jun,19 20:28

By #591921 at 18,Jun,19 04:07

I havent yet but do have one little special lady friend I think I'm going to tell and hope she joins too just to get a peek whenever she wants without me knowing

By #442079 at 18,Jun,19 12:54

That sounds hot!

By Toasty at 16,Jun,19 23:35 other posts of Toasty

No.

By #442079 at 17,Jun,19 13:11

Me neither...

By #423426 at 17,Jun,19 07:31

Yes, I told a porn loving work mate a few years ago. I didn't tell him my username,but Im sure he'll have found us as I've stopped hiding/cropping my face in pics since then.

By #442079 at 17,Jun,19 13:10

By #533032 at 16,Jun,19 07:05

I've told all my friends about this site and what I do...I have no secrets...I'll even show them if they're are curious about it....but I have to say my friends are very tolerant and open minded.

By #442079 at 16,Jun,19 07:10

Wish I had friends like that!

By #533032 at 17,Jun,19 09:42

Yeah I'm very lucky....but I don't give them much choice since I always talk about it...

By #442079 at 17,Jun,19 13:09

By up-for-it at 13,Jun,19 18:58 other posts of up-for-it

Yes i have!
This site is so important to me that i have told people about it

By #442079 at 13,Jun,19 20:45

That is cool, I respect that!

By leopoldij at 14,Jun,19 19:29 other posts of leopoldij

Why is it so important for you?

By up-for-it at 15,Jun,19 06:51 other posts of up-for-it

Since i am on here i made a lot of changes in my life, started doing many new things met new people, on and offline.

Reading the blogs and comments on pictures and PM's have showed me there re others in the same situation

I needed to do something with my feelings for men, this site and mostly the people on here have showed me what and how to do it, given encouragement when i doubted.

I wouldn't be having the fun i am having now without this site!

By leopoldij at 15,Jun,19 11:06 other posts of leopoldij

You mean... you were reserved before ?
Why? Did you have doubts about you liking men?

By up-for-it at 15,Jun,19 12:58 other posts of up-for-it

Very reserved and shy!
Had you told me 2 years ago i would visit a gay sauna and enjoy myself with men there, i would have said you were crazy

I knew i liked men, never thought anything would ever happen.

By leopoldij at 15,Jun,19 17:04 other posts of leopoldij

But now you feel much more free, right?
Can you go to a men's sauna and enjoy it?

I used to be very reserved too when I was younger.
I've always had a HUGE libido. But I couldn't approach girls. I missed so many opportunities because I thought I was worse than others. I'm trying to make up for the lost time now.

We grow up in societies that repress us,
so much so that we don't understand that
what's normal shouldn't be suppressed.

By up-for-it at 16,Jun,19 09:10 other posts of up-for-it

Yes i totally enjoy the men's sauna now,being naked and surrounded by naked guys fels good now!

I missed so much too, being shy and reserved, at times i still find it difficult to approach someone and i'll wait untill they give me a signal they are interested

I had to push myself a little, but i am glad i did!

By leopoldij at 16,Jun,19 09:21 other posts of leopoldij

I'm glad you did too.
It's really sad that this society makes us think positively about destructive things (wars, nationalism, etc.) and negatively about pleasure, especially pleasure that benefits those indulging in it.

You're lucky you can go to an all men's sauna and enjoy it. I can't do the same with a mixer sauna (I only like girls). So, for me, and, in general, most of heterosexuals, finding themselves in the company of many naked women remains an unfulfilled dream. Older, mostly pre Christian societies, knew that this was something people should experience in their lives and had no qualms about restricting it.

So, count your blessings that you're homosexuality inclined and that this gives you the opportunity to enjoy yourself, especially now that you've convinced yourself that you do nothing wrong by being in the company of similarly minded men. Sorry I'm not one of them, but I fully support you.

By up-for-it at 16,Jun,19 09:39 other posts of up-for-it

Don't be sorry, you're still a great guy!

I always appreciate your comments!

Wish we could for a drink,sure we would have lots to talk about!

By leopoldij at 16,Jun,19 10:08 other posts of leopoldij

I, too, think I'm a nice guy, despite the fact that I'm being attacked by morons here simply because I like to fuck and show and watch. The drink is in me man, a nice cold beer while we're enjoying a warm summer evening.

By #578610 at 15,Jun,19 21:30

YES, WetNoodle

By #442079 at 16,Jun,19 06:01

By #537175 at 14,Jun,19 22:52

yes my boyfriend

By #442079 at 14,Jun,19 23:06

By thickswingercock at 14,Jun,19 21:10 other posts of thickswingercock

all of the women in my photos know im on this site

By #442079 at 14,Jun,19 22:15

Nice!

By 2nice at 13,Jun,19 20:50 other posts of 2nice

I told five people I know.

By furluvr at 12,Jun,19 23:09 other posts of furluvr

I’m sure I have, but it was a while ago, and I sure as hell don’t remember who it was.

By #442079 at 13,Jun,19 20:44

By wycowboy at 13,Jun,19 13:26 other posts of wycowboy

I haven't told anyone and if someone I know sees or discovers me here I don't care.

By #442079 at 13,Jun,19 18:05

Me too!

By #556187 at 13,Jun,19 14:07

Except my girlfriend, no

By #442079 at 13,Jun,19 18:04

Even my girlfriend does not know Im here!

By #551147 at 12,Jun,19 23:06

No... But I might if it were the right person. 😉

By #442079 at 13,Jun,19 13:01

That is what I think too!

By #551147 at 13,Jun,19 16:40

By onthelose at 12,Jun,19 21:10 other posts of onthelose

My thinking is , that if someone I know sees me here and says something to me about it , I would just say what were you doing on this sight if you are so pure??? Of course I don't know many people and because I am retired don't meet many new people , so I am not worried if they see me here.

Have you ever told someone you know that you are on this site?

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