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Started by #134591 at 06,Aug,11 08:53
do you have a jerk of buddy? like a friend you like to party or drink with, but with that one additional benefit even if one or both of you are in a relationship?
tell us about your arrangement... how you first started and who started it. how often you do it. where you've done it, etc...
I just got a fwb offer from a member. Problem is he doesn’t have ant photos in he area. I need to ease into this kind of situation. Maybe that’s my problem?
For me it would be easier if I was in a bath house situation.where it was clear that everyone was looking for sex. Or some adult area where other men wanted sex. Even when you know he is there for sex ,you have to make things happen. You can’t just wait and expect someone to start something with you. I found that if I would make the first move it was easy to find sex partners. I was at a local bath house and I set next to a man with a nice hard cock. I asked if I could suck him. He said no but you can fuck my ass. Perfect!! I did exactly that and others men saw us and joined in. Thus starting a fuck orgy with 4 or five guys. They were to shy to start something but after I started they joined in.
By #692872 at 04,Aug,23 19:48
I love jerk off with men the only problem is i end with his dick down my throat and up my ass and I let him choke me
By #665866 at 11,Oct,22 00:11
would love to find someone In Sri lanka
By #621517 at 15,Feb,21 21:01
I had several JO buddies back at boys school. Started when a boy started feeling my cock through my trousers sitting in a dark lecture room. Soon several times a week we were crammed in a school toilet cubicle with our pants down hand jobbing each other. Best was when we got to share a changing cubicle in school sports swimming lessons and could spend time naked together. Mainly ended when I went to uni and met girls. But when I moved to London and got very lonely and frustrated I coupled briefly with a JO buddy again.
By #463848 at 14,Sep,19 10:45
Several when I was a youth but after marriage that all disappeared. So much more difficult when we get older than when we were young.
Like most of us here I would love having a jerk off buddy and more. Had a gay couple years ago that fit the bill but they have been transferred and have never been replaced.
By #551147 at 11,Sep,19 02:04
If I had a "jerk-off buddy" we SURELY wouldn't be jerking off...
At the time I have a jerk buddy, but 50 miles away . He is a nice simple guy with a big dick - and not shy. But he doesn't tragen.I met him on an internet contact forum. This is the best way to find sbd, it costs some time and you have to post clearly what you want and what you offer. Good luck!
By #64328 at 20,Nov,17 19:10
Growing up i had several. It was always **** that we kept us. As i got older it was to awkward to approach a fiend about masturbating together but it still a big turn on. I would be hot to have a buddy that was into secretly jacking together.
There seems to be a common thread here. Is it that most men are so shy or risk averse that we won't try to hook up with another willing guy. I have had chances to hook up but I don't connect with everyone I meet. So I am my own worst enemy.
By #536947 at 02,Nov,17 01:08
Wish I had one but its not easy when you live in a small town.
The idea is great but I suspect that any success depends upon where you live as well as the compatibility issue. (Unless it is a case of whip it out, wank it, wipe it and then go.)
Also, I would not be keen on outside meetings and there could be problems in accommodating.
Alas, this is something that most men want, but that very few actually have. That's really sad.
Jacking off is in no way sick or perverted, but rather a normal, healthy and wholesome activity. It should be part of every man's sexual repertoire, even those who have regular partnered sex.
And as fun as it is alone, it is enormously more fun when done with one or more friends. The synergy of seeing each other reach climax makes every man's climax that much more enjoyable.
But most adult, heterosexual men are afraid to go there because of group masturbation's juvenile and homosexual overtones.
So every SYD member should make a pledge to broach the subject with his best buddy.
I agree that men are pretty twisted when it comes to sex. It's all that bullshit you were told when you were a ****. Sadly there isn't or wasn't good sex ed when I grew up. One porn flick would have been sufficient , unfortunately porn barely included a visible tit back then .
By #488059 at 24,Dec,15 05:50
So cal here, looking for a jo bud. If local to LA message me
By #503815 at 23,Dec,15 16:58
I would love one!
One of my most erotic encounters was watching porn with my straight buddy. We were huddled close together around his computer screen. So close our legs were touching. I was hard as a rock. I nervously asked If I could pull out my cock and jerk off. I was relieved to hear he wanted to do the same. I couldn't take my eyes off him stroking his thick, beautiful cock. After a while I boldly asked if he would like me to suck him off. He politely declined and I could tell he was a bit taken by question. We continued to jerk off and my buddy was the first to cum. It was a fountain of jizz which mostly landed all over the both of us. It excited me so much I shot a big load myself. He apologized for shooting his cum all over me and left to get a towel. While he was gone I wiped his glob of cum off my thigh and slurped his creamy goodness down. After we cleaned up he asked if I was gay and confessed to him I was bisexual
Too bad he moved away shortly after. Who knows what could have happened
I found mine pn CL. we meet once everyone. two weeks or so. the firt time was awkward a little. we jerked each other off at my apartment . the second time we did a 69. when we see each other now. we just take our clothes off, get in bed or sit on the couch and make each other cum. we never had sex. neither of us is really interested in that. would like to meet someone else though
By #222660 at 06,Aug,13 07:25
I have a couple of fellow nudist / JO buddies here on the Gold Coast, Au ... but more are always welcome!
