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Started by admin at 26,Mar,09 16:31  other posts of admin
I do not restrict posting e-mails or phone numbers on this site except on the root page. It's pointless anyway - if you want to post e-mail you will do this in one form or another, no matter what filters I install here. Software is not yet intelligent enough.

However you must understand the consequences. Many members seem to be very naive. I see from time to time how they give away their private info to total strangers (anonymouses) in the public chat, not speaking about other members they also know very few about.

Internet is full of scam.

When you give away your e-mail address or phone number to someone you do not know well - be ready to receive tons of spam. And this is actually most harmless what can happen.

Talking about worse: you may be lured into some fraudulent scheme, ripping you off for money, you may be blackmailed, you may be embarrassed in front of your family, friends or work colleagues.

Apparently many members do not even understand, that when they write something on public pages of this very site it may come up later in google/yahoo searches. How would you like a situation, when someone (like your boss or business partner) looks up your work e-mail that you for some stupid reason wrote on your page here and finds your dicks pics?

Same with giving away your private pics (like the pics of your face, house with a visible address, family, car with a visible plate) to the people you do not know well - you never know what that person can do with them. For example: he/she can come to your local city forums and post those pics along with some information about you (or simply your nude pics you never meant your neighbors to see) and that could ruin your life.

Especially beware of the members who post fakes from the internet instead of their own pics. A person who uses fakes is dishonest by default and thus unreliable and unpredictable by default.


Most stupid thing I've seen here: a member giving off his e-mail in public chat to anonymous, who claimed to be underage, in order to exchange pics over e-mail with him. Do you understand how stupid this is? Underage pics are illegal in most of western countries, you can go to jail just for having them on hard disc of your PC. Sexual affairs with underage person is also often a crime. And you can never know who is on that side - just some ordinary fellow, a police agent or a potential blackmailer. And you cannot hide from law enforcement units behind the internet, once they know your IP, and they know it at the very moment you send them e-mail or enter msn or some other video chat with them, they can find you.

I should not protect those who deserve to go to prison and I do not protect them. But apparently many people simply to not understand that what they are doing may be a crime.

Now a conclusion. I strongly recommend all members of this site:

1. to do not post their e-mails and phone numbers openly on public pages of this site
2. to do not give away their e-mails and phone numbers to members you do not know well
3. to do not write e-mails or enter videochats using addresses left by anonymouses or members you do not know well
4. to do not send pics containing something you can be identified by (pics of your face, house, car etc.) to members you do not know well, not speaking about anonymouses
5. to do not enter into adult conversations of any kind with persons who claim to be under 18 and to report such persons to me immediately
6. to beware of the members who post fakes

Note: If you still feel determined to give away your e-mail address to total strangers - at least register a fucking new e-mail box with one of the numerous free services specially for this purpose and do not use it for anything else.


P.S. Obviously, it's not a good idea to use the nickname you well known under as an account name here.



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By Skittles at 15,Nov,19 09:55 other posts of Skittles 
Hello, my name is Raj. I am here to help you. What is your full name and all of your information to better assist?
By Dev01 at 15,Nov,19 15:30 other posts of Dev01 
I sense a tree command



By instashrinkman at 15,Nov,19 05:19 other posts of instashrinkman 
how do you search for yourself. I posted a small story years ago, where would it be?
By admin at 15,Nov,19 07:53 other posts of admin 
This question is too vague. It depens on where exactly you posted it. Internet has become too huge. Some things stays almost forever, some get forgotten in several years and can't be found.



By Andthisisme at 27,May,15 15:48 other posts of Andthisisme 
I like to think I am pretty aware about such matters and never give out personal info and try to ensure that none of my uploads would be identifiable by background detail. I also have 'burner' emails I always use for joining adult sites.

I decided after reading admin's post to search for myself, a couple or regular ids i use. I was amused (?) to find a blog I had long since forgotten about, that I had closed and deleted but is still available as it is cached 'somewhere'. Having read Googles 'rules' I don't think I would be able to get that removed as it doesn't actually identify me (in ways they deem inappropriate). Which is actually true really.

I also found another profile I had forgotten about on another site, which had some images, which I have now closed and deleted.

