It is truly a moral dilemma.

My "vote" is that you continue to fantasize, no harm, no foul.

It’s your call, man. My decision was to not be unfaithful; I waited until I was unattached to retry M2M. It worked ok. I’m glad I waited.

Don't worry about what others do or say. As long as you are willing to deal with the consequences if your wife finds out.

As for me, I would do it and have done it. I have been with multiple women since being married, 2 were affairs. The sex is amazing. Especially, when you come home and fuck your wife after you fucked your side piece. I had my dick sucked by a guy before I got married and would arrange meetups to get my dick sucked when I got the urge. Then I started to open up to playing with another guy. I wanted to try more than just me getting sucked. I enjoy the societal taboo of 2 guys pleasuring each other, I like the rush of sneaking around and cheating, whether it's with a woman or a man. There's just something about having a hard cock in your mouth. I want what I can't get from my wife, a hard dick and cum. The rush from kissing my wife after draining every drop of cum from a hard cock is unbelievable.

To me, sex is sex. It's physical pleasure and I want to enjoy as much pleasure as possible.

Would it help if I did you and your wife at the same time.

You’re gay. And chances are your wife knows too. There’s no such thing as bi. Maybe curious but if you love cock you’ve always lived cock and are possible in denial about your sexuality.

Just come out of the closet. I’m sure your wife wouldn’t appreciate you keeping her around like a fruit fly.

I recommend you learn how to fucking spell

Your profile says bi and it says you looking for dicks to suck. Sounds like you already made your choice!

If you have gay sex, there’s no turning back and you will lose your wife.

..just my opinion but if you do not follow through with this while you have the perfect opportunity, you'll regret that you didn't. You said you did a little after being married so you've already kind of cheated on your wife. I say take a chance.. go for it.. you will love it!

Hubby here. The best thing I ever did was to introduce my wife to MMF sex. In this way, we BOTH get to enjoy a little bit of cock once in a while. Unfortunatelly, not ALL women are into this, so you have to tread realy carefully when approaching this subject. Best of luck buddy

Consider this: two guys hanging out and doing things together is not suspicious. You could be watching sports, playing video games, or…..

See where I’m going here?

Hanging out with a woman who is not your wife can be very suspicious, however. But, two buddies hanging out? Not many people will bat an eye at that.

As for me, if I had the opportunity to “hang out” with a very good friend (someone I know, like, and trust), I’d be all over that like ugly on an ape. I don’t see it as cheating. I see it as two friends sharing a common interest: the love of dick.

Doinking a woman who is not your wife is cheating, one hundred per cent. There is no argument there. But, jacking off your buddy and sucking his dick? That’s not cheating, by any means, as far as I am concerned. That’s two guys doing something fun together.

It just happens to involve cock.

I have the same dilemma but I am not married.

In life, I regret the things I didn't do, more than regretting the things I did do. Trying new things won't make you gay.

NO. Stay with the pussy. You jeopardize losing the pussy if you do not listen. Is it worth it? This should be the question you ask yourself.

Keep the fantasy alive.

It sounds like you have a happy marriage. Just bear in mind how rare that is and how lucky you are. Because it's obviously important to you, I'd just keep with the fantasies, and don't tell her about anything.