By #350740 at 08,Feb,13 08:44
To be honest I have NEVER given this any thought nor heard of it. Til yesterday when my wife pissed me off enough that I just called my long time buddy and we planned to get together tomorrow to watch a movie at my house. I was joking with him and he knows my situation with the wife, she is great but can be a ball buster. Every time I text him he usually replies thinking of you naked.... He's a funny guy. In the conversation I had a wild thought of we might as well just watch some porn and jerk off. Then I read about a jerk buddy. We are both straight, but I have to admit, the thought me jerking him then him jerking me is quite exciting. I been thinking all day about it and dont know what will happen.... I dont want to kiss him I just want to be a friend and fill a mutual need. I know how I like it when the wife jerks me off. Thought it would be something different to try , will post more tomorrow..
By #134591 at 09,Feb,13 05:21
yeah dude it is simply a mutual need between guys. we all have the need to jerk off so why always do it alone? really hope you cum right
oh and please do post the juicy details!!!
By #357371 at 24,Feb,13 08:01
Yeah! Go for it, its fun but I am not sure of the sexual attraction between you. I am also married and my wife wants to do sex parttime and this really frustrates me sexually.I decided to visit an adult store one day, went browsing sex booths until I got involved in mutual masterbation. I am straight I must say it and I am not attracted or have feeling for guys but this to me saved me going to a sexual relationship (with a girl of course) that will cost me time with my family and the risk of getting caught, quarells or maybe a divorce. I dont have a steady jackoff buddy but when in an aduld-world, you are likely to find one. I have not gone to an extent of ORAL sex with a guy and dont intend to, so this does not go with a stigma or labelling I suppose..........I also need some comments on my case please!
By #15798 at 27,Feb,13 17:19
I hear you there bud. Have always wanted a regular wank buddy. Sit & chill with a drink or 2, pop in a dirty movie and wank 3 or for times. So difficult to find because if the guy is gay you don't want to create any expectations and you not looking for a relationship. Just a bud to wank with.
By #64328 at 08,Feb,13 21:48
I always did through my growing up years and loved every minute of it. I think it would be great to have a **** buddy now. I just dont know how to go about it
I don't have anyone current at the moment but use to have a few buddies that I would play with currently looking myself
By #5546 at 06,Aug,11 14:38
My regular jerk off buddy is married. I'm divorced and still like the girls but I got tired of all the games that most women play so thought I might try playing with a guy. I had never done ANYTHING sexual with a guy before but I've always been fascinated by cock so decided to give it a go. I found him on the internet and he introduced me to the joys of quality cock play. That was fifteen years ago and we've become good friends since. We've also been jerking and sucking each other off every chance we get. He's the one with me in the following pictures:
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By #134591 at 08,Aug,11 13:11
man you are so lucky. i definitely need one again.
By #184145 at 06,Aug,11 11:54
I used to have one, but I moved to another town. Having a j o buddy was awesome - we used to empty our balls together on a regular basis. First couple of times we were drunk but that became unnecessary. We used to watch porn together and 'help each other out'. Awesome orgasms!
By #134591 at 08,Aug,11 13:09
fuck dude that is also bringing back hard memories for me. i also use to have 2 guys in the neighborhood and funny enough, was also called it 'helping out each other'.
Also, I would not be keen on outside meetings and there could be problems in accommodating.
Jacking off is in no way sick or perverted, but rather a normal, healthy and wholesome activity. It should be part of every man's sexual repertoire, even those who have regular partnered sex.
And as fun as it is alone, it is enormously more fun when done with one or more friends. The synergy of seeing each other reach climax makes every man's climax that much more enjoyable.
But most adult, heterosexual men are afraid to go there because of group masturbation's juvenile and homosexual overtones.
So every SYD member should make a pledge to broach the subject with his best buddy.
One of my most erotic encounters was watching porn with my straight buddy. We were huddled close together around his computer screen. So close our legs were touching. I was hard as a rock. I nervously asked If I could pull out my cock and jerk off. I was relieved to hear he wanted to do the same. I couldn't take my eyes off him stroking his thick, beautiful cock. After a while I boldly asked if he would like me to suck him off. He politely declined and I could tell he was a bit taken by question. We continued to jerk off and my buddy was the first to cum. It was a fountain of jizz which mostly landed all over the both of us. It excited me so much I shot a big load myself. He apologized for shooting his cum all over me and left to get a towel. While he was gone I wiped his glob of cum off my thigh and slurped his creamy goodness down. After we cleaned up he asked if I was gay and confessed to him I was bisexual
Too bad he moved away shortly after. Who knows what could have happened
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oh and please do post the juicy details!!!
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