Even with care we can all be caught out, I recently considered a Tumblr account, but decided against it on reading that once posted I pretty well lose control of any uploads. Motto - Never ever post anything that identifies you in any way at all - and remember once posted you lose total control of whatever it is that you post.


By #88520 at 29,Nov,11 05:11
Yeah I'm very careful with who I send private pics and e-mails to. I've chatted with a few people on here that have been using fake pics and were clearly trying to fish for personal information.

Some more tips/hazards:
1. Few people know that when you send an e-mail the receiver can see the IP-address from where the e-mail was sent. The reciever can then often easily look up which city or area you live in.

2. Pics sometimes contain EXIF-data that may reveal more info than you want to share. This is additional data that the camera/phone saves when the pic is taken and can be examined on a site like this: regex.info/exif.cgi
It can be info about the camera, thumbnail of the whole pic even if it was cropped and in some cases even the GPS-cordinates where the pic was taken. It's no problem on this site, since all the EXIF-data seems to be stripped away when you upload something, but worth noting if you send pics by e-mail.

3. Be careful when sharing pics that you have uploaded someplace else. By doing a google image search on a pic you can find every place where that pic is uploaded. This can lead to someone finding your blog or facebook.

Just be careful and use some common sense if you don't want scammers to find out who you are.
By #315268 at 02,Jan,13 19:34
wow thats crazy, i had no idea

By qqqq1234 at 02,Mar,14 11:28 other posts of qqqq1234 
This x1000



By Sensuous50 at 01,Jan,14 19:06 other posts of Sensuous50 
Common sense is not so common. Admin discharging responsibility by this post. Thanks for your concern.


By #147052 at 04,Jan,13 10:38


By #278535 at 03,Jan,13 16:42
Very informative post! Thanks a lot


By #307727 at 03,Oct,12 16:34
someone has put pictures of me up on this site without my consent. how do i take them off?. as he wont take them off
PLEASE HELP
By bella! at 03,Oct,12 17:24 other posts of bella! 
Send your concern directly to admin.



By #214409 at 03,Oct,12 17:08
Great post, thank you.


By #147052 at 20,Jan,12 10:40
again the admin of this site has some wise words....if you don't think so, we will be seeing you in the next federal sweep of **** sex deviates listed in the arrest documents. Wise up folks, the internet is not as safe as you think it is.


By fila1305 at 21,Dec,11 03:50 other posts of fila1305 
Just noticed this thread was linked under 'member support'. Hope everyone reads it. It's good advise.


By fila1305 at 29,Nov,11 04:09 other posts of fila1305 
Very well stated advice. Perhaps you could add a link to this post to the list with articles on the main page. Then it's shown to the members every time they come to the site and it doesn't just pop-up when a fresh comment is made.


By mikeyd270 at 24,May,11 02:40 other posts of mikeyd270 
All great advice, the only thing I would add is if you are going to give out a phone number get a pre-paid cell phone.


By #61152 at 14,Dec,10 22:02
And the surprising thing to me is, this message is going on 2 years old, and yet I see phone #'s and e-mails on the main page, public chat and in this discussion forum daily. Oh well...you tried admin, it was a noble effort and maybe some folks will heed your "reality" check, but unfortunately, Ya can't save the stupid one's from themselves.
By admin at 14,Dec,10 22:12 other posts of admin 
Well, people at general are stupid and overconfident But some do read and make conclusions.



By Matt52 at 14,Dec,10 12:35 other posts of Matt52 
From Matt's Wife: This is the thread I have spoken of, when people like pony girl tell you to post pics of your face think of this


By an0nym0u5 at 27,Jun,10 16:49 other posts of an0nym0u5 
The truly disturbing thing is that admin had to post this. Most of this information is common sense.
By #82616 at 23,Aug,10 12:49
You would think so



By hipster at 08,Jan,10 16:21 other posts of hipster 
Should check out toon lover there is some awful stuff on there.


By vene at 01,Aug,09 22:16 other posts of vene 
gd info. thanks


By BushPilot at 26,Jun,09 01:39 other posts of BushPilot 
Excellent points. Thanks for saying what a lot of us were thinking.


By supablack at 28,Mar,09 11:52 other posts of supablack 
Very good info to put out admin, great job, just common sense, thanks